Edit 8th December 2005: Andy and Laura have removed their website from the Internet to protect their anonymity.
Every so often random browsing on the Internet can unearth real treasure. Sometimes the best places on the net go unnoticed in this dense sea of online erotica I actually got an email from a reader telling me I need to check out this site. I was astounded… A real cuckolding couple and a real amateur site. Very nicely designed as well. I got in touch immediately and now have the pleasure of bringing you an interview with Cuckoldress Laura. The icing on the cake comes tomorrow when I will be publishing my interview with her husband Andy. Please enjoy reading and post your comments.
Laura it’s not that often I get the chance to interview a true cuckoldress and it’s been a fascinating insight into your life. So thanks so much for agreeing to do this and letting us peek inside your lifestyle. Keep in touch x
hotwifeblog: A big welcome to you Laura x … A fellow Brit I believe?… Where are you from?
Laura: The Midlands in the UK
hotwifeblog: What is your age?
hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Laura: Well I’m certainly not a skinny mini! My boobs are 36DD, my waist is 27″ and we won’t talk about my hips! I’m really quite curvy but very happy in my body. My lovers seem happy in my body too!
hotwifeblog: What is your height?
hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Laura: I’m a natural brunette but I have it coloured much lighter… a mixture of caramel colours, sometimes it can look quite auburn. It’s quite rare that I have any of my true colour showing…. anywhere!
hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Laura: Sorry to disappoint but no.
hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Laura: I’m fun loving and bubbly but at the same time rather forceful.
hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Laura: I am a teacher.
hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Laura: We met in an O’Neils bar through a group of mutual friends. He contacted me the following day and we went from there. Not all that interesting for your readers I’m afraid. You wanted to hear that I bumped into him at a swingers club or something I bet.
hotwifeblog: Not at all, sometimes the more ordinary the more erotic it is…. How long have you been married?
Laura: Since August 2003.
hotwifeblog: How would you describe your marriage and lifestyle?
Laura: My marriage is very good and a lot of fun. I know most people would consider the way we live to be rather odd but it does seem to work for us and I love Cucky dearly. I guess we lead a cuckold lifestyle.
hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man?
Laura: I do not think of myself as a hot wife. Most of the time I lead a very ordinary existence, I don’t dress provocatively as a rule and don’t go overboard with the flirting, unless I’m deliberately trying to tease my husband or pick up a potential bull when we’re out.
hotwifeblog: How did you get into the cuckold lifestyle?
Laura: Gradually! My husband lead a “colorful” life before I met him… BDSM and a fair amount of kinky stuff. I wasn’t interested but knowing about it didn’t scare me. Realising that I was never going to beat him I think he went off down a different path. He convinced me that a bit of tease and denial would be fun. I would do all sorts of provocative stuff to turn him on and would bring him to the brink of orgasm. Then I would just stop, leaving him begging. Sometimes I did this night after night but letting him come once a week.
Our games progressed to me securing him in a CB3000, to be reasonably sure he couldn’t “cheat” between the teasing sessions. I really got to enjoy the feeling of power I had. He became very, very attentive and started doing all sorts of things for me round the house. Soon I was setting him objectives which, if he failed, lead to him remaining in the CB for longer.
I found I wasn’t missing penetrative sex at all while Andy was locked up. To be honest he isn’t that large in the trouser department and when we did make love I got a bit bored. He took ages and I could barely feel him inside me. Once he was being denied I had far more fun on the receiving end of his tongue. I’d get him to go down on me often and give him nothing in return.
I surprised myself how much I got into all of this. It all seemed very kinky compared to what I’d done previously. All the same, I did quite a bit of research on the web and became fascinated with the association between male chastity and the cuckold lifestyle. One thing lead to another, I started permanently denying Andy sex in December 2004 and by April 2005 I had taken my first lover in front of him.
hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a cuckoldress?
Laura: I do enjoy the sex obviously. I lead a very ordinary life full of the usual pressures and chores and it is fantastic to step into another role… to become an evil slut. When I’m turned on I get a real buzz from humiliating Cucky. That is really the point of my web site. I don’t want to make a great exhibition of myself, I’m not an exhibitionist (yes I know it sounds bizarre!). I just get such a thrill from being bad to him and other people knowing.
hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for?
Laura: Funny, strong men who also happen to be black and well endowed.
hotwifeblog: What was your first extra-marital experience like?
Laura: It was mind blowing! Because I didn’t quite know how Andy would respond. I had him tied to a chair in the corner of the room but made sure he could see the “action”. I had never experienced such a big cock before and it was certainly a turning point for me. It was also the first time Andy experienced what I believe is called a “creampie”.
hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a cuckoldress?
Laura: I am now up to number eight.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Laura: I have given serious consideration to it and I’ve had lots of offers. It would certainly take Andy’s humiliation to another level to see me being used by a group of men. I’m not sure I would feel safe though. It really would mean surrendering completely and I’m not sure if I’m ready yet.
hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Laura: If you exclude Cucky being there and helping in minor ways the answer is two. It was very, very horny and I would do it again tomorrow given the right circumstances.
hotwifeblog: You say Cucky helps in minor ways. How?
Laura: Well whether he would call it helping I don’t know! Every time I have been fucked I insisted that Andy watches. I deliberately position myself so I can look into his eyes but at the same time he can see the guy disappearing into me. I have also had him guide the guy’s cock into me… to make the point that he is “giving” me to another man.
His big humiliation is to clean whichever part of me gets covered in come. He always has to lick me clean. I am a psychology graduate and the mind games associated with this intrigue me. I make a big thing of how much I’m enjoying the guy, how much bigger and better he is. I also try to encourage my lover to join in with verbal abuse. I like to make use of symbolism wherever I can, such as using the marital bed and my wedding lingerie. Getting the guys sperm on my wedding ring is also a powerful tool, especially if he has to clean it off!
hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried dogging?
Laura: No I haven’t. It sounds a bit too risky and I’m not convinced I would find lovers who want anything more than a quick fuck. That isn’t what I’m about.
hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Laura: It definitely does. I do love feeling really full… although the guys I tend to go for are a bit too big for anal sex. I do my best though!
The other aspect is that size is central to the psychological effect I want to have on Cucky. He has to see me getting pleasure from a much bigger guy. Verbal interaction is important… my lovers often abuse him while we fuck. I love dirty talk when I’m horny and particularly get off on this sort of talk.
hotwifeblog: Do you have a preference of black or white lovers?
Laura: I have always had black lovers so far. I know it’s a cliché but they do seem to have bigger cocks. I also like the contrast for Cucky, seeing his fair skinned wife taken by a black stud. Black guys also seem to be better at the taunting side of the game.
hotwifeblog: What clothes do you like to wear in general and in the bedroom?
Laura: I dress casually and quite conservatively day to day. In the bedroom I become a slut… short slinky nighties… crotchless undies.. anything provocative and a bit cheap. I have also worn my bridal undies on occasions. Again to push Cucky, his bride deliberately defiling clothes from the special day.
hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Laura: Ah .. jewellery. I do sometimes and I also have a chain I can wear round my waist. In real life I always go for platinum but all my bedroom jewellery is gold.. it just seems more appropriate.
hotwifeblog: What is your favourite sexual act?
Laura: I think it has to be good old fashioned penetrative sex. I get so much pleasure from a big cock pumping into me. Before I took my first lover I would have said receiving oral.
hotwifeblog: Any other fetishes you are into?
Laura: I do sometimes punish Cucky’s testicles quite brutally. He has eventually got me into one aspect of S&M. I don’t know that I’d call it a fetish necessarily but I also love having my arse licked, rimming I think it’s called.
hotwifeblog: Indeed it is… What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Laura: Apart from having a cock in my pussy and my mouth at the same time it would be the occasion I got Cucky to rim me after I’d had anal sex in front of him.
hotwifeblog: Do you have any bisexual tendencies?
Laura: I never look at another girl and think God I’d like to kiss her or anything like that. However, I know that if I was in the throes of passion with a guy and there was another woman present I’d probably enjoy myself!
hotwifeblog: How do you find your lovers and partners?
Laura: I don’t have any partners other than Andy. I’m very much into the idea of “variety being the spice of life”.
I go out clubbing with Andy and he stays in the background while I try to attract the sort of attention I want. It’s not usually difficult because this is the one occasion I really dress up in revealing gear. If things work out we book into a hotel and on occasions I’ve made arrangement for a later date at home. I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised at how willing most guys are to fuck me in front of my husband. Generally once they get started they really get into the Bull role.
hotwifeblog: What role does your husband play in your current lifestyle?
Laura: He worships me! Nothing is ever too much trouble around the house and clearly he let’s me have my fun.
In the bedroom he is good for oral pleasures (did I mention how much I love having my ass licked?), foot massage, neck rubs and so on. If I’m with company I often get him to guide the guy’s cock into me and of course he cleans me, and sometimes my lover, afterwards
hotwifeblog: His CB3000? Do you hold the keys and manage his release times?
Laura: I do indeed. The key is on my everyday key ring although I do sometimes put it on a necklace for special occasions. He is released daily for hygiene but under my close supervision and he is certainly not allowed to do anything other than keep himself clean.
On average I allow him to come about once a month. This involves him being allowed to masturbate in front of me. I never combine these sessions with cuckolding him so I can increase his frustration to the maximum. Because I still operate a penalty system his release can be prolonged if he displeases me.
hotwifeblog: Up to now, what cuckold experiences have you subjected to him?
Laura: Essentially he’s seen me get fucked by 8 guys he doesn’t know. I always go “bareback” for maximum effect when he performs his cleaning duties. Yes I know it’s risky but isn’t everything!
hotwifeblog: What cuckold experiences would you like him to try?
Laura: I’m not sure where I can take things from here. We have done the “usual” things. I am frequently contacted by guys asking if I’ve thought of having a black baby. Well, yes, I thought about it for 1 nanosecond before dismissing it as barmy.
I am curious about seeing him get fucked. Putting pictures of that on the site would be really humiliating for him. On the teasing side I think it would drive him wild to see me with another girl as well as a guy.
hotwifeblog: Does your husband enjoy watching you with other men?
Laura: I believe he does. He certainly gets pleasure from knowing I’m having fun.
hotwifeblog: And you enjoy him watching you?
Laura: I get such a buzz from it you just wouldn’t believe!
hotwifeblog: So your not sexually active at all with your husband?
Laura: I allow him to perform oral sex on me and that is as far as it goes. He has not been allowed to have penetrative sex with me since December 2004. I can’t see any reason for that situation to change.
hotwifeblog: Are you naturally dominant?
Laura: In many ways I am but not in the stereotypical leather clad, whip wielding dominatrix type of way. I know what I want and stand no messing.
hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Laura: Receiving every time.
hotwifeblog: Do you swallow?
hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a multiple creampie from different guys?
Laura: Once. I had 2 guys at the same time and they both came in my pussy then one in my ass and the other my mouth. It was a rather naughty night!
hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to eat creampie?
Laura: I think the answer to that would have to be yes. Whether he would if I didn’t request it is another matter.
hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Laura: I enjoy making the most of the countryside and like to snuggle up with a good book if I’m at home.
hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out a cuckold or hotwife lifestyle?
Laura: Be absolutely certain it’s what you both want and that you think your relationship will stand it.
hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Laura: None really, I will add more photos from time to time. I like the fact that it is a bit amateurish. If it changed much I think it would lose its appeal. The feedback I get is that people like the contrast between innocence and naughtiness and they relate to it being about a real couple.
hotwifeblog: What are you and your husband’s plans for the future regarding your cuckold lifestyle?
Laura: Just more of the same I imagine!
That was amazing Laura thanks. I wish you all the very best for the future and make sure you keep in touch and tell us all your latest adventures.
Interview by Trash