I am so glad to be back bloggin’ again, catching up with all my hotwife friends and hearing their latest stories.
Recently I’ve been chatting to one such wife who I’m very fond of. Candy Curvaceous is a delicious piece of voluptuous sweetness who I can’t get enough of. She is also a kind, warm and intelligent hotwife who deserves to be worshipped and given satisfaction whenever she demands it.
Thanks for your time and your wonderful answers Candy. It really was a great interview. I hope we can stay in touch and you’ll be a regular here on the blog.
hotwifeblog: Hiya lovely and welcome to hotiwfeblog. So it’s Candy Curvaceous, your name?
Candy: Candy Curvaceous is my “so called” stage name. I say “so called” because I am still not used to having a “stage name”. I have never had any aspirations to do anything that required a stage name. So, it’s still new and kind of weird… but DEFINITELY EXCITING!!! Just a few months ago I was just a everyday Hot Wife and Interracial Swinger who went by the name of Ruthie.
Also, not my real name.
hotwifeblog: Where are you from?
Candy: I currently reside in Florida, but have lived in California, Arizona, Texas, Hawaii, Ohio, Wyoming, and New York. However, I was born near Los Angeles, CA.
hotwifeblog: What is your age?
hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Candy: A very THICK and JUICY 38DD-32-42
hotwifeblog: What is your height?
hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Candy: Hazel Green
hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Candy: Tattoo of heart w/flower vining through it on my left breast that I got one night when I was a 19 year old drunken sailor just out of boot camp in Orlando, FL. We went out partying with some fellow sailors and the guys got drunk and went out to get some tats, so us girls also went. It’s the only one I have, but it has such great meaning to me. I am very patriotic and getting it with my girls who went through basic with me is just a great memory in my life that I will always have with me… literally.
hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Candy: Down to earth as you get. I come from very humble beginnings on both sides of my family. Working class family who consisted of construction workers, military, merchant marines, stay at home moms, and just everyday blue collar. My grandparents generation was extremely poor mostly from Mississippi and Akansas with the exception of my grandfather who came from a village in Portugal that is still like visiting time one hundred years ago. So, I am very humble even though I did a little better than my parents.
I was always a conversationalist and loved people. I moved a lot and that forced me to be outgoing or fade into the background. It built my character and I learned to be social and adapt to various cultures. Thus… I was also always more open to different people and lifestyles. Love fun, honorable, honest, open people of any color and despise losers, mean people, dishonest, and dishonorable people of any color.
I am conservative in my everyday life’s structure and believe that a society needs strong foundations and balance both conservative and liberal. Having been in the military, I take things seriously and am not flighty about things that really matter and get frustrated by those who are. However, I am extremely liberal in terms of relationships, sex, partying, recreation, etc. As long as no one gets hurt (unless they want to… hehehehe) and everyone is a consenting adult 21 or over. I like to keep a somewhat normal appearance in public, but behind closed doors… I love my secret taboo lifestyle and don’t know if it would be as exciting if it wasn’t our little secret. Yes, even having a website and being a blatant swinger, it’s still a secret. Shhhh!! I believe in working hard and playing harder. I am a lady in the streets and a super freak in the sheets.
hotwifeblog: Cool…. Is this lifestyle a full-time hobby or do you work as well?
Candy: Until last NOV 2004, I was working in the travel industry for 15 years and swinging only from time to time because I worked all the time. In May of 2004, my hubby Willy had a heart attack and I tried, but I just couldn’t keep up with, or put up with that 60+ hour a week work anymore… as much fun as it was. I took some time off to spend with my hubby since I nearly lost him and it was then that I began taking this lifestyle from a hobby to a job.
I obviously had more time to party since I was no longer working so hard and I began going to parties more once Willy was feeling better. Willy was the one encouraging us to return to swinging and do it more often all along, but he now takes things easy since he had a close call with the Grim Reaper. He had really gotten to a point over the last few years that he preferred our swinging to concentrate on sharing me and watching me with other men. So, it was still was as exciting as ever for him even though he wasn’t really joining in anymore. Now instead of joining, he would just watch and record and then get his turn when we got home. He really digs dipping his wick in me after a night with a lover or many lovers. He says it’s hot to swirl his big cock around in my wet pussy full of other men’s cum. It still kinda freaks me out to say that as just a few years ago, I’d not have thought that… but I LOVE it. Lucky me. Pinch me… LOL
Anyway… I started meeting lots of other swingers who had web sites and/or were amateur and pro porn stars and they began encouraging me to film with them. I was so turned on by the thought of doing this, but HELL… I am not 22 with a body of a Playboy model anymore. But… neither were most of them. However, what if someone saw me??? After a lot of thought and a lot of drink… my horny self agreed.
My first filming was with my special and very sexy friend Jammin Jennie of voluptuocity.com and I took a secondary role to several films with her before deciding to have my own site. She took me under her wing and we got a HOT site up and running now and we are sharing all of our Erotic Art and plain old hardcore fucking.
hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Candy: I met him in Pearl Harbor, HI while we were both in the Navy. Remember the tattoo story…?? Well, one of those girls who went to basic with me and got a tattoo with me was stationed in Hawaii after basic. I arrived in Hawaii later and she introduced me to a guy she was going to date. He met me and that’s all she wrote. They never dated again as he was hooked on me and I on him. I wasn’t normally a girl who did that to another woman, but they never even went on the first date yet and he was not even interested after meeting me. I knew her well and she was cool with it as she wasn’t that interested in him after all either. 22 years later… here we are.
hotwifeblog: How long have you been married?
Candy: 22 Years
hotwifeblog: How would you describe your marriage and lifestyle?
Candy: We were the everyday American family with 2 working parents and if we were not working, we were spending time with the kids. We love to camp and travel, especially cruises. Very close family with 4 boys and a cat and dog. Hot Dogs, Apple Pie, and Chevrolet. Clean living and law abiding (except my occasional herbal habit).
Willy and I have always been open to swinger encounters. However, until a few years ago… the encounters were all spontaneous, but few and very far between. Just didn’t have time, wasn’t in the right frame of mind, and not meeting many opportunities… As kids got older, we began going to clubs and meeting people online. So, we are normal… but Super Freaks in our sex life. Just LOVE it!
hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man?
Candy: Yes… I believe so, but it has it’s place. I have always loved men and was attracted to boys at a very early age. I had a new boyfriend every few weeks until I was an adult and met Willy. Not that the guys I dated didn’t want to be exclusive to me because I had many proposals before I was even 21. However, I had no desire to settle down with just one. No matter how much I liked or loved them, if I met another sweetie… I just couldn’t resist. I was very open about this with my boyfriends because I didn’t want to surprise someone or hurt their feelings. If you wanted to date me for even a short time, you had to understand this and not take it personal. So, yes… I guess that I had a tendency to like variety and lots of it.
Willy likes to remind me also of a very bold and telling statement I made to him while under the influence back when I first met him and we were dating. Apparently, I told him that even if I got married… eventually I’d have to cheat or have a husband who didn’t mind because I love lots of men and love lots of sex. I had forgot about that statement, but boy does it have meaning now.
Now, being the little sex pot I obviously was… you’d think I cheated a lot. Well, I didn’t really. I was mostly faithful for these 22 years except for a couple of mistakes when we on really shaky ground and were not getting along very well. Then when we began swinging… who needed to cheat. I had a horny hubby who would let me and even encourage me. As long as he got to enjoy it somehow.
hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Candy: Again, we began noticing that all the fantasy talk and porn we bought over the years was relating to slutty women who take on more than one man at a time. I wanted to do Double Penetration and have two or more men ravage me like in the movies I watched. A few years ago, we started concentrating on meeting other men to share me with. We looked for guys online and meet at a hotel for some hot steamy stranger sex. Then we would have 2 or 3 guys join us then we found clubs and swingers parties. Now he even likes me to go out without him and return with pics, stories, and a pussy or ass full of cum. He even likes to watch me get ready to go fuck some boy toy. Nasty perv!!!
hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Candy: The freedom to experience as much sex as I can before I am too old to feel sexy doing it…. with no strings attached. We women really do go into our sexual prime in our 40’s because I have never been hornier or hotter than I am now.
In this lifestyle, I can do the sluttiest things and still have a huge circle of friends and mutual swingers/hot wives who won’t judge me as a monster for being so sexxxually free. I can experiment with lots of ideas and try others I never even thought about. And most of all…. I can turn my hubby on so much by finally being a completely sexy vixen who exudes sexuality and is his personal porn star.
hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Candy: Officially, 2 1/2 years. However, our desire for this and conversations about it has been for years. It took a while to convince me that Willy really wouldn’t freak out when our fantasies became a reality and the swinging encounters were exclusive to sharing me with other men. Even with all the sex talk while making love or watching porn, I knew he was turned on by me becoming a hardcore slut, but would it backfire on me when it became a reality. Also, when we would find time to visit a swing club, we never really found the right guys. I like em HOT, SEXY, and ENDOWED. Trust me… That’s not that easy to find. Until I discovered Interracial… where it’s in abundance. Yippy… I still love men of all colors as long as they are packing, but it happens more often in interracial.
hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Candy: Yes… to some degree. I love doing all kinds of wicked stuff and with a website, I obviously like to show off my hardcore sexcapades. I love sex outdoors, flashing for photos outdoors or in public is a turn on, but I DON”T WANT TO GET CAUGHT. At least not by the cops or by someone who doesn’t appreciate it. No matter how much fun this public or outdoor stuff can be… I don’t want to offend a mother with kids or some old lady who will freak. I try to behave in public and save my devilish behavior for the bedroom or parties/clubs.
hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for?
Candy: Good looking, humble, clean cut, sexy, generous, fun, kind, honest, down to earth, respectful, discreet, honorable, intelligent, successful, outgoing for starters. Prefer average to tall men and average to large builds. I prefer a muscular or solid, but NOT FAT guy who is packing a PHAT 9″ and knows how to use it. My hubby is white and most of the men I have dated are White or Hispanic. However, I discovered interracial a while back and not only do I find those fat cocks more often with black men they also have so much stamina. God… they know how to ravage a girl. Also, the Taboo is sooooooooooo HOT!
hotwifeblog: What was your first hotwife experience like?
Candy: Well, although I said that officially I became a Hot Wife a little over 2 1/2 years ago… I did also say that we had a handful of encounters that were few and far between including a couple of 3sums with girls to 4sums with other couples. One night long ago, Willy sent me out to pick up a guy to do in front of him for the first time. I was surprised by this as he had never mentioned this desire to watch. We got drunk and he dressed me up sexy and sent me out. I went out to a club and immediately got some guys interest, but I just couldn’t bring myself to ask them to come home with me and let my hubby watch… so I left.
As I left the club, 3 young college boys who were all 21 started whistling at me and making remarks. I left in my car and they followed. I would have normally been scared, but they seemed young and harmless. So, I pulled over and asked them what they wanted. When they said me, I said let’s go to my house and let my hubby watch. The three of them just stood there with their mouths open drooling and giggling like Beevis and Butthead before they said Yes. They followed me and we went to my place and all 3 took turns eating me and fucking me in front of Willy. It was fun, but they were young, not great lovers, and not hung very well. Therefore, I didn’t see them again and it wasn’t until a few years ago that we started seriously talking about this stuff again.
My first Official experience in recent times was a black man we met online named “P” just over 2 years ago. This was so hot, we began doing it whenever we could with “P” and others until Willy got sick. Then last DEC, I discovered Hot Wife parties all over and have not looked back and we have created a monster.
hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Candy: About 35, but I will double that by the years end. That’s a goal I look forward to.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Candy: Yes, I have done 2 official gang bangs with 6 guys in each. There have been other group sex sessions with other women and men that I’d call an orgy more than a bang. I do enjoy having several men ravage me over and over and I prefer bareback if I can because it looks so hot getting lots of cream pie/facial shots. After a bang I feel so slutty with my pussy and ass raw and swollen and full of several men’s cum. I plan on doing many more and already have a few planned. You can catch it all on my website.
hotwifeblog: So 6 is the most you’ve had at one time?
Candy: 6 was the most and I had that twice. I want to try 10 or more and will. However, I prefer 2 men in bed all night long as my regular sex play. I am getting too old to do too many gang bangs because it’s exhausting. Just try it yourself.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried dogging?
Candy: No… but I have heard about it and want to try. If I am every in Jolly Old England… Trash… will you take me out to a “Dog Park”??? Pretty Please. I have engaged in sex in a car or van though. Many times, especially when I was younger. It’s fun, but I prefer a bed or something to stretch out on. I like to move around a lot.
hotwifeblog: I’d be delighted to take you to some lovely parks for some outdoor delights …… Does size matter to you?
Candy: Yes… most definitely. And I don’t feel “shallow” for saying so. If a guy prefers 38DD tits, a lovely lady with a pair of 34C’s will do, but it’s not what he really wants. Same here, I enjoy a hot guy who can do me well even if he’s not huge… but I REALLY CRAVE THAT PHAT COCK. Sorry… I am not a little girl and I feel sexier with men who are big in all ways. And the pics are so much hotter when I am gagging on a huge pole or it’s stuffed up me. Gotta admit it.
hotwifeblog: Do you have a preference of black or white lovers?
Candy: Again, I love any HOT guy who meets the requirements that I listed earlier as long as he’s packing. However, I do have a huge “sweet tooth & craving” for Chocolate. It’s so taboo and I dig the sex. I also love the skin contrast. Nothing looks hotter than a sexy big titted white wife bent over a chair with her skirt up and panties down being pounded by a huge cocked black stud while hubby watches and jerks off. Sizzling.
hotwifeblog: What clothes do you like to wear in general and in the bedroom?
Candy: I live in Florida and it’s hot. So, to just hang around or run errands I dress very casual with tank tops, shorts, thin skirts, low cut/low slung jogging suits. I wore a lot of suits and dresses when I worked.
I go sexy and classy in the bedroom or to go to a swingers club or party. I wear a lot of lingerie, corsets, camisoles, bustiers, baby dolls, lace, silk, satin, flowing Stevie Nicks type stuff. Love things that are very feminine, show off my large tits, hour glass figure, and big round booty. I don’t have very sexy legs as they are thick, so I don’t wear a lot of short skirts, but do wear lots of stockings and garters with heels to make them look sexy. If you are one of those who prefer thick legs, I am your girl.
hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Candy: I have, but not religiously. It’s a good idea, but it’s not a real way to spot a Hot Wife as just about everyone I know who isn’t old wears one and most of them would slap you if you approached them to ask. LOL!!! Anyway… I do think they look hot, but I keep loosing mine of breaking them accidentally during rough sex.
hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Candy: Sex in front of my hubby with 2 or 3 Hung Young Studs. Love oral, vaginal and anal with a cream pie as dessert.
hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Candy: Definitely interracial and Younger Men for Older Women. I guess you could say I like a little soft S & M (light spanking, hair pulling, tying me up, rough sex). Have rape fantasies with people of my choosing, but would kill any real rapist. Love to play with large toys and objects for pics or for show. Occasionally fisting just for a hot pic or two.
hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Candy: Gangbangs, fisting, beer bottle in my cunt. I have let a lover play with my pantyless pussy under a table in a club or restaurant while we waited for my hubby to arrive for a drink before retiring to a hotel for a good fuck.
hotwifeblog: You mentioned you have bisexual tendencies?
Candy: Yes. Not as much as I once had because I have a limited amount of time to play and when I do get time, I want cock. However, when a special girl gets around me… it’s on! She must be sweet, fun, sexy and pretty. Prefer big natural boobs and slightly thick or plump. Skinny women and silicone doesn’t do it for me at all. I don’t know why so many strive and starve themselves to get the Barbie look because quite frankly, it’s so over rated. I have ALWAYS had more men chasing after me than any of my Barbie friends. It just pisses them off so much… I always tell them that men prefer meat, not bones cause bones are for dogs.
hotwifeblog: Hahahaha ….. How do you find your lovers and partners?
Candy: Internet (my group and website members), Swing Clubs, Swinger Parties, and referrals from other swingers and Hot Wives.
hotwifeblog: What main role does your husband play in your lifestyle?
Candy: He encouraged it and actually conditioned me to want to be a secret little nasty slut. He used to look online for me and even arrange them, but with a group and site and hundreds of requests.. we don’t have to look anymore. It comes to us and I choose. He goes with me to most parties and encounters. He used to always play with us, but now he watches and records. Sometimes, he sends me out on my own to come home afterwards to have him fill my wet cum filled pussy too, With a website now, I sometimes go without him, but always bring an escort.
hotwifeblog: So does your husband still swing or remain faithful to you?
Candy: As I stated before, he has also played with the ladies or couples we have shared together in the past. However, for the most part… it’s been me having all the lovers, especially now and he remains very faithful.
hotwifeblog: Would you enjoy watching him with other girls?
Candy: I have always wanted him to enjoy himself as much as I, but I don’t have a inner desire to watch him with other women. I’d like to see him enjoy a blowjob or occasional romp with a swinger girl I trust, but with his health… it’s not really a strong desire for either of us.
hotwifeblog: Are you still sexually active with your husband?
Candy: Yes… Not as much as before the heart attack, but he still loves to play with me and usually insists that I talk about my encounters with my male lovers while we play. He just digs a sexy, pretty, confident, smart, but NASTY lady like me who fucks lots of other guys. Who knows what drives some of you guys to liking this stuff so much. Us girls grow up being told that men will hate us if we are slutty, but now I know the truth.
hotwifeblog: Do you have a hotwife/cuckold relationship with your husband?
Candy: Although I am a Hot Wife and Swinger and respect any form of this lifestyle that one chooses… I am not calling him a cuckold and don’t ever want to. I love the many cuckold couples I have met and I have many cuckold fans who I adore and love to please through my work on my site and group. However, our relationship was never a cuckold relationship as he wanted to share me with a man and enjoyed doing it. He was a stud himself and neither of us was into humiliation or putting him down in anyway. I was his slut to share and he could fuck me as well as anyone. When he sent me out, it was to come home and get it just as hard from him. Even though he loves men to come in me, he won’t eat the cream pie because he’s sooooo straight. However, he wouldn’t mind someone else eating it while he films it.
His health crisis changed this dynamic, but he’s still not a cuckold and would be pissed if I ever called him one.
hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Candy: I am neutral mainly. Since I like a rough ride, soft S&M, and have Master/Slave or even rape fantasies… I’d say I am slightly sub,
hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Candy: Both, but I like giving head more than receiving it, but prefer fucking to anything.
hotwifeblog: Do you swallow?
hotwifeblog: Tell us about your creampies?
Candy: Oh yes… check out my site for a growing cream pie pic gallery. I love creampies and they are my favorite pics. I love cum dripping out of a gaping, red, swollen, well fucked hole.
hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Candy: Going on a vacation for a week in Jamaica and having 5 well hung sexy studs service me all week over and over and over. One on ones, 3 sums, gang bang. Also, they live out all my fantasies like light S&M and rape. I hate to keep bringing up the rape thing… but it’s a hot fantasy if it’s not really a criminal doing it.
hotwifeblog: Tell us about one of your recent hotwife experiences?
Candy: I will tell you about the first gang bang I had. Willy and I had been looking at a Yahoo group owned by Art Hammer of The Florida Mandingos and they throw Interracial Swinger parties and arrange gang bangs. I had talked to him about my fantasy of doing an all black gang bang sometime or at least going to one of the parties. We went and I was so shy at the party that I was practically hiding behind Willy. I am weird that way as I do still get shy when I first enter a new place with new people until I am drunk or high.
Anyway… I was being looked over by every single hot man in the room. Although I loved the admiration, I felt like if I moved from behind Willy, I’d be attacked in seconds and I needed to ease into the situation. After a few introductions by the host and several drinks, we went to our room with the host and within minutes we were in bed doing the bedspring boogie. He is HUGE, so he really HAMMERED me. It was so hot.
Afterwards, I was wanting more and he went to get a guy or two. When he came back a few minutes later with 5 hung black studs, I almost hyperventilated. They all gathered around me and started kissing me and groping me and had me on the bed hard fucking me in seconds. If I had had time to think about it, I may have chickened out, but they were smooth operators. I was fucked in every hole bareback by these 6 men until 5:30am. I am hooked every since. Now, because I don’t want to have my pussy turn into the Grand Canyon… I limit gangbangs and other equally “rough on the twat” play to only once a month or less. The rest of the time, I like 2sums or 3sums best.
hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Candy: Family fun, American Football, camping, mountains, rafting, swimming, snorkeling, beaches, traveling, cruising, reading, movies, Broadway or Vegas type shows, comedy, politics.
hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Candy: If you have a really good foundation for your relationship and are secure with yourselves and your plans for the future together, but are lacking in the bedroom… try it. If you are extremely jealous or your relationship is not stable… it will not be for you and may break you up real quick. Read about it, talk about it, watch videos/documentaries about it. Watch porn that replicates just what your desires are. Discuss your fantasies you have about swinging in every minute detail. Discuss limits and what may upset you. Be honest. Then go to a swinger club and soak up the atmosphere and watch. You may go several times before hooking up or feeling comfortable enough to do anything, but this is a great start. Once you start playing and finding what you both are into and if it just so happens that he prefers to share you or watch you verses getting other chicks himself… you just may become a Hot Wife.
The same advice goes for anyone who wants a spouse to try swinging at all. If you are a man who wants your wife to swing and become a Hot Wife, this will be a great start. Just be careful what you wish for because she may love it and it’s too late to go back once you’ve created this sweet little sex monster.
hotwifeblog: What are you and your husband’s plans for the future regarding your hotwifing?
Candy: I have just begun. I do plan on busting out and being on every site I can across the country relating to Hot Wifery, Swinging, and Interracial Lust. If I can help a woman or couple break out of their shell and live out their sexual fantasies… I will be proud. Oh, and lets not forget the Big Butts/Big Tits/Voluptuous/Plumper sites I will be on… I plan on putting the Beautiful back in the term Big Beautiful Woman (BBW). I’d love to make more women see how sexy being real can be. Who wants to be a size zero and look like a little girl. I want to be a woman.
Willy, he just wants me to have fun taking on one lover after another to film for our site and our own private memories. He wants me to be fulfilled and digs my slutty private side. We want good stories to tell in the old folks home. LOL
That was amazing Candy. You truly are a wonderful woman. I’m not letting you get away from me and my blog for very long xoxox
Interview by Trash