November 20, 2010
I’m proud to present today my interview with the very lovely Leslie from Lust Couple who we first introduced to the blog back in September. Leslie is another fine example that every one in this lifestyle has their own unique way of playing it. Thanks for your time with the interview Leslie and for your honest answers. Hope to hear from you again soon.
hotwifeblog: Hey there, welcome to hotwifeblog. Tell us your name?
Leslie: Leslie Croft
hotwifeblog: Where are you from?
Leslie: I was born in Titusville, Florida, but now I’m living just outside Indianapolis, Indiana.
hotwifeblog: What is your age?
hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Leslie: 5′ 6″
hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Leslie: Ears, of course, and I’m still pondering a tattoo . . . just can’t decide what/where I want.
hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Leslie: I’m usually reserved and polite, but in private, much more daring and assertive, even bitchy at times, but I make it worth your while.
hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Leslie: Graphic designer by day; web mistress by night
hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Leslie: Believe it or not, we met at a funeral . . . okay, long story
hotwifeblog: LOL… How long have you been married?
Leslie: It will be 18 years in December.
hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Leslie: I’ve adapted my thinking from prior programming, and I’m now comfortable with my varied sexual appetites.
hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Leslie: Well, the hubby first suggested it, and I quickly knew that I wanted it, too. It just made sense to me that we should both be honest and open about our sexual interests.
hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Leslie: I don’t know, but I would love to understand that dynamic. At the same time, though, I fully identify with that desire, because I also get off watching hubby with others. I’m just as much of a voyeur as I am an exhibitionist, so I get it.
hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Leslie: I always enjoy the excitement of meeting and becoming intimate with new and different people. No matter how many experiences I have, the initial charge of getting naked with strangers never disappoints.
hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Leslie: 14 years
hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Leslie: No, they were all monogamous (and monotonous). I feel very lucky to have such an open, supportive (and submissive) husband.
hotwifeblog: And during those previous monogamous relationships were you tempted to stray or did you cheat at all on your partner?
Leslie: No, I was never tempted, nor did I cheat, but I was pretty young at that time. Eventually, I’m sure I would have certainly been tempted . . . a lot.
hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? are attracted to?
Leslie: Confident, fit, self-aware and open-minded guys always catch my eye (or more).
hotwifeblog: Tell us about your first hotwife experience?
Leslie: At my urging, hubby invited a fit black male to our home, and I was completely thrilled to finally live out one of my strongest fantasies. Long story short . . . our house guest spent the night, and I made him breakfast (once I was finished with him, of course).
hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Leslie: I don’t keep score; too busy playing the game.
hotwifeblog: Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Leslie: Oh, I don’t know. It just depends on the guy; chemistry is a mysterious thing.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Leslie: Yes. I love being the center of attention, having so many hands, mouths and cocks at my service.
hotwifeblog: So how many men have you had sex with at one time?
Leslie: Three (so far).
hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Leslie: Yes, there’s a minimum requirement, I suppose, but it’s certainly not the only issue to consider.
hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Leslie: For the most part, I really like black guys, but I’m always an equal opportunity enjoyer.
hotwifeblog: Hehe.. Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Leslie: Yes, I love to come on to men who catch my eye, and I get off on startling and attracting those who consider me “off limits” because I’m married.
hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Leslie: It depends on the weather, really. If it’s cooler, I usually I like to wear tight sweaters, jeans, and boots. If warmer, I go very skimpy and clingy. I have very pointy, eraser-like nipples, and men say they love to see them through my sheer tops.
hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Leslie: Wow, that’s a tough one. I’ve found very little that I don’t enjoy, but if I had to choose one act, I would have to say sucking cock, preferably two or more simultaneously. And I love to deepthroat (practice makes perfect).
hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Leslie: I love fucking others with strapons . . . hubby, other males, other women, doesn’t matter.
hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Leslie: Hubby helps locate them for me via the internet, usually. Trolling for strange cock in bars and clubs is a favorite hobby of mine, too.
hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Leslie: I tend to keep it secret from my female friends, but I’m sure most would be envious toward my freedom.
hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your husband participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Leslie: Depends on my mood; he’s usually involved either directly or indirectly. If nothing else, I tend to keep him around to serve as a bar tender, towel boy or fluffer.
hotwifeblog: Which of the above do you prefer when you’re with your lover, your husband participating? have him watch you? or be alone with your date for some privacy?
Leslie: I prefer with hubby participating but I find it exciting to have him watch and/or cater to my lover and me, too.
hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Leslie: Almost daily. What can I say? I’m a woman in my thirties, lol.
hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Leslie: Maybe if I were to meet a lover horribly lacking, sure, but generally no. It’s all good.
hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your husband ever suggested it?
Leslie: Spiritually and emotionally, we are monogamous, so the question really doesn’t seem to capture our relationship. I can’t imagine limiting myself to just one lover, though, no.
hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Leslie: I enjoy both, depending on my mood and the situation.
hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Leslie: I love both but prefer giving.
hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Leslie: No, but I love the feel of hot cum on my skin and face and I’m very interested in exploring a bukkake experiences in the future.
hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Leslie: Yes, definitely . . . before, during and after.
hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Leslie: Meeting a stranger or two in a bar, fucking him/them and then coming home to tell hubby about all my fun. Lately, I’ve also harbored the fantasy of hooking up alone, then calling hubby to let him listen while a stranger fucks me.
hotwifeblog: Since having your website, have you ever been recognized by anyone who knew you were a hotwife?
Leslie: Yes, a local school board member and scout leader who said he admired the site a great deal. I was a bit nervous about his discovery at first, but I’ve seen him several times since, and I really enjoy our dirty little secret now.
hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Leslie: Cooking, reading, dancing, gardening and writing.
hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Leslie: Communicate honestly, frequently and without fear of hurt feelings.
hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Leslie: Lots of fetish fun (strapons, cuckoldry, smothering) and a healthy dose of interracial content.
hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Leslie: We just celebrated the site’s third anniversary, so that’s an appropriate questions. We tend to take it year-by-year and will continue as long as it’s a fun and a worthwhile means of personal expression. I’m hoping to add more gangbang and bi MMF or MMFF content as time and opportunities allow.
hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Leslie: Enjoying the company of long-time friends and meeting more as we progress.