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November 20, 2010

Leslie Croft Interviewed

I’m proud to present today my interview with the very lovely Leslie from Lust Couple who we first introduced to the blog back in September. Leslie is another fine example that every one in this lifestyle has their own unique way of playing it. Thanks for your time with the interview Leslie and for your honest answers. Hope to hear from you again soon.

Leslie

hotwifeblog: Hey there, welcome to hotwifeblog. Tell us your name?
Leslie: Leslie Croft

hotwifeblog: Where are you from?
Leslie: I was born in Titusville, Florida, but now I’m living just outside Indianapolis, Indiana.

hotwifeblog: What is your age?
Leslie: 36

hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Leslie: 36-26-38

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Leslie: 5′ 6″

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Leslie: Hazel

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Leslie: Brunette

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Leslie: Ears, of course, and I’m still pondering a tattoo . . . just can’t decide what/where I want.

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Leslie: I’m usually reserved and polite, but in private, much more daring and assertive, even bitchy at times, but I make it worth your while.

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Leslie: Graphic designer by day; web mistress by night

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Leslie: Believe it or not, we met at a funeral . . . okay, long story

hotwifeblog: LOL… How long have you been married?
Leslie: It will be 18 years in December.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Leslie: I’ve adapted my thinking from prior programming, and I’m now comfortable with my varied sexual appetites.

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Leslie: Well, the hubby first suggested it, and I quickly knew that I wanted it, too. It just made sense to me that we should both be honest and open about our sexual interests.

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Leslie: I don’t know, but I would love to understand that dynamic. At the same time, though, I fully identify with that desire, because I also get off watching hubby with others. I’m just as much of a voyeur as I am an exhibitionist, so I get it.

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Leslie: I always enjoy the excitement of meeting and becoming intimate with new and different people. No matter how many experiences I have, the initial charge of getting naked with strangers never disappoints.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Leslie: 14 years

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Leslie: No, they were all monogamous (and monotonous). I feel very lucky to have such an open, supportive (and submissive) husband.

hotwifeblog: And during those previous monogamous relationships were you tempted to stray or did you cheat at all on your partner?
Leslie: No, I was never tempted, nor did I cheat, but I was pretty young at that time. Eventually, I’m sure I would have certainly been tempted . . . a lot.

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? are attracted to?
Leslie: Confident, fit, self-aware and open-minded guys always catch my eye (or more).

hotwifeblog: Tell us about your first hotwife experience?
Leslie: At my urging, hubby invited a fit black male to our home, and I was completely thrilled to finally live out one of my strongest fantasies. Long story short . . . our house guest spent the night, and I made him breakfast (once I was finished with him, of course).

hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Leslie: I don’t keep score; too busy playing the game.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Leslie: Oh, I don’t know. It just depends on the guy; chemistry is a mysterious thing.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Leslie: Yes. I love being the center of attention, having so many hands, mouths and cocks at my service.

hotwifeblog: So how many men have you had sex with at one time?
Leslie: Three (so far).

hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Leslie: Yes, there’s a minimum requirement, I suppose, but it’s certainly not the only issue to consider.

hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Leslie: For the most part, I really like black guys, but I’m always an equal opportunity enjoyer.

hotwifeblog: Hehe.. Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Leslie: Yes, I love to come on to men who catch my eye, and I get off on startling and attracting those who consider me “off limits” because I’m married.

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Leslie: It depends on the weather, really. If it’s cooler, I usually I like to wear tight sweaters, jeans, and boots. If warmer, I go very skimpy and clingy. I have very pointy, eraser-like nipples, and men say they love to see them through my sheer tops.

hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Leslie: No.

hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Leslie: Wow, that’s a tough one. I’ve found very little that I don’t enjoy, but if I had to choose one act, I would have to say sucking cock, preferably two or more simultaneously. And I love to deepthroat (practice makes perfect).

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Leslie: I love fucking others with strapons . . . hubby, other males, other women, doesn’t matter.

hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Leslie: Hubby helps locate them for me via the internet, usually. Trolling for strange cock in bars and clubs is a favorite hobby of mine, too.

hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Leslie: I tend to keep it secret from my female friends, but I’m sure most would be envious toward my freedom.

hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your husband participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Leslie: Depends on my mood; he’s usually involved either directly or indirectly. If nothing else, I tend to keep him around to serve as a bar tender, towel boy or fluffer.

hotwifeblog: Which of the above do you prefer when you’re with your lover, your husband participating? have him watch you? or be alone with your date for some privacy?
Leslie: I prefer with hubby participating but I find it exciting to have him watch and/or cater to my lover and me, too.

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Leslie: Almost daily. What can I say? I’m a woman in my thirties, lol.

hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Leslie: Maybe if I were to meet a lover horribly lacking, sure, but generally no. It’s all good.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your husband ever suggested it?
Leslie: Spiritually and emotionally, we are monogamous, so the question really doesn’t seem to capture our relationship. I can’t imagine limiting myself to just one lover, though, no.

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Leslie: I enjoy both, depending on my mood and the situation.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Leslie: I love both but prefer giving.

hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
Leslie: Swallow.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Leslie: No, but I love the feel of hot cum on my skin and face and I’m very interested in exploring a bukkake experiences in the future.

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Leslie: Yes, definitely . . . before, during and after.

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Leslie: Meeting a stranger or two in a bar, fucking him/them and then coming home to tell hubby about all my fun. Lately, I’ve also harbored the fantasy of hooking up alone, then calling hubby to let him listen while a stranger fucks me.

hotwifeblog: Since having your website, have you ever been recognized by anyone who knew you were a hotwife?
Leslie: Yes, a local school board member and scout leader who said he admired the site a great deal. I was a bit nervous about his discovery at first, but I’ve seen him several times since, and I really enjoy our dirty little secret now.

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Leslie: Cooking, reading, dancing, gardening and writing.

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Leslie: Communicate honestly, frequently and without fear of hurt feelings.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Leslie: Lots of fetish fun (strapons, cuckoldry, smothering) and a healthy dose of interracial content.

hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Leslie: We just celebrated the site’s third anniversary, so that’s an appropriate questions. We tend to take it year-by-year and will continue as long as it’s a fun and a worthwhile means of personal expression. I’m hoping to add more gangbang and bi MMF or MMFF content as time and opportunities allow.

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Leslie: Enjoying the company of long-time friends and meeting more as we progress.

Leslie

You can find Leslie’s home on the web right here

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June 29, 2010

Slut Jasmine Interviewed

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June 9, 2010

Jackie’s updated interview

Last month I posted a thanks via video from luscious Hotwife Jackie who won our 5th birthday Top 20 Hotwife competition voted by you the user.

I also promised you guys an updated Interview with the lady herself with all the questions I’ve been meaning to ask since I did her first interview back in 2007. So here goes and thanks for taking the time to answer my questions Jackie. Love you always.

Hotwife Jackie

hotwifeblog: Hey Jackie, it’s great to be able to catch up with you after all this time. It’s been 3 years since we’ve first interviewed you and I’m really excited to be speaking with you again.
Jackie: Always a pleasure to be with you.

hotwifeblog: Firstly congratulations on your first place position as the most popular hotwife here on hotwifeblog over the last year. You’ve always been so popular with our readers and rightly so.. How did winning this award make you feel?
Jackie: Wow! I was shocked because there are so many hot hotwives here. I’m a big fan of all of them and I’m honored to be at the top of that list.

hotwifeblog: Do you find yourself more immersed in the hotwife lifestyle now, have you stepped up your play, are you trying new things?
Jackie: You know, living this lifestyle is a continual adventure. It never ceases to be titillating for me because it’s my real life. We don’t try to fool anybody about what we’re doing. If it’s hot, that’s because it’s real. The last new thing I tried was allowing my extremely hot new lover Marcel to spank me. Man does he have a strong hand! Ouch! He may have enjoyed it a little more than I did, LOL.

hotwifeblog: Spanking eh? hehe.. So any new fetishes you’ve found or developed in the last three years? Any new fantasies or things you’d still like to try?
Jackie: I really don’t have any new fetishes per se’. I am the quintessential “dating wife” The thing that keeps me so excited about this lifestyle is meeting new lovers. It’s like regular dating but so much better! You know you’re not going to go home frustrated, hahaha, you know you’re both there because you really want to have each other. It’s super charged heat from the second your eyes meet. Meeting new lovers, that’s my fantasy.

hotwifeblog: Was this lifestyle choice first suggested by your husband? and how did it make you feel? the thought of embarking of a life having sex with men outside of your marriage?
Jackie: Yes, my hubby wanted me to see me with another man. And at first I was like, “What? Don’t you love me anymore? Trying to get rid of me, or what?” I just couldn’t understand how a man could want to share his wife. But then we started talking about it during sex and the things he said to me really turned me on. Next thing I knew he was making a date for me with a guy he picked out for me. The memory is still one of the hottest most exciting nights of my life. This guy was military, and let me tell you, military guys are amazing lovers, so much stamina! His dick was enormous! And he was hard for hours. Then after he had his way with me my husband fucked me too, and I gotta tell you, it was unreal, like an out of body experience. I was hooked from that night on.

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Jackie: My hubby, Jason, and I have discussed this at length because I really wanted to understand. He tells me that there’s nothing hotter for him than knowing that other men want me. I guess it’s like kids who have the best toys and totally enjoy sharing them with their friends. I guess I’m his best toy, hahaha, and he just loves sharing me.

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Jackie: That’s a great question! The short answer is no, my previous relationships were totally monogamous. But the longer answer is, looking back to my pre-marriage dates, I think that most men would have loved to be adventurous, think sexually outside the box, but they were afraid to broach the subject because they didn’t want to come off as sexually weird. Judging from the email I get on my site that’s how most men are, dying to try the lifestyle but afraid of what their wives will think. I always tell them their wives don’t know what they’re missing.

hotwifeblog: And during those previous monogamous relationships were you tempted to stray or did you cheat at all on your partner?
Jackie: Wow, that’s a tough question. To tell you the truth, before I met my husband I was a serial cheater. But then I met Jason and I had no desire to cheat anymore, and ironically he gave me the opportunity to play with other men. I always say that if more people enjoyed the lifestyle more marriages would stay together. Sting said it best, If you love something, set it free.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Jackie: A little of both. I have a few lovers that I’ve seen for years, and the sex just gets better all the time. Sometimes, though, it’s just a one time thing and that’s totally hot as well.

hotwifeblog: Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Jackie: Nope, never. In my straight life I am the model wife.

hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Jackie: I have four female friends that know about the lifestyle, and they are all totally cool about it. No jealousy, but sometimes they do venture into the lifestyle themselves, but not as regularly as I do. I guess I’m lucky that I have exceptional friends.

hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your husband participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Jackie: He’s done all three and he leaves it up to me, what I want to do. Sometimes I like a one-on-one date with a guy, but usually I want him with me because we’re doing this together. Usually Jason watches for a while, or even goes out of the room to watch a ballgame for a while, but he always ends up fucking me. He likes me a little used up first. Naughty, huh?

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your husband ever suggested it?
Jackie: Absolutely.

hotwifeblog: What’s been the highlight experience for you in the last 3 years?
Jackie: I had a really great time last summer flying out to LA and meeting two lovers in a hotel room by the ocean. First one had me, then the other showed up for his turn. They even met in the hallway and shook hands, it was hilarious and super hot! And I was sore for a few days! The orgasms were incredible, theirs and mine.

hotwifeblog: How has your website developed over the last 3 years?
Jackie: We’ve experimented using just an IPhone to shoot video for a more reality based in-the-moment feel which our members really like. The Iphone makes it easy to shoot stuff anywhere anytime without being obvious. A lot of non sexual stuff of me at the market or enjoying a glass of wine and just chatting about how I am excited to meet my next date. Sometimes I just hand the IPhone to my lover and say, “Okay, you shoot some video, shoot what you’re seeing right now.” Our members seem to like that pov like they are fucking me themselves. We are trying to get more pre and post-date stuff into our video shoots. Getting dressed for my date etc, and also some post date “freshly fucked” interview stuff so the viewer gets a total sense of the hotwife dating experience. Ours has evolved into the real deal hotwife documentary of sorts. Early on we staged some stuff with all kinds of lighting etc, although we have never shot with “Pros” and probably never will. No “Pizza delivery guy” stuff. That is just not very interesting to me. I like real guys who are “dating” me for the sheer fun of it and it seems to make the hottest videos.

hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Jackie: We have our main members site with all our videos and pics and members forum. We continue to update with my latest naughty dates as they occur. I have my new blog site which is so fun. I usually post a few pics with every new blog post. You have a link to my blog site (Jackie’s Blog) here in your blog links. We also have our hotwifehotel site which has a forum for anyone in the lifestyle to post their pics or stories or fantasies or those curious to just lurk. That is a great place for community interaction. Jason is just finishing up a new site which will feature the sale of ala carte downloadable clips of mine and soon we hope clips of other hotwives who want to sell their clips.

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Jackie: Well, I’m flirting with a few hot guys online right now and Jason is always lining up new guys for me. I’m wondering which one I’ll be fucking first. Hey, thanks for the opportunity to be here on your great blog! We love the HOTWIFEBLOG, and are thrilled to be featured here.

hotwifeblog: You’re more than welcome Jackie. Thanks for the honest answers and hopefully see you again on the blog real soon.

Hotwife Jackie

Visit Jackie’s fantastic site here

Interview by: Trash

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May 16, 2010

Art Hammer Interviewed

Following his debut interview with Nichole Wet, Hotwife Blog reader Ken is back with another interview, this time with black bull legend Art Hammer. I met Art last October in Miami at the Swingfest show which my partner Daisy hosted. He and some of his friends ran the notorious ‘Chocolate Room’ where some of the female halves of swinging couples went to fulfill a fantasy or two by having some multiple black entertainment. I have to say out of all the Playrooms there, this one was the one that was packed out and everyone was talking about by the pool the next day.

Thanks for this interview Art and for your work on it too Ken, it’s always great to have a different perspective that others can bring to the table. Look forward to your next one.

Art Hammer

Art Hammer

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Ken for Hotwifeblog: The first video I saw of you opened with you staring directly at the camera, confident as the cock of the walk; you said something like, “we’re going to introduce another soccer-mom, housewife into the world of interracial passion.” Then, this very mild mannered woman came out. She was dressed conservatively and was obviously nervous. You proceeded to treat her with all the respect and consideration that a group of frat boys would show to a twenty-buck-a-trick hooker.
Art Hammer: Yes, that was our very first video. The white BIG BLACK COCK LOVING SLUT WHORE was Sweet Des; it was her first video too. She was a genuine PTA, soccer-mom housewife and a non-practicing attorney.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: No wonder she was nervous. Did you worry that you might be too hard on her? You tied her up. You blindfolded her. You said the nastiest stuff to her.
Art Hammer: Yes we did all that! Actually I had met her, her husband and 2 children at a mall a week prior to discuss what they wanted to happen when we got together with my crew and filmed it. I want to be clear that everything we do is consensual, and we agree on everything that we’re going to do beforehand. Our role-play works because EVERYONE is getting what they want. Once it starts, I’m the boss, but that’s how everyone wants it. And that’s the beauty of amateur porn: you can’t fake the funk! The camera is rolling continuously, so what you see is what you get, unlike staged, edited professional porn.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: That reality comes across in your videos. Is it something that you aim for?
Art Hammer: ABSOLUTELY!! And the fact is that it is all very, very real! You need to know what you’re doing, and that means you need to communicate honestly and clearly, well in advance. That’s true for what I do on my site and what I do in my private life.

I love meeting a cuckold couple after having only spoken to them on the phone or chatted with them online. When they describe what they want, I always immediately ask about their experience level. I want to know their threshold, because, as a dominant black man, I’m going to push any white wife to her absolute limit. Nothing, I mean nothing, turns me on more than having both a beautiful, white wife and a loving husband want me to treat her like a total white sub-slut-whore. I use her EXACTLY as I see fit from the instant they walk through the door. They want me to do that every bit as much as I want to do it myself. Sometimes, even more.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: And how do you typically see fit to use her?
Art Hammer: She will be dressed according to my instructions. I will push her down on her knees and then shove my BIG BLACK DICK deep down her throat while telling her how much of a white, black-cock-loving slut-whore she is. I tell her that she knows that she is mine to use as I please for however long I want and then tell her husband how much she loves a real man’s dick and how much better, even after only a few minutes, I know her sexual nature more than he ever will.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: That’s… impressive.
Art Hammer: “Ay, tis a consummation devoutly to be wished”
Editor’s note: That’s Hamlet, Act III, Scene I, the famous “To be, or not to be” soliloquy. Art, you should know, graduated from one of America’s top universities. He isn’t being fake or pretentious here. He’s just that well educated. He knows a lot, including Shakespeare. But even Hamlet isn’t as impressive a cultural artifact as Art’s spurting cock!

Art Hammer: I love to go to a vanilla club with a husband and a wife that I’ve required to dress like a slut. I’m talking about a non-swing club here. We walk in with her on my arm and him behind us. When the cashier asks for the money, I turn and point. I sit with her and he sits at a table beside us. I order drinks and he pays. Sometimes, I let him come to our table while I kiss and fondle her. Everyone in the place knows EXACTLY what time it is. When it’s time to settle the bill, I tell the waitress to give it to the husband. Then I make a point to loudly announce that we are going to fuck.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Wow. Tell me more about how you might use the husband.
Art Hammer: I have him wipe my forehead or bring me water or a towel, whatever makes me comfortable. I tell him to sit in a chair while I fuck his wife, sometimes I will tie him to the chair. I will have her tell him how good it feels for a real man to fuck her and cum in her pussy. But no matter where I cum, I command him to clean her up. It’s total domination, but understand that, with many couples, when the sex is done, we are friends and go out together socially. That is the difference between being a swinger versus a lifestyler. I am a single male in the lifestyle with a fetish for BDSM and cuckold relationships. A swinger is a bed-post notcher while a lifestyler is interested in friendship outside of the bedroom. For example I gave my very first party in May 03 and I am still friends with 90% of the people who came to that party.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: So, it’s important to you to have at least some sort of a wall between the cuckold world and your regular relationships.
Art Hammer: I have so many good friends because they know they can trust me to be 100% discreet. Many of the best times I have had, no one can ever see, because the couple has insisted on no pictures or video; my reputation is based on discretion! What they ask to be private will always be private! Still, I’m always looking for the couple-next-door who are willing to sign a photo release and show the world what cuckoldry is all about.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Can you give me an example?
Art Hammer: Yes, Jazzi and her hubby (picture above). Now, that was intense, because when I first met them, he was her Dom. After she became our Mandingo gangbang party slut, he got completely obsessed by the thought of being submissive to her after seeing me and my Florida Mandingos deep fuck her in EVERY hole. I don’t think he was prepared to see us fuck her bareback in all three holes. I mean we fucked Jazzi for six hours straight. When he saw that, a light went off. She is, at the bottom of her soul, a black-cock sub-slut-whore. But she’s also a switch and a chameleon. Outside the bedroom, she could be a rabbi’s wife.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Can you describe the transformation in greater detail?
Art Hammer: Initially, she was submissive to both him and us. After six months, she told me that he had been hinting that he wanted to be cuckolded. She loves her fiance dearly, then and now. So, she asked if I thought it would change their relationship or how we thought of him? I told her ABSOLUTELY not, because I like and respect them as people.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: It sounds like the kind of person a woman is matters to you a lot?
Art Hammer: That’s true. I love smart women; rich, educated, professional women make the very, very best sluts. All of the ladies I fuck for fun are perfect ladies in the street and slut-whores in bed. I’ve fucked doctors, veterinarians, CPAs, schoolteachers, school administrators, and lawyers. Sweet Des is a lawyer and a very capable one too. I won’t say what she does, but I will say that there are maybe a handful of lawyers who are as knowledgeable in her field as she is. I know how competitive her specialty is, and I can confidently say that you would be very lucky to have her representing you.

Jewish women are great, like Jazzi. They tend to be smart and well-educated, but that doesn’t keep them from submitting to cock like their lives depend on it. Sometimes I think about the Jewish guys that some of my Jewish conquests have married. If they knew the sorts of things that I made their wives do!

I’ve fucked women who’ve graduated from top colleges, both private and public: Stanford, Cornell, Brown, places like that. These are women who come from “respectable” families and who are going on to “top positions” in their communities. But they all learn lessons in “respect” and “positions” as they kneel before my dick and milk every drop of sperm they can from it.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: LOL. Nice one. Does your preference for smart women surprise people?
Art Hammer: It does. They assume that because I’m dominant, I’d want someone of less than average intelligence and education to comply with me. But they’ve got it backwards. A dominant male desires a smart, educated female because when she submits, she’s bringing all that with her. She’s submitting her Ivy League M.B.A. and using her Bryn Mawr education and natural creativity to serve me and my cock. Many people just don’t understand. Sometimes, as shorthand, I explain it this way: I love Victoria’s Secrets sluts as opposed to Frederick’s of Hollywood sluts! They start to get the picture.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Do educated women act differently than uneducated ones? What’s the appeal?
Art Hammer: I see you don’t see it either. So, I’ll give you an example. One husband asked me to arrange a gangbang for his wife. I nicknamed her Ms. Victoria’s Secret because she had the body and looks of one of their models and enough of their wardrobe to open her own store. He reserved a suite at the Tampa Hyatt and asked me to bring 6 guys, telling me that his wife had been preparing a show for us. I commanded him to bring Grey Goose vodka and Moet champagne. He bought them, and, just to show his gratitude for the cocks we were providing his wife, a large shrimp and fruit tray without being asked.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: He sounds eager to please.
Art Hammer: He was. 5 of my “A-Team” members and I met him in the hotel bar and then went upstairs. She came out and modeled for us, so I gently pulled her to me. This was not a submissive couple, just a husband and wife wanting a gangbang. There was no need to be rough. I made her kneel in front of my crotch and asked her if she craved the taste of my dick. The slut nodded and went to work. My guys closed in on her and the gangbang was on. To this day, that is one of my favorite memories, because she is a very classy lady, very high profile in the Tampa area, and very well-educated. Even now, she loves to get dicked down while her husband takes pictures.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Have you posted those pictures somewhere we can see them?
Art Hammer: Unfortunately no one will ever see the pics from that encounter! They’re for their personal use only. I mean what I said before: I am 100% discreet. Not only is it good policy, but it’s just ethical. A woman may be my slut. A white husband may be a cuckold for me to order around like I’m the plantation master and he’s the slave. But I will always treat them the way I promise to treat them.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: You refuse to use condoms. Why?
Art Hammer: I am adamant about ONLY playing with people who are tested for a minimum of HIV. I get tested once a month. I just love dumping my black seed into a hot white wife’s pussy as her hubby watches. It’s even more of a rush when they initially tell me that I can’t cum inside her and I respond that if you want me to fuck her; that is EXACTLY what I will do. Mostly, they obey. If they don’t agree, I say “no problem, get someone else.” I make white men’s wives into my property, and I always mark my territory, and that’s all there is to it. I will respect your marriage but your marriage will acknowledge the supremacy of my cock and my cum.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Interesting. Can you give an example?
Art Hammer: About 2 months ago, a couple I had been communicating with online wanted to come down from Indiana to meet me and my guys for the wife’s first gangbang. They had tried several times to arrange a gangbang at home, but the guys who showed up either didn’t look like their pictures or were smaller than they had claimed, so she was frustrated. They told me that any guys would have to wear condoms, but they wanted me to participate because they knew that, if I did, my best guys would join in.

I let them know that I only fuck bareback, but, because the wife was hot, I would post in my group, looking for strong, extra-potent, black cock. The husband kept trying to convince me to fuck her with a condom. We finally talked and she repeated her policy. I told her that I respected that, but, while I’d help her find men, I was not going to fuck her. Not being experienced and having always called the shots with men, she was deluded into being certain that I’d give in. So I let her know that she was now dealing with a REAL DOM BLACK BULL and that I was the one in control.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: What happened?
Art Hammer: She finally resigned herself to the fact that she couldn’t win. They had spoken to many people who knew me and my crew. She knew what she’d be giving up if she didn’t cave in and she realized I wouldn’t cave in. She wanted to experience the pinnacle of a white woman’s sexual life: a black cock gangbang. So, she acquiesced, but, while I’m happy to help a slut and cuckold, I expect them to show me proper respect and compliance. Before I would ask my guys to gangbang her, I would fuck her bareback in all three holes and cum in her pussy and all over her face and tits. They finally , totally defeated, agreed to my demands.

They came down, and she got tested. But, when I went to visit them, she, to my total surprise and annoyance, told me that she changed her mind and I could not cum inside her. I simply informed her that I was not going to wear a condom. She was so conflicted. I think she really thought that once I was there, just seconds away from being able to screw her, I’d accept her terms. When it became clear, I would not change my mind one bit, she consented. Of course, once I started doing my fucking, she became a bitch in heat. She wanted to be dominated and so did anything I told her. She was ready for a REAL BULL to take control. I spanked her ass, pulled her hair, fucked her mouth, and talked to her like she existed for one purpose only: to take my cock and cum. “Take this BIG BLACK DICK , slut. You know that’s why you drove a thousand miles. You came to get fucked by me. Right, slut?” She replied, “Yes sir!” as if I were her drill sergeant. I fucked her in all her slutty, white, married, needy holes and came inside her pussy and mouth. The obscenities that came out of her mouth were enough to fill up ten volumes of letters to “Penthouse,” and the way she talked to her husband would make her the trash-talk champion of any football field anywhere. At first, they hadn’t wanted me to cum inside her. But after I’d dumped some loads in her cunt, her husband gratefully gobbled down every drop of that creampie like he was starving and this was the last food on the planet. Needless to say, they were blissfully grateful to me. Once again, I demonstrated the superiority of my black dick over both a white pussy and a white cuckold husband. I then arranged the gangbang.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Impressive.
Art Hammer: I’m not bragging. It’s just a fact that it’s my way or the highway. Last year, at the Naughty in N’awlins convention in our “Chocolate Room,” there was this drop dead gorgeous brunette with a body like Sandra Bullock’s. She kept asking me to fuck her but insisted that I wear a condom.

I told her that I had four guys who I would get to fuck her brains out while wearing condoms. She replied, trying to keep her cool but increasingly unable to hide her exasperation about the fact that I wasn’t giving in, that it had to be me and guaranteed that it would be the best pussy I ever had. I told her I did not doubt the quality of her pussy and that she was probably right that she had the best pussy. Unfortunately for me, I would have to miss having it! She must have been a lawyer because she tried to convince me for 30 minutes, offering any ridiculous argument she could imagine, and gradually becoming exasperated as she realized it wasn’t working. She was promising me everything she could think of. She thought that it would provide me with incentive to back down. But I knew I could have whatever she was offering anyway from several other hotties who would let me fuck them my way!.

It was funny how desperate she was. My guys are listening to her beg while her husband waited beside her, and they are laughing because they knew it was not going to happen, no way, no how! They started joking about her desperation, but she didn’t care. I’m pretty sure that she held her ground and did not fuck anyone in our suite that night. I sure would have loved to fuck the slut, but you win some, you lose some; I don’t sweat it.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Great story. Let’s move on to my next question. Any advice for aspiring bulls?
Art Hammer: Good question! Frank Sinatra once said, “You treat a lady like a dame and a dame like a lady.” Ol’ Blue Eyes is correct and that is how bulls should treat them. Treat a lady like a whore and a whore like a lady, and they will love you forever!

Ken for Hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future?
Art Hammer: I’m working on getting my own swing club and a studio where I can do 24/7 live video feeds with sluts who come over for me and my crew. If all goes well, it will happen by September 10.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: I’m sure many Hotwifeblog readers are looking forward to that.
Art Hammer: So am I.

Art Hammer

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March 27, 2010

Molly Mormon Interviewed

After her introduction last month, I promised you an Interview with religious rebel Molly Mormon. Being best mates with fellow Utah hotwife Ruthie have not helped this fallen wife on the path of wholesome goodness. But we are so pleased she’s fallen so well into slutdom. Thanks for the interview Molly. Welcome to your amazing new life!

Molly

hotwifeblog: Well hello Molly, welcome to hotwifeblog. Let’s start as per usual by telling us where you’re from.
Molly: Hi you… Utah, of course

hotwifeblog: What is your age?
Molly: 49

hotwifeblog: Looking good Molly.. What are your measurements?
Molly: Are you kidding me??

hotwifeblog: LOL.. What is your height?
Molly: 5′4″

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Molly: Blue

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Molly: Brown

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Molly: I have a tat (Celtic heart) on my right shoulder and a tat (two ladybugs on a trailing vine) on the second toe of my left foot (by the big toe)

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Molly: Very outgoing, kind of crazy, love to be wild, creative and artistic, and I love people from all walks of life.

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Molly: I make x-rated movies! I guess you could call me an actress, but I don’t really act, I just have great sex and have fun with it!

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Molly: On match.com, I said in my profile that I had a great ass and he believed me without seeing a picture before meeting me.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been married?
Molly: For 2 years now.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Molly: I’ve always had these tendencies, I just had to break away from the confining mormon lifestyle and find a man who could accept me for who and what I really am!

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Molly: We started as swingers 3 1/2 years ago, joined a swingers site and I started seeing select single men and making videos with them for our own personal use.

hotwifeblog: Was this lifestyle choice first suggested by your husband? and how did it make you feel? the thought of embarking of a life having sex with men outside of your marriage?
Molly: This was a mutual agreement of ours, and made me feel very sexy and empowered. besides, it’s all for fun and it’s just sex, you’re not giving up your marriage vows, and I never play alone. My husband is always there…. he is the cameraman!

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Molly: Because he enjoys seeing her enjoying herself sexually.

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Molly: I love the variety of men I get to have sex with, and a lot of them have become good friends. I don’t get out much, so this is a great outlet for me.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Molly: For 3 years now, and loving every minute of it.

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Molly: Oh, dear god, they were all monogamous, dammit, remember the name… Molly Mormon…

hotwifeblog: And during those previous monogamous relationships were you tempted to stray or did you cheat at all on your partner?
Molly: I cheated on both of my previous husbands with men who were ten years older than I was, and I enjoyed it immensely. Both times it was at the very end of the marriage.

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Molly: I love to be naked, and I’m not afraid to show off what the good Lord gave me!

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? are attracted to?
Molly: Men who are very confident in themselves, great sense of humor means more than great looks, and a man with great stamina in bed. I mean someone that can last more than 5 minutes out of the gate. A man with beautiful hands and feet, I know that may sound weird, but I just love hands and feet that are well taken care of. I like a man who is clean shaven, pubic area included, because I keep myself shaved as well, and well groomed. It shows he cares about himself and how he appears.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about your first hotwife experience?
Molly: It was with a man who was half German and half Spanish and I met him at work when I was married to my first husband in California. He had the most gorgeous olive skin and blue eyes, it was hard to take my eyes off him, and he asked me out to lunch. I of course accepted his offer. We had many lunches together, then had an opportunity to spend a weekend at Big Bear in the mountains together. He seduced me with his gorgeous blue eyes, as he slowly removed each article of clothing, he replaced it with hot, wet kisses, Oh, my god, I had to have this gorgeous man inside me, I practically ripped the clothes off him, and his cock was standing at attention, ready for my dripping pussy. I laid back on the bed, frantically pulling him into me. With each thrust of his cock, I arched my back, driving him even deeper into my nether regions. He was thrusting into me, hitting my clit, and pinching my rock hard nipples at the same time, making me cum for him again and again! I had never been fucked like this before in my life. When he finally climaxed, he roared like a lion and thrust so hard I thought I would break in two! We then fell into a sweaty heap onto the bed, exhausted but so very satisfied.

hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Molly: So who’s counting?? That would be like counting all my orgasms during one session!

hotwifeblog: hehe… Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Molly: I love seeing a guy more than once, because we get to know each other sexually and that just makes the sex more satisfying and fun.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Molly: Yes, it was in a sex swing at a sex club and there were 5 guys that fucked me one after the other and I gushed all over the swing, all over the guys and all over the floor. It was great! I would love to try it again.

hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Molly: Actually, yes, it does. I need a good 6 inches at least to make me cum good and hard.

hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Molly: I have no preference one way or the other, it depends on their personality. I absolutely do not like guys who act like punks or are full of themselves.

hotwifeblog: Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Molly: I don’t normally do that, no. I am usually with my husband.

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Molly: When we go to meet someone for the first time, I wear a nice tight top with no bra and my tight fittin jeans with no panties with high heeled boots.

hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Molly: No, cause I can’t stand anything around my ankle.

hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Molly: I love them all, but doggy style is my favorite because of the deep cock penetration you get.

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Molly: Not really

hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Molly: The sex swing with 5 guys!

hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Molly: Definitely through the internet, on swingers’ sites we belong to.

hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Molly: I have only told my very best friend. There are no negative feelings, no surprise, I think she wishes she could do the same.

hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your husband participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Molly: My husband is my cameraman, and I’m always making videos for the website, so he doesn’t participate.

hotwifeblog: Which of the above do you prefer when you’re with your lover, your husband participating? have him watch you? or be alone with your date for some privacy?
Molly: I love having my husband as the cameraman, and then we watch the video later on together.

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Molly: Almost every day!

hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Molly: My husband is the best lover that I have ever been with. He has a curved cock that hits my g-spot every time, makes me gush every time and makes me cum like no other man can, so there is no comparison!

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your husband ever suggested it?
Molly: I don’t think he would ever suggest it! He likes swinging too much himself!

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Molly: I can be slightly submissive… I like to be held down at times.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Molly: Oral sex isn’t really something I am into, had a bad experience with it. And I am so damned sensitive that very much of it numbs my clit, so I don’t really go for much oral sex at all. I do however, give the world’s best hand job.

hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
Molly: I swallow, spitting would be a waste of perfectly good cum.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Molly: Creampie movies are my specialty. I insist on them.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received multiple creampies from different guys?
Molly: I have received two anal creampies.

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Molly: No, he likes me to be nice and clean just for him.

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to go down on you after someone has come inside you?
Molly: That is a definite no.

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Molly: 4 or 5 guys giving me creampies in a row.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about one of your recent hotwife experiences?
Molly: Well, my friend, Augie, is a kite skier and came to see me to make a video. He loves the camera and loves to fuck me every way imaginable. After giving Augie one of my world famous hand jobs, we fucked using what I call the “rack”. It is a bar that pins my legs back so I can’t move and exposes my pussy for a good pounding, which I definitely got. Oh, my god, he made me cum so hard and so often, he made me scream with the pleasure of it all, as usual. I then had to ride him cowgirl style because he has a rock hard cock that hits just the right spot to make me squirt all over him. So I rode him till I could ride and squirt no more. Damn, all the towels I have to wash. Then we decided it was his turn to ride me, so he fucked the shit out of me with that beautiful dick, making me cum more and more, god, I just kept cumming for him. I’m very multi-orgasmic and cum very easy, but with this guy, it’s even more so because he finds my g-spot. Next, it was time for some good ol’ doggy style, man, I love that shit. Augie poured the meat to me over and over, until he finally came in me, leaving a sweet creampie for all to see. I adore creampie endings. Then Augie left to go kite skiing. I tried my best to wear him out, but his stamina is amazing.

hotwifeblog: Since having your website, have you ever been recognized by anyone who knew you were a hotwife?
Molly: Not yet.

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Molly: I love to cook and read and sew, but don’t really have much time for it anymore…

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Molly: I would say, you have to have absolute trust in one another first and decide on the rules. There can be no jealousy or it won’t work. And, it’s just sex, after all, you’re not giving up your marriage vows.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Molly: There are great pics and videos to choose from, and links to many other websites (my webmaster’s, included) as well! Lots of goodies to be had, let me tell you, great sex at a great price. There are some great looking women and we’re mostly amateurs, having a great time, and it shows in our videos. There are even a few porn stars thrown in for good measure. My webmaster has done a fantastic job putting it all together, and you will be able to join using a visa card in March, that will be a great plus.

hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Molly: Lots more action with lots more guys. I’m setting up a gangbang and a dp, and when summer comes, hopefully, we’ll get to do some outside stuff as well.

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Molly: Keeping it hot, hot, hot, for as long as I can stand it.

Molly

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Interview by: Trash

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December 6, 2009

David Ley Interviewed

I’ve had some great feedback recently from our posts focusing on the psychological nature of our lifestyle. Seems we are all fascinated with why we are sexually wired the way we are. Personally I love to reflect on what makes us all horny and find it really interesting when someone manages to touch something in my mind that I can relate to.

So today I am pleased to present an exclusive interview with author David Ley, a clinical psychologist and the author of a new book, Insatiable Wives, Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them. To see if he can shed any light on why we do indeed love our women that stray.

David Ley

hotwifeblog: Welcome David and thanks for taking the time out to speak to us…. Tell us where are you based in the world?
David: I live and work in Albuquerque New Mexico, though I travel a lot for business. For my book, I interviewed couples across the country.

hotwifeblog: Tell us briefly about your new book?
David: My book is called Insatiable Wives, Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them. It’s available on Amazon. It is an examination of the history of cuckoldry and permissive female sexual infidelity, along with the research that explains some of this phenomenon. In the book, I talk about women through history who have been sexually liberated, with their husband’s permission and encouragement. The book began after I encountered some couples who live a hotwife lifestyle, and discovered that there has been nothing published about this phenomenon, even though there are lots of people pursuing it currently as well as many stories of it in history and literature. I wrote the book in part because so many of my fellow counselors and therapists believe that couples who are not monogamous are automatically unhealthy in some way, a belief that I did not find to be true.

hotwifeblog: So hotwifing/cuckoldry is not a new phenomenon?
David: I think a lot of people believe it is new, though I found evidence that this lifestyle has truly been around as long as human sexuality has. In my book, I talk about examples of this lifestyle in the Bible, in many non-Western cultures, and throughout Western history. I’ll give you a few examples: in some island cultures, festivals were celebrated with unrestrained sexuality. One story I cite describes a wife who took on over a hundred men in one night, during a tribal ceremony. Amongst Western civilization, examples of historical hotwives include Pauline, the sister of Napoleon Bonaparte, and Wallis Simpson, the divorcé who married the King of England in 1936. Wallis Simpson had famously had a threesome in China with a former husband, and practiced a technique in bed that she called the “Shanghai Squeeze,” which was allegedly able to make a “matchstick feel like a Havana cigar.”

What is new today is that the Internet has allowed more men and women who might be interested in this lifestyle to learn that they are not alone in these desires. In the past, people suppressed their desires for fear of social rejection and stigma. Finding that there are others out there who share these desires has led more husbands to be brave enough to express their desires to their wives, and more wives to be willing and able to explore their sexuality outside their marriage. The resource of the Internet has also offered them more venues through which to pursue fulfillment of their desires and fantasies.

hotwifeblog: Where does the lifestyle come from?
David: I argue in my book that there are lots of reasons for this phenomenon. For women, it is a means to explore the full reaches of their sexuality, safe within a marriage and with the knowledge that their sexual explorations will not cost them their husband. Sometimes, it is an avenue to explore male bisexuality, even if only vicariously through the wife’s adventures. It can also be a means in which men can “experience” the greater capacity of sexual fulfillment available to women, getting sexual excitement by watching their wife achieve greater sexual pleasure through the attentions of more than one man. Some men celebrate that they have a wife that other men want - they can even share their wife with other men, and enjoy the admiration and envy they get for having such a sexy and uninhibited wife. Some of the men I interviewed talked about feeling like they are a “king” with something other men want (some women talk about the feeling of being a “queen” desired by so many men and so powerful in holding that desire). Some men, as in the story of Lady Chatterley’s Lover, have physiological difficulties satisfying their wife sexually, and do not want her to “lose out as a result.”

hotwifeblog: How do we end up with this kink?
David: I think there is a lot of biology at play here, in different ways. Our brain chemistry changes over the course of a relationship. When we first start a sexual relationship, we are driven by our neurochemicals to have lots and lots of sex, and think about our partner all day long. After a few months though, those chemicals subside, and our sexuality changes somewhat, becoming more nurturing and bit less passionate. But, when we start a relationship with other people, those early exciting neurochemicals roar back at full strength. When the wife goes off with another man, she then brings that chemical excitement back to her husband, and her primary relationship.

hotwifeblog: Do you think exposure to the lifestyle at an early age has made cuckoldry stronger for men than if they found it say recently?
David: I saw more men who had these desires from an early age, and who experienced them quite strongly, and relatively fewer men who had the desires emerge suddenly. The common fantasy is that the husband finds the wife being unfaithful, and finds himself surprisingly aroused by it. But the great majority of the couples I saw intentionally began their sexual explorations at the initiation of the husband, based upon long-standing desires he had to see his women, and especially his wife, enjoy sex with another man.

hotwifeblog: We get a lot of regular guys out there, even regular guys that swing, that can’t seem to understand that we enjoy our wives/girlfriends behaving like sluts. Are we that different to conventionally minded men?
David: I think this is a fascinating question, and one that isn’t really answered. I argue in my book that the things that underlie these desires are basic, natural parts of human sexuality that are just taken to an extreme by men who pursue hotwifing or cuckoldry. But why and how these men end up going to these extremes is still something of a mystery. Hopefully, my book will start some questions and research into this area.

hotwifeblog: How would you say guys into this lifestyle are able to control the jealousy emotion in their minds that so many men would never be able to do?
David: First, I think that the jealousy is often still there, but comes out in their sexual excitement, rather than through fear or anger. But more so, I see that these men and couples have developed high levels of communication, and learned to talk about situations that would trigger jealousy, then either avoid them or manage them. And some people seem to just be immune to jealousy, either by virtue of their own personality, or by their confidence in the security of their relationship and the love they share with their wives.

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
David: I think another form of biology is involved here, that of sperm competition. Sperm competition is a theory of evolutionary sexuality based on the theory that male sexual biology responds to the risk of cuckoldry with increased sexual energy and by ejaculating more sperm behave more aggressively, in order to combat the sperm of another man. A case in point - the overwhelming male fantasy is for a threesome with two females, but surprisingly, research shows that the overwhelming image present in pornography is a single woman with multiple males. Why? Because when a man watches pornography with multiple men and a single woman, his ejaculate contains more sperm, he ejaculates harder and longer and, is more disposed to become erect again and ejaculate again. Hotwife and cuckold couples have unconsciously found ways to use that biological mechanism in order to trigger enormous sexual excitement in their primary relationship, as the husband’s sexual chemistry is kicked into overdrive by his wife’s sexual explorations with another man. At the same time, the wife is often more orgasmic with a man other than her husband, as her body reacts with physiological excitement to the possibility of becoming pregnant by another man.

hotwifeblog: Do you think women have this lifestyle within them or are they driven to it and adapt to it by the freedom their partners give them?
David: Female sexual capacity is infinitely greater than male sexuality. A woman can have as many as fifty orgasms in an hour; a man is limited to at most three or four. But society has condemned and constrained female sexuality for millennia, and it is only in cultures where women had economic power that women could resist those constraints upon their sexuality. In our society, it has been the rare woman who innately embraces the full capacity of her sexuality, and explores it outside social dictates regarding monogamy, and being “proper.” Most, but not all, of these couples start on the path of hotwifing at the husband’s initiation. But, as the wives explore the sexual and personal freedoms in it, many of them enjoy the ability to reject the social pressures upon their sexuality that they have experienced throughout their lives, and embrace the opportunity to pursue unrestrained sexual explorations with other men.

hotwifeblog: Do you think all or most women have potential to live life as a hotwife?
David: I saw a lot of men who desired to find ways to turn their wives into hotwives. But women are under intense social pressures from an early age, telling them to be “nice,” to suppress their sexuality, and to avoid ever being a “slut.” This history of pressure is difficult for most women or couples to overcome. Also, while many women enjoy casual sex, few women truly embrace the exploration of casual sex, even with the support and encouragement of their husband – the social conditioning is just too strong. And, for some women, even sexually liberated women, this lifestyle just doesn’t fit their desires for intimacy.

hotwifeblog: How did you yourself find an interest in the lifestyle?
David: I have worked with sexuality and counseling throughout much of my career, but most of it focused upon unhealthy aspects of sexuality. Gradually, I found that there were lots of people quietly exploring aspects of sexuality that people judged as unhealthy, just because they were rare or uncommon, not because anyone was getting hurt or because there were issues of nonconsent. When I first met some people living the hotwife lifestyle, I confess that I initially thought that their lifestyle must be unhealthy, or damaging to their relationship. When I found that my initial assumptions were ungrounded, I became fascinated that people were healthily living a lifestyle that rejected so many strong social taboos. The more I learned, the more fascinated I became, as I found how much the lifestyle had to say about human sexuality and marriage in general.

hotwifeblog: Do you have any personal cuck feelings lurking within?
David: Everybody asks whether I wrote this book about my own sexuality. What I found is that cuckoldry has been involved in human sexuality throughout our evolution. Sure, I found some of the stories these couples told me to be quite arousing. As a man, I have always found female sexuality very alluring, and sexually confident women to be extremely attractive. Having learned more about female sexuality in the course of this book, my admiration for female eroticism has grown.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever been in a relationship that was this way inclined?
David: My wife and I have been married for ten years. She has always joked about her one day having a harem of husbands. At least, before I wrote this book, I always thought she was joking. Now I’m not so sure. Having written this book, I find that I’m no longer so threatened by that idea. If these other husbands came with some useful skills, like being a gourmet chef who loves to do yard work for instance, I might even be willing to consider the possibility.

hotwifeblog: Do you really think people can live this lifestyle and still have a healthy marriage?
David: Ultimately, I think that the core components of a healthy relationship, such as good communication, trust, mutual respect, and mutual support, can be implemented in a monogamous or nonmonogamous marriage. I saw several couples who had been happily married for over thirty years, who were pursuing hotwife encounters. I also saw some who got into hotwifing, and got in over their heads pretty quickly, and watched their marriages fall apart. The differences, I think, go back to the health and strength of the relationship’s foundation. With a healthy foundation, couples can explore beyond a lot of boundaries.

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out this lifestyle?
David: To be successful, I think couples have to communicate very carefully and clearly about their desires and needs. They shouldn’t try to sneak into this, or “set up” situations where the wife has sex with another man, without consent being established beforehand. Those are traps that will devastate trust in a marriage. I saw many women who simply couldn’t believe that their husbands really loved them, when they told their wives to be a slut with other men. Couples who explore this lifestyle have to work really hard to establish love, open communication and trust.

hotwifeblog: What is your next project?
David: Right now, I’m recruiting couples to appear in a documentary about hotwifing. It will be based on my book, and will explore the lives and sexual adventures of these couples. Like my book, the goal is to present these couples in an honest, respectful fashion, showing them as normal people exploring an extraordinary and exciting sexual lifestyle. If any of your readers are interested in being in the film, and I hope some of them are, they can contact me through my blog, at insatiablewives.wordpress.com

Insatiable Wives
You can order this book at Amazon here

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Side note: Regarding the book cover, here’s an interesting tale of what David told me about it’s background:
“It is a painting of a great story, the tale of the Greek king Candaules. Candaules had a beautiful wife of whom he was very proud. So, he got his friend Gyges to hide in the bedroom while she undressed, so that he could see her beauty. Unfortunately, the wife saw Gyges, and went to him the next day. She told Gyges that due to this shameful act, Gyges either had to kill himself, or conspire with her to kill Candaules. Gyges pragmatically decided it was better to be king than be dead, and so he killed Candaules, took the beautiful Queen as his own, and took over the throne. The story is told by Greek historians as a cautionary tale of the dangers of sharing your wife with other men-you will lose her, lose all that you have, and maybe even lose your life.”

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Interview by: Trash

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November 22, 2009

Cuckold Rick Interviewed

Over the next week or so we have a couple of posts that look into the male mind with regards to their side of a cukold relationship. I always find it fascinating how different we all are with our niche tastes within this lifestyle - the key core being the same, loving the fact our wives and girlfriends are getting fucked by other men.

So the first of those posts is today. Rick is a cuckold, he is also husband of the delectable Katie Kox. I have had the pleasure of meeting up with Rick a few times both in the UK, in LA and in Vegas where he lives with his wife. The thing I love about Vegas is the underbelly of sleaze that seems to shine through those bright City lights, also it seems to be a place where deviants gather to go, have fun and sin. So there’s no coincidence Rick has ended up living there, he is living the dream cuckold lifestyle, with a beautiful wife.

Thanks for the interview Rick and answering so frankly and honestly about your private life. It really is great to have your perspective on this crazy lifestyle we love so much.

Katie Kox

hotwifeblog: Hey Rick, Thanks for agreeing to be interviewed on hotwifeblog.com, it’s always very interesting to get the male perspective on living the hotwife and cuckold lifestyle.
Rick: Thanks for having me :)

hotwifeblog: So you now live in Vegas with hotwife Katie Kox but you’re actually a fellow British chap like myself (guess we’re a nation of perverts lol). How are you finding life over in the States?
Rick: I love it here. I moved to America 10 years ago and have never looked back. I especially love living in Las Vegas, it’s a trip for sure.

hotwifeblog: Do you miss anything about British culture?
Rick: Not really… Marmite maybe LOL. I do think that more women in the UK wear stockings for everyday wear than in America and being huge fan of stockings I guess I miss that. Like when you’re on a train and there’s a women sitting there with hot legs and you’re trying to catch a glimpse to see if she’s wearing stockings or not… Like you said ‘A Nation Of Perverts”

hotwifeblog: Yep had that on Friday on a train on the way to London.. and she was :) … How old are you Rick?
Rick: 37

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Rick: I’m obsessive compulsive, geeky, sexually cuckold, and a bit of a space cadet. I can get my head around technology with ease but have a hard time finding my way home.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been married to Katie?
Rick: Just over a year :)

hotwifeblog: How would you describe your marriage and lifestyle?
Rick: Our marriage is tight. We are best friends, business partners and still can’t keep our hands off of each other. Our life style is a little crazy. Katie is a full blown Hotwife with the sexual freedom to fuck whomever she wants whenever she wants, regardless off how I feel. I on the other hand am completely cuckold. I remain 100% faithful to her and am totally turned on by her being a slut.

We started our site as a hobby to document our crazy sex life and now one year later we have quit our day jobs and are both full time pornographers. I am now a porn director for KatieKox.com and our new site DirtyHardDrive.com and while Katie obviously stars in those sites she is also signed to LA Direct and performs for companies like Brazzers, Porn Pros, Evil Angel and Hustler. So basically our lifestyle revolves around her fucking a lot.

hotwifeblog: When Katie has a date do you like to stay at home and think about it, watch her, or do you like to participate? or a mix of them all?
Rick: I like a little bit of everything. Sometimes I participate, sometimes I just watch and sometimes I just wait at home. It’s all hot. Her getting turned on is what turns me on. These days I seem to get off the most when Katie goes off on a date on her own and I wait at home for her to return after a night of adultery. My mind goes crazy thinking about what she’s up to. As soon as she walks through the door we fuck like crazy.

hotwifeblog: How did you become a cuckold and develop feelings for this kink?
Rick: I’ve always believed that there are certain ‘triggers’ early on in your life that develop your sexual tastes. Mine kinda got hard wired early on by a bunch of things but I think the final nail in the coffin of my development happened when I was about 16. My girlfriend at the time went on vacation to Greece with some friends and I missed her like crazy. When she returned she broke up with me and I was pretty devastated. I later found out from her friend who went to Greece with her that she fucked two brothers at the same time while she was out there. It totally tripped me out and I was so hurt by it. I found myself thinking about it more and more. More and more and more and more. Until the point where I was thinking about it while I was masturbating. I knew at that point that I could only ever be with a slut.

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that were cuckold based?
Rick: All of my relationships since my teens have been cuckold based. I knew nothing else would ever satisfy me and always gravitated to slutty women, strippers, hookers etc..

hotwifeblog: So you think your exposure to the lifestyle at an early age has made this certain kink stronger in your mind than if you found it say 10 years later?
Rick: For sure. I came to understand the following through therapy: If you have a fantasy that you think about every time you ejaculate when masturbating you become really good at connecting that mental picture with the physical act. You essentially hardwire your kink. So as time goes on it becomes who you are as opposed to something you just think about.

hotwifeblog: In what way would you say you’re able to control the jealousy emotion in your mind that so many men would never be able to do?
Rick: Jealousy is what turns me on. Its a basic human emotion that most people just don’t understand. When primal beings are confronted with something they don’t understand they often lash out with anger. It’s caveman 101.

I’ve heard this explanation for a emotional response of a cuckold… The natural law of survival provides us with jealousy. This means that if another man fucks your girl you will get jealous. This natural response is reminding you how bad you want your girl so that you fuck her and insure your sperm is dominant and not another mans.

I don’t think I explained that very well but you get the idea… Basically instead of letting my jealousy twist me up I embrace it and it heightens my desire for my girl to a fever pitch.

hotwifeblog: What do like most about your lifestyle?
Rick: My wife being a black cock whore.

hotwifeblog: What do you find most sexy about your wife?
Rick: Wow… the list goes on and on, her eyes, her legs, her tits, her lips, her pussy. But I have to admit her craving BBC drives me insane with lust.

hotwifeblog: Does Katie ever compare your performance to any of the other men she ’s slept with?
Rick: She tells me that I am an amazing fuck and that she loves sex with me. I know it’s different when you love someone but I can’t help but feel that when she is with one of her favorite studs the sex is mind blowing for her. A part of that may be the fact that she knows how much she is turning me on watching which in turn turns her on.

hotwifeblog: What’s it like to see Katie with another man?
Rick: Depends on the man. If it’s with a guy that is giving her great sex then it is mind blowing. If its with a guy who just isn’t doing it for her then it’s kind of weird and a little icky.

hotwifeblog: What’s the most exciting thing your wife has done sexually?
Rick: Wow that’s tough.. have you seen her site? lol

hotwifeblog: What type of women are you attracted to?
Rick: Sluts, BBC whores, prostitutes, confident women, women who ooze feminine sexuality and chicks with big tits. Am I shallow? lol

hotwifeblog: lol… What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Rick: lol… um… I’ll throw a couple out there and you can decide.. I had sex with my ex on a rotating bed on stage in front of about 400 people in Rotterdam. I was once chained to the bed and gagged with a cell phone next to me while an ex got ready for her date, went on it, had the phone on the whole time then came home to me and told me every last detail before untying me and I was once arrested wearing a CB3000
- that sucked.

hotwifeblog: omg I can imagine lol… Any fetishes you’re into?
Rick: I love being made jealous, I love women in stockings and I love love love white women with black men. To me it just seems right.

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Rick: Submissive to white sluts and their black masters.

hotwifeblog: Does Katie take a Femdom role over you at all?
Rick: Yes. She lets me know my place when she’s with a guy she likes.

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you like to see Katie wear when she goes out to pull?
Rick: STOCKINGS!! There’s something so feminine about them. No knickers, low cut tops, high heels, anything slutty that says fuck me :)

hotwifeblog: Do you help find Katie’s sexual partners?
Rick: For sure. I feel like its part of my duty as a loving cuckold husband.

hotwifeblog: There’s a lot of interest in creampies in the hotwife lifestyle. Do they turn you on?
Rick: Yes. it’s weird but I could never lick a white mans cum out of my wife’s pussy, only black mens. There’s something so dominant about black men that turns me and Katie on so much that I completely buckle and become 100% submissive to Katie and her guys.

hotwifeblog: So you have ‘cleaned up’ Katie after she’s had someone cum inside her?
Rick: Yes sir.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever fucked Katie after she’s had someone cum inside her?
Rick: Many times.. it’s one of our favorite things. It makes me cum so hard and she loves the feeling of having two loads in her :)

hotwifeblog: Tell us about a recent experience of Katie’s you particularly enjoyed?
Rick: We were recently at a gig at a strip club in Vegas. Katie got paid to hang out, meet fans and sign autographs. A couple of times she was asked by the organizers to go back into the really quiet VIP area for some pics. Things got crazier and crazier back there every time she went. I went back to investigate and found Katie on all fours blowing this black guy she had just met while a photographer was snapping away. I sat down in the corner and watched for about half an hour while my wife drained his balls. She then came over and gave me a big kiss and then went back to the front of the club where she sat for the rest of the gig next to the guy she just blew with his arm around her like she was his girlfriend while I just sat on the couch a couple of spots down from them. It turned me on so fucking much, I loved it. The next day the organizers of the event blew up our phone demanding we don’t use the pics or the club will be closed down. We haven’t used them….. yet.

hotwifeblog: What input do you have on Katie’s website?
Rick: I designed the layout, do all the directing, all the graphics, all the pics and handle all the tech aspects of it. So basically everything behind the camera. As for the scenarios, Katie and I usually come up with those based on our fantasies together.

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding the website?
Rick: Well since starting it just over a year ago as a hobby we have quit our day jobs and become full time on it. The website is constantly growing based on fan feedback. We recently added a forum and we are going to start doing live cam shows pretty soon for our members. But I guess the big news is that we are about to launch a whole new website called DirtyHardDrive.com that will be a little less niche and allow us to go into all of our hardcore fantasies. Dirty Hard Drive will also be an all access pass network that once you join you will get access to all Katies site too, all of Dirty Hard Drive and some other sites coming soon. We are really excited about our network and cant wait to see where the next year takes us.

hotwifeblog: And lastly Rick, so many male readers here would love to be in your place. What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out this lifestyle?
Rick: Honesty is key. Not only with each other but with yourself too. HONESTY AND COMMUNICATION.

hotwifeblog: Thank you Rick, give our love to the gorgeous Katie and make sure she keeps posting here!

Katie Kox

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November 6, 2009

Jinxypie Interviewed

As promised last month I have the interview you’ve all been waiting for. Even since I can across this beauty from North Carolina I’ve been dying to find out more about her. Every time I see a picture or video of the amazing Jinxypie, my mind becomes a horny mess. She is a very sexy girl and she has such a sweet and innocent look about her you would never believe what a sexual creature she really is.

For the last year and a half Jinxypie has been embarking on a sexual mission of discovery and cuckolding her husband and treating him to a steady stream of her tales of new lovers and variety of cock. She meets guys on the Internet and films them for her website often with the camera in the corner of the room. It’s raw, it’s real and it’s very very horny.

I think that’s what really does it as far as her appeal goes, it’s the normality of it all, this could be a girl that lives down your street. I love the way she posts normal, everyday pictures on her site such as a simple day in the park, dressed like a normal girl would and not provocatively for the sake of it.

Thanks for the interview Jinxypie. We love you, you’re a true star and I know you going to be a very popular girl on these pages from this day on.

Jinxypie

hotwifeblog: Hey Jinxypie, So great to be able to interview you for Hotwifeblog. I’m very excited. Let’s start on your home town.. North Carolina? Correct?
Jinxypie: Yes, North Carolina, United States.

hotwifeblog: And how old are you Jinxy?
Jinxypie: 30

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Jinxypie: 5ft 3inches

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Jinxypie: Blue

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Jinxypie: Brown

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Jinxypie: Only my ears are pierced

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Jinxypie: Friendly, caring, flirty, witty, confident.

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Jinxypie: Webmistress - I develop and maintain websites.

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Jinxypie: At a previous place of employment 

hotwifeblog: How long have you been married?
Jinxypie: 2 years

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man?
Jinxypie: I do, but I had suppressed them for many years.

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Jinxypie: My husband actually brought this up. He has been a cuckold his entire adult life, so after we were married he and I started having the discussions, wanting to figure out if this is a step we wanted to take. He knew that he wouldn’t be able to satisfy me the way I need, so naturally he wanted me to take on other lovers.

hotwifeblog: What was your first hotwife experience like?
Jinxypie: A little “out of character” for me at the time, I guess. I used to be the type of person that needed to feel really comfortable with someone before meeting them. One random Sunday morning I was chatting with a guy that lived close by, and he invited me over. “Now or never” I thought, so I told him I would be there soon. I talked to my cuck about what I was going to do, where I was going, etc, and he helped me get ready to go. During the drive there I was really nervous, but once I got there and said “hello” it didn’t take long for us to have our hands all over each other. After we finished, I went home and told my cuck everything that happened. Seeing his excitement over what had just happened and feeling the rush of emotions along with him was like magic, I really wanted to experience this again and again…

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Jinxypie: The freedom to do what I want at the moment I want to. The power I feel when the animalistic urge for sex comes over me and I have to find a big cock for my pussy, knowing my husband just won’t do. The attention it seems to draw from men and even some women, curious to have a relationship like this of their own. But most of all I love the look on my husband’s face when he is watching me get pounded by some guy that wants my pussy as bad as I want him to fuck me with his dick. The look of love and satisfaction, he’s done his job as a cuckold husband, making sure his wife is getting the pleasure she deserves.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Jinxypie: About a year and a half, and I have no plans of stopping!

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Jinxypie: One reason I think men get so excited seeing their woman with another man is, when they themselves are the one doing the fucking, they can’t fully focus on every movement and facial expression made by their woman. If you’re on the sidelines watching, you can drink it all in – every touch between the two, every smile, every happy sigh and every pleasure filled moan. You will see the satisfaction.

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Jinxypie: I wouldn’t go so far as to say I’m an exhibitionist, although sometimes I do have exhibitionist tendencies. I’m a little freaked out by public nudity, but do like to draw attention – usually not by being loud or obnoxious.

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for?
Jinxypie: Interesting question. If you’re talking about the qualities a man needs in order for me to be attracted to him, then he needs to be able to carry on a conversation that isn’t about sex. I like intelligent men, but if they flaunt it then I’m totally turned off and have even gone so far to tell some men to cool it. But, if you’re asking about men that I have sex with, I prefer confident men (but not cocky), men that don’t have to “feel a connection” to know two people can have hot sex and be OK with it, men that keep themselves in decent shape and are attractive. I’m just saying they don’t all have to be scholars. Even dumb guys can fuck, right? ;)

hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Jinxypie: 32

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Jinxypie: Well, there was a plan for it, but it fell through. I have had 2 threesomes though.

hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Jinxypie: Size, well, since I cuckold my husband, size obviously does matter a bit. I’m not a “size queen” though, I won’t ONLY fuck men of a certain length/girth, but the men I see should be bigger than my cuck husband and should be able to use their penis properly!

hotwifeblog: Do you have a preference of black or white lovers?
Jinxypie: I do not have a preference. I have been satisfied by both black and white lovers.

hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Jinxypie: I do, but I want a new one. I’ve been trying to find a jeweler to make a custom cuckolding charm for me, but no luck so far. Maybe I’ll get into jewelry making and just do it myself, haha

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Jinxypie: Well, cuckolding is an obvious one. I also have a bit of a foot fetish, as well as one for socks/stockings. There has also been a little bit of experimentation with insertion.

hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Jinxypie: Gotta be the insertion stuff… putting things where they don’t belong!

hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, clubs or through friends?
Jinxypie: Internet, through various forums and message boards or directly through my website. Believe it or not, every time I’ve went to a club/bar I’ve struck out! 

hotwifeblog: When you have a ‘date’ with a lover does your husband like to stay at home and let you be alone with the guy, watch you, or participate sexually? or a mix of them all?
Jinxypie: Most of the time he’s watching the kids, so he’s at home. On rare occasions that my lover and I want my cuck in the room, he’s there taking pictures and video, and listening to me tell him how much better the other man is than him. He doesn’t ever get to participate sexually when I’m with a lover.

hotwifeblog: Does your husband swing as well or remain faithful to you?
Jinxypie: He is faithful to me, he is not interested in swinging. To be quite honest, I’m sure I would be extremely jealous if he wanted to have sex with another woman.

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Jinxypie: Most of the time, sex for us isn’t “normal” sex, we lie in bed and talk while he jerks off. I talk about sexual encounters I have had, men I’ve been with, what I would like to happen in the future, amongst other things. I do occasionally let him have sex with me, but that’s more for his benefit, or for me to tease him while he’s inside of me.

hotwifeblog: So you compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Jinxypie: All the time! He’s a cuckold.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a monogamous relationship if your husband ever suggested it?
Jinxypie: Yes, because my relationship with him is more important than anything… but I would fondly remember and talk about ‘the good old days’.

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Jinxypie: I’ve been told I’m a little submissive, but I personally like having some control in every encounter. I hate knowing I have no control in the matter.

hotwifeblog: Do you swallow?
Jinxypie: Nope, not something I’m in to yet.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Jinxypie: Absolutely

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received multiple creampie from different guys?
Jinxypie: Yes

hotwifeblog: Have you ever had anyone clean you up orally after receiving a creampie?
Jinxypie: I have, my cuck husband

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Jinxypie: He does, it’s one of the best times to talk to him about how pathetic his tiny penis is and how it can’t satisfy me like I need.

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to eat creampie?
Jinxypie: Yes, most cucks do.

hotwifeblog: Since having your website, have you ever been recognised by anyone who knew you were a hotwife?
Jinxypie: Haha, only by someone in the grocery store that is a member of my website. He sent me an email after the fact though, he didn’t approach me in person.

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Jinxypie: I do like dancing and photography and music, and I have a large family that needs my attention. I also have a freelance web and graphics design business with my husband that takes up a lot of time.

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Jinxypie: If you’re a man that would enjoy seeing your wife take on other lovers or if you’re a wife interested in becoming a hotwife, I want to stress that communication is KEY in these types of relationships. When you block off communication or hide your feelings from one another, you’re really setting yourself up for failure. The more honest and open you are with your significant other, the easier it will be to talk about hotwifing or swinging (or cuckolding), and the more you’ll feel good about doing it. Sure, everyone screws up once in a while, and nobody gets it perfect the first time, but if you never talk about it, then you’ll never be OK with it actually happening.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Jinxypie: Well, I update pictures and videos about 3 times a week, so there’s always something to look at. I do website chats twice a week and a video stream usually once a week so people can watch what I’m doing as I chat with them. If you’re a cuckold and want me to do a video specifically for you, there’s a place to submit your pictures and info for that. You can also make suggestions for a specific idea (certain outfit or place to take pictures, specific scene you’d like to see in a video) and I try to make it happen. I’m all about trying to please the “fans”!

hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Jinxypie: I’m going on the road! The first of my trips is in Greensboro, NC, and I will be taking on a cuck or two from the town. I’m choosing a bunch of guys to have sex with in front of the cuck while he takes pictures and video, which will be uploaded within 4 hours of the session. I’m really excited about this trip, because if it’s successful it will open the door for trips around the US, and around the world!

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Jinxypie: Just keep steady in my mission to “educate” those that are unfamiliar with cuckolding. Many see it as a fetish where the woman/cuckoldress is mean to her cuck and that’s not always the case. Also men and women send me questions on how to get their significant other into this type of lifestyle. I answer those questions and post on my blog… there’s a lot of advice there. I’m going to continue to cuckold my husband by seeing as many men that I can fit into my schedule, and I plan to attend some swinger events in the near future!

hotwifeblog: Thank you Jinxypie, I wish you all the best to the both of you for the future :)

Jinxypie

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October 23, 2009

Nichole Wet Interviewed

Recently one of our good readers Ken asked me if I’d be interested in him interviewing a woman on my behalf. He recently come across the delightful Nichole. Although now divorced Nichole currently describes herself as a “polyamorous female in a hedonistic lifestyle”. She, very much like Jan B, encourages different men to come and play the role of her Cuckold and serve her and the men she fucks. Knowing Ken’s mind and seeing his comments over the years I knew he’s be able to throw a different angle on his approach with the questions. Thanks for this interview and your work Ken, Nichole is a great find. Keep up the great work on looking out for new and interesting women that we need on this blog.

Nichole

Ken for hotwifeblog: You didn’t start out into black men. When did you have inkling that you might be a slut for BBC?
Nichole: You are right, I didn’t start out dating BBC. I went out with my first black man about 2 1/2 years ago.

Ken for hotwifeblog: After your divorce?
Nichole: Yes

Ken for hotwifeblog: So, had the curiosity been brewing for awhile?
Nichole: You have to understand that I grew up in an area where there were no black people. I had a hard time understanding why that was so as I was growing up. When I went into the Air Force, I starting recognizing black men, but didn’t date any. Not sure why. I remember always noticing them. And if I were at a club and dancing, they were the guys to dance with! I was engaged or married most of time from high school. All to Caucasians. I didn’t fool around, and was very loyal. So, until my divorce, I really didn’t explore. I didn’t think about it until I was asked out and even at that point I didn’t necessarily ’see’ any skin difference. I just looked at the person… handsome? polite? educated? well spoken? etc… It wasn’t until I had been to several swinger parties, etc. that I started noticing a difference. It’s hard to explain. It’s not just cock size. Although there are benefits of that! ;-)

Ken for hotwifeblog: What else do you think it might be?
Nichole: Well, at least for me, black men had this sense of calm (or chill). So now when I’m in a room of black and white men, the differences between them is noticeable. (laughs) Now, I’m more black man “aware”, how they behave toward me, each other, and especially how they are built.

Ken for hotwifeblog: What’s different about their behavior?
Nichole: I’ve noticed black men have this bond with each other when they socialize. They are more open and friendly; more self-assured and direct. There’s this closeness they have, like a family, even though they might not know each other. Maybe it’s a kind of fraternity; I didn’t expect that and its nice to see. At parties, when people are mingling and checking each other out, there always some awkwardness and hesitation at first. But black men don’t seem to fear rejection, they don’t push up on you as much and if you signal you’re not interested, they don’t lose their cool or make you feel they’re offended when you say “No, Thanks”.

The white guys don’t socialize like that; even if they know some of the other men at the party. They keep to themselves more. They need a lot more reassurance and can come off too ‘cocky’ I know I’m generalizing and my expereince is limited to just the white and black men I’ve met, but I’d have to say honestly that’s how it seems to me.

Ken for hotwifeblog: Anything else?
Nichole: (laughs) Wow I could go on for hours about black men. Another thing, at least for me, most of black guys in the lifestyle I’ve met have great bods. Lots of six pack abs, strong shoulders, forearms, and legs. Maybe its because I work out and stay in shape, but by comparison with white guys the same age, height, weight, etc. black men have pretty good bodies. And they tend to be younger; white guys in the life style are older and many don’t seem to stay in shape. If you do come across a white guy with a really hot body, typically they have an ego to match. Much like really hot women; the ones men howl about and drool over. Also, black men know how to talk to women. They come on differently, life style men are really direct and suggestive toward women, but it’s not vulgar or crude. Sure at times, there’s a bit too much profanity and swearing which can be a big turn off if it’s not done at the right time. But honestly, black men can say things with their eyes, hands, lips, and tounge that that make me wet. Granted, most of it’s just flirting and talk, but it still sounds good. :-)

Ken for hotwifeblog: Can you give me an example?
Nichole: Sure. When you meet and they don’t know your name they always call you ‘baby’, ’sweetie’, or ‘honey’. They tell you how hot or beautiful they think you are. They definetly want a woman who has some ‘bounce’ to her, whether it’s in her hips, backsides (azz) or chest: they don’t want a Twiggy model.

Ken for hotwifeblog: What about cuckoldry?
Nichole: To me cuckoldry can be one of the purest forms of love between a husband and wife. The husband is giving his wife something that she should have, but society doesn’t typically allow. The stud is just a tool. The real relationship is with the husband and wife. Any BBC will work. But there needs to be surrender of the man to his wife’s needs. It’s about letting the BBC be in control, because he should be. The idea of a black stud saying to me, “face down, ass up” in my marital bedroom right in front of the man I love puts a huge smile on my face. Cuckoldry is about the husband giving his wife her freedom to be submissive to the man she wants to submit to.

Ken for hotwifeblog: So, the husband’s role is what exactly?
Nichole Wet: It’s like this. BBC fucks. BBC cums ropey streams of jism into you and it’s like they’re filling you with life. Husbands love and surrender. They help you spread your legs. They accept their role. And in accepting that role, they are sharing what women have always had to go through! It’s nice that she has an opportunity to transfer roles.

Ken for hotwifeblog: So, is it about humiliation?
Nichole: It depends, for some men it’s all about humilation. Others it’s more about voyeurism. Many cucks want to be humiliated. But cuckoldry can also be about two people sharing a process of submission to BBC together.

hotwifeblog: Which is it for you?
Nichole: Being a true romantic, the later option (not the humiliation) is best. Cuckoldry works best when it’s part of a romantic relationship which includes the typical things… flowers, candlelit dinners, walks while holding hands, trust, affection, sharing hopes and dreams, good and bad times. The poem ‘The Invitation’ is a perfect example of a deep relationship. “It doesn’t interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.” It’s just that I need a man who understands what BBC is for and why he needs to submit to it along with me.

Ken for hotwifeblog: Thank you for your time, Nichole. This has been very illuminating. And best of luck with your site.

Nichole

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Interview by: Ken - Hotwifeblog Reader

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June 5, 2009

Roxi Interviewed

Every so often I get to interview a hotwife that truly blows me out of the water. Exhibit A below is Roxi, this woman is not only a gorgeous hotwife living the lifestyle to the full. She’s also intelligent, articulate and knows what she wants sexually which is one thing I find so appealing about certain women in this lifestyle. The highlight for me had to be her answer about a man cumming inside of her as her favourite sexual act. And the kinky list… classic, loved it. So pleased you have found a man Roxi that can support you and share in this wonderful life you both have. Thanks for taking the time with this interview and I wish you lots of future happiness as a horny hotwife. Keep in touch…

Roxi

hotwifeblog: Welcome to Hotwifeblog Roxi!! Where about’s do you come from?
Roxi: The USA- wayyyyy down south! Louisiana, born and raised!

hotwifeblog: What’s your age?
Roxi: I will be 28 this year, I am a Gemini.

hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Roxi: 34 C cup in the tits, waist measures a sexy 27 inches, and my ass is a beautiful 38 inches!

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Roxi: 5 feet and 6 inches of woman! BUT, 5 ft. 5 and 1/2 inches if you want to get technical.

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Roxi: Very dark brown

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Roxi: Brown and natural

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Roxi: OF COURSE!!! Currently only sporting 14 piercings and 5 tats… more to come on the ink!

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Roxi: I am a Gemini, soooo you are dealing with a multi-faceted personality. I am very professional in the workplace. I love my family. And I am an artist. I am versatile. Well-read. AND totally trashy when the time is appropriate.. I associate with people from varying backgrounds, BUT few could imagine how I carry myself in my very active sex life.

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Roxi: Educator.

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Roxi: We belong to the same civic organization.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been married?
Roxi: We have been together for a total of 4 plus years and MARRIED for 10 months..

hotwifeblog: How would you describe your marriage and lifestyle?
Roxi: It’s a very beautiful marriage. We are on the same path spiritually. We are raising children. We are best friends. We are all about serving others in our community and loving our family. God-Family-Country.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man?
Roxi: Always. My past would illustrate that! Was probably a lot more of a cuckoldress, I relished fucking my bf’s friends and them knowing and not being able to stop me. But finally I have found a true-partner where EVERYTHING is honest, up front, and a turn-on to us both. I have finally cum into my own with my sexual lifestyle. My husband and I were put together for a reason! lol

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Roxi: Well, I didn’t know much about the terminology of “hotwife lifestyle” until I met my future hubbie. My first experience was when we were dating for about 4 months and we were discussing our fantasies together. I knew a guy that I wanted to fuck and he was up for the challenge. I told my husband who I wanted to fuck and he encouraged me. I thought, “Can this be real? I can say who I want to fuck and then actually go do it?” That first time with that strange cock in me was an unforgettable experience for all three of us!

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Roxi: That this is a lifestyle that is understood by few but enjoyed by many (now I know!).. AND that my husband and I can share every detail and love every ounce of our sex life without one lie or cover-up needed!

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Roxi: Over 4 years now.

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Roxi: I’m sure for some guys it might be some latent bisexual tendencies, the whole vicarious thing… for others it just boils down to a raw lust for their woman and wanting to see her in her most uninhibited animalistic state, wanting to see her sexual truth lived out….

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Roxi: Definitely.

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for?
Roxi: Someone who is comfortable in their own skin and carries themselves with an air of confidence (not cockiness).

hotwifeblog: What was your first hotwife experience like?
Roxi: I was nervous. I went over to his place and my future husband was out of town. I called him up when I arrived at the man’s house and let him know that I was there. This call also insured that the bull knew that my man knew I was about to get pounded. Then we went to the bed and I sucked his cock while leaving the phone on so that my man could hear every second of it. The young bull was soooooo turned on that it didn’t take him long before he shot his load all over my body. Then I told him goodbye and gathered my things and left so that I could tell my man allllll about it!

hotwifeblog: Do you have any bisexual tendencies?
Roxi: YES! YES! YES! I believe that will never change in me. I have yearned for pussy as long as I have yearned for cock.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Roxi: Yes.

hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Roxi: Too many to count black men in a hotel room once and another time with 3 black men on a barber’s chair.

hotwifeblog: I’m impressed Roxi… Does size matter to you?
Roxi: I love big cocks and I love to see how much I can take down my throat and in my cunt.

hotwifeblog: Do you have a preference of black or white lovers?
Roxi: I do not discriminate.

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you like to wear in general and in the bedroom?
Roxi: Sometimes fun costumes and lingerie– mostly black/red/white. But when it comes down to it, that gets in the way! JUST FLESH ON FLESH is the best!

hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Roxi: Not currently.

hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Roxi: It is a toss-up between GIVING oral sex or a man cumming inside of me.

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Roxi: Fucking other women with a strap-on. Men fucking fake pussies, trees, and other non-traditional holes. Some golden shower activities. Spanking. Bondage. Pain mixed with pleasure. I will stop here, because I could ramble on forever.

hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Roxi: You be the judge:

1.) At a young age, seducing my mother’s classmate for money and trips and alcohol… and succeeding.

2.) When home alone using honey on my clit to entice ________.

3.) Sneaking out with older men in Middle School and High School.

4.) Stripping down to panties and bra at a concert in a small town just to have my first kiss with a girl at age 13.

Hmmm…. I could go on forever.

hotwifeblog: Wow and I could listen to them forever. You’re fantastic…. Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, clubs or through friends?
Roxi: All of the above.

hotwifeblog: What role does your husband play in your lifestyle?
Roxi: Chief architect, salesman, manipulator, cameraman, author, bodyguard, bouncer, toe sucker, spit roaster…..

hotwifeblog: Does your husband swing as well or remain faithful to you?
Roxi: We are very faithful to one another. Our marriage comes first. Our lifestyle is shared and enjoyed by us both.. But, the question was does he swing? No.. He is very involved in various ways with my swinging and adventures!

hotwifeblog: Do you enjoy him watching you?
Roxi: Yes, but only when the fantasy calls for it, sometimes, especially when it is a brand new bull it is wayyyy hotter to go alone and come home with a pussy full of cum…

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Roxi: At LEAST once everyday that we are home together. We love fucking each other and playing with one another.

hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Roxi: Yes.

hotwifeblog: Do you have a hotwife/cuckold relationship with your husband?
Roxi: Hotwife relationship. We do have cuckold fantasies, but have lived them out minimally. We do play and enjoy the idea. When the time is right, we may play in that arena, too.

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Roxi: I am both. It depends on the situation and my mood.

hotwifeblog: Do you swallow?
Roxi: Doesn’t everyone???

hotwifeblog: So you mentioned internal cumshots, you’ve obviously had a fair share from boyfriends?
Roxi: Fuck yeah

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received multiple creampie from different guys?
Roxi: Fuck yeah, again

hotwifeblog: Have you ever had anyone clean you up orally after receiving a creampie?
Roxi: YES! YES! and YES!

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Roxi: Yes and I do, too!

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to eat creampie?
Roxi: Its one of his favorite things!

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Roxi: Any situation where a hot, rich, mature man chooses me over his dull, boring humdrum wife/lover, because I am everything he wishes that she could/would be.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about one of your recent hotwife experiences?
Roxi: There are so many… I could tell you about taking a sexy older male coworker by force in his home…. or the young attorney from out of town who lasted for an hour and a half and came in me twice… or the hot local entrepreneur that I fucked and sucked and swallowed a few nights ago (I’m planning to attend an on premise club on this guys arm very soon)

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Roxi: Reading, art, family, yoga, exercising, eating foreign cuisine, learning about other cultures, watching films, theatre, boxing, watching MMA, conversations with interesting people– ESPECIALLY my husband!

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Roxi: Have fun but most importantly, COMMUNICATE EVERYTHING with your partner. Secrets will kill you. And make sure that your partner KNOWS that no matter what, the two of you are the important people to one another. Partners in the lifestyles are just partners and additions to the fun that you already have in your commitment.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about your niteflirt profile?
Roxi: It is a work in progress. There are a few pics and access to talk to me on the phone. Also, there are currently three video clips of me getting fucked by my two favorite bulls. There is MUCH MUCH more to cum to my little niteflirt profile!!! Paramount to any of this is my love for discussing my hotwife lifestyle… I truly want to share my adventures with anyone who’ll listen as love as spinning sensual tales for those who need a little help jump starting their imagination.

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Roxi: Attendance at clubs and swinger functions. Additions to our home video collection! More fantasies to be fulfilled. Hopefully, meeting more beautiful people in the lifestyle and have some time to travel to meet some of you!

hotwifeblog: WOW That was hot Roxi, you’re one hell of a woman and your husband is one lucky man. I need a cold shower now lol. Keep in touch lovely..
Roxi: Thank you, Trash, for making this site available for all of us to cum together and share so much xoxoxoxo

Roxi

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You can meet up with Roxi on hotwifedating.com - Her Profile

Interview by: Trash

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