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November 30, 2012

Lola Interviewed

Here’s an interview with a very interesting Hotwife who I’ve been chatting to lately. She’s been busy having lots of fun with guys and writing her exploits on a blog ‘The Trials and Tribulations of Life with a Nymphomaniac’ Sounds like an amazing life… It’s great to know you Lola.

Lola’s also on hotwife hub - profile here - make sure you log in and say hi!

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hotwifeblog: Hiya Lola, thanks for doing the Hotwife Blog interview. Tell us where you’re from?
Lola: East US

hotwifeblog: What is your age?
Lola: Timeless! – Forever 25.

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Lola: Dark

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Lola: Ears, nose and none

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Lola: Always ready, always eager, never satisfied.

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Lola: Sexuality counselor, muse.

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your boyfriend?
Lola: Teacher’s pet.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been together?
Lola: Feels like three days. . . under water. No, seriously.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies – the need to be with more than one man – or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Lola: The latter. Despite what HH says, being with him has vastly expanded my horizons - among other things ;)

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Lola: Thinking, watching, trying, repeat.

hotwifeblog: Was this lifestyle choice first suggested by your boyfriend? How did it make you feel – the thought of embarking of a life having sex with men outside of your relationship?
Lola: It was a mutual fantasy that surfaced between us in bed. And it’s exciting!

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Lola: Because actually wanting women to experience pleasure for themselves is taboo, unfortunately, and therefore appealing. [Note from HH – I find other guys finding my gf incredibly attractive makes her even more attractive. And seeing her seduce them seduces me all the more.]

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Lola: Cock!

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Lola: 2 years.

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Lola: Monogamous. Shmonogamous.

hotwifeblog: And during those previous monogamous relationships were you tempted to stray or did you cheat at all on your partner?
Lola: Yes and yes.

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Lola: Yes!

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? What are attracted to?
Lola: Strong, older, young looking, Dads, multitalented in bed and elsewhere. The roar of a four-stroke is always a turn-on.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about your first hotwife experience?
Lola: In a car, two men and me, cops show up. No biggie lol

hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Lola: Not enough

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Lola: Guy? I want to see his cock – frequently!

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Lola: Honey, I’ll try anything thrice.

hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Lola: Where’s the shout out for the ladies?

hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Lola: Meters or feet, it better be fucking BIG!

hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Lola: No preference. Every single one must simply respect women at heart, understand “no” and be game to please!

hotwifeblog: Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Lola: What fun would everyday life be otherwise?

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Lola: Must I wear clothes?

hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Lola: All of the above.

hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Lola: Nah. I’m usually fucking them too.

hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your boyfriend participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Lola: All of the above.

hotwifeblog: Which of the above do you prefer when you’re with your lover, your boyfriend participating? have him watch you? or be alone with your date for some privacy?
Lola: I like it when he’s taking pics of me to put on the blog.

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your boyfriend?
Lola: As much as he can handle *not enough*.

hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your boyfriend’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Lola: Frequently, but the list is far too long to go through each time.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your boyfriend ever suggested it?
Lola: This was, in part, his fucking idea.

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Lola: Submissive when he is feeding me his cock. Dom, when I’m wearing mine.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Lola: Too difficult a question to answer.

hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
Lola: I prefer it all over my face.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Lola: Just one?

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Lola: I’m hoping it will come true in the next two weeks, so I don’t wanna jinx it by telling! Stay tuned on the blog and see if you can guess what it is.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about one of your recent hotwife experiences?
Lola: Martini, mustang, minidress. Enough said.

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Lola: Communicate openly and seriously ask yourselves what your level of trust is. Respect one another’s autonomy and emphasize equality, even if it looks like something superfreaky. Be safe, and have fun.

lola

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September 6, 2012

Ronja Fox Interviewed

Well here’s a post to get your blood pumping. Been trying to tie this Hotwife down for months to do the Hotwife Blog interview and finally we have it.

My favorite German creampie gangbang Queen of filth Ronja Fox reveals all to us. Wow what a lifestyle she leads. You’ll find it hard to find another Hotwife who goes to such extremes in her quest towards slutdom. We salute you Ronja.

Ronja Fox

Ronja Fox

hotwifeblog: Welcome Ronja, so excited to have you here for an interview. Where are you from?
Ronja: I come from South Germany from a City called Stuttgart

hotwifeblog: What is your age?
Ronja: I was born on 06th Dec 1984

hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Ronja: 100 – 80 – 100, I like my body! And I am proud not to be a thin thing. Everyone wants to be thin, but I want to be fit and shaped.

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Ronja: 174 cm

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Ronja: My eyes are brown and green

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Ronja: Red and blond

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Ronja: Yes, I have piercings on my pussy, I have four of them. Maybe I will get more.

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Ronja: I think I am a strong kind of girl. I am loud and I say what I want and what I have to say. I’m not one of those quiet, does what they are told kind of girls. I am interested in many things about the world. I don´t believe in God as a person, but I believe in a good power around us. The God power from within us. You can change the bad things into good things if you want. It is easy to believe in bad parts – it is not that easy to believe in the good parts of people. I am a very good friend and very loyal to my people. I want to respect the people and I wish they respect me, too.

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Ronja: I am an assistant in a office for telecommunication

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your boyfriend?
Ronja: I met my boyfriend through a mutual friend of ours. Her name is Christel. She is a black woman and very sweet.. She told me about Alex and we ended up having a horny threesome.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Ronja: Yes, I’ve always had an alternative attitude to sex and relationships. When I was a teenager I kept thinking about sex all the time. Already at that time I disliked condoms.

hotwifeblog: Was this lifestyle choice first suggested by your boyfriend? and how did it make you feel? the thought of embarking of a life having sex with men outside of your marriage?
Ronja: I think this lifestyle is within our nature. The nature of all the people in the world. My boyfriend is extreme too. But I cannot imagine to just have sex with only one man, with my boyfriend.. I want to be free.. I want to be free in my mind and in what I do. We are all free , but not everyone can deal with that. It is not easy to be cool in your life. You have to think about yourself everyday..

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Ronja: I think it is a primary instinct in all of us. We are only animals of the world with feelings, instinct, intelligence and the ability to communicate and the ability to have sex.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Ronja: For five years

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Ronja: I have always been doing what I want.

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Ronja: Yes, you bet!

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? are attracted to?
Ronja: Self-confident, humorous and natural guys, who don´t take themselves too seriously

hotwifeblog: Tell us about your first hotwife experience?
Ronja: I had a foursome with my friend and our boyfriends. This was seven years ago. It was our wish and we did it.. but after this my boyfriend at the time was angry with me so I guess that wasn’t meant to be.

hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Ronja: I don´t know. My boyfriend says it must be roundabout 1000, but we never really counted. It´s just a calculation.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Ronja: Basically I could imagine having a regular guy to fuck me outside of my relationship with my boyfriend and in addition to all the other guys, but he would have to stick to our rules and to meet our standards. These are e.g.: handsome face, well-shaped body, nice, hard big cock that gets good hard and which stands instantly without having me working on him too long. He must be reliable so he will appear at our dates, be discreet. He must not put up his own rules or demands, but stick to our rules. And he should be a nice and eloquent company so we could spend more time with him outside the bareback sex.

hotwifeblog: So you love your gangbangs then?
Ronja: Man, think about that question! You are talking to creampie-ronja. I believe to be – I am! - one of the hottest bareback-sluts around the world! I have been doing gangbangs without condoms about twice a month for more than 5 years now!

hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Ronja: It depends on whether Bukkake counts. If yes, it was around 150, If only fucking with cumshot inside my pussy counts there were 49 guys at a time, including my boyfriend. That happened in a porn theater we frequently use for our “activities”. Very often there are more than 30 men dumping their cum inside me, and always my boyfriend takes pictures or movies for our website.

hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Ronja: Yes. But the shape is also very important. Especially at my gangbangs, which we sometimes do very spontaneously, e.g. in a porn theater or on a lake shore, I need some nice cocks to make me hot, fill me first, before all of the other guys can fuck me. But first of all the cocks must be hard, I don’t want to take care of limp dicks. And those who have a really huge big cock should also wait until the first few fuckers have jizzed my pussy enough with their cum so she is nicely lubricated, because I do not want to get ripped up.

hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Ronja: I don’t discriminate at all, cock is cock. I fuck every nation or race, as long as the guy is cultivated.

hotwifeblog: Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Ronja: Sometimes. For me it is important that I am taken for serious in my everyday life by men. I am a slut with brains.

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Ronja: Nothing. Ha just kidding! I always wear sexy outfits which show off my body shape.

hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Ronja: No. What is it for? Is it a fetish?
hotwifeblog: Women who are in the lifestyle sometimes wear a chain around their ankle to show other men that they are an available woman.

hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Ronja: Mostly I like lying on my back, taking my knees up, so the guys can penetrate deeply and I can see their faces. But doggy style is also fine, especially if the faces are not so nice to look at haha.

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Ronja: When my butt, back and legs are massaged nicely, I can get very horny. I like handsome men and I like to be an exhibitionist. I like people watching me and having sex in public.

hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Ronja: Sometimes, at the end of a gangbang, I stick a hose into my ass with a funnel on the far side, where all those guys are invited to squirt their load into, who do not dare to fuck me. So all the cum comes running down into my ass.

hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Ronja: Through the internet.

hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Ronja: I receive a variety of reactions. Most admire my way of life and tell me they would love to do it like me, really! I rarely get direct negative reactions. Those who are jealous do not really admit that. You can tell it by their subtle negative and jealous behavior and, of course, by others telling me about it.

hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your boyfriend participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Ronja: As I am not interested in dating men without my boyfriend he is always present, sometimes passive, mostly active. When 20 or more guys fuck me, he first films the intercourse and in the end he loves to fuck my pussy where all the strangers had their blast before.

hotwifeblog: Which of the above do you prefer when you’re with your lover, your boyfriend participating? have him watch you? or be alone with your date for some privacy?
Ronja: Have my boyfriend participating. But sometimes I like when he has to watch me getting filled by a large number of males, before it is his turn.

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your boyfriend?
Ronja: It depends on our personal and job situation.

hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your boyfriend’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Ronja:The opposite. I compare the others with my boyfriend’s “performance”.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your boyfriend ever suggested it?
Ronja:Yes.

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Ronja: Mostly dominant, sometimes submissive.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Ronja:I prefer sucking strange cocks while my boyfriend is eating me out.

hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
Ronja: I swallow. But sometimes, just to see the dimension of the mess, I let it run down on my tits, or collect it in a bowl so the guys can empty it into my cunt or ass later…

hotwifeblog: So your boyfriend really likes to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Ronja: Yes, always!

hotwifeblog: Does your boyfriend like to go down on you after someone has cum inside you?
Ronja: Yes, but he discovered this obsession not long ago. Last year he lay underneath me while I was sucking his cock. A bunch of Turkish guys fucked me and filled my pussy. Suddenly a huge creampie came out of my pussy and as he could not escape and he was sucking my clit at that time, all ran down his throat. Later he told me it was not this bad, and ever since then he likes to do so at least once a week.

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Ronja: I don’t keep fantasies, I live them!

hotwifeblog: Tell us about one of your recent hotwife experiences?
Ronja: We were on a fetish event: Torture Ship. A ship on Lake Constance which bears lots of people in fetish outfits. The whole night long I got fucked by completely unknown men in the dark room without condoms. In the beginning my boyfriend was “busy” with two 21-year-old girls, of which he fucked one on the floor, while one man after another came inside me. Later he came over and lay underneath to get the creampie. I can’t wait until next year’s torture ship!

hotwifeblog: Since having your website, have you ever been recognized by anyone who knew you were a hotwife?
Ronja: That happens all the time!

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Ronja: Fitness and yachting with my boyfriend.

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Ronja: Just do it! You can only win! Listen to your feelings! And talk about everything with each other, no secrets!

hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Ronja: The members can download tons of galleries with pics and videos of our past gangbangs and meetings, outdoor stuff, in a theater, at a gangbang party and nice solo sets and outfits, me with other girls, doing twenty or more, or sometimes only one guy, and, of course, creampie, creampie, creampie…

All my members can also write me personal messages.

And in addition my members can meet me free at the monthly members’ event in Germany and guess what we do then.

I write all texts on my own and my boyfriend usually translates them into english.

For a donation you can get my worn panties with dried creampie from the last gangbang.

And for non-members, my spassfucktor.com site offers a download coin-shop for videos without a membership.

hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Ronja: I want to add a live-cam and I want to expand my activities to the US and UK.

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Ronja: Shape my body, get more physical flexibility, improve my English, so I am even more attractive for as many men as possible. I want to come to the States and UK more often to get all the fresh English speaking cocks ;-)

Ronja Fox

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March 3, 2012

Sue Interviewed

I’ve been getting a lot of smokin emails from Hotwife Sue recently. If you missed her story her Hubby sent in last month check it out here.

She’s already been very active on the Hub - profile here - and now we have a hot interview with this gorgeous hotwife. Keep in touch Sue!

Sue

hotwifeblog: Hey Sue, good to have you here, where are you from?
Sue: New Orleans

hotwifeblog: What is your age?
Sue: 37

hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Sue: 34 D. 24. 33

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Sue: 5′5″

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Sue: Hazel

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Sue: Auburn

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Sue: Pierced belly button….3 tattoos (hip, shoulder, lower back)

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Sue: Fun loving and adventurous

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Sue: Paralegal

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Sue: At work

hotwifeblog: How long have you been married?
Sue: 7 years

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Sue: I have always had hotwife tendencies and have never been a one man woman.

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Sue: Husband and I thought it would be an exciting way to live and would keep me sexy and horny.

hotwifeblog: Was this lifestyle choice first suggested by your husband? and how did it make you feel? the thought of embarking of a life having sex with men outside of your marriage?
Sue: It was a mutual decision… We both liked the idea.

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Sue: Confident sexy men think it is hot to watch their wives be satisfied by other hot guys!

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Sue: Getting to experience mutilple hot guys without any drama.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Sue: 6 years

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Sue: This is the first one

hotwifeblog: And during those previous monogamous relationships were you tempted to stray or did you cheat at all on your partner?
Sue: I was never faithful in my prior relationships… I was married once before and cheated with multiple outside partners.

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Sue: Absolutely… I love showing off

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? are attracted to?
Sue: Hispanics, Italians and other darker skinned guys…. Especially if they have nice big cocks

hotwifeblog: Tell us about your first hotwife experience?
Sue: Met a guy in a casino bar….spent the night drinking and dancing… Then to our hotel room while I got ravaged all night while hubby watched and beat off.

hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife
Sue: 34

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Sue: Mostly once but there have been exceptions.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Sue: I’ve had threesomes but no gangbangs

hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Sue: Two

hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Sue: Of course… Any girl who says it doesn’t matter is lying

hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Sue: No preference…. Big cocks are my preference

hotwifeblog: Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Sue: Yes I flirt all the time…. That’s half the fun

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Sue: Short tight dresses with heels and no panties or micro-minis with low cut tops

hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Sue: Yes…and a toe ring

hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Sue: Double penetration

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Sue: Bondage

hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Sue: Stripping at a tittie bar on amateur night

hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Sue: On vacation, at clubs, casinos, etc

hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Sue: They hate it… Jealous probably… Especially when I fuck their husband!

hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your husband participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Sue: He leaves us alone….. Much nicer to have the freedom to date your lovers privately

hotwifeblog: Which of the above do you prefer when you’re with your lover, your husband participating? have him watch you? or be alone with your date for some privacy?
Sue: I prefer being alone…. Makes the bull more comfortable

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Sue: Not at all… He isn’t permitted to fuck me… Just perform oral sex

hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Sue: Yes….all the time

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your husband ever suggested it?
Sue: No way… I’ve never been a one man woman!

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Sue: Dominant

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Sue: I like both equally

hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
Sue: Always swallow…. You’re not s hotwife if you don’t always swallow and taste your lover.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Sue: Every time…. What good is sex without cream pies?

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received multiple creampies from different guys?
Sue: Yes… after DP

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Sue: He eats me out and swallows the bull’s cum

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to go down on you after someone has cum inside you?
Sue: Yes… Every time

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Sue: To fuck Trash on camera and post it on hotwifeblog!

hotwifeblog: Hehe… Tell us about one of your recent hotwife experiences?
Sue: Fucked my husbands business partner at his office in the middle of the business day!

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Sue: Travel, skiing, sports

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Sue: It will be the best thing for your relationship and will prevent things from going stale like they do in every marriage.

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Sue: Continue to have lovers and be hot!

Sue

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February 24, 2012

Dr Chauntelle Interviewed

A great post today on hotwife blog. I love these posts into the psychology of what drives our sexual needs and fantasies. My good friend Ken has been chatting to Sociologist Dr. Chauntelle about the hotwife and cuckold lifestyle. I’m sure you’ll agree it’s a great read and insight into what makes us tick and what keeps us stimulated and love the lifestyle we all love. Thanks Ken and Dr. Chauntelle, we hope to hear from you both soon. Post your appreciative comments below.

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Ken for Hotwifeblog: Why don’t you tell the readers of hotwifeblog what your academic specialty is and where they can read your work?

Dr. Chauntelle: Hi everyone!! So lovely to have the opportunity to share some of what I do with you all! As you may know, I’m Dr. Chauntelle – sociologist, researcher, feminist-informed social justice advocate, blogger, and eminent pornologist extraordinaire!! The best place to read me is on my blog – PVVOnline.com – and on twitter at @dr.chauntelle.

I have a PhD in sociology, and my areas of interest (broadly defined) are gender and work. I study sex, sexuality, and sex work within this context, specifically all aspects of adult content production – the workers (both in front of and behind the camera), the history and development of the industry, current trends and issues impacting the business, content and content production, novelty production and trends, you name it! If it has to do with porn, I probably have at least a finger in it.
I’ve found that the adult industry, while being socially and culturally significant and hugely influential, is widely misunderstood and intensely stigmatized. With my work, I try to bring a little more balance and nuance to what we all think when we think “porn.” I found, however, that academic writing and scholarly circles were not always the most effective way to reach people… so I started my blog – PVVOnline.com – in 2010.

On PVV, I comment on industry happenings and mainstream-relevant events, write film reviews that attempt to establish connections between adult texts and the wider world, and interview all sorts of folks working in the industry (not just performers). Ideally, PVV is a place where people can go to learn a little bit more about what’s actually happening in the adult industry in a balanced, accessible, and kinda fun way.

Sooo… if you go to PVV, you can find that sort of stuff along with link to all my adult-relevant academic writings, my bio, PVV’s stated mission, etc etc. You can also get a taste of all my musings and such on my personal twitter - @drchauntelle – and/or on my more general PVV space - @PVVtweet.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Cuckoldry may have always been around in some form (think Chaucer), but it seems to have become much bigger in recent years, especially in porn. Undoubtedly, the reasons for this are complex and won’t be able to be completely processed for a long time. But, given your professional expertise, if you had to take a first stab at trying to explain the reasons for its recent prevalence, what would you guess?

Dr. Chauntelle: Hmmm… well, first off I would have to agree – cuckoldry has always been around in some form; and although it has always been viable, cuckoldry has certainly become more visible, at least in terms of adult content, in recent years. I think there are at least two significant socio-cultural developments that have played a part in this…

I would say that the first and probably most obvious reason has to do with technology. As technology advances - and advances rapidly - the demand for more types of content becomes clear and the provision of said content becomes easier. Consumers and communities can now make their desires known easily and en masse. Content providers at all levels can then work to incorporate those wants into their products.

Second, somewhat synergistically, and operating on a deeper socio-cultural level is sex - specifically, our society’s regard of sex. I think most folks would be hard pressed to deny that our culture has liberalized in terms of its general attitudes about sex… but this is complex and multi-faceted - many people out there think the level of liberalization we have already achieved is a bad thing, while many others think we are nowhere near where we need to be. Whatsmore, even though we may have evolved in many respects, cultural attitudes about sex work and porn (two very sex-related things) are often still stuck in the dark ages…

What’s specifically relevant here is that the presence of liberalized and variable attitudes about sex, controlled for individual and community preferences, have carved out a space for individuals to explore their own sexualities. This is not to say that everyone wants to or that everyone does; it’s more that the possibility is more apparent nowadays. Technology has helped facilitate this.

I think that these two things, the impact of technological advancements and the presence of sexual liberalization in our cultural, have opened he door for all sorts of things, be they brand new, slowly emerging, and/or always present but formerly off the mainstream radar.

This definitely includes cuckoldry.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: What do you think cuckold erotica says about the changing position (no pun intended) of women in society vis-a-vis sexuality? About women’s expectations of their own lives? About their expectations of men?

Dr. Chauntelle: That’s a complex series of questions!! …but let’s make it even more so – what about men? I think men’s expectations of sex, themselves, and women are also at play here.

In addition to women’s changing positions in society, assuming heterosexual desire and couplings, one could say that cuckold erotica is but one artifact of men’s liberalization from contemporary versions of hegemonic “masculine” gendered strictures. Men parent more nowadays, men’s emotional health is something we talk about, men’s physical health is not something that’s just assumed assumed assumed until the guy turns up dead, etc etc. Similar liberalizations from a different, but equally repressive, series of gendered strictures have also impacted women (and everyone else too).

Nowadays, many (but not all – one can never assume!!) women and men seem to seek out something different from their lives – something different, something “better,” something that’s more fulfilling and/or open and/or supportive and/or independent and on and on. This includes what they seek out from their romantic and/or sexual partners.

I think that the wider social liberalizations that I was discussing earlier may have something to do both with people looking to seek out new and different lives and with being OK with that. These are very different stages of action, wanting and doing; but regardless, I think some folks’ desires a la these changing tides may be reflected in cuckold content (and its increased popularity in recent years).

Ken for Hotwifeblog: One of the more interesting aspects of cuckoldry is the nature of the men doing the cuckolding (commonly called bulls). Unlike in more “typical” porn, the men are the ones being judged for “adequacy” in a one-dimensional way. This reverses the usual, expected order of things where the women are the ones who are expected to be “objectified”. While it isn’t true that the physical appeal of men’s talent has never been relevant, it’s also probably true that cuckold porn emphasizes men’s (bull’s) sexual desirability more than is typical. Do you see this as a challenge to traditional attitudes about what porn is? Do you see this as part of a larger pattern in pornography where men can be appreciated and judged more than in the past? Or does it perhaps only seem that way?

Dr. Chauntelle: If you’re asking just me, yes – cuckold content is pushing on conventional boundaries and conceptualizations of what porn “is” in at least that way; but if you’re thinking about reactions to cuckold content in the context of the wider social world, I think there may be some issue…

To me, the ways in which cuckold content may/can destabilize some tropes in heterosexual adult content - by raising the bar for men in some respects and by challenging conventional notions of what porn is in others - seems clear.

But some might say that making things more intense for some guys by offering up an “impossible” image of virility is simply another version of a series of problematics that have always been done to women – setting “impossible” standards for men is just as bad as setting “impossible” standards for women. And one could also offer up all sorts of ruminations about women being objectified even further by an even greater amount of men (the husband and the bull and, presumably, the viewer) in cuckold content. I don’t buy this one at all myself, but the “women being objectified” theme has shaped pretty much all of what porn critiques have said since they started talking.

So herein lies the issue: the anti- position has legs in the sense that it has been said before… a lot… and it’s likely that it will be said again. And it’s possible that, since cuckold content has not (yet) become a fully fixed part of the mainstream porn canon, some folks may take this more seriously than they would about, say, big-budget featurey porn.

It’s too early to tell, but as cuckold content becomes more and more popular and widely viewed, it will be interesting to see if this same old “anti-“ adage is picked up again.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: A typical criticism of pornography is that it creates “unreasonable expectations” about what sexuality can provide and, in so doing, makes it harder for people to form and maintain relationships. Yet cuckoldry porn actually seems to challenge that assumption insofar as it allows husbands and wives to engage in an activity that would otherwise be expected to threaten marriages. Do you see a connection between cuckold porn, or any other sorts of porn for that matter, and the changing ways, for better or worse, that we think about marriage?

Dr. Chauntelle: Ahhh Ken, you and your questions!! That’s also a really complex question on so many levels…

It gets back to what we’ve been discussing (sort of) in terms of expectations for/of men and women in life and in romantic and sexual heterosexual couplings… and conventional ideas surrounding marriage are so contested in today’s social world (at least in the US). So right off, we have the shifting institution of marriage operating in conjunction with a changing society filled with evolving individuals. So where does porn, cuckold or otherwise, fit in?

Porn is fantasy, all sorts of fantasies, some of which may be yours or all of which may certainly not. Porn is a product of creative people and business people and creative business people looking to capture a vision and/or produce a viable product. Porn is not a teaching tool. It’s not meant for education or as an example, just like the Mission Impossible films aren’t there to teach you how to be a spy (or whatever it is that the Tom Cruise character is supposed to be).

Point being, in terms of your question – Do I see a connection between cuckold porn, or any other sorts of porn for that matter, and the changing ways we think about marriage? – I would say yes and no. It depends on the individual consuming the content, the person who is taking all these moving parts into consideration.

All texts, from mainstream films and classic literature to trashy novels and all sorts of adult content, are socially produced artifacts that are then handled/interpreted by the individual consumer within the context of their own experience.

If someone watches Content XXX and that inspires them person to explore their sexuality, have a conversation with their partner, find new ways to meet their and their partner’s needs, then yes – that content may be contributing to new ways of thinking about romantic and sexual relationships, even those framed by marriage!!

But that could also go another way – if someone internalizes Mission Impossible Porn out of context or thinks that, just because they like or dislike the content they are engaging, their partner must also or something like that, then no – that content may be contributing to imbalanced ways of thinking about romantic and sexual relationships, including marriage.

This applies to cuckold content in many specific ways, namely that it certainly may contribute to new ways of thinking about marriage in terms of sex, fidelity, expectations, etc etc etc. Those new ways could be “good” and/or “bad” and/or something entirely different …that depends on the person(s) consuming the texts.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: One of the themes of your research is the role of women behind the scenes in the adult industry. To what extent do you see a connection between that and any empowerment within actual depictions of porn?

Dr. Chauntelle: This gets at an interesting phenomenon…

Women have always worked behind the scenes, or “below the line” as it were, in adult production. The idea that porn is or was ever an industry wherein men ran the back end while women only worked in front of the camera is a deep-seated and wholly inaccurate cultural fiction. I think that, as this fiction is deconstructed and debunked (which is one thing I strive to do in my work), empowerment is only natural. Truth is a source of power, and knowing that women have always worked in adult content production is important.

If you’re curious, you can read about women working behind the scenes in adult production in my paper, “Sex Work, Office Work – Women Working Behind the Scenes in the US Adult Film Industry.” It was published in the journal Gender, Work & Organization in 2011 and is, to date, the only work of this kind. I point this out only to show how entrenched this “women only above the line in adult” fiction is.

One further complicating dimension of this phenomenon is women moving from above to below the line – women who were once performers making the transition to directors, producers, and any other number of jobs behind the scenes in production. As women like Stormy Daniels and Bobbi Starr transition from hugely influential performers to hugely influential directors (both women are highly respected, award-winning members of the community), that “porn is oppressive to women” argument is complicated, if not severely compromised.

And if you bring in women like Joanna Angel, women who have performed, controlled and directed their own content, and ran their own companies, for the duration of their careers… well then, that argument gets turned fully on its head.

So I would say yes – closing the door on the fiction that women don’t work behind the scenes and revealing the evolving creative control women have in adult content production certainly impacts the empowering capacity of porn. But like I said before, ultimately it depends on how the individual interacts with those texts… because you can lead a horse to water (read: porn), but you can’t make them drink (read: interpret content a particular way)!!

Thanks so much for the opportunity to share, Ken and hotwifeblog.com readers, members, and friends - I really appreciate you indulging my chatter!! Come on over to PVVOnline.com or visit me on twitter at @drchauntelle and/or @PVVtweet if you ever have any questions or comments or just want to say hi :)

Ken for Hotwifeblog: And thank you for your time and expertise. You’ve given us a lot to think about.

Chauntelle

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September 28, 2011

More on Dirty Katy

Last week we paid a warm welcome to gangbang hotwife Dirty Katy. You’ve already been requesting more about this hotwife. We will hopefully have an exclusive interview soon but for now here’s a short interview from her website on this gorgeous married slut.

Dirty Katy

Why do you show yourself like this on the internet?
Thomas, my husband, was in internet business at the time, doing graphic work and some programming for online shops. And then one night he took me out for dinner, a nice and romantic evening. For “dessert” he asked me the most important question, a question that changed our life completely. Not if I would like to marry him - he had already popped that one, and it was years before - but if I would mind if he put some of our sex clips online.

He was thinking about a personal site for me. And In fact I was getting so horny just thinking about that other people, all over the world, was gonna watch me doing all this naughty stuff. And I also thought it would help us get in contact with other horny couples. Just like us. And this had been one of my sexual fantasies for quite
a while, which Thomas didn’t know tho.

So I teased him “What will happen when people see our stuff and want to join in with us”? He got really nervous, I even felt that he didn’t know how he was going to answer me. SO “What would you like to do if other people want to have sex with us” he asked. We both smiled without saying anything…

Two weeks after that dinner my first website was online ;) And even today, Thomas and I are doing all of the web stuff all on our own. He does the technical and graphical part where I give him some ideas and I write the words for our episodes. So this really is a private site.

Are you married?
Yes, and like in our eyes, love and sex are two different things, Many find it weird that we do this when we infact are married. Thomas and I are both able to separate sex from love. We have an open relationship that allows us to have the ultimate in sexual fun without hurting each other emotionally. This has been working for us for years now and we are still very very happy in our relationship.

Do you manage your site on your own ?
I write the stories on the page by myself with some corrections from my half sister who lives in California. My English is quite good but not perfect, when I do something , I like to do it the right way. I’m a perfectionist that way. When I respond to your emails and letters you will have to forgive my typos and grammar mistakes.

Do you have a day job?
Yes, and I truly love it. Since I was just a little child, I have always loved animals, probably because I grew up next to my Dad´s Rottweiler. So then for the last 10 years now, I have been a professional dog trainer. I teach obedience and train guard dogs. And I have been fascinated with strong dog´s my whole life. ( Maybe its because I´m a petite girl and always felt more secure with a strong friend keeping watch over me ) But believe me, I´m strong enough to handle even the largest and most problematic dogs. If you are interested in my K9 work, check out my site for photos and even a small video!

Surely I could pay my bills from the earnings of this website. A pay site always means money for the owner, but I like to use this as bonus money for traveling to meet other swingers, go on holidays and so on. This site is something i love to do, and hoping others are enjoying as much as I do. I would never ever give up my day job for anything!

Do I actually get to see and chat with you on your live web cam for free?
Yeah Of course! This is all totally included in the membership, and as a really good bonus, you get to see other girls from my episodes, too. And to make your money worth it even more, it’s almost like i give you some of it back, It also compensates the technical hassle of turning on the web cams of some of the sexy girls I know, when they start a wet and good masturbation session.

Which sexual position gives you the most pleasure?
Hmmmm, it´s always the most boring position, the Guy on top. This position allows for big cocks to touch my G-Spot, while I am pressing myself against them in a way that I just can´t describe. Not so spectacular for the cameras, but I also reach my Orgasms when I am riding guys hard or getting my clit stimulated, with just a hand or a good tounge. I´m a girl who never had any problems reaching climax, or getting fast to that point and then I can climax 2 or 3 times in a row, and easily 10 times a night. But a G-Spot climax is something special for me, sometimes that takes much longer than 1 minute, but I´m totally somewhere else I love in between.

Do you really meet the members and do clips with them for your site?
Of course! And this is something I really really like with the site, If members have any good ideas or like to appear in some of my movies, there´s a good chance it will become real. And It´s always possible for the guys to wear masks or wigs in front of the camera.

Who takes the video of you?
Mostly Thomas, sometimes me from a self perspective shot and then often members as well from dirtykaty who want to see us acting with their own two eyes. like a live video for them. mmmh.. Sometimes the image bounces a bit -that´s the drawback when keeping it private, without a professional cameraman. But at least we always make sure to have good light and use a high definition camera for sharp images.

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April 16, 2011

Lady Red Knix Interviewed

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March 18, 2011

Dee Siren Interviewed

I’ve been having some lovely chats lately with a certain hotwife we featured last week which culminated in her agreeing to do the infamous Hotwife Blog Interview.

Dee Siren is one gorgeous Texan blonde with an ass to die for. Her husband Wayne encouraged Dee to enter the Hotwife Lifestyle and she hasn’t looked back since. She even has a steady boyfriend outside of her marriage. For all you aspiring Cucks here’s a prime example of the person your wife could become.

Thanks for your time Dee, really lovely to get to know you a bit better and I hope we hear from you again soon with some stories of your extra-marital adventures.

Dee Siren

hotwifeblog: Hey Dee, welcome to the blog. So you’re from Texas right?
Dee: Yep

hotwifeblog: What is your age?
Dee: 31

hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Dee: 36-26-37

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Dee: 5′1

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Dee: Blue

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Dee: Blonde

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Dee: Small butterfly tattoo on left hip, ears & navel piercing

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Dee: Naturally shy around large groups of people but once I get to know you then I am an open book. Very much a “blonde”. Like to go with the flow…

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Dee: Mother and adult actress

hotwifeblog: How long have you been married?
Dee: Almost 12 years

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Dee: I have always loved sex. Before I was married I enjoyed meeting new people and dating different men. Once married, we had a very traditional monogamous relationship for many years when we had children. My hubby has always been interested in me fucking other men. About 4 years ago, we entered the Hotwife/swinger LS and have loved it ever since.

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Dee: Our 1st LS experience was a MFM and with a guy that has become a very good friend. My hubby was the one who pushed it and once I agreed I never looked back.

hotwifeblog: So this lifestyle choice was first suggested by your husband? and how did it make you feel? the thought of embarking of a life having sex with men outside of your relationship?
Dee: Yes, he suggested it when I was 21 but at that time it was out of the question. I was shocked. Once we embarked on it, then there was no turning back.

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Dee: Some men are very much voyeurs and love watching sex especially watching the woman they love.

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Dee: I am very much an exhibitionist, love showing off and love the attention. Also, absolutely love sex and a nice big cock. Love being able to fuck different men and seeing how much it turns on my hubby.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Dee: About 4 yrs.

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Dee: No, they were more monogamous. You have to have the trust level and open communication in the relationship that my hubby and I have.

hotwifeblog: And during those previous monogamous relationships were you tempted to stray or did you cheat at all on your partner?
Dee: I have never cheated on my husband or any other boyfriends. I am not the type to cheat. There are always temptations but I have always been a very honest person.

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Dee: Absolutely. I am very much an exhibitionist. I love the excitement of fucking in public and in front of others. Love the thrill of possibly getting caught.

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? are attracted to?
Dee: I don’t have a specific type. I do like men that are confident and have a sense of humor. I prefer men that are fit and well hung physically. :)

hotwifeblog: So that first MFM was your first hotwife experience?
Dee: My 1st experience was actually my 1st experience in the Swinger Lifestyle, we met up with a guy through the internet who was interested in a MFM. We had an amazing time together. It was a night filled with drinks, conversation and great sex. We fucked all over the house and in our hot tub for hours.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Dee: Absolutely, I love gangbangs. I love the attention and all the different cocks to play with.

hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Dee: 6

hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Dee: Yes. I will not be sexually satisfied unless I have a hung cock. You would need to be at least 8 inches.

hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Dee: I have no preference. I like any type of guy regardless of race.

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Dee: Something sexy with easy access. Normally a short dress and heels of course.

hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Dee: Sometimes. I do have several and one that my hubby got me that have a H & W charm for “Hotwife”

hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Dee: Depends on your definition of kinky. Check out my website to see all my adventures.

hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Dee: Most of them I find from filling out my “fuck me” form or they have been friends for a time.

hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Dee: Actually it has been interesting. I have run across many different reactions. Some jealously or even within the swinger community I have run across others who judge or just don’t understand.

hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your husband participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Dee: Really depends on the situation. He loves all 3, likes to participate, loves to watch and jack off while I do and I do have a “boytoy” that I go out alone with, which I like to record or call him during sex with him.

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Dee: On a daily basis, we are both very sexual and love fucking each other.

hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Dee: Well I have my “boytoy” that we have been friends with for a few years. He is a great fuck and I tell my hubby everything.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Dee: I love both, giving & receiving.

hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
Dee: Both depends on the taste lol

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Dee: Only in a vid shoot but he was AIM tested, otherwise condoms are required. Only let my hubby cum inside me.

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Dee: Absolutely, he loves my nicely used pussy.

hotwifeblog: Since having your website, have you ever been recognized by anyone who knew you were a hotwife?
Dee: Yes. I actually was recognized quite a bit last time I went out to a local swingers club, was even asked to sign a copy of my DVD

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Dee: Make sure you both understand what each expects. Open communication is key and trusting one another. Most couples make rules and adjust them as you go along.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Dee: My website is: www.mrssiren.com Mrs.Siren’s Sexy Secrets
“The Real Hotwife You Wish You Had”

Join my website to see all my naughty adventures. New videos updated weekly. Including interracial, bukkake, gangbangs, sloppy bj’s, large insertions and much more.

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March 2, 2011

Rachel Saris Interviewed

Since I posted her original profile we have had a lot of emails asking for more on wondrous UK hotwife Rachel who calls herself a hot, horny, sassy blonde, creampie addicted, sexaholic dogging nympho cum slut.

So I’m very, very pleased to have this exclusive interview of this very active and horny hotwife. Her incredible, insatiable lifestyle is laid bare below but what also struck me is her close bond she has with her Husband. It shows with the right partnership the extremes you can go to in this lifestyle. Long may it continue for your Rachel, thanks for your frank and honest answers and make sure you keep in touch, telling us your stories and let me know if you ever make it to Brighton ;)

Rachel Reveals

hotwifeblog: Hey there, welcome to the infamous HotwifeBlog Interview. It’s Rachel isn’t it?
Rachel: My real name is Rachel Saris, which sounds foreign but its not! lol

hotwifeblog: Where are you from?
Rachel: I’m from Gloucestershire in the South West of England

hotwifeblog: What is your age (approximate is fine)?
Rachel: I’m currently 33 years of age and getting more gorgeous as the years go by. Growing older disgracefully!

hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Rachel: 36D - 34 – 36 Lush curvy hour glass figure.

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Rachel: I’m 5ft 6in

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Rachel: Dark brown

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Rachel: Blonde.

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Rachel: I have my ears pierced, I have 1 tattoo on my left thigh of 3 dolphins and I have a celtic symbol tattoo in the small of my back at the bottom of my spine which was designed by myself.

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Rachel: Gorgeous infectious bubbly blonde, easy going, spontaneous, outrageous, intelligent, sexy and darn right sassy.

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Rachel: I’m a graphic web designer – so yes I designed all my own websites as well as other girls sites. So any ladies out there looking for their own site give me a shout.

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Rachel: I met my gorgeous husband through work, during a meeting.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been married?
Rachel: We have been married for 5 fabulous fun filled years.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Rachel: I’ve always had the desire to be centre of attention between multiple men, as a youngster I was always 2 or 3 timing boyfriends – once guy simply wasn’t enough to feed my desires.

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Rachel: I guess I’ve always been a hotwife, and the lifestyle has adapted to me without me even thinking about it.

hotwifeblog: Was this lifestyle choice first suggested by your husband? and how did it make you feel? the thought of embarking of a life having sex with men outside of your relationship?
Rachel: It was a joint thing really – it all started in the early stages of our relationship while drinking one night and talking about our past and past encounters. I told him how I loved multiple men and how naughty I used to be. He confessed to me that the thought of me fucking so many different guys was a huge turn on for him. We had some seriously amazing sex that night I can tell you lol

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Rachel: Most men are visual and love to watch porn, a guy watching his wife with another guy right in front of him is like a live porno and even better when it’s the woman they love getting so much pleasure. My husband adores it! Plus he get clean up duties afterwards which is his fav.

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Rachel: Being able to fuck who I want, when I want and as often as I want. What woman wouldn’t love a lifestyle like this.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Rachel: For about 10 years now.

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Rachel: The relationship I was in previous to meeting my husband was a sexual based relationship – we were on various swinging websites and we always had guys coming round for 3sums and gangbangs and again he adored watching me with multiple men – he used to like joining in with fun also.

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Rachel: Not as such, but I’m sure my husband would disagree. I do love male attention, and I do get a huge buzz out of walking down the street of doing the weekly shopping while wearing a mini skirt, stocking and stilettos. I love being a horny little cock tease and making guys around me look and drool.

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? are attracted to?
Rachel: Well, I don’t think I’m like most women. Most women tend to favour the guy with a big 6 pack, bulging muscles and a flat wash board stomach. I personally find that a huge turn off. I love more of a thick set guy, maybe a bit of a tummy and a lush pert round bum. I also love broad shoulders and a hairy chest.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about your first hotwife experience?
Rachel: Met a guy in the pub and then took him home and fucked him on the sofa as my Hubby made us both a cuppa and we made Hubby watch the guy spunk up me.

hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Rachel: I have lost count. over a hundred!

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Rachel: I very rarely meet the same guy more than twice. For me the thrill of being a hotwife and fucking different guys is for that first time encounter buzz – what does he look like, how does his kiss, how big is his cock – and can he screw the arse off me?

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Rachel: Oh YES! Have had a fair few gangbangs during my hotwife life.

hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Rachel: The most guys I’ve fucked in one go is 23! And I was STILL horny once they had all left.

hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Rachel: No not really, I’ve had a guy with a 13inch cock and it was the crappish shag of my life. The best size which pleasures me the most is around 6 to 7inches with a decent girth on it, something that can stretch me nicely as it slides in and gives me some lush pussy friction as it reaming me out.

hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Rachel: I don’t really have a preference, it’s a myth that all black guys are well hung, and believe me I know. Some white guys are far bigger than black guys.

hotwifeblog: Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Rachel: Oh god yes all the time. The most recent one was at ny local Kwik Fit Garage after having a blow out on the motorway. No only did I flirt with and tease the RAC man, I also flirted and teased the 4 young lads who were in the shop fixing my car.

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Rachel: Most definitely stockings, 8 strap suspender belt, black mini skirt and 4 inch stilettos.

hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Rachel: No I don’t

hotwifeblog: What is your favourite sexual act?
Rachel: Giving head. I adore sucking on a limp dick, feeling it grow in my mouth until it’s rock hard and then feeling it erupt and pump my mouth full of lovely hot warm satly spunk.

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Rachel: I do have one fetish, and I cant believe I’m going to admit to this! I love sniffing womens dirty knickers. Especially knickers of my lovers girlfriends or wives.

hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Rachel: Walked into a gents toilets and knelt on all fours in the cubicle and just waited for any guys to come in and fuck me.

hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Rachel: Mostly via the internet, most are members of my website – and I do meet random strangers while out dogging and using gloryholes in public gents toilets

hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Rachel: That’s a bit of a mixture really, some find me a sexual threat, some are jealous of my sexual confidence and others admire me for my life style wishing that they could be more like me.

hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your husband participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Rachel: A bit of all 3. When were in the cuckold mode he is made to watch or made to sit in another room and listen. Other times he is in the room present with me and joins in – my all time fav is a spitroast and he knows how much I love that and is always happy to give me what I love.

hotwifeblog: Which of the above do you prefer when you’re with your lover, your husband participating? have him watch you? or be alone with your date for some privacy?
Rachel: I love all 3 at different times depending on our moods at the time. Although I do love it when he joins in.

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Rachel: Every single day at least twice a day, sometimes more.

hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Rachel: Absolutely never – no one comes close to my husband and never will, we’re 2 peas in a pod and love one another perfectly.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your husband ever suggested it?
Rachel: Absolutely yes – should the time come that enough is enough then I could stop quite happily (I think! Lol)

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Rachel: I can be both when required. I love being dominated and used like a dirty little slut during role play session just as much as I love dominating guys and making them pleasure me when I want it and the way I like it.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Rachel: Definitely giving.

hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
Rachel: I do both, depends on my mood at the time – but I seem to swallow more than I spit.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Rachel: Oh most definitely YES.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received multiple creampies from different guys?
Rachel: YES!!! :D I’ve taken 17 loads up spunk up my pussy one after another during a horny filthy gangbang session.

hotwifeblog: Wow! Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Rachel: Oh yes, that is his most favourite thing to do – loves sloppy seconds and the feeling of sliding into hot freshly shot spunk.

hotwifeblog: And as you mentioned before he likes to go down on you after someone has cum inside you?
Rachel: Indeed he does, that’s his 2nd favourite thing to do – loves cleaning me up after I’ve been spunked up ready for his turn.

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Rachel: My biggest fantasy which is the only fantasy of mine that I am yet to live out is a rape scenario. Probably a bit extreme for some, but I would love to be abducted and raped by 6 guys, obviously with my husband present and a safe word in place which if said would stop everything there and then without any questions asked. The whole thought of being taken forcefully by 6 guys one after another while having my clothes and panties ripped off and being held down turns me right on.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about one of your recent hotwife experiences?
Rachel: Had two black studs come round my house and both fuck me and spunk up me, then I sat straight on hubby’s face.

hotwifeblog: Since having your website, have you ever been recognized by anyone who knew you were a hotwife?
Rachel: Yes, I’ve been stopped in my local supermarket, have been approached in a pub a few times when out on a night out with girlfriends as well as being recognized in a petrol station. I’m always getting emails saying “Hi Rach seen you in such and such the other day, looking hot!” Always makes me smile.

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Rachel: I’m really into playing golf! Also love painting but sadly don’t find much spare time for that.

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Rachel: Just bite the bullet and go for it. it is so fucking horny.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Rachel: Well, firstly all my members are able to come and fuck me. I have over 6 thousand hardcore dogging, gloryhole, bukakke, gangbang and creampie pictures as well as 56 really horny videos and more being added every week.

hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Rachel: More fun, fucking and filth!! Meeting more and more members and simply sharing the amount of fun I’m having with everyone!

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Rachel: Exactly the same as what I’m doing now – long may it continue!

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February 12, 2011

Mandy Monroe Interviewed

A few weeks back we introduced you to a lovely new blonde Hotwife - Mandy Monroe. Here is the exclusive interview I promised with Mandy answering all those important Hotwife questions.

From her love of creampies, to fantasies of picking up guys in the Mall, Mandy certainly is a great find for the blog and I’m sure you’ll agree her love of this lifestyle shines through. Keep up all the great work Mandy and thanks for giving us an insight into your naughty life. I hope we hear some more of your adventures real soon.

Mandy Monroe

hotwifeblog: Hi Mandy, great to chat with you. Where are you from?
Mandy: Western United States

hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Mandy: 34 24 34

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Mandy: 5′

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Mandy: Blue

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Mandy: Blonde

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Mandy: Yes, clit piercing. No tattoos but I will take suggestions ;)

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Mandy: I have been told I am more of the giving type. “Sex Giving”! I like to take care of men not getting enough sex and do it all with a smile and a wicked sensuality. I really do enjoy filling that sexual need for men. Men are so sexual and they need a lot of pussy and many don’t get near enough. I am generally very happy all the time. I like to joke with people and keep the conversation light and fun. I love to flirt and put a smile on your face in whatever way I can think of.

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Mandy: Hot wife of course. Oh ya I have a website to share it all. Can’t keep all that fun to myself.

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Mandy: I met him in college. He was dating another girl and I just couldn’t let that go on so I stole him for myself.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Mandy: I was raised to believe in a traditional monogamous relationship but I never fully embraced that thought especially after the first time having sex. I wished I had been doing it much sooner and with anyone I wanted. Marriage didn’t change that point of view either.

hotwifeblog: Was this lifestyle choice first suggested by your husband? and how did it make you feel? the thought of embarking of a life having sex with men outside of your marriage?
Mandy: The hotwife lifestyle was first suggested by my husband probably because I was too afraid to mention it for fear he would not take it well. He of course was wanting to suggest it for a few years already and had finally got the nerve to ask me. Who knew we both wanted it.

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Mandy: I think a lot of men have a very voyeuristic side to them so seeing their wife from an outside viewpoint fulfills that voyeuristic side of them. They get the pleasure of seeing their favorite girl in pleasure and enjoying herself from that outside point of view. Like a movie but in real life. Then they usually get the bonus of sexing up that girl after.. For others, its an excitement that can only happen by adding another person to the mix. Someone not normally there in their every day life that adds a major spark to the relationship. Maybe its the adrenaline rush of it all.

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Mandy: Well obviously I can have my cake and eat it too!

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Mandy: 3 1/2 years

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Mandy: All monogamous previously.

hotwifeblog: And during those previous monogamous relationships were you tempted to stray or did you cheat at all on your partner?
Mandy: I always wanted to experiment with other people. I was always looking but never did anything to cheat.

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Mandy: No not naturally. My husband would say otherwise. Although, once I get into the moment, which only takes a minute if a hard cock is present, I pretty much let loose.

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? are attracted to?
Mandy: I love a guy that’s got washboard abs, broad shoulders, nice smile and attentive personality. Not necessarily in that order. Have to admit a hard cock is hard to resist on any man.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about your first hotwife experience?
Mandy: I met a guy from online. We went and had some drinks. He seemed like fun so we invited him back to the house. He didn’t waste any time kissing me and taking my clothes off. Then he took me for quite a ride. My husband got some nice pics and we were hooked.

hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Mandy: Over 25

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Mandy: Yes and Yes!

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Mandy: I am actually working on that for this spring! Can’t wait.

hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Mandy: I have been in an orgy situation where there were 4 men and 3 women. I had sex with all the men (and the women too!)

hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Mandy: I have had enough different sizes to say that really if it’s hard it’s going to get the job done quite nicely. I do like them a bit thick if I can get that although.

hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Mandy: I really have no preference. I just like guys.

hotwifeblog: Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Mandy: I do like to catch their eye or catch them checking me out. My husband watches for that all the time. That’s the voyeuristic side of him. If I do get to talk to a man, I don’t mind a little flirting and chatting to see if it makes them squirm. it usually does. They tend to get away quick. Lots of men don’t seem to know what to do around a woman that talks to them like a friend or more than a friend.

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Mandy: Short skirt and high heels. Tiny panties or none at all. Of course cleavage and perky nipples.

hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Mandy: Sometimes, especially more in the summer.

hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Mandy: I have tried dp and dvp. They are both intensely fun. Anal is pretty hot at times. Gotta love doggy style so you can put your ass in the air and let them have at ya. My favorite for everyday is just me on top and letting me ride till I explode. Its great for the guy too since they get to watch and can get their hands on anything they want quite easily.

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Mandy: Lingerie, high heels or boots in bed, light spanking, very light bondage, filming and pictures, anal, women, etc. The list goes on but I am sure there are some I haven’t tried but need to.

hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Mandy: Probably an orgy with 4 couples. All the women in leather. Pretty sure there was a whip involved.

hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Mandy: I would say that most are found on the Internet and the rest are found through friends.

hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Mandy: I usually don’t share with other females what I do sexually unless they are other females in the lifestyle. There is only one or two women that know about it that aren’t in the lifestyle and they are very supportive, but they also are people I trust with that kind of personal information.

hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your husband participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Mandy: We have done all of that but when we meet someone new for the first time, we both are always there. We want to be safe plus its hot to meet someone who could be a future playmate or even a one time playmate.

hotwifeblog: Which of the above do you prefer when you’re with your lover, your husband participating? have him watch you? or be alone with your date for some privacy?
Mandy: I really REALLY enjoy alone time with my lover! I love seeing what their true personality is when there is no camera or someone there watching. Its very personal and gives me a chance to see what that person is really like. I only do that with people that I am interested in getting to know better on that more personal level. With that said, I absolutely enjoy, without doubt, having my husband there or even others there to watch or participate. So much fun to share.

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Mandy: We try to have sex daily.

hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Mandy: Never. But that doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy the differences in performance and style of sex. I like that everyone does it a little different. Gives me a chance to learn something new and try something new.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your husband ever suggested it?
Mandy: If I had to I would but its not really my nature and it would be quite difficult. I am sure the flirt in me would never quit.

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Mandy: I like to go with the flow. Sometimes that means I need to be dominant. Sometimes I get to be submissive.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Mandy: I prefer both as much as I can give or get.

hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
Mandy: Swallow!!

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Mandy: Every time.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received multiple creampies from different guys?
Mandy: Yes

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Mandy: His absolute all time favorite thing to do.

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to go down on you after someone has cum inside you?
Mandy: His other all time favorite thing to do.

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Mandy: I am living my fantasy every day. I am always trying new things (and new people) My fantasy is variety and living my life how I want with no regrets. With that said there are things I haven’t tried that I would like to try. I want to explore more of the various fetishes out there. Who knows, I may really like some of them and I will never know until I try it. I have had one fantasy lately. I am out shopping or running errands and I see a guy or a couple that are attractive. Our eyes meet and instantly we want to fuck. We find a quick corner or hidden place and I am filled with warm cum and then off I go about my day. Gives me a rush everytime I think about it and I am always in a state of arousal when I am out and about.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about one of your recent hotwife experiences?
Mandy: My husband was out of town and I had a guy over to my house. We fucked for hours then I called my husband and told him all about it.

hotwifeblog: Since having your website, have you ever been recognized by anyone who knew you were a hotwife?
Mandy: Not so far.

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Mandy: I do like to stay in shape and try to fit that into my everyday activities. I enjoy it as well so I consider it a hobby. I like to read and shop. I like baking cookies and other treats. Hmm there is a video idea!

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Mandy: Be very sure you both want it. If one partner wants it and the other is doing it for the other, there will 100% be conflict. You have to both want to do it. It’s not something to force but something you can talk about and decide together. Set your boundaries and stick to them. Don’t be afraid to revisit your boundaries occasionally and see if you might be ready to try something new. Oh and remember its all for fun and pleasure. Don’t take it too seriously.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Mandy: Variety is the spice of life, so they say…. and I agree. You will find weekly updates in the form of video or pictures. Dirty diary entries about what I am doing, who I am meeting, what my plans are, and what my kinky thoughts are about the fun I had. Webcam videos.

hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Mandy: I am planning some trips this year so meet some new people who are swingers as well as some who are in amateur porn. I am very excited. Also, I would like to add some pictures for members to purchase, possibly video for purchase as well. I have recently started doing some webcamming that can be viewed on my website as well. All the webcam is archived so any of them can be watched at any time. I hope to add links to some of my favorite toys, clothes, etc. I am adding new things all the time. I am considering adding a Twitter link and maybe a Facebook link so members can chat and find out what I am doing all the time.

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Mandy: Never stop! I love it. I love the people I meet. I have met the absolute nicest and best people in the lifestyle. People I may never have met otherwise and they get to be friends with benefits too. I want to try lots of new things and hopefully do some traveling to meet people in the lifestyle as well.

Mandy Monroe

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November 20, 2010

Leslie Croft Interviewed

I’m proud to present today my interview with the very lovely Leslie from Lust Couple who we first introduced to the blog back in September. Leslie is another fine example that every one in this lifestyle has their own unique way of playing it. Thanks for your time with the interview Leslie and for your honest answers. Hope to hear from you again soon.

Leslie

hotwifeblog: Hey there, welcome to hotwifeblog. Tell us your name?
Leslie: Leslie Croft

hotwifeblog: Where are you from?
Leslie: I was born in Titusville, Florida, but now I’m living just outside Indianapolis, Indiana.

hotwifeblog: What is your age?
Leslie: 36

hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Leslie: 36-26-38

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Leslie: 5′ 6″

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Leslie: Hazel

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Leslie: Brunette

hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Leslie: Ears, of course, and I’m still pondering a tattoo . . . just can’t decide what/where I want.

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Leslie: I’m usually reserved and polite, but in private, much more daring and assertive, even bitchy at times, but I make it worth your while.

hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Leslie: Graphic designer by day; web mistress by night

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Leslie: Believe it or not, we met at a funeral . . . okay, long story

hotwifeblog: LOL… How long have you been married?
Leslie: It will be 18 years in December.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Leslie: I’ve adapted my thinking from prior programming, and I’m now comfortable with my varied sexual appetites.

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Leslie: Well, the hubby first suggested it, and I quickly knew that I wanted it, too. It just made sense to me that we should both be honest and open about our sexual interests.

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Leslie: I don’t know, but I would love to understand that dynamic. At the same time, though, I fully identify with that desire, because I also get off watching hubby with others. I’m just as much of a voyeur as I am an exhibitionist, so I get it.

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Leslie: I always enjoy the excitement of meeting and becoming intimate with new and different people. No matter how many experiences I have, the initial charge of getting naked with strangers never disappoints.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Leslie: 14 years

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Leslie: No, they were all monogamous (and monotonous). I feel very lucky to have such an open, supportive (and submissive) husband.

hotwifeblog: And during those previous monogamous relationships were you tempted to stray or did you cheat at all on your partner?
Leslie: No, I was never tempted, nor did I cheat, but I was pretty young at that time. Eventually, I’m sure I would have certainly been tempted . . . a lot.

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? are attracted to?
Leslie: Confident, fit, self-aware and open-minded guys always catch my eye (or more).

hotwifeblog: Tell us about your first hotwife experience?
Leslie: At my urging, hubby invited a fit black male to our home, and I was completely thrilled to finally live out one of my strongest fantasies. Long story short . . . our house guest spent the night, and I made him breakfast (once I was finished with him, of course).

hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Leslie: I don’t keep score; too busy playing the game.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Leslie: Oh, I don’t know. It just depends on the guy; chemistry is a mysterious thing.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Leslie: Yes. I love being the center of attention, having so many hands, mouths and cocks at my service.

hotwifeblog: So how many men have you had sex with at one time?
Leslie: Three (so far).

hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Leslie: Yes, there’s a minimum requirement, I suppose, but it’s certainly not the only issue to consider.

hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Leslie: For the most part, I really like black guys, but I’m always an equal opportunity enjoyer.

hotwifeblog: Hehe.. Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Leslie: Yes, I love to come on to men who catch my eye, and I get off on startling and attracting those who consider me “off limits” because I’m married.

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Leslie: It depends on the weather, really. If it’s cooler, I usually I like to wear tight sweaters, jeans, and boots. If warmer, I go very skimpy and clingy. I have very pointy, eraser-like nipples, and men say they love to see them through my sheer tops.

hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Leslie: No.

hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Leslie: Wow, that’s a tough one. I’ve found very little that I don’t enjoy, but if I had to choose one act, I would have to say sucking cock, preferably two or more simultaneously. And I love to deepthroat (practice makes perfect).

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Leslie: I love fucking others with strapons . . . hubby, other males, other women, doesn’t matter.

hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Leslie: Hubby helps locate them for me via the internet, usually. Trolling for strange cock in bars and clubs is a favorite hobby of mine, too.

hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Leslie: I tend to keep it secret from my female friends, but I’m sure most would be envious toward my freedom.

hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your husband participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Leslie: Depends on my mood; he’s usually involved either directly or indirectly. If nothing else, I tend to keep him around to serve as a bar tender, towel boy or fluffer.

hotwifeblog: Which of the above do you prefer when you’re with your lover, your husband participating? have him watch you? or be alone with your date for some privacy?
Leslie: I prefer with hubby participating but I find it exciting to have him watch and/or cater to my lover and me, too.

hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Leslie: Almost daily. What can I say? I’m a woman in my thirties, lol.

hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Leslie: Maybe if I were to meet a lover horribly lacking, sure, but generally no. It’s all good.

hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your husband ever suggested it?
Leslie: Spiritually and emotionally, we are monogamous, so the question really doesn’t seem to capture our relationship. I can’t imagine limiting myself to just one lover, though, no.

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Leslie: I enjoy both, depending on my mood and the situation.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Leslie: I love both but prefer giving.

hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
Leslie: Swallow.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Leslie: No, but I love the feel of hot cum on my skin and face and I’m very interested in exploring a bukkake experiences in the future.

hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Leslie: Yes, definitely . . . before, during and after.

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Leslie: Meeting a stranger or two in a bar, fucking him/them and then coming home to tell hubby about all my fun. Lately, I’ve also harbored the fantasy of hooking up alone, then calling hubby to let him listen while a stranger fucks me.

hotwifeblog: Since having your website, have you ever been recognized by anyone who knew you were a hotwife?
Leslie: Yes, a local school board member and scout leader who said he admired the site a great deal. I was a bit nervous about his discovery at first, but I’ve seen him several times since, and I really enjoy our dirty little secret now.

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Leslie: Cooking, reading, dancing, gardening and writing.

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Leslie: Communicate honestly, frequently and without fear of hurt feelings.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Leslie: Lots of fetish fun (strapons, cuckoldry, smothering) and a healthy dose of interracial content.

hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Leslie: We just celebrated the site’s third anniversary, so that’s an appropriate questions. We tend to take it year-by-year and will continue as long as it’s a fun and a worthwhile means of personal expression. I’m hoping to add more gangbang and bi MMF or MMFF content as time and opportunities allow.

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Leslie: Enjoying the company of long-time friends and meeting more as we progress.

Leslie

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