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February 6, 2010

How It All Began

I first checked out hotwifeblog.com a year ago after reading an interview with the exquisite Daisy in a couples magazine. During the interview she referred to the site as a good place to go for erotic true stories. Well, she would, wouldn’t she? But, hey! I’m very glad she did.

Given that I am married to a shameless slut who has been cuckolding me for twenty years, it will come as no surprise that I have read the regular submissions to the site with great interest. Many of the scenarios described and feelings expressed are, of course, familiar to me.

As an avid diarist and record keeper, I am able to convey the details of my life as a trollop’s husband with great precision. So here’s some background and a few stat’s.

We have been married for twenty-nine years. Prior to our marriage we had been an item for three years. During those three years and for the first nine years of our marriage she never had sex of any kind with any other man. (Believe me, I would have come to know by now had it been otherwise.) Two years into our marriage I first suggested to my wife that she might enjoy having an extramarital affair. (The thrill of being a cuckold has been my greatest sexual turn-on since some experiences involving a previous girlfriend back in my teens. But more of that later, perhaps.) My wife thought the notion so preposterous that she couldn’t even be said to have been shocked. I revisited the same theme now and again over the ensuing years. At some point, naturally, she came to realise I was serious. Knowing full well that I am pretty unconventional in many respects, she still was not shocked. Nevertheless she remained reluctant. More than reluctant. Immovably opposed to the idea. As a result, my occasional attempts to cajole her were scarce and, I suppose, resignedly half-hearted. Then, seven years into this fitful and unpromising campaign, I had a piece of luck.

My wife became very friendly with one of her work colleagues, a girl some few years younger than us. The young lady was quite ambitious and thought herself to be in a dead-end job. I happened to have an executive vacancy in my company which seemed to suit her and for which she was suited. I interviewed her and took her on. She turned out to be quite a gem and soon became a valuable deputy of mine. We also became very close friends. We never had a sexual relationship but we were very open with one another on a personal level and she was fascinated by my frustrated desires regarding my wife’s promiscuity - or, rather, the lack of it. The two women continued to be good friends but the three of us very rarely met up all together. These were two quite separate relationships. And there was no hidden agenda in that. It’s simply that one, albeit very close, was very much work-based, while the other, although originally work-based, was now entirely social.

One day, in the office, during one of our occasional conversations regarding my cherished fantasy, our mutual friend decided to ’spill some beans’. She had hinted to me on previous occasions that maybe my wife was not as rigorously faithful as I believed her to be. But this opinion was always voiced in such a way as to suggest an intuition, rather than anything she actually knew for certain. Now she chose to give me some proof. A few days earlier the two of them had been out on the town and evidently ended up ‘well-oiled’. Tongue loosened by the booze, no doubt, my wife had confessed to some events which had occurred a few weeks earlier on another boozy evening when she and a few of her colleagues had hit a wine-bar after work and it had turned into a lengthy session.

I knew exactly the evening that she was referring to and remembered it, from my point of view, quite well. My wife had been given a lift home by one of her bosses, a hunky, bespectacled New Yorker in the ‘Clark Kent’ mould - highly intelligent, very successful in business, very confident and a thoroughly personable guy whom I had met briefly once or twice before. She had invited him in for a coffee. It was about midnight and I was on the verge of going to bed but stayed up to have a coffee with them. We had chatted about nothing much in particular for about half an hour and then he went on his way. Now, here’s the bit of which I had had not the slightest inkling at the time and which I now learned from my informant.

Apparently, he had pulled his car in a little way up the road a good half an hour before they had come into the house. During that time they had been stuck into a long and full-on snogging session. What’s more, she had made no bones about telling our girl friend that, if I had not been at home, she would probably have brought him into the house and gone all the way.

Those of you who visit this site will know exactly how I felt upon receipt of that information.

It would be overly scrupulous to take the view that our friend was betraying my wife’s confidence in revealing these details. She knew exactly what she was doing and she knew enough to be absolutely certain that she was doing both of us a favour with what she had told me.

Needless to say, I instantly ramped up my persuasive campaign and prodded away at the issue with renewed zeal, extolling the potential virtues of extramarital adventurism at any appropriate moment. Whilst she still did not exactly embrace the idea wholeheartedly, I now found her responses to the topic to be more pliant than before. It might be that, with my newly acquired knowledge of her capacity to be seduced, I was now interpreting those responses in a different light. But I don’t think so. It’s more likely that her attitude to the possibilities had shifted, maybe as a result of that very experience with the boss - however tame and inconclusive it may have been. One way or another, if I suggested that a night of passion with another man could be fun, instead of saying something like: “Oh, don’t be silly!”, she was now coming back with comments along the lines of: “I suppose it could!”

Encouraging, but still noncommittal. And before long I came to realise why. Now that I was pushing the case harder and more often, I was receiving a wider variety of objections. Eventually I think I was given the real one. Without stating it in so many words, she made me aware that her main fear involved the possibility of one specific repercussion: that if she were to play around, I might feel I had carte blanche to do the same.

My wife is and always has been a head-turningly beautiful woman. I found it quite absurd that she should ‘fear the competition’. But I sensed I was on the verge of success in this campaign and I chose to take a calculated gamble. Six years previously I had engaged in a clandestine affair with a woman whom I had met through business. And I elected to confess the matter to my wife at this precipitous stage of the game. The affair had been very hot and, indeed, very intense and I was lucky to have remained undetected. But, after three months, it fizzled out pretty well as rapidly as it had ignited. You may think that my confession, six years on, was a high risk strategy. But I was confident that she would consider our relationship as being too strong to be threatened by an event so far back in the past. And, of course, I knew that her own recent inclinations in a similar situation would have to play a part in her thinking, even if she chose not to confess them.

It turned out that she had never had the slightest suspicion of my brief infidelity. She pretended to be shocked and hurt, but she wasn’t very convincing. Without question there was a new light in her eye. It is clear that she was also perfectly ready to accept my assurance that I had never strayed on any other occasion, before or since. (Which is only fair, because it is perfectly true.) This had the desired effect of bolstering her confidence rather than shaking it. She wasn’t out for a ‘revenge fuck’ exactly. That wouldn’t stack up, given that she knew it was precisely what I wanted. It was more of a case of ‘what’s good for the goose. . . .’

Only a week or so later she went out with a girlfriend to a nightclub. They both pulled. And they both got laid. That’s how the last twenty years of our marriage kicked off. And the game gathered pace very quickly.

Here are the stat’s. During the course of those twenty years I have had sex with seven women other than my wife (two of them at swingers’ parties, four of them as a result of at-home wife-swapping evenings with other couples and one ‘visiting massage’ which my wife kindly bought me for my birthday a few years back). Over the same period of time my wife has fucked one hundred and fifteen different guys. Some of them regular, long-term lovers, others one-night stands. And that doesn’t include the four clients whom she serviced whilst working as an escort for a couple of months. (We didn’t need the money. It was just for the fun of it.) If you add those, and the six boys with whom she had sexual relationships before we met, plus me, that gives her a grand total of 126 men inside her. So far.

We are now just into our fifties and my wife’s enthusiasm for cock and insistence on variety show no signs of abating.

I have many diary entries in which comprehensive details of my wife’s activities are recorded and, should there be some interest from other visitors to the site, I would be happy to share these with the hotwife community. Such as the time when, after she’d picked up some bloke in a bar and brought him home, I peered round the edge of the door to my study to see them just inside our bedroom doorway at the other end of the landing, french kissing, her skirt hitched up, his hands all over her arse and her blouse completely undone, indicating that he’d already been at her fabulous tits. Or the time when we’d had a friend of ours over to dinner and I brought some after-dinner drinks into the living room to find her whispering and giggling into his ear on the sofa, eventually looking at me through eyes already misting over with lust and saying: “Sorry! We’re leaving you!”, before whisking him off upstairs for the night. Or the time when, by prior arrangement, three fit Greek lads burst through the front door, tied me to a chair, tore my wife’s dress and knickers to shreds and proceeded to do her in all holes, eventually finishing her off with a torrential bukkake. Or the time when. . . but I’m running ahead of myself. Let me know what you think.

Submitted by: Hornwearer - Herts, UK

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January 15, 2010

Award Nomination

A little off topic today. Had some great news! I’m very excited, pleased and proud to announce that my affiliate program RockRevenue.com has been nominated for Emerging Affiliate Program of the Year at the upcoming Xbiz Awards held in LA in February http://www.xbiz.com/news/115720. Wooooop!

For those of you that run a website you can join Rock Revenue to promote and earn cash from my cheating wife and girlfriend site The Undercover Lover and also earn from the love of my life and self confessed slut Daisy Rock

Fingers crossed for the awards show.

Love you all,
Your Webmaster
Trash

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December 30, 2009

Wifes New Job

I’ll try to keep this short… I’ve been married 7 years. We are high school sweethearts. Happy and in love. The wife has worked from home for a great company for the past 2 years or so. The economic downturn led to her layoff and the tough job market resulted in her working as a bartender/waitress at a local spot. No problem, she loves the work and the people, just leads to conflicting schedules for “us” time.

So, it’s only a matter of time before an attractive women bartender gets hit on… Eventually, I get curious and go through her phone one night (I know that I should not have). She has text messages from two guys that are obviously trying to seduce her and she is sending suggestive messages back!

So eventually I confront her about the issue, and give her my permission and even encourage her to go out and play. She adamantly refuses and tells me that she is disturbed that I would “allow” her to do that.

I think it is incredibly sexy. She thinks that I must not love her if I would let her do that. I really want her to go explore her sexuality. I don’t know what to do.

Toms Wife

Submitted by: Tom - Houston, TX

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December 22, 2009

Therapy the way forward

For years and years my wife appeared to not be very interested in sex. Sex perhaps once a month slowly but steadily got less and less; the low mark seemed to be 3 times a year. I started seeing other women discreetly in my early 40’s, and that continued for 10 years. I visited a variety of providers, had a number of one night stands, and developed several ongoing relationships of a “fuck buddy” nature, one in particular with a younger Russian woman that lasted about 7 years, and a more recent one with a married woman who is getting nothing from her husband. Most of these relationships and sessions have been “straight”, but I’ve had several with myself as the dominant man, to the level of enjoying my woman on a collar, heeling at my side, taking my paddle, and of course servicing me every which way I desired. I’ve also had a few submissive sessions where those roles were completely reversed, and I’ve thrilled to that as well.

Early last summer my wife finally figured out I was seeing other women. I think she used a private investigator, as she knew things that even I couldn’t figure out how she’d know.

Rather that terminating our very long relationship, my wife encouraged we “finally” (she’d been asking off and on for a few decades!) go to counseling, and I agreed. We found a therapist and started. That process has led to a vast opening up about our sexuality. I’ve discovered, for example, that my wife masturbates regularly in the shower, and fantasizes about being taken by two men. The most significant result of this has been that my wife’s sex drive (or should I say, her explicit interest in and desire to have sex, I think the drive was always there but stifled by our relationship) has gone through the roof. We are having sex on average 5-6 times a week, sometimes even 7 times a week. Excellent, juicy sex.

My wife however is not “all sex”, in a variety of ways. She considers herself a feminist, and buys into all kinds of viewpoints as a result. Porn, for example, is “degrading to women”, and she doesn’t like that high physicality focus, particularly with the woman so typically being subservient. This gets into a lot of more subtle landmines. For example during sex she doesn’t ever want to be called “girl”. She doesn’t want me to hold her head while I’m fucking her mouth. In general she’s very hesitant to engage in fantasy play, and certainly not with her being cast in some subservient role (i.e., a secretary who is getting screwed by her boss for example).

Sexually she loves getting drilled hard and for long periods. In the past she really didn’t like or want me to go down on her, but now that’s okay. She does like “all” positions, she loves to suck my cock. In our younger days she would orgasm while riding me, but for a long time now she always achieves orgasm through masturbation after all the hard fucking is over, while I’m combining some mouth fucking with some nipple sucking while I masturbate next to her. Similarly, I tend to require lots and lots of hard stroking to reach orgasm (unless I haven’t cum in days, something which almost never happens!), and so I usually also orgasm next to her through masturbation. Sometimes I have her blow me right as I’m starting to cum.

Overall, what she wants before and during sex is “romance”… not a porn scene and not a porn oriented fantasy, particularly right now given she’s aware of my infidelities and “experiences”.

In the past (15 years ago), she worked for a few years at a woman owned erotic products boutique, and during that period, we did some sex play with a variety of “objects”, and a few times had formal dom/sub scenarios.

Now, to the zinger. In the last several counseling sessions she’s said she would like to screw other men. Her reasons are “because I’d like to have those experiences too”. We’ve had discussions about “is this some kind of payback” and so on. As she explains it, “her world has changed” given that I’ve done this, and she’s thinking “why shouldn’t I?”. I’ve gone from “thinking about it” to saying “okay, you can do that, I just want to know about it”. (Similar rules now apply to me: if I’m going to go outside, I have to tell.)

Well of course this fires up my fantasy engine big time. I’ve ALWAYS had fantasies about my wife being a hot slut, in all kinds of different scenarios (her becoming dominant, her being taken by a dominant man, her hooking up with a dominant woman who then comes and whips me into a good submissive shape, then hands the reigns to my wife and calls in some bulls, etc.).

Now the question is where to take this. I do have the fantasy, and she’s shared how her hottest fantasy is definitely having two men. I’ve shared in counseling sessions a little bit about having the fantasy of her having sex with other men, and she knows about it from my fantasizing out it verbally occasionally during sex. But I haven’t just come out and said “yes, please please go fuck another man!”. Part of me really wants to… and part of me is scared to.

At our most recent counseling session, she said she really didn’t know where to start, and started asking about where I went to meet women, and suggesting that I help her! I don’t know how serious she was, and I had the knee jerk response of “no sorry, I’m not going to help you find other men!”. But maybe she was going someplace different, namely, it would be more comfortable for her if “brought her” a man that I thought it was okay for her to fuck? I don’t know. I’m going to ask next week.

Any ideas/suggestions on where and how to take this rather complicated situation? I do get extremely turned on by the whole “hotwife” scenario. Should I actively promote and support this? If I don’t, I doubt that she’s likely to put in the effort (or “exposure” if you will) of making it happen.

Submitted by: Zinc - California

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November 24, 2009

My incredible slut wife

Cuckold Place Update

This is my beautiful sexy hot slut wife Jane

We’ve been married for a little over a year but I have been overseas for almost of it.

We really enjoy this lifestyle and she plays while I’m gone by posting videos, pics, and audio of her fun. She needs cock and pussy 24/7. I cannot keep up with her at all. She loves to spread those legs and loves riding BBC and young ripped studs!

She is currently also overseas for the last week and for the next two weeks and during that time she has been fucking her co-workers leaving me nasty emails! Mmmm, can’t wait to see the pics when she’s back! We enjoy the comments so keep posting please!

Here is the email I received today from my wife…

I went to the spa today….. I took off my clothes and was completely naked on the massage table. My masseuse is a 28 year old hard body. As he was massaging my back and legs he kept rubbing lightly on my pussy. I didn’t think it was on purpose so I tried to just sleep. He asked me to turn over. I did and he slid me to the end of the table and put my leg on his shoulder and was massaging it. He slid his hand along my leg then pressed his palm onto my pussy and rubbed it in a circular motion. I moaned. He smiled and said I have the most beautiful body he has ever witnessed. He rubbed my body with oils sugar and creams for an hour then put me into a shower. I showered as he watched.

He took my hand when I stepped out and got on his knees in front of me with a towel to dry me off, as he did this he began to lick and kiss my pussy. I grabbed his head and pushed it into me. He laid me onto the massage table and ate my pussy then he fingered my ass! He took off his clothes and shoved his cock in my mouth while he ate my pussy. Then he deeply kissed me…..he called me ma ‘dam over and over as he fucked my pussy…… then he pulled out and jerked off on my belly. It was so fucking hot! Omg! I am going back tomorrow!
I love you !

Check out some pics of Jane getting fucked here

Submitted by: mn_cuck_dustin

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November 20, 2009

Why are we attracted to..

Why are we attracted to slutwives (hotwives).

My wife is a sexy 44 year old, 36c-28-36ish figure, 5ft6 tall and has shapely legs, real MILF material. We have been together for around 16 years, and she has been fucking other men since we first met. We don’t know how many exactly but well over 300 guys since we got together. Guys at clubs, parties, holidays, while working away, you name it, she’s done it. I knew she was a slut when we met but had no idea she would continue in the way she has.

At first, I kind of just put up with it as something I had to live with if I wanted her, and to be fair, for the first 3 years or so, it wasn’t too apparent to me as she was doing it mostly behind my back. I knew she was flirting a lot but didn’t realise just how many of these guys she flirted with ended up between her legs.

Clubs and parties were her thing then, we sometimes would go together but sometimes she would go with friends or on her own. I noticed how sexy she would dress, especially when she went out on her own, short skirts and dresses, nylons, heels and often no panties, she said they ruined the line of her tight dresses. I started to help her choose the outfits to go out in, and found myself choosing more and more revealing outfits for her.

One night I remember, her dress was so short that when ever she sat down, there was no way you could avoid seeing her slit. I saw her get into the cab, so did the cab driver, as she opened her legs to get in, I am sure that he never watched where he was going when he was driving. I sat at home wondering how many guys got to see my wife’s freshly shaven pussy that night, not to mention the guys that got to feel her up.

I began to enjoy the fact my wife was a slut more and more, knowing what she was doing, with or without me present. Sometimes she would stay out at parties all night, sometimes come in around 5am drunk and used, she would flop on the bed half passed out, I would see that her pussy was swollen and creamy, obvious that she had been fucked at least once. I would get on top of her and slide in her, the feeling of her vagina was so different after she had been with someone.

I would like to know if anyone else is in this situation, and why you think we love such sluts that we married, in my case I knew she was before we married, I am sure that in some cases, some guys find out well into their relationships. I look forward to your comments.

Submitted by: Jim - UK

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November 16, 2009

Hotwifing in mainstream

Ok, this question has been about before concerning mainstream movies with a hotwife theme. I have collected or at least extensivly reviewed the list that everyone must have seen by now on every HW related site (below) and many more.

I have been trying to find if any of them present a hotwife lifestyle were the husband/boyfriend gets off on her HW activity and they enjoy it as a couple. The greatest example of what I mean is of course Animal Instincts. It has everthing. The HW lifestyle and the loving fun marraige in a very mainstream movie. After this the soft porn, all the ladies do it, is very good but still is not quite what can be termed a mainstram movie. Mainstream movies make it easier to bring up the topic without arrousing suspicion and letting the idea take root in her mind, when she can work out what she thinks of the idea over time. It is a non pushy way of getting things started.

The Cuckold is a great movie but it is too focused on race dynamics and overall more cuckold orientated than HW. The only other good example I can find is from Sideways, it is not the main point of the movie, but hwing appears in a positive setting after a husband finds his wife in bed with another man and later we hear them fucking together and both of them getting off on what has just happened. I quess there is no other mainstream movie out there like Animal Instincts, however does anyone know of any other parts of movies when it features or is at least alluded to? and can you give a little detail in the comments below?. There are perhaps many more movies that feature swinging or cuckold activity where the wife loses the love for her husband but that is not what i am looking for. So please positive or at least funny examples. Please include mainstream TV also.

Here is the old list.
http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/07/17/cuckold-cinema/

and one here
http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2005/05/04/hotwife-and-cuckold-movies/

Come on guys, there must be something more out there. ?

Submitted bt: Jon - Ireland

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November 13, 2009

Daisy at Erotica

Just a quick note today to let all you UK hotwife fans that my very own hotwife Daisy and your very own webmaster Trash (me) will be at this years Erotica show at Olympia in London on Friday 20th November from 5pm-10pm at the Strictly Broadband stand E3.

If you’re gonna be there come and say hi.

Erotica 09

Daisy

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November 8, 2009

Who’s in control?

Cuckold Place Update

I’m just wondering who is in control in your situation. You? Your wife? Her lover?

Many things are changing in the dynamic of our relationship and I’m wondering how other people do things. If you could, please give me some insight about some or all of these questions-

1. How do you feel about your wife being in love with another man?

2. How would you feel if - your wife wanted to stop having sex with you? Her lover wanted her to stop having sex with you?

3. How would you feel if - your wife wanted alone time with her lover? Her lover wanted alone time with your wife

You can read some more responses on this topic here

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October 31, 2009

Mrs Kelly Update

Here’s a new email and pic from Emma’s loyal cuckold and husband Scott. Thanks for keeping us updated Scott.

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Hi Trash,

Just wanted to let you know that our blog was recently blocked by Blogger so we decided to start our own site to avoid interruptions and censorship in the future.We would really appreciate if you could alert your readers to our new site at www.mrsemmakelly.com

Em has been very well serviced by her new lover, Darius, as can be seen in the picture we’ve provided. She is very happy to have a guy who is available and who lives close by. She’s also been fantasizing about a finding a man with whom she can form a more emotional bond. She thinks it’s time to cuck me on a deeper level.

Best,

scott
Mrs. Kelly’s Playhouse

Emma Kelly

Read Emma’s Interview with Hotwife Blog Here

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