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WE DID IT! - Letter to the Bull

We did it.. My wife fucked a large black man in the backseat of his minivan two days ago while I watched! I’ll elaborate all of the details later, and I’ll try to get my wife to add her comments/impressions. But for now, this is the thank you email I sent him this morning… (It’s so weird yet erotic, the thought of sending a “thank you” email to a big black man for fucking my innocent wife in front of me!”) I’ll head off questions by saying that unfortunately there were no pictures, however we are setting up a second episode in a hotel that will have plenty of pictures and video, so stay tuned! God, I CANNOT BELIEVE that it actually happened! It’s all still sinking in, and we are both getting hotter about it by the hour! I’ve attached a picture of him from the website where we found him and one of my wife. For those interested, we have a full profile on AFF and a partial profile (but with more pictures) on DoMyWife. Enjoy!….

To …..
I want to thank you for your comments and the entire experience! First off, I really appreciate how very respectful you were of my wife and I as well as our fantasies and our relationship. It was wonderful to fulfill our fantasies, and hopefully yours, in such a perfect way. I know my wife, and I know her fantasies (and mine), and I knew she would like you. I guess I was right. I concur about it being a pleasant surprise. We honestly didn’t expect anything to happen on the first meeting. It would appear that the stars were aligned, the person (you) was just right, and it was an unqualified success.

My wife has no regrets and in fact would like to meet again! As much as we’ve gone back forth on whether to turn this fantasy into reality, sometimes for months at a time, my wife said it was absolutely amazing! As we explained to you, she had one drunken fling in college for all of 10 minutes and other than that, you are now the only other man than myself to have fucked her. She loved your personality. You are intelligent, provided interesting conversation, you were unassuming, non-aggressive/pushy, very respectful, yet with an underlying yet powerful sensuality that obviously made her enthusiastically give herself to you so willingly on our first meeting. Considering our history and experience, that was quite impressive!

She, at first, was shy to relate her impressions to me, for fear of my reaction. When I asked her how it was, she said you were strong and took control. She has some submissive tendencies and loved how you moved her around and directed her to give you pleasure and she loved doing so. She said you were a giver as well. She loved your physique, how heavy you felt on top of her, how powerful your arms, chest, butt, legs were. She liked feeling physically dominated and made to feel small, innocent, and vulnerable. She was unsure if you liked her and was concerned whether you liked fucking her, considering her experience, and if you would want her again. She loved sucking your dick and wanted to be on her knees in front of you. She loved being on her back, with her legs and arms wrapped around you, with me watching and sometimes holding her hand, while you were fucking her so well. When I asked her how you were, she said “Are you sure you want to know?”, with a sheepish grin. She said you were an A++, the best she’s ever had. She said you fucked her better than I do. She said you felt bigger and better than I do. About her shyness to say these things, I told her I found them erotic. She said “good, because they are all true” (with another sheepish grin and giggle). She went from maybe, to maybe just one time. Now it’s “I want ….. to fuck me again in a hotel all afternoon where we all can relax without time constraints or worrying about other people.” This morning she said, “I have a problem, I’m only interested in black men right now.” When I said “What?”, she replied, “I only want black men to fuck me” and ” I want ….. to fuck me again”. She is seriously considering having you fuck her all summer long. She is almost like a teenager, the newness and excitement making her want more and soon. She loves her/our new situation, and thinks about it a lot now. The transformation is quite surprising, but extremely erotic for us both. I’ll tell you that we stayed up most of the night and fucked 4 times after we got home. My wife wants to learn from you, and I’m sure I’ll also learn from you and her more and different ways to please her better.

She wants me to help her to pick out some new underwear and a dress for her next meeting with you (if you are willing, of course). She would like to know if and when you could have an afternoon off for a hotel encounter. I don’t think you are shy, but we want to ask never the less, about taking pictures and videotape the next time. I will stay out of the way as much as possible. You can have copies of everything, but may want to blur her face (I’ll let her make the call on that one).

You can read how this developed right here

By: lips6698

Cuckold Place Update

I found out where the cuckold urge in men comes from

Dear Fellow Cuckold Enthusiasts:

It has puzzled me for years where a man’s urge to be cuckolded could come from. From an evolutionary perspective, being cuckolded and forced to invest years in caring for a child that does not carry your genes is a worst case scenario.

Surely a gene for such an urge would have been selected against until it was gone. So I was confused as to why so many of us would have such a strong urge for it. I was also concerned that the implication of wanting to be a cuckold was that somehow you were gay, but I have never thought of myself as gay, or that you were somehow abnormal or even perverse.

I decided to research the phenomenon from an evolutionary psychology perspective, and I think that I have hit pay dirt in some recent research in the journals of this young science, and I wanted to share it with everyone. Hopefully we can now understand where this powerful and puzzling urge is coming from, and realize that we are not gay or abnormal or perverted, but instead that we are the product of (and the winners of) millions of years of human evolution. For if our ancestors did not have these traits, we would not be here.

Below is an excerpt from a key paragraph and below is a link to the article. I would welcome your feedback

“An interesting implication of the notion of male intra-vaginal competition is that male sexual arousal need not always be tightly connected to male sexual preferences. In general, men physiologically respond to sexual situations that match their sexual interests (something that is not quite true in women). But intra-vaginal battles demand men to become aroused to situations that are actually unpleasant for them, for instance the suspicion of their partner’s infidelity. Men, therefore, may become very sexually aroused at the idea of their partner having sex with someone else, even though they would strongly avoid such a situation (see work by Pound, 2002). Of note, partner swapping seems to involve older couples and appears to be a way to reignite flagging sexual passions.”

You can read the full thread and find a link to the article here

By: PDClement

One of our readers David who recently posted his own experiences in the lifestyle has submitted this piece of poetry which I must say is a first for hotwifeblog. Thanks David, a very entertaining and different read.

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My husband’s hand has guided; their cocks from age to age.
As lovers get to fuck me; with each one trying to gauge
If his cock will go up me, as thick as it can be
And how my cunt needs stretching, to get it into me

I let my husband dress me, as we prepare a fuck
With lovely sexy undies, when he is playing “cuck”
But when my lover does me, my husband cannot touch
Until he’s told to help me, which he likes very much

He has to help undress me; and then expose my tits
Invite my love to suck them, as I just thrill to bits
And he may not object to my kneeling by the bed
My lover’s cock exposing to show its eager head.

It gives my husband pleasure, to hold my lover’s prick
And keep it very steady, as I begin to lick
Then on my eager urging, he’ll force it past my lips
And tell my lover “Push it in” as in my mouth it slips

And as I suck my lover, my tits he’ll now expose
To let my lover squeeze them, in any way he chose
Until I’m so excited, that I want my lover’s cream
To squirt inside my mouth, so hard, it is my greatest dream

My husband sees my lover, squirt spunk between my lips
And I am quite ecstatic, as into me it slips
My husband grasps my lover’s cock, awaiting my requests
Which then I give him, with a nod, to take it on my breasts

So just as eagerly as me, my husband takes the cock
Which even though it’s squirt its spunk is still as stiff as rock
He puts it down between my tits, still dripping from the sperm
And then surrounds it with my tits to really make me squirm.

I then lie back upon the bed, my knickers he’ll remove
To let my lover put his prick right up against my groove
Then hold it there, until my husband takes it in his fist
To guide it up inside my cunt, a thrill not to be missed

OK, I tell my husband, his prick’s inside of me
It really feels quite big inside, so watch how it will be
You must now move away my dear, although your eager face
Can be right up against my thighs as you watch it in place

So then, my lover starts his fuck with every eager thrust
My husband sees he’s hurting me, and shows a slight disgust
But when he tries to spare my pain I tell him “Keep away”
“It hurts like hell - but that’s just fine! I love it, dear” I say

My husband then has no recourse, but see his lovely wife
Receive her lover up her cunt; a fucking of her life
Her husband forced to watch, because he knows that she enjoys
Her cunt just getting sore and red with lovely lover boys

His wife is cumming many times, she just cannot avoid
The sexual agony and thrills and pleasure unalloyed
Which this big lover gives to her, despite her husband’s cries
Because he knows that, with his cock, he can’t compete for size.

So “Fuck my wife! Push up her cunt” the eager husband cries
I know my wife enjoys your cock, so give her a surprise”
“Oh, Husband, dear. It is such fun” the wife cries with delight
“And even more exciting, for it’s up me, really tight!”

The wife now tells her husband, to squeeze her naked breast
And tickle on her titties to give pleasure to their guest
So she then screams in agony her lover’s cock to squeeze
To let her husband realize just how much their friend can please

And as she grips his penis, her lover shoots his loads
And lies quite still upon her, as his penis, then, erodes
The wife then begs her lover to roll off to show her thighs
And spreads them wide, to let her husband see his big surprise

She tells her husband that her lover will now press his head
Right down upon her oozing cunt, between her thighs, now spread
To lick upon her creamy pie, of spunk and spousal flows
Until he’s cleaned her cunt right out, before her lover goes

The husband asks if that means that her lover will now go
But she assures him that is not her purpose, and says “No!
“When I say GO! my husband dear, it means GO INTO ME!
So watch him fuck me, more and more, as you will clearly see

And every time, as I command, you will assist the play
By dressing me, or holding cock, or anything I say
And you can protest all you want, you know I’ll not agree
To stop my lovers fucking me, so that is what you’ll see!

Submitted by: David - UK & USA - Hotwife Dating Profile

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Here’s another superb blog from the ever-wonderful Cuckoldress Jinxypie. It’s another insightful piece into the issue of single women and their lack of exposure to the cuckold lifestyle. Something I have been aware of for some time and that me and Jinxy have discussed before.

The lifestyle contains tons of hotwives and plenty of Bulls, it also has a huge number of Cuckold Wannabes. What it is lacking is women that would like a hotwife style relationship. I recently posted a blog to try and get more women interested in my dating site, but I think it’s a real case of women not knowing this lifestyle exists, and that is the hardest part, getting their attention. Even some women who find it and give it a go I think are sometimes put off by overbearing cucks and ones that are too needy and dominant over them. Guys that think and would say it’s all about the women but really they’re only selfishly thinking of their own kinks and fantasies.

All of us need to do more to try to encourage women to be brave enough to make the step into this and not scare off the ones that do dip their toes in trying it out.

Anyway here’s Jinxpie’s take on the issue.

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Are You Brave Enough To Try It

Imagine finding someone that loves you for everything you are, as the saying goes ‘warts and all’. What if part of who you are is a woman with a very high sex drive? Sure, men think about sex just as much as a woman does. But are they up to the task of satisfying you? Can they keep your sexual appetite in check?

Believe it or not, there are so many men that are looking for a woman to love them and cuckold them at the same time. I get many emails from such men, hoping that I have a friend interested in a similar lifestyle that I lead. Much to their dismay, I don’t have many single friends… but I have started pointing them in the direction of a specific website, hotwifedating.com. It’s a website that basically caters to the hotwifing/cuckolding lifestyle, a site where hotwives, bulls, or cucks can go find a “match” for their current situation.

In talking with the webmaster of hotwifedating.com, he agrees that there are not enough women that are aware of this lifestyle. It’s one that so many men want their wives to have, to enjoy to the fullest, yet many women are oblivious to the fact that it even exists. There are many hotwives and cuckoldresses that are able to find as many bulls as they’d like, but what about those women that have a high sex drive and may be single? Those women that certainly would enjoy having their sexual freedom, but also having a man to care about, to love, and that loves them back, that’s completely willing to let her go and have sex with as many men as she pleases. Where do we find those ladies?

That’s really hard to answer. A lot of women grow up not really talking about their sexuality, or being told that due to their religious upbringing, sex is something you’ll figure out when the time is right. But you’re ONLY supposed to have sex with that ONE person for the rest of your life, like it or not. It’s really hard to break the ideas that you’ve been force-fed most of your life. Even if a woman doesn’t really feel that way inside, she has to act like it for the sake of society. We’re not supposed to ‘rock the boat’ or be the one seen as different and scandalous! What if your flirty, trampy behavior gets back to your boyfriend or husband?!

What I would like for women to realize is, you don’t have to sneak around and hide what you’re doing. When you’re trying to be secretive and hiding things, you’re more on edge and always paranoid. How can you be happy if you’re constantly worrying? You don’t need to feel like you have to hide it! There are so many men out there that want nothing more than to have someone to love and treat like a princess, that will go out and be with as many men as she desires. You CAN have your cake and eat it too! And then have some brownies and pie and ice cream, and as many other deserts as you’d like.

Ladies, don’t feel like you need to be restricted or hide who you truly are. Once you realize you can be honest and open about everything in your heart and mind, you’ll start to see the changes in yourself – and you’re bound to feel better than ever. Don’t you want a cuck of your own?

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A recent letter submitted to me by a new hot wife from Arizona. Thanks for posting Shywife, you have the full support of me and my readers.

Hotwifeblog readers please post in the comments to welcome this lovely hotwife to our community.

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I don’t know where to go - no matter how hard I look on the Internet - I find NO support sites for the “hot wives” who are new to this lifestyle. My husband has had this fetish since the day we got married. On our honeymoon he was BEGGING me to go find another man. It took me several years to get over the shock and rejection, it may sound weird, but it hurt me so much that he wanted to “share” me. I would agonize over it and cry over it. I just couldn’t understand how, if he LOVED me, how could he want me to be with other men. He said it would “bring us intimacy” and I was scared he would divorce me if I didn’t. Everytime we made love he would bring it up. Say I needed to “find someone else to do this with in the afternoons” It drove me mad.

Finally, after I had had it up to my ears with his pleas and demands etc - FINALLY - something snapped inside me. I figured, fine, I am completely unsatisfied with our love life anyway, so maybe I can find some “hot stud” who will make me have butterflies and since I have my husband’s blessing and encouragement, I might as well. I had always been such a “good girl”. My husband had been my 4th sexual partner in my whole life when we married. I had always been very shy and never been one to date or have many boyfriends. I had never even had a one night stand. I had always prided myself on being chaste and a good loyal wife so it was so hard and so confusing to me that most other men would LOVE that trait about me and I married a man who wanted me to… well… go out and date, instead of stay in and clean the house, make dinner and take care of him.

As I look back, I see how very lucky I am that I did Marry a man who wants me to have my freedom. He loves me more than I have ever been loved, dotes on me, brings me coffee in the morning, makes me breakfast - he is the most wonderful husband in the world. I would never, could never ever leave him. So, finally after several years of me screaming NO, crying, being so confused and hurt, I finally met someone. I was lucky because he was a nice boy, but he was too young for me and I ended up realizing I was just a “Cougar” to him and I stopped the “relationship” after only a few months (much to his disappointment and my husband’s disappointment).

So, now, I have decided that I am OK with this lifestyle and am ready to pursue it but I am having such an incredibly difficult time doing so, it is almost driving me crazy. I am so sick of being judged and harassed and made to feel weird or feel as though I need to defend my husband. Every man I have met online/in person (no other “boyfriends” yet - simply met a few men as potentials) all of them, when we meet, their jaws drop and ALL OF THEM say something along the lines of “HOW COULD YOUR HUSBAND SHARE YOU? IF YOU WERE MY WIFE I WOULD TIE YOU TO MY BED AND NEVER LET YOU LEAVE” ETC. When I hear those comments, I go right back to where I was a few years ago (heck, a few months ago) to the same question - They are right! HOW COULD HE SHARE ME! And I get so upset and so frustrated and don’t know where to turn. Then, I come to a website like this, and I see how the people are respectful and I know that none of the “true” members on this site would judge me or my husband.

It is a subculture that the mainstream narrow minded people are not able to handle. They don’t understand that it takes the only the truest definition of a “STRONG” “SECURE” man / marriage to allow his wife this gift. I just wish I knew of a place to find “bulls” who were respectful of my boundaries and understand that we are not into this lifestyle to humiliate my husband. He doesn’t even want to be part of anything in the bedroom, doesn’t want to watch, or be a 3rd or anything. He just wants me to go out and have fun, and that, brings him pleasure.

I don’t know if this is the right place to send this but I am at my wits end and done with being judged or feeling weird or alienated. I just want to be part of this community and know that there are some men out there who will respectful and understanding of my situation. I simply wanted to thank you for putting this website up so that I could see that there are others in my situation and are not beating themselves up or feeling “weird”. I just wish I could find “friends” who are supportive of this lifestyle.

Thank you.

Submitted by: ShyWife - Check Out Her Hotwife Dating Profile Here

I recently got this plea though from a hotwife Called Jpeach that has recently signed up to hotwife dating. You’d think it would be fairly easy for a beautiful hotwife to find a suitable Bull but the reality can be very different. I wrote back to her and she was kind enough to send us a picture of her cracking body. Feel free to comment your appreciation below…

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It’s so hard to meet anyone who meets your criteria. Did you know that? All I’ve ever wanted is an in shape, dark haired white guy. He shouldn’t be disproportionate. He doesn’t even need a huge cock, because Hubby has that covered. But he should be able to take a bit of shit talking, keep up with an intelligent conversation, and fuck me like a nasty slut when I want.

But maybe I’m doing it wrong. Maybe guys don’t want to cuckold a husband while enjoying a 5 ft 2in, 130 lbs, white female with a round ass and 32F’s. Maybe it scares them that I have a mind of my own and I know what I want. If this is so, then I need to know. Because, while Hubby does have a big dick, I’d much rather make him watch as two random guys shoot their loads into me while I’m writhing with pleasure.

Anyone out there?

J

Submitted by: Jpeach - GA - USA Check out their Hotwife Dating Profile Here

Cuckold Place Update

Conversation with wife

I’ve been lurking here for a time, while I tried to convince my wife to enjoy fucking whoever she wanted, whenever she wanted. It took a long time, but I’ll save that story for later. About 6 months ago she found a guy and ended up keeping him as her regular boyfriend, and it’s gotten progressively more intense. I just wanted to post a short summary of a really hot conversation we had last night.

The background is that they’ve been seeing each other for a few months now, and are seeing each other gradually more and more often. It started with a date a week or so, now it’s up to two or three. And they’ve seen each other four times in the last four days. She told me at the beginning of their relationship that he was bigger, which was nice, but that my skills in bed were a bit better, so she liked having sex with us both.

Last night she asked if I could stay late at work so he could come over; she said she’d text me when they were done. I was at work (not getting much done, lol), and she texted me around 10 pm. I came home and she was just sitting on the couch, smiling and looking completely satisfied. She told me that lately he’d been getting much better and that sex with him was now “unbelievable.” She said that he fucked her for 45 minutes, that she came 3 times, and the last one was a triple orgasm. She led me back to the bedroom and showed me that the bed was moved away from the wall about 5 feet, and was completely messed up from the sex. She laid down on the bed (”because I’m not sure I can stand straight right now”) while I moved it back, all the while talking about how she’s never felt this good in her whole life. And then she said “I know it’s been a while for you”…(in fact, it’s been three weeks since she fucked me, whereas she fucks him at least twice a week)…”and i know we were going to have sex tomorrow, but can i see him again? he gets off work early again and now that i know how amazing sex can be i feel like if i don’t have it all the time i’ll die.” i told her that of course she could see him again, i wanted her to be satisfied, and that by the way if she ever can’t see him, she can always have me. she looked over at me with a mixture of amusement and pity in her eyes and said “honey. i love you. i’m even in love with you. and i used to enjoy sex with you. if he dumps me i’ll probably enjoy sex with you again, at least a bit. but fucking you when i had him the day before and will have him again the day after is so…uninspiring.”

I said I knew and understood, and she leaned back and her eyes got all unfocused again. “Good. It’s not that you’re bad or that I don’t love you. It’s just that he’s…(she whispered this) soooo magnificent…in bed.” We went to bed, and all I could think about all night was my wife with her “magnificent” boyfriend…being fucked after just a few months like I’ve never been able to fuck her in our years together.

Right now, my plan for the future is mostly just to support and encourage her, and make sure she always knows that her pleasure comes first, no matter what. My wife and I are always talking about what we both want from our relationship.

My desires are, I suppose, pretty moderate. I definitely want to remain in her life, and to be her romantic priority. I don’t think that’s a problem, as we’re both very open with each other, and are much closer emotionally and romantically than we were even before this ‘experimentation’ started. Ideally, I like a little moderate denial and moderate humiliation. I love it that her boyfriend gets to sleep with her far more frequently than I do (and I’ve calculated that she’s sucked his cock more in the few months they’ve been together than she has mine in the years we’ve been married). I love how intense our relationship gets, and how much I pamper her, when I’m horny and frustrated and denied for a while. I love it when we go most of the week without sex, as she tells me “I don’t feel like it right now, maybe tomorrow” and then when her date night comes she spends hours getting ready, totally excited to see him. And I like a little penis humiliation, so any time she casually mentions his larger size, or just how much she likes his cock (recently she told me that “it’s not just that it’s big, it’s also just shaped perfectly, like it was made just for my pussy… it hits every sensitive spot like I’ve never felt before”) it drives me wild. I don’t know if I’d want to be cut off completely or not, but I definitely want him to be her first sexual priority. And I think I would like for her to be more active and systematic about it… for her not just to neglect sex with me, but to actually deny it to me for a while, and to let him know that at least for the most part he is her man in bed.

She was initially reluctant to humiliate me like that, to the point of not telling me how big he was for a while for fear of hurting my feelings. However, when she does bring it up I make sure to not act hurt, but rather to act happy for her that she has this great pleasure, and also to compare myself to him as much as possible, in the areas where he’s got the advantage over me. I think this is working; the last time we fucked a few weeks ago, it actually began with her making a crack about my cock size, and with me joking about how she doesn’t need to worry about it anymore, with her boyfriend taking care of her. This led to her getting curious about the actual difference (he had measured his, but I never had). So she went down on me to get me hard (something she hadn’t done in quite a while) and then measured my cock. She could tell I was horny, so she rode me until I came, and then pecked me on the cheek and rolled off. While I caught my breath and threw out the condom, she called her boyfriend and gave him the official measurement, b/c I guess she thought he’d like to know. It was a bit humiliating, but completely hot. I hope this sort of thing continues. As for the other stuff, I actually am not really into creampie/cleaning, or anything like that. I’m not sure how I feel about watching, and definitely don’t want to participate. Some of these things can evolve with time, but right now I just want her totally fulfilled by him in a way that I cannot give her.

Submitted by: Tjm65

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I don’t think many Hotwife Blog readers need an introduction here but for those that do this is the amazing and wonderful Jackie who won our 5th birthday Top 20 Hotwife competition voted by you the user.

She was thrilled at coming first place and wanted to say a few words of thanks to all of you that have clicked on her pictures or looked her up over the last year.

I have some more Jackie treats coming over the next couple of weeks with a new and exclusive interview with all the questions I’ve been dying to ask her that I didn’t get the chance first time round.

Click on her link below to see her thank you video and some pictures she shot especially for all of us. THANKS JACKIE!

Gallery and Video For Hotwife Blog

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I came across this interesting article recently which touched on Tiger Wood’s alleged cuckold fantasies that were brought to light by a US magazine … It made me think how many A list celebrities play out these fantasies or secretly habour the same desires we have here. Recently OK magazine reported Megan Fox and boyfriend Brian Austin Green worked out a deal. They agreed to an open relationship where Megan can see other men but Brian can’t date anyone else. Rumor has it she took advantage of the deal on numerous occasions.

I can’t think of too many occasions where someone who is very famous was exposed as a Cuckold or played Cuckold games with their wife or girlfriend, or a famous female that was known as a hotwife. I’ve actually met a few pretty famous people at swingers clubs, but cuckold/hotwife?, it’s rare. But I guess they would go to extreme lengths to keep that type of ’socially embarrassing’ information away from the Press.

If you can think of any instances, or have any thoughts on the article please post in the comments below.