April 24, 2009
Have you ever changed your mind?
Have any of you cuck hubbies changed your mind part way through an evening?
Maybe you helped your beautiful wife get dressed for her date, saw her wearing lingerie under her way-too-short skirt and heels, watched her answer the door by giving this new guy a long deep tongue kiss while his hands roamed around your wife’s waist, hips, and ass. Then sometime during the evening … perhaps when she is about to get into his car … you decide you can’t handle it.
What do you do? Have any hubbies tried to stop what was about to happen? How did it work out? Tell us your experience.
What I always say to “wannabe” cucks is to make sure they can handle the transition from fantasy to reality. One makes the fantasy scenario to suit whatever he is comfortable with but real life is out of his absolute control. Real life has smells, sweat, real semen, uncontrollable opportunistic horny studs, etc. That being said, the first time is thrilling for its shock value alone. The second thoughts came a bit late: after I ejaculated I no longer felt very horny and the whole scene seemed ugly to me, watching the stud going on and on in her, trying to get the most of the situation he found himself in. I could tell that she had had enough of his rough handling but neither of us could make him leave her alone. Yes, I did have second thoughts and I regretted pushing her into it. It took us one whole year to attempt anything of this kind and when we did we chose same-room swap with another couple, normal sexy pleasure seekers.
Written By: SA Tyr
I’ve said before our first few times were VERY emotional for me. I still always wonder how she could love me when these guys give her such pleasure. But I now handle it much better.
One situation that I did back out of was once when we met with a couple that wanted a FMF. My wife had had sex with the guy a few months earlier, but then he found a girlfriend that was bi. They invited us over to take pictures of them, but everyone knew what they really wanted. I thought I would have no problem since I’ve seen my wife with many guys 1 on 1 and even with 3 guys at once and his girlfriend was cute so what was there to lose.
The evening started out cool, I picked up wine coolers for the girls and beer for the guys and we started talking. Then Joe started playing with his girlfriend in front of us. She became very turned on. He then looked over to my wife and said he missed her and started kissing her. Then all three of them started playing with one another. When both girls started giving him a blow job. I lost it. I didn’t expect to be so jealous. Thinking back I’m sure it was because the situation seemed to me to be for Joe not my wife. All the other situations all the attention was on her. This one seemed to be for him and I knew for certain I wouldn’t be included. I wasn’t even close to turned on. I also knew my wife although open was not bi, we had talked about it several times, so that even made me feel worse. Finally I just couldn’t handle it. I got up and told everyone I was sorry, but I couldn’t handle this. They all looked at me dumb founded, since they knew what I’d seen before.
I felt absolutely terrible. My heart started racing, my chest hurt. I felt awful for my wife. She kind of looked at me and almost didn’t get up, but then did and we left very quickly with Joe and his girlfriend saying they were sorry as well as me. I almost didn’t make it to the car.
When we got to the car my heart just wouldn’t stop beating I felt terrible and my wife started asking my why in the world would I do that. She was completely embarrassed, which made me feel worse. All I could say was I was sorry. We ended up having a big fight.
Things are fine now, and we are even friends with Joe and his girlfriend, but at least for now my wife only plays with other guys. Moral of the story make sure you can handle it or you will make everyone feel bad
Written By: mred4682
When being present and watching I have never had regrets.
The second time my wife played she did so in another room. The plan was for a blow job only. My thought was it would be over in 5 or 10 minutes, 40 minutes later they were still in there. I wanted to pound on the bedroom door and ask them what the fuck was going on. But I didn’t. I sucked it up, buried my jealousy, and waited it out.
A few times I have told her she could go out and play with her fuck buddy when I wasn’t in the mood. But again, I let my emotions run their course without interfering with with her pleasure.
In mred situation I would have gone to the other room, gotten another beer, gained my composure and then gone back and watch them finish. I would have felt bad, but it wouldn’t have made my wife or friends feel embarrassed. But that is just me, mred did what was right for him in that situation. Congratulations to him for taking that courageous step to stop things when he felt he needed to.
If you take small steps the damage can be mitigated. Your wife gives a hand job, you’re not ok with it, no big deal it was just a hand job. Everything works out for a hand job, she moves to blow jobs. You freaking when you see her sucking on another man’s cock, no big deal, it’s just a blow job. On up the scale you move until you reach a place where you don’t want to explore further.
Written By - cuck252
Submitted by: ABFetish