May 16, 2010

Art Hammer Interviewed

Following his debut interview with Nichole Wet, Hotwife Blog reader Ken is back with another interview, this time with black bull legend Art Hammer. I met Art last October in Miami at the Swingfest show which my partner Daisy hosted. He and some of his friends ran the notorious ‘Chocolate Room’ where some of the female halves of swinging couples went to fulfill a fantasy or two by having some multiple black entertainment. I have to say out of all the Playrooms there, this one was the one that was packed out and everyone was talking about by the pool the next day.

Thanks for this interview Art and for your work on it too Ken, it’s always great to have a different perspective that others can bring to the table. Look forward to your next one.

Art Hammer

Art Hammer


Ken for Hotwifeblog: The first video I saw of you opened with you staring directly at the camera, confident as the cock of the walk; you said something like, “we’re going to introduce another soccer-mom, housewife into the world of interracial passion.” Then, this very mild mannered woman came out. She was dressed conservatively and was obviously nervous. You proceeded to treat her with all the respect and consideration that a group of frat boys would show to a twenty-buck-a-trick hooker.
Art Hammer: Yes, that was our very first video. The white BIG BLACK COCK LOVING SLUT WHORE was Sweet Des; it was her first video too. She was a genuine PTA, soccer-mom housewife and a non-practicing attorney.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: No wonder she was nervous. Did you worry that you might be too hard on her? You tied her up. You blindfolded her. You said the nastiest stuff to her.
Art Hammer: Yes we did all that! Actually I had met her, her husband and 2 children at a mall a week prior to discuss what they wanted to happen when we got together with my crew and filmed it. I want to be clear that everything we do is consensual, and we agree on everything that we’re going to do beforehand. Our role-play works because EVERYONE is getting what they want. Once it starts, I’m the boss, but that’s how everyone wants it. And that’s the beauty of amateur porn: you can’t fake the funk! The camera is rolling continuously, so what you see is what you get, unlike staged, edited professional porn.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: That reality comes across in your videos. Is it something that you aim for?
Art Hammer: ABSOLUTELY!! And the fact is that it is all very, very real! You need to know what you’re doing, and that means you need to communicate honestly and clearly, well in advance. That’s true for what I do on my site and what I do in my private life.

I love meeting a cuckold couple after having only spoken to them on the phone or chatted with them online. When they describe what they want, I always immediately ask about their experience level. I want to know their threshold, because, as a dominant black man, I’m going to push any white wife to her absolute limit. Nothing, I mean nothing, turns me on more than having both a beautiful, white wife and a loving husband want me to treat her like a total white sub-slut-whore. I use her EXACTLY as I see fit from the instant they walk through the door. They want me to do that every bit as much as I want to do it myself. Sometimes, even more.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: And how do you typically see fit to use her?
Art Hammer: She will be dressed according to my instructions. I will push her down on her knees and then shove my BIG BLACK DICK deep down her throat while telling her how much of a white, black-cock-loving slut-whore she is. I tell her that she knows that she is mine to use as I please for however long I want and then tell her husband how much she loves a real man’s dick and how much better, even after only a few minutes, I know her sexual nature more than he ever will.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: That’s… impressive.
Art Hammer: “Ay, tis a consummation devoutly to be wished”
Editor’s note: That’s Hamlet, Act III, Scene I, the famous “To be, or not to be” soliloquy. Art, you should know, graduated from one of America’s top universities. He isn’t being fake or pretentious here. He’s just that well educated. He knows a lot, including Shakespeare. But even Hamlet isn’t as impressive a cultural artifact as Art’s spurting cock!

Art Hammer: I love to go to a vanilla club with a husband and a wife that I’ve required to dress like a slut. I’m talking about a non-swing club here. We walk in with her on my arm and him behind us. When the cashier asks for the money, I turn and point. I sit with her and he sits at a table beside us. I order drinks and he pays. Sometimes, I let him come to our table while I kiss and fondle her. Everyone in the place knows EXACTLY what time it is. When it’s time to settle the bill, I tell the waitress to give it to the husband. Then I make a point to loudly announce that we are going to fuck.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Wow. Tell me more about how you might use the husband.
Art Hammer: I have him wipe my forehead or bring me water or a towel, whatever makes me comfortable. I tell him to sit in a chair while I fuck his wife, sometimes I will tie him to the chair. I will have her tell him how good it feels for a real man to fuck her and cum in her pussy. But no matter where I cum, I command him to clean her up. It’s total domination, but understand that, with many couples, when the sex is done, we are friends and go out together socially. That is the difference between being a swinger versus a lifestyler. I am a single male in the lifestyle with a fetish for BDSM and cuckold relationships. A swinger is a bed-post notcher while a lifestyler is interested in friendship outside of the bedroom. For example I gave my very first party in May 03 and I am still friends with 90% of the people who came to that party.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: So, it’s important to you to have at least some sort of a wall between the cuckold world and your regular relationships.
Art Hammer: I have so many good friends because they know they can trust me to be 100% discreet. Many of the best times I have had, no one can ever see, because the couple has insisted on no pictures or video; my reputation is based on discretion! What they ask to be private will always be private! Still, I’m always looking for the couple-next-door who are willing to sign a photo release and show the world what cuckoldry is all about.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Can you give me an example?
Art Hammer: Yes, Jazzi and her hubby (picture above). Now, that was intense, because when I first met them, he was her Dom. After she became our Mandingo gangbang party slut, he got completely obsessed by the thought of being submissive to her after seeing me and my Florida Mandingos deep fuck her in EVERY hole. I don’t think he was prepared to see us fuck her bareback in all three holes. I mean we fucked Jazzi for six hours straight. When he saw that, a light went off. She is, at the bottom of her soul, a black-cock sub-slut-whore. But she’s also a switch and a chameleon. Outside the bedroom, she could be a rabbi’s wife.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Can you describe the transformation in greater detail?
Art Hammer: Initially, she was submissive to both him and us. After six months, she told me that he had been hinting that he wanted to be cuckolded. She loves her fiance dearly, then and now. So, she asked if I thought it would change their relationship or how we thought of him? I told her ABSOLUTELY not, because I like and respect them as people.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: It sounds like the kind of person a woman is matters to you a lot?
Art Hammer: That’s true. I love smart women; rich, educated, professional women make the very, very best sluts. All of the ladies I fuck for fun are perfect ladies in the street and slut-whores in bed. I’ve fucked doctors, veterinarians, CPAs, schoolteachers, school administrators, and lawyers. Sweet Des is a lawyer and a very capable one too. I won’t say what she does, but I will say that there are maybe a handful of lawyers who are as knowledgeable in her field as she is. I know how competitive her specialty is, and I can confidently say that you would be very lucky to have her representing you.

Jewish women are great, like Jazzi. They tend to be smart and well-educated, but that doesn’t keep them from submitting to cock like their lives depend on it. Sometimes I think about the Jewish guys that some of my Jewish conquests have married. If they knew the sorts of things that I made their wives do!

I’ve fucked women who’ve graduated from top colleges, both private and public: Stanford, Cornell, Brown, places like that. These are women who come from “respectable” families and who are going on to “top positions” in their communities. But they all learn lessons in “respect” and “positions” as they kneel before my dick and milk every drop of sperm they can from it.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: LOL. Nice one. Does your preference for smart women surprise people?
Art Hammer: It does. They assume that because I’m dominant, I’d want someone of less than average intelligence and education to comply with me. But they’ve got it backwards. A dominant male desires a smart, educated female because when she submits, she’s bringing all that with her. She’s submitting her Ivy League M.B.A. and using her Bryn Mawr education and natural creativity to serve me and my cock. Many people just don’t understand. Sometimes, as shorthand, I explain it this way: I love Victoria’s Secrets sluts as opposed to Frederick’s of Hollywood sluts! They start to get the picture.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Do educated women act differently than uneducated ones? What’s the appeal?
Art Hammer: I see you don’t see it either. So, I’ll give you an example. One husband asked me to arrange a gangbang for his wife. I nicknamed her Ms. Victoria’s Secret because she had the body and looks of one of their models and enough of their wardrobe to open her own store. He reserved a suite at the Tampa Hyatt and asked me to bring 6 guys, telling me that his wife had been preparing a show for us. I commanded him to bring Grey Goose vodka and Moet champagne. He bought them, and, just to show his gratitude for the cocks we were providing his wife, a large shrimp and fruit tray without being asked.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: He sounds eager to please.
Art Hammer: He was. 5 of my “A-Team” members and I met him in the hotel bar and then went upstairs. She came out and modeled for us, so I gently pulled her to me. This was not a submissive couple, just a husband and wife wanting a gangbang. There was no need to be rough. I made her kneel in front of my crotch and asked her if she craved the taste of my dick. The slut nodded and went to work. My guys closed in on her and the gangbang was on. To this day, that is one of my favorite memories, because she is a very classy lady, very high profile in the Tampa area, and very well-educated. Even now, she loves to get dicked down while her husband takes pictures.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Have you posted those pictures somewhere we can see them?
Art Hammer: Unfortunately no one will ever see the pics from that encounter! They’re for their personal use only. I mean what I said before: I am 100% discreet. Not only is it good policy, but it’s just ethical. A woman may be my slut. A white husband may be a cuckold for me to order around like I’m the plantation master and he’s the slave. But I will always treat them the way I promise to treat them.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: You refuse to use condoms. Why?
Art Hammer: I am adamant about ONLY playing with people who are tested for a minimum of HIV. I get tested once a month. I just love dumping my black seed into a hot white wife’s pussy as her hubby watches. It’s even more of a rush when they initially tell me that I can’t cum inside her and I respond that if you want me to fuck her; that is EXACTLY what I will do. Mostly, they obey. If they don’t agree, I say “no problem, get someone else.” I make white men’s wives into my property, and I always mark my territory, and that’s all there is to it. I will respect your marriage but your marriage will acknowledge the supremacy of my cock and my cum.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Interesting. Can you give an example?
Art Hammer: About 2 months ago, a couple I had been communicating with online wanted to come down from Indiana to meet me and my guys for the wife’s first gangbang. They had tried several times to arrange a gangbang at home, but the guys who showed up either didn’t look like their pictures or were smaller than they had claimed, so she was frustrated. They told me that any guys would have to wear condoms, but they wanted me to participate because they knew that, if I did, my best guys would join in.

I let them know that I only fuck bareback, but, because the wife was hot, I would post in my group, looking for strong, extra-potent, black cock. The husband kept trying to convince me to fuck her with a condom. We finally talked and she repeated her policy. I told her that I respected that, but, while I’d help her find men, I was not going to fuck her. Not being experienced and having always called the shots with men, she was deluded into being certain that I’d give in. So I let her know that she was now dealing with a REAL DOM BLACK BULL and that I was the one in control.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: What happened?
Art Hammer: She finally resigned herself to the fact that she couldn’t win. They had spoken to many people who knew me and my crew. She knew what she’d be giving up if she didn’t cave in and she realized I wouldn’t cave in. She wanted to experience the pinnacle of a white woman’s sexual life: a black cock gangbang. So, she acquiesced, but, while I’m happy to help a slut and cuckold, I expect them to show me proper respect and compliance. Before I would ask my guys to gangbang her, I would fuck her bareback in all three holes and cum in her pussy and all over her face and tits. They finally , totally defeated, agreed to my demands.

They came down, and she got tested. But, when I went to visit them, she, to my total surprise and annoyance, told me that she changed her mind and I could not cum inside her. I simply informed her that I was not going to wear a condom. She was so conflicted. I think she really thought that once I was there, just seconds away from being able to screw her, I’d accept her terms. When it became clear, I would not change my mind one bit, she consented. Of course, once I started doing my fucking, she became a bitch in heat. She wanted to be dominated and so did anything I told her. She was ready for a REAL BULL to take control. I spanked her ass, pulled her hair, fucked her mouth, and talked to her like she existed for one purpose only: to take my cock and cum. “Take this BIG BLACK DICK , slut. You know that’s why you drove a thousand miles. You came to get fucked by me. Right, slut?” She replied, “Yes sir!” as if I were her drill sergeant. I fucked her in all her slutty, white, married, needy holes and came inside her pussy and mouth. The obscenities that came out of her mouth were enough to fill up ten volumes of letters to “Penthouse,” and the way she talked to her husband would make her the trash-talk champion of any football field anywhere. At first, they hadn’t wanted me to cum inside her. But after I’d dumped some loads in her cunt, her husband gratefully gobbled down every drop of that creampie like he was starving and this was the last food on the planet. Needless to say, they were blissfully grateful to me. Once again, I demonstrated the superiority of my black dick over both a white pussy and a white cuckold husband. I then arranged the gangbang.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Impressive.
Art Hammer: I’m not bragging. It’s just a fact that it’s my way or the highway. Last year, at the Naughty in N’awlins convention in our “Chocolate Room,” there was this drop dead gorgeous brunette with a body like Sandra Bullock’s. She kept asking me to fuck her but insisted that I wear a condom.

I told her that I had four guys who I would get to fuck her brains out while wearing condoms. She replied, trying to keep her cool but increasingly unable to hide her exasperation about the fact that I wasn’t giving in, that it had to be me and guaranteed that it would be the best pussy I ever had. I told her I did not doubt the quality of her pussy and that she was probably right that she had the best pussy. Unfortunately for me, I would have to miss having it! She must have been a lawyer because she tried to convince me for 30 minutes, offering any ridiculous argument she could imagine, and gradually becoming exasperated as she realized it wasn’t working. She was promising me everything she could think of. She thought that it would provide me with incentive to back down. But I knew I could have whatever she was offering anyway from several other hotties who would let me fuck them my way!.

It was funny how desperate she was. My guys are listening to her beg while her husband waited beside her, and they are laughing because they knew it was not going to happen, no way, no how! They started joking about her desperation, but she didn’t care. I’m pretty sure that she held her ground and did not fuck anyone in our suite that night. I sure would have loved to fuck the slut, but you win some, you lose some; I don’t sweat it.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: Great story. Let’s move on to my next question. Any advice for aspiring bulls?
Art Hammer: Good question! Frank Sinatra once said, “You treat a lady like a dame and a dame like a lady.” Ol’ Blue Eyes is correct and that is how bulls should treat them. Treat a lady like a whore and a whore like a lady, and they will love you forever!

Ken for Hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future?
Art Hammer: I’m working on getting my own swing club and a studio where I can do 24/7 live video feeds with sluts who come over for me and my crew. If all goes well, it will happen by September 10.

Ken for Hotwifeblog: I’m sure many Hotwifeblog readers are looking forward to that.
Art Hammer: So am I.

Art Hammer

Art Hammer

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May 14, 2010

Jinxypie Black Cocked

Here’s some hot pics today of one of my favorite wives, the delicious Jinxypie, getting to grips with some big black cock she had over for the afternoon. So innocent looking but so slutty.. What a hot wife she is!








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May 12, 2010

Ex-Footballer fucks my wife

Here’s another submission from L and his lovely wife K.


After my wife K more or less realized her Hot Wife potential and accepted it we joined the Swinglifestyle (SLS) website and started to meet lots of couples and single men.

The first guy she met with was more or less her first official Hot Wife experience and was the first time she let me photograph her in action after promising to let it be just him and her.

The guy was pretty nice and my wife was really attracted to his profile information and pictures. Turns out he was a former NFL football player. She was pretty nervous but did invite him over to our house for some intimacy and where I could watch and film. I knew as she had invited him over that was pretty much her saying that he was coming over for sex no ifs, ands, or buts.

They started out getting to know each other a little in the living room. My wife was dressed for sex with a sheer knit top, miniskirt, and no bra or panties. She was also very freshly waxed. After some chat and a few drinks on her part they started kissing and both of them started to let their hands roam. He had K’s top up and was sucking on her nipples quickly and she was fondling the large bulge in the front of his pants. Surprisingly she was the one that suggested that they move things up to the bedroom and that I should follow them.

They both made it to the bed and continued passionately kissing and playing with each other. Without even undressing her, He had my wife’s miniskirt up and right away started going down on her. Without any panties it was easy as she willingly spread herself for him. She had her first orgasm on his tongue. They then undressed and he lay on top of her in a 69 so she could show him some oral loving for about 20 minutes. She was so turned on and she did a very good job with her lips, tongue, and nails on his very nicely sized cock and balls.

He then rolled around on top of her and my wife spread herself for him. Earlier she had talked about and promised that she was going to practice safe sex but, as turned on as she was, she made no mention about condoms. She was so wet and excited. He penetrated her for the first time as a Hot Wife and he loved how sweet, tight, and virginal her pussy was.

They fucked for a long time. He fucked her all over our marital bed and stopped several times to lick her pussy and to feed his wet cock to her. Each time she eagerly grabbed hold of his cock and put it back into her pussy for more pounding. I lost count of how many times she came and had her mouth wide open in a silent scream when he thrust harder and harder and then eventually blew his load deep into her pussy before pulling out to let the last few spurts fall right on her shaved mound. They romantically held and kissed each other for a long time afterwards as his cum flowed from her stretched out, very well used pussy. Needless to say, my wife was hooked on all the attention and the orgasms she received from someone other than her husband. She knew then that many more similar experiences would follow. Here’s some pictures from their encounter together.

Nova Hotwife

Nova Hotwife

Nova Hotwife

Nova Hotwife

Nova Hotwife

Nova Hotwife

Nova Hotwife

You can read some more of Wife’s K’s adventures here:

Tog Takes Advantage Part 1

Tog Takes Advantage Part 2

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May 10, 2010

Intimate evening in

Here’s another update from myself and Sensi from The Undercover Lover.

He’s been seeing this new wife Ruby recently. She’s only just got married but already is getting fed up with her husband and his pathetic attempts at sex. She works in the City in London and has an important job and is a boss over many men who she tells us she puts in their place whenever she can.

She’s a fiery redhead with an insatiable sexual appetite and has developed a very recent hunger for big black cock. So when Sensi got a call from her telling him that she wanted to see him after a stressful day at work, he thought a relaxing, intimate night in was in order.

Sensi met her at the station and they kissed in public and walked hand in hand back to Sensi’s place. When Ruby got to his place she stripped down to her underwear and got cozy with Sensi on the rug and cushions while they watched a horror film… It wasn’t long before the film was forgotten, she took her ring off and then she was getting what she really came for. A good fucking that will keep her husband wondering why she’s been smiling so much lately. Enjoy the pics.

Sensi and Ruby

Sensi and Ruby

Sensi and Ruby

Sensi and Ruby

Sensi and Ruby

Sensi and Ruby

Sensi and Ruby

And hotwives, if you’d like a chance to play with The Undercover Lover, you are free to wear a mask and hide your identity if you like, please get in touch here or contact Sensi direct on Hotwife Dating Here

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May 8, 2010

Hotwife Plea

I recently got this plea though from a hotwife Called Jpeach that has recently signed up to hotwife dating. You’d think it would be fairly easy for a beautiful hotwife to find a suitable Bull but the reality can be very different. I wrote back to her and she was kind enough to send us a picture of her cracking body. Feel free to comment your appreciation below…


It’s so hard to meet anyone who meets your criteria. Did you know that? All I’ve ever wanted is an in shape, dark haired white guy. He shouldn’t be disproportionate. He doesn’t even need a huge cock, because Hubby has that covered. But he should be able to take a bit of shit talking, keep up with an intelligent conversation, and fuck me like a nasty slut when I want.

But maybe I’m doing it wrong. Maybe guys don’t want to cuckold a husband while enjoying a 5 ft 2in, 130 lbs, white female with a round ass and 32F’s. Maybe it scares them that I have a mind of my own and I know what I want. If this is so, then I need to know. Because, while Hubby does have a big dick, I’d much rather make him watch as two random guys shoot their loads into me while I’m writhing with pleasure.

Anyone out there?


Hotwife J

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May 6, 2010

Creampie Friday

Friday night, woooo, just on my way out to party it up for the weekend in Brighton, see if we can find my Daisy some action and get away from tiresome Politics. For those of you not residing in the UK, we’ve just had an election here, there’s no overall party winner and so we’ve ended up with a ‘Hung Parliament’ I laugh every time I hear someone say that. I have this picture in my head of the Political leaders getting together and measuring everything up now to see which one of them has come out with the ‘biggest’ majority.

And I love the fact the Green Party got voted in for the Brighton seat. Around a sea of conservatism in neighbouring constituencies, we love to be different down here where I live and stray away from societies norms. I love this town..

OK back to hotwives and here’s a video clip from the yummy Jean Swing from last weekend having her own Friday night party with one of her boyfriends who leaves her with a huge creampie for her lucky Hubby to enjoy.

Have a great weekend eveyone!!


Jean Swing
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May 4, 2010

Wifes Birthday Treat

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May 2, 2010

Claire’s Bachelorette Party

Some of you may know that city I live in in the UK is a bit of a party town. Every weekend Brighton turns into nightlife heaven and attracts revelers from all over the country intent of being naughty and indulging in sex, drugs and rock n’roll. Always part of the weekend crowd are the groups that come down specifically to celebrate their Bachelorette Party or Hen Night as we call them in the UK. These girls get wild in the bars and clubs and once a little drunk, being on their own, away from the respective partners and the freedom that brings, they often end up in various acts of sexual fun with strangers. I myself have witnessed various Hen parties here and seen how wild they get. And it’s not just snogging some random guy on the dance floor. I’ve seen a Bride-To-Be herself discreetly sucking a guy off in a corner of a club and also seen one Bride come out of a toilet cubicle with a guy pulling her knickers/panties up.

So with this theme in mind I wanted to show you these pics from the guys at The Dancing Bear who do a great job to depict the type of goings on I have mentioned above. Here we have Bride-To-Be Claire at her Bachelorette Party. Her friends hire her a couple of male strippers for the night and as the alcohol flows so do their inhibitions with Claire giving one of the strippers a blow job. I love the shot of the guys cum all over her necklace which could easily have been a precious gift from her loving fiance. Let’s hope marriage doesn’t change her too much.

Naughty Brides to be

Naughty Brides to be

Naughty Brides to be

Naughty Brides to be

Naughty Brides to be

Naughty Brides to be

Naughty Brides to be

Naughty Brides to be

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April 30, 2010

Minor humiliation increasing

Cuckold Place Update

Conversation with wife

I’ve been lurking here for a time, while I tried to convince my wife to enjoy fucking whoever she wanted, whenever she wanted. It took a long time, but I’ll save that story for later. About 6 months ago she found a guy and ended up keeping him as her regular boyfriend, and it’s gotten progressively more intense. I just wanted to post a short summary of a really hot conversation we had last night.

The background is that they’ve been seeing each other for a few months now, and are seeing each other gradually more and more often. It started with a date a week or so, now it’s up to two or three. And they’ve seen each other four times in the last four days. She told me at the beginning of their relationship that he was bigger, which was nice, but that my skills in bed were a bit better, so she liked having sex with us both.

Last night she asked if I could stay late at work so he could come over; she said she’d text me when they were done. I was at work (not getting much done, lol), and she texted me around 10 pm. I came home and she was just sitting on the couch, smiling and looking completely satisfied. She told me that lately he’d been getting much better and that sex with him was now “unbelievable.” She said that he fucked her for 45 minutes, that she came 3 times, and the last one was a triple orgasm. She led me back to the bedroom and showed me that the bed was moved away from the wall about 5 feet, and was completely messed up from the sex. She laid down on the bed (”because I’m not sure I can stand straight right now”) while I moved it back, all the while talking about how she’s never felt this good in her whole life. And then she said “I know it’s been a while for you”…(in fact, it’s been three weeks since she fucked me, whereas she fucks him at least twice a week)…”and i know we were going to have sex tomorrow, but can i see him again? he gets off work early again and now that i know how amazing sex can be i feel like if i don’t have it all the time i’ll die.” i told her that of course she could see him again, i wanted her to be satisfied, and that by the way if she ever can’t see him, she can always have me. she looked over at me with a mixture of amusement and pity in her eyes and said “honey. i love you. i’m even in love with you. and i used to enjoy sex with you. if he dumps me i’ll probably enjoy sex with you again, at least a bit. but fucking you when i had him the day before and will have him again the day after is so…uninspiring.”

I said I knew and understood, and she leaned back and her eyes got all unfocused again. “Good. It’s not that you’re bad or that I don’t love you. It’s just that he’s…(she whispered this) soooo magnificent…in bed.” We went to bed, and all I could think about all night was my wife with her “magnificent” boyfriend…being fucked after just a few months like I’ve never been able to fuck her in our years together.

Right now, my plan for the future is mostly just to support and encourage her, and make sure she always knows that her pleasure comes first, no matter what. My wife and I are always talking about what we both want from our relationship.

My desires are, I suppose, pretty moderate. I definitely want to remain in her life, and to be her romantic priority. I don’t think that’s a problem, as we’re both very open with each other, and are much closer emotionally and romantically than we were even before this ‘experimentation’ started. Ideally, I like a little moderate denial and moderate humiliation. I love it that her boyfriend gets to sleep with her far more frequently than I do (and I’ve calculated that she’s sucked his cock more in the few months they’ve been together than she has mine in the years we’ve been married). I love how intense our relationship gets, and how much I pamper her, when I’m horny and frustrated and denied for a while. I love it when we go most of the week without sex, as she tells me “I don’t feel like it right now, maybe tomorrow” and then when her date night comes she spends hours getting ready, totally excited to see him. And I like a little penis humiliation, so any time she casually mentions his larger size, or just how much she likes his cock (recently she told me that “it’s not just that it’s big, it’s also just shaped perfectly, like it was made just for my pussy… it hits every sensitive spot like I’ve never felt before”) it drives me wild. I don’t know if I’d want to be cut off completely or not, but I definitely want him to be her first sexual priority. And I think I would like for her to be more active and systematic about it… for her not just to neglect sex with me, but to actually deny it to me for a while, and to let him know that at least for the most part he is her man in bed.

She was initially reluctant to humiliate me like that, to the point of not telling me how big he was for a while for fear of hurting my feelings. However, when she does bring it up I make sure to not act hurt, but rather to act happy for her that she has this great pleasure, and also to compare myself to him as much as possible, in the areas where he’s got the advantage over me. I think this is working; the last time we fucked a few weeks ago, it actually began with her making a crack about my cock size, and with me joking about how she doesn’t need to worry about it anymore, with her boyfriend taking care of her. This led to her getting curious about the actual difference (he had measured his, but I never had). So she went down on me to get me hard (something she hadn’t done in quite a while) and then measured my cock. She could tell I was horny, so she rode me until I came, and then pecked me on the cheek and rolled off. While I caught my breath and threw out the condom, she called her boyfriend and gave him the official measurement, b/c I guess she thought he’d like to know. It was a bit humiliating, but completely hot. I hope this sort of thing continues. As for the other stuff, I actually am not really into creampie/cleaning, or anything like that. I’m not sure how I feel about watching, and definitely don’t want to participate. Some of these things can evolve with time, but right now I just want her totally fulfilled by him in a way that I cannot give her.

Submitted by: Tjm65

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April 28, 2010

Jackie thanks Hotwife Blog

I don’t think many Hotwife Blog readers need an introduction here but for those that do this is the amazing and wonderful Jackie who won our 5th birthday Top 20 Hotwife competition voted by you the user.

She was thrilled at coming first place and wanted to say a few words of thanks to all of you that have clicked on her pictures or looked her up over the last year.

I have some more Jackie treats coming over the next couple of weeks with a new and exclusive interview with all the questions I’ve been dying to ask her that I didn’t get the chance first time round.

Click on her link below to see her thank you video and some pictures she shot especially for all of us. THANKS JACKIE!

Gallery and Video For Hotwife Blog

Read Jackie’s Exclusive Interview With hotwifeblog.com

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