April 26, 2010

Celebrity Cuckolds

I came across this interesting article recently which touched on Tiger Wood’s alleged cuckold fantasies that were brought to light by a US magazine … It made me think how many A list celebrities play out these fantasies or secretly habour the same desires we have here. Recently OK magazine reported Megan Fox and boyfriend Brian Austin Green worked out a deal. They agreed to an open relationship where Megan can see other men but Brian can’t date anyone else. Rumor has it she took advantage of the deal on numerous occasions.

I can’t think of too many occasions where someone who is very famous was exposed as a Cuckold or played Cuckold games with their wife or girlfriend, or a famous female that was known as a hotwife. I’ve actually met a few pretty famous people at swingers clubs, but cuckold/hotwife?, it’s rare. But I guess they would go to extreme lengths to keep that type of ’socially embarrassing’ information away from the Press.

If you can think of any instances, or have any thoughts on the article please post in the comments below.


April 24, 2010

Fan Favorites

Today’s post is from one of our readers Ron. Following on from our Top 20 voted hotwives he has written in with some honory mentions he thought should have made the list.. Here’s Rons Hotwife Selection… Thanks for the blog Ron! Have a great weekend mate!


Greetings Trash

I just wanted to say BRAVO for conducting the “Top 20 Hot Wives” countdown. I know I speak for a lot of people when I say that I couldn’t wait to log on to see who else made the top 20 list! What people need to understand however, is that this wasn’t necessarily YOUR top 20 list, but it was the top 20 most clicked and searched on the blog by all users over the last year. Just the same, out of respect for some of the other fan favorites, I think there are a few ladies who deserve some honorable mentions. So if I may, please allow me to give some special shout outs to some women who didn’t make the top 20 list, but who definitely help make this site what it is…


Naughty Alysha

At least a couple of times a week I log on to see Alysha’s clip of the week. Most of the time we’re treated to her husband filming her with one of her pre-arrange hook ups! But every once in a while we’re treated to Alysha picking up some random stranger at a casino, in a bar, at the swimming pool, or in one case out in front of a restaurant while her husband was getting the car! Not to mention her ability to handle dildo’s the size of your fist! So keep up the good work Alysha! And thanks for putting the “grrrr” in swinger!



Sammy is a hot, fun loving, and VERY talented blonde who never ceases to keep my cock from getting rock hard whenever I see her in action. She also appears to have a pretty hot network of friends, and together they have the kind of parties we all wish we could attend! VERY hot!



I didn’t see Allie on the list of hot wives, but this is somebody you DEFINITELY have to get in touch with for an interview Trash! She is a SUPER HOT blonde, who often appears with her husband Jake. She is also a good friend of Sammy, and together the two make quite a team. If anybody has a “thing” for Anna Paquin on True Blood, then you’re going to absolutely LOVE Naughty Allie! I know I do! (wife and I watched some of her clips when we had another couple over one night. Definitely helped get the party started!)



I think what I love about Desirae the most, is that she looks like one of my wife’s friends. Cute little blonde hairdo, wears glasses, and has this HOT little body on her that she hides with conservative clothes at work but who loves wearing a bikini and showing it off at the pool. The more I see the more I like!



I think Wifey deserves some extra special credit. Not just because she looks like a real life Barbie doll! Not because she has some of the hottest, most incredible, most amazing REAL breasts I have ever seen. And not because she takes her husband’s massive cum load anywhere she can get it without so much as a blink of the eye. But because Wifey is proof that a woman doesn’t necessarily have to fuck other people to be a HOT wife! And I think that deserves a lot of credit!

Keep up the good work Trash! This is one of my favorite sites of all time, and I can’t wait to see what’s next or who else posts another story or experience. I absolutely love all the visitor submitted stories from REAL people about their REAL experiences! It all serves as proof that you don’t need a professional website to live life to it’s fullest, and enjoy the lifestyle together as a couple! Have fun everybody!

San Diego, CA


April 22, 2010

Super Bowl Hotwife

A second true story submission from lovely hotwife Mary.


Well notact you wanted to know about my second experience, I hope you enjoy it as much as my first.

It was Super Bowl Sunday and my husband invited his friend K over to watch the game. K was the gentleman I had my first MFM experience with about 6 months earlier. We haven’t really gotten together since that first night due to the fact that both him and my husbands jobs have them traveling a lot and their schedules always seemed to conflict.

K arrived that afternoon and the three of us sat around the fireplace having a few drinks while we waited for the game to start. When it came to kick-off time I went into the kitchen to started putting together their snacks and preparing dinner for later. I knew the three of us were going to have some of our own fun after the game so I decided I would put on a little show for them during the game and give them a preview. After I finished putting their nibbles together I went into the bedroom and changed. I put on a black satin corset, a pair of thigh highs and my sexy high heels. I grabbed the trays of food and walked in to serve my two hungry men. My husband almost spit out his drink from shock and K’s eyes just about jumped out of his head lol. I Just set the food on the table and calmly asked if they could use a couple of more drinks. They both said yes grinning and giggling. I made their drinks and walked back into the kitchen. I put on my apron so not to get myself messy and continued to put together a stew I had in the pot for later on. About every fifteen minutes I would walk into the room stand in front of the tv and ask them if they needed anything. If they did I made sure to take care of them knowing they would be taking care of me later hehe.

I waited for halftime to start and figured I could put on a better show so I grabbed my favorite vibrator and walked into the room. I had them move the coffee table in front of the sofa laid on the floor and began my little show. Every time they tried to get up and help me I would stop my show and threaten to leave if they got up. After several minutes of working the vibrator against my clit I slid it inside of me and made myself cum. Once I was done screaming and I caught my breath I sat up and had them pull out their cocks. I was not surprised when they sprang out of their pants quickly. I took turns sucking on them for a few minutes each. Just enough to tease the without making them cum. I got back up and told them I had things to tend to in the kitchen. They begged me to stay but I thought it wouldn’t be right not to let them finish the game.

I served them dinner and made them drinks throughout the rest of the game. Once the end of the game came near I went into the bedroom and waited. It didn’t take long for them to find me as they walked into the bedroom already naked. I was laying on my back with my legs spread wide open. The next couple of hours were magical! They traded me back and forth taking turns between my pussy and my mouth, fucking me in every position possible. After several orgasms K rolled me onto my side lifted my leg and pushed inside of me as hard as he could. He grabbed my hair pulled my head back and started grunting loudly. When he came I honestly thought someone had turned on a hose inside of me. I never thought a man could push out so much cum. As his cum started pouring out of me he just kept pushing harder and replacing it with more. After he finally stopped he laid down to catch his breath, but before I could catch mine my husband rolled me onto my back. As he rolled me over I could feel and hear the cum flowing out of me. My husband grabbed my ankles and pushed his cock inside of me and began fucking me like never before. With every thrust more cum would shoot out of me and around his cock until he yelled he was about to cum and boy did he. It shot out of him like a canon. He rolled off of me and the three of us just laid there catching our breath and laughing. My outfit was in shreds on the floor, my stockings were all ripped apart, I had one high heel still left on, my makeup and hair were a mess from all the sweat and I had tons of cum all over my ass, pussy and legs.

I gave K a big hug and kiss and thanked him for a great night and then I rolled over and gave my husband a big wet kiss. As I got up to take a much needed shower I took the time to take each one of them into my mouth so I could get a little taste of all three of us. After I got in the shower K left and my husband joined me. Once we both laid down again we feel asleep from exhaustion but the following morning we had a great love making session :)


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April 20, 2010

Shanae’s New Life

Black Bachelor Update:

Married Woman Writes About Her Development into a Hotwife

I have been having problems with my husband for a couple of months. We both lost our jobs, so money was tight. Then again money was always tight. I was under so much stress. For awhile all I did was work during the day and watch our child at night while he worked. Instead of turning to him for help I turned to younger guys.

It was just talking at first and soon I was going out with them. I have cheated on him 3 times. He hasn’t found out but he did find some old emails I wrote to another guy recently.

He was suspicious but I managed to talk him round and let him know they were harmless and platonic. I know he suspected me of cheating but even the emails weren’t proof (there was nothing sexual in them). I never totally confessed to him because I love him so much after 20 plus years of marriage and I don’t want him to hate me.

But a woman has needs, sexual needs and if I am not getting them from my husband I feel I need to find that release elsewhere. I just recently turned 51 years of age this January of 2010, I have decided to start a new chapter in my life and start fulfilling myself sexually. I have always wanted to have sex with a group of black guys, with big cocks who would lay me down on the bed and shoot, hot cum all over me. I have gotten very kinky in my older years, my husband would never really understand it.

Today was the first time I went out on a blind date with a younger black guy, I knew I was going to fuck him once we got past the warm, hello’s and how are you doing! I even let him take me anally, it was such a rush and thrill. His flatmate took some pics of us which I have posted below.

I love the new me, which doesn’t have to fight the sexual wars within, I have accepted my love for sex and can look in the mirror and enjoy the person I’m looking at. If my husband finds out, so be it.

Warmest Regards,







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April 18, 2010

Got to be there

Cuckold Place Update

Cucks from a Psychological Point of View

Like to start a thread for anyone interested in delving deep into the heart and mind of a cuck from a psychological point of view. Many of us are diverse and complex. I for one am still trying to figure out why I tick a certain way. I have a strong need to understand all the why’s..??

I am sure there are some that have been cucks for a short period of time, others live the lifestyle off and on and some live as a cuck for years. I invite all of you and Cuckoldresses who truly understand the complexities of our deepest desires to share your insights, psychology and thoughts.

Basically a Q&A.

Let me start off with the first question that has been on my mind for years.

I have read here and other sites that many cucks are not present while the wife is with her Bull. For some reason the thought of this to me is unbearable. To me it would seem more like an affair than being cucked, if I was not there. It would drive me nuts to be by myself while she is out getting fucked. I know some cucks get phone calls and listen that way. But I am not sure I could even handle that. I simply could not ‘risk’ the loss of my wife to another. So this is obviously a control issue I have, even though I try hard to be a submissive in my relationship, with my wife.

I’ve Been married for over 20 years. I think I am past the trust part. Lets face it; one thing that I have learned is that my wife is capable of things I never imagined. Just when you think you know someone you find out that you really never knew them at all. Time changes people.

But I know that even if my wife were to stray it would be only temporary. Its hard to give up 20 years of lifes experiences with someone. The level of trust and love after this many years cannot be duplicated by a brief or semi-long term romance. It takes the same amount of years to regain the place-of-trust that took so long to earn, to begin with.

Mature relationships tend to understand this. Big losses for each party. However since most marriages don’t last but a few years these days, if that, one never experiences the true value of long-term love and commitment. Therefore Big losses are not realized.

I guess maybe I need to be there because if I am not then I will miss out on the type of love I desire from her, sexual humiliation. To have her come home and give me all the details is not the same as watching the movie in real time, I guess. Maybe it appeals to my masochistic side.

On the other hand the wife may not want the husband there because she cannot relax or the Bull might not be able to perform (get it up and keep it up) with some hubby lurking in the midst.

But for me I need to be there. I need to see the face of my wife enjoying another man cock more than mine. I need to see her lovers larger cock being engulfed by my wife pussy and hearing her have orgasms. I need her to look at me while she is enjoying herself knowing that she is comparing me to him and lets me know how much more a real mans cock feels so much better than mine and that I can never please her and this is the reason why she fucks other guys. Anyways you get the picture. Total Humiliation.

The funny part is that I don’t get jealous. Actually I am sexually satisfied mentally. I truly desire the feeling of sexual humiliation. I don’t know where this comes from. I wish I knew why?

After the event I can go on with life like nothing ever happened BUT if I was NOT there it would drive me insanely jealous and I would be worried that my wife was cheating on me behind my back. A fear of betrayal would always be present in the back of my mind.

Can anyone share some insight or if you have similar feelings, let me know. Or if anyone has other questions please ask those as well whether they are related to this question or not.

Submitted by: Waystar

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April 16, 2010

Barbi’s Nightclub Pickup

An email sent in from our 4th placed hotwife, the stunning and delicious Barbi Sinclair.

Hi Trash!
I’ve missed you and Daisy incredibly already and can’t wait to meet up again. You know how it goes with this formula:

Two naughty sluts X round the clock horniness = mind blowing sexual encounters.

Watch out everyone, he-he! Anyway, I can’t stop enjoying my slutty adventures, especially when it cums to worshipping a BBC! I thought I’d share some of these pics with you and show you just how much I enjoyed this spontaneous encounter with some guy I had met at a nightclub. Ciao for now and hope to see you soon!!”

Barbi Sinclair




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April 14, 2010

Our Camping Trip

A true story submission about a couple’s first time with another man.


My wife and I hadn’t had sex for a few years. My fault really. I had not really shown her too much attention sexually and I think one of the reasons was subconsciously I was hoping she would eventually get so frustrated that she would look for sex elsewhere. I always had fantasies of being cuckolded and my wife having an affair, and one summer my wish finally came true.

We went on a biking trip in the Mosul River valley. Our guide was a dark French guy named John. He was about six four and was a handsome man. We all got on very well and I immediately started to think of ways I could get my wife into his arms. On one of the first biking days I would slip back and let her ride up front with John and watched their relationship develop. My wife is a smoking hot doctor, so he was flirting, obviously he found her attractive and you could tell that she liked it.

At night John would lay his pad out and sleep under the stars. One night it was particularly cold so I asked John if he would like to sleep in our tent. My wife looked surprised but didn’t say anything. We had large sleeping mattress that we could all fit into quite nicely. I purposely scooted up to the edge of the bed, putting my wife in the middle. As we turned off our tent lights I pretended to fall asleep facing away from her on my side and all was quiet for a while. At least for an hour nothing happened but I was aware of some slow movements and slight adjustments of bodies going on. Then I could feel my wife slowly bending her ass towards John as her knees went into the back of mine. A few moments later I heard a slight whimper and I knew she could feel his cock pressed against her pussy. It was a sound mixed with submission and surprise. I knew from the sound she must have been turned on and soaking wet. I even suspect he may have using his fingers at some point too.

I then felt some more movement, my wife lifting up and then raising her legs slightly, and I knew he was pulling down her panties. I lay dead still, breathing heavily, feigning sleep. Some more adjustments and rustling then she moaned. I knew his cock was inside her. He started to move in and out. I could feel on his thrusts inside her pussy her body pushing slightly into mine. She tried to be quiet but was letting out little whimpers and moans while I pretended to sleep on. This went on for about 10 minutes when I felt the rocking reach a slight urgency and then it was still and I felt him roll over onto his back. My wife stayed on her side and dropped her legs down straightening up. I then turned over and faced her and slowly put my arm over her and down her body, real casually. I wanted to feel her pussy. I reached down and came into contact with the crease of her ass and top of her left leg which was soaking wet. I knew this was cum that must have leaked out of her pussy and ran down. Satisfied she’d been fucked and had another man’s cum inside her I feel asleep with the biggest smile on my face.

In the morning I broke the ice by asking if she had any good dreams. She smiled and said she had the biggest best dream she had in a long time. I told her to never stop dreaming. And so it began.

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April 12, 2010

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April 10, 2010

Tog takes advantage again

Part II of a Tog Takes Advantage

This is a continuation of K’s first real hot wife adventure posted here.

Over the next week my wife and I only had sex once but it was terrific! I did notice that K’s pussy was nowhere near as tight as it used to be. I commented on that to her she said shyly said that she guessed that she was getting used to something much thicker.

The next weekend we were on out way back over to see A. He had finished the pics and wanted to download them for us onto a CD so we could get them printed. My wife again didn’t really expect anything to happen at least, not that she told me. Again she was wearing just plain jeans and a turtleneck. When we got over to A’s, he gave her a smack and a drink. He had just gotten out of the shower and was only in a towel, which he traded for a t-shirt and an eastern style sarong. He had retired the futon in the living room in favor of a daybed that was a lot more comfortable and could be used for a large sofa. He and my wife sat on the daybed and I sat on another chair facing them to chat. They chatted about anything and everything like his work, ex-girlfriends, and parties he’d gone to recently. They were not really making any moves at each other. He had his legs draped over her’s and pretty soon it became obvious that my wife could see his cock peeking out through the side of his sarong as he lounged there. A would sometimes pull the sarong aside to flash it to her and occasionally stroke it a bit. My wife was getting a bit flustered seeing it because I think she honestly didn’t intend to give in to him on this visit. He then asked her to remove her jeans because he didn’t like seeing her in them. She rolled her eyes when he asked her again and then she slowly peeled them off revealing her Victoria Secrets cotton bikinis. After a few more minutes of small talk he asked her to remove her knit turtleneck to he could see more of her. She asked him if he would like that and he pulled the sarong aside to show her all of his hardness and asked her if she thought he was pleased with what she was showing him. She then pulled off her turtleneck and he reached behind her to unsnap her bra freeing her 34B’s and her already hard nipples.

My wife then reached over and started to stroke A’s cock and, after a few minutes of stroking, she bent her head down to lick it up and down making it glisten. He reached over and slid her panties down and off exposing her wet pussy which was again shaved smooth except for that one little strip of brown hair. He told her while she was sucking him that she needed to practice her skills at rimming his asshole. She asked if he didn’t like the way she did it the last time they were together and he told her that she needed to get more into it and learn how to dig her tongue much deeper inside his ass. She told him she would work on it but rimming was something she just didn’t have a lot of experience with. He told her to get on her hands and knees with her ass in the air and for me to rim her asshole while she did his. He then got on his hands and knees to present his ass to her and I moved over and started to lick her fragrant ass while she buried her face as deeply as she could into his asshole with her tongue. While I was tonguing her ass I reached around her and spread his ass cheeks wide so she could dig her tongue even deeper. Her rimming lesson lasted almost fifteen minutes and I could tell she was doing her best and that her best was very good by the way he was rolling his ass back and forth on her tongue. Her pussy was soaking wet by then and very ready to be penetrated. He then got his bag of condoms and rolled one on. He moved behind her and mounted her. Once again, she was wet enough that he slid in smoothly with one long stroke. She let out a long moan and then a satisfied sigh. She really loved the way his thickness totally filled her compared to my thinner member. She had several orgasms in the next 10 minutes with A pumping in and out of her very quickly.

After fucking for about 20 minutes and holding each other tightly, kissing, and whispering sweet things into each other’s ears they took a break to have a smoke and to catch their breaths. He rolled off his condom so my wife could suck him a bit. Then she excused herself to go to the bathroom and, once again, A got up to follow after a minute. And, as before, I followed about 30 seconds later. I turned the corner to see A again bend her over the vanity and slid his cock into her.

I went into his bedroom which was the room next to the bathroom where I could sit on his bed and watch them. I then realized that A had not replaced his condom and that he had just entered K’s wet pussy from the rear and was now fucking her bareback. I could hear him telling her that he loved fucking her from the rear while watching her face in the mirror. He also told her that he knew she loved it also. She could only moan as he pounded his cock in and out of her. After a few minutes they moved back to the day bed in the living room and lay back down. I think it was then that my wife realized that he had been fucking her totally bare. She was quite surprised and shocked and told him so. He told her that he had been caught up in the moment and hadn’t given it any thought. He then got up on his knees between her legs, spread them and then started to rub his cock up and down the length of her vagina. He then started to slap her pussy with his hard, bare cock telling her that it was his bare cock doing this to her. She shook her head back and forth trying to deny him access to her but she wasn’t pushing him away because of all the pleasure she was receiving. A then pulled back a little and then, with one quick move, sank his length into her pussy to the hilt. He told her that he was now fucking her with no condom and that he knew she loved it. She was shaking her head but now she was moaning and giving herself to him totally surrendering to the pleasurable onslaught. He fucked her like this for several more minutes before pulling out and letting her suck him as a finale.

In the car on the way home, my wife expressed shock again that A would fuck her with no condom. I told her that I didn’t realize that he was doing it in the bathroom for the first minute or so and that it was most likely ok because she was quickly becoming his primary sexual partner. She still said that she would really prefer him to wear one. I then told her that, since we now had the CD of the pics he took on our first visit, that it was pretty obvious that, if she saw him again, she was going over there primarily for the opportunity to fuck him. She realized that there were no more innocent excuses for seeing him and that she would have to except the fact that she really did enjoy fucking him.

In the interim, the sex my wife and I had together was fantastic though not too frequent. As before, I noticed that her pussy was nowhere near as tight as it used to be. I guess this is what I was going to have to get used to now that she had been so powerfully fucked by A’s thicker cock on two occasions. I would ask her during sex which one of the lovers she preferred and she sort of hedged around an answer, probably not wishing to hurt me and not wishing to admit to herself how much she enjoyed the continued company of this other man that had entered her life. She did say that while my cock was definitely longer, his was much thicker. I do know that his incredible staying power gave him the ability to satisfy her more completely and to leave her sexually exhausted and fulfilled.

Two weeks later A called and asked to speak with K. He asked that we come over so he could see her again. I told him that going was her decision to make and not mine. It was very obvious to her that, if we went, that she was going specifically to have sex with him. She was the one who had to want it badly enough to set it up. I asked her and she agreed to meet him on Sunday afternoon. A asked her to wear something sexy for him as he was tired of seeing her in just plain jeans.

We went over that Sunday afternoon. To please her lover my wife wore a long, flowing dark sundress and a spaghetti strapped cotton camisole top. As always, A had a vodka martini waiting for her after he greeted her with the standard hug and a deep kiss on the mouth. My wife went to sit on the daybed while he sat in a chair facing her. I sat on the old futon against the far wall. We all caught up on lives and goings on for a while with mostly the two of them dominating the chat between themselves. It was obvious that they had missed each other a lot and were very intent on each other. My wife mentioned that she had enjoyed being with him but was surprised that he had taken her last time without a condom. He leaned forward when he talked with her and his growing erection was becoming evident in his sweatpants. I got up to go to the bathroom and, when I came out, he was standing in front of the daybed with my wife sitting on the edge with her feet on the floor. She had pulled his hard cock from his sweats and was stroking it with her right hand while holding her cigarette in her left while they looked deeply into each other’s eyes. He leaned down further to whisper something to her. She then leaned down and kissed the head of his cock and then slid back onto the daybed pulling her legs up, spreading them, and leaning back onto her elbows. He then reached under her ankle length skirt and pulled off the black thong panties she had worn just for him. She offered to remove her skirt but he said that he wanted her to keep it on because he liked the way it looked on her. He leaned forward while she smoked and began to stroke his thick cock up and down the length of her pussy. He told her that now it was his bare cock rubbing her pussy and she must like it because she was getting so wet. He said that he was going to put his naked cock into her pussy and that she wanted it in her. She didn’t resist him at all as he slid his cock into her fully and told her that he was now fucking her bareback. She looked so sexy lying back with her long skirt bunched up around her waist with him kissing her deeply while he stroked in and out of her. Her moans and gasps of pleasure were something to behold as I sat there and watched and listened to her cum over and over again. He then repositioned himself on the bed so that he was lying on his back and he told her to mount him and to fuck him as hard as she could. My wife got on top of him, slid his length into her and proceeded to ride him up and down very quickly. Because he had so much more staying power than myself there was no need for her to ever slow down or to stop. Again she was cumming uncontrollably and her juices could be seen rolling down the length of his bare cock on her upstrokes and pooling by his balls on her down strokes. He just held onto her hips holding her skirt up over them. She was even still wearing her black camisole top!

He let my wife take a few breaks during the fucking so she could relax and smoke a cigarette. This way she wouldn’t get too sore from his pummeling. During these interludes they would chat and she would lazily stroke his cock and lean over to suck him or lick his balls. After her cigarette, she began to suck him in earnest and, as always, gave him a long slow blowjob of the type that she rarely ever gives me. To see her mouth so wide and her cheeks bulging so full as she lovingly sucked him was definitely a sight to see.

After a final break, he pulled out his bag and proceeded to put on a ribbed condom. He rubbed some lotion on it. She asked what that was for. He said that it was a warming gel that he knew she would love the feel of inside her. He told her to get on her hands and knees because he wanted to pound into her doggie style. She obediently did so and he mounted her and began to fuck her very hard and very fast. Within only a few seconds K’s moan because screams of pleasure as she came again and again with her face pressed into the pillows. After about ten minutes of this treatment, she collapsed exhausted with him on top of her. She then said that that had been the absolute best sex ever for her. They lovingly kissed each other and whispered into each other’s ears before deciding to call it a night and agreeing that this was one of their best encounters ever.

Nova Hotwife

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April 8, 2010

Jinxypie Wisdom

I wanted to post today a recent blog from Cuckoldress Jinxypie. It’s an insightful piece for the need for honesty and openness in the lifestyle. I myself are guilty of keeping my thoughts and feelings to myself a bit too much. Being a constant fantasist, I find it hard to let some of these fantasies out in the open giving limited information to my partner, and have only myself to blame when things do not pan out the way I really wanted. This blog really hit home Jinxypie is so on the ball with her grasp of the lifestyle.


Clearly We’re Not Mind Readers

I talk a LOT about communication, about people being OPEN and HONEST with each other. We can do that when it comes to things we like or dislike in general, and sometimes on a sexual level. But as husbands and wives, do we really open the gates about what we need from our spouse from a cuckolding relationship?

Ladies, when you first started the steps in your cuckolding relationship, did you completely understand everything your husband wanted out of it? Of course not! Honestly, he probably wasn’t even 100% sure what he wanted. I have spoken to a few women that took a step forward, only to end up taking four steps backwards, due to miscommunication and hurt feelings. Men, we’re putting ourselves out on the line when you ask us to partake in this lifestyle… if we do something wrong or don’t completely understand what you need and you “throw a fit” over it or get upset, we’re not going to want to do this anymore. Sad, but true… we think that we’re only going to screw it up and that we’ll have to deal with you being upset after we are with another man every time. Truth is (and I’m talking to both genders now), if we just push through it and keep talking, we will start to understand fully what the other person needs from us.

Here’s an example from my own life. Some of you may be surprised to learn, I wasn’t always good at this. (Shocker!!!) We all have a growing/learning process to go through, and it’s not easy. When I first began this journey, I wanted to go out alone to hotel rooms or to some guy’s place to have sex. My husband and I had just had a baby about 4 months prior, so he was to stay home and take care of the children while I went out for a few hours. Since my husband couldn’t be there, he’d always ask if I would try to take pictures, just so he could see. Not an outlandish request, right? Well, I would always get where I was going and be uncomfortable bringing up pictures, because I thought the guy would be freaked out by it. I mean, I wasn’t really keen on taking pictures (funny how things change, huh?) – why would some random guy be OK with it? So I never even brought it up. I would get home and the first question my husband would ask would be “So did you get any pictures?” Time and time again, I would say no. The look of disappointment and hurt on his face both killed and confused me. I was out doing what he wanted, right? Cuckolding is about having sex with other men to get sexually satisfied, what does it matter if there are no pictures to prove it?

I couldn’t have been more wrong. To him, that small inconsiderate move was like saying “This is for me, I could care less about what you need out of this.” All he needed was to see what was going on, specifically see my face and how happy I was. I wasn’t willing to give him that because at the time it made me a little uncomfortable.

I was so wrong.

Cuckolds tend to get target-fixated, they start to obsess about one particular thing that could happen, they forget about anything else. It could be something as seemingly simple as seeing his love’s face while she’s taking in another man’s larger sized cock, or something as small as hearing her call her lover a specific pet-name while they’re having sex… or even watching her in a certain sexual position. As women, we don’t know what’s inside their head! But it is our job to try to pry it out of them, if they’re not open to tell us outright.

Think about it this way, ladies. Let’s say you were planning a date with this massively hung, good-looking guy. He wanted to take you out on the town, then back to his place for a lot more fun. Well, date night comes around and dude calls to say he’s running late. No big deal, we can wait for a bit… this is going to be a spectacular night! An hour rolls by, and he’s still not ready to go… then another hour. Then you get a phone call saying he’s too tired from working to go out, and he just wants to chill back at his place. Well, there’s a little disappointment but we can still have fun in the bedroom! He swings by to pick you up, and all he can talk about on the drive to his place is work, he hasn’t even said one word about how HOT you look in your new dress and heels. Once at his place, he plops down on the couch and turns the TV on. Dumbfounded, you go sit next to him… some time passes and you try to make a play. He goes for it, and before long you’re in the bedroom – just where you wanted to be all along, right?! Finally! …except it doesn’t last very long. He gets you all worked up and is done in the span of about seven minutes. You’re lying in the bed beside him, ready to rip his head off, because all he could care about is himself! You have needs too!

All that build up, and then you’re let down. That’s how it is in the mind of a cuck. They build themselves up with the fantasy and excitement of what might happen, what they WANT to happen, and when it doesn’t happen, they freak out.

It took a while for me to understand this concept. Now that I get it, it’s easier for me to ask him what he’s been thinking about, what would be the most exciting thing for him to see/hear while I’m with one of my men… taking the time to talk about what he wants will help you to understand what he is target fixated on, what he’s obsessing about.

Trust me ladies, once “that thing” happens, he’ll be over it and moving on to the next obsession. That’s not a bad thing either, it helps you both to grow sexually and push your limits, making things more exciting. =)

Talk to your cuck. Cucks, talk to your woman. We aren’t mind readers!


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