December 6, 2009

David Ley Interviewed

I’ve had some great feedback recently from our posts focusing on the psychological nature of our lifestyle. Seems we are all fascinated with why we are sexually wired the way we are. Personally I love to reflect on what makes us all horny and find it really interesting when someone manages to touch something in my mind that I can relate to.

So today I am pleased to present an exclusive interview with author David Ley, a clinical psychologist and the author of a new book, Insatiable Wives, Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them. To see if he can shed any light on why we do indeed love our women that stray.

David Ley

hotwifeblog: Welcome David and thanks for taking the time out to speak to us…. Tell us where are you based in the world?
David: I live and work in Albuquerque New Mexico, though I travel a lot for business. For my book, I interviewed couples across the country.

hotwifeblog: Tell us briefly about your new book?
David: My book is called Insatiable Wives, Women Who Stray and the Men Who Love Them. It’s available on Amazon. It is an examination of the history of cuckoldry and permissive female sexual infidelity, along with the research that explains some of this phenomenon. In the book, I talk about women through history who have been sexually liberated, with their husband’s permission and encouragement. The book began after I encountered some couples who live a hotwife lifestyle, and discovered that there has been nothing published about this phenomenon, even though there are lots of people pursuing it currently as well as many stories of it in history and literature. I wrote the book in part because so many of my fellow counselors and therapists believe that couples who are not monogamous are automatically unhealthy in some way, a belief that I did not find to be true.

hotwifeblog: So hotwifing/cuckoldry is not a new phenomenon?
David: I think a lot of people believe it is new, though I found evidence that this lifestyle has truly been around as long as human sexuality has. In my book, I talk about examples of this lifestyle in the Bible, in many non-Western cultures, and throughout Western history. I’ll give you a few examples: in some island cultures, festivals were celebrated with unrestrained sexuality. One story I cite describes a wife who took on over a hundred men in one night, during a tribal ceremony. Amongst Western civilization, examples of historical hotwives include Pauline, the sister of Napoleon Bonaparte, and Wallis Simpson, the divorcé who married the King of England in 1936. Wallis Simpson had famously had a threesome in China with a former husband, and practiced a technique in bed that she called the “Shanghai Squeeze,” which was allegedly able to make a “matchstick feel like a Havana cigar.”

What is new today is that the Internet has allowed more men and women who might be interested in this lifestyle to learn that they are not alone in these desires. In the past, people suppressed their desires for fear of social rejection and stigma. Finding that there are others out there who share these desires has led more husbands to be brave enough to express their desires to their wives, and more wives to be willing and able to explore their sexuality outside their marriage. The resource of the Internet has also offered them more venues through which to pursue fulfillment of their desires and fantasies.

hotwifeblog: Where does the lifestyle come from?
David: I argue in my book that there are lots of reasons for this phenomenon. For women, it is a means to explore the full reaches of their sexuality, safe within a marriage and with the knowledge that their sexual explorations will not cost them their husband. Sometimes, it is an avenue to explore male bisexuality, even if only vicariously through the wife’s adventures. It can also be a means in which men can “experience” the greater capacity of sexual fulfillment available to women, getting sexual excitement by watching their wife achieve greater sexual pleasure through the attentions of more than one man. Some men celebrate that they have a wife that other men want - they can even share their wife with other men, and enjoy the admiration and envy they get for having such a sexy and uninhibited wife. Some of the men I interviewed talked about feeling like they are a “king” with something other men want (some women talk about the feeling of being a “queen” desired by so many men and so powerful in holding that desire). Some men, as in the story of Lady Chatterley’s Lover, have physiological difficulties satisfying their wife sexually, and do not want her to “lose out as a result.”

hotwifeblog: How do we end up with this kink?
David: I think there is a lot of biology at play here, in different ways. Our brain chemistry changes over the course of a relationship. When we first start a sexual relationship, we are driven by our neurochemicals to have lots and lots of sex, and think about our partner all day long. After a few months though, those chemicals subside, and our sexuality changes somewhat, becoming more nurturing and bit less passionate. But, when we start a relationship with other people, those early exciting neurochemicals roar back at full strength. When the wife goes off with another man, she then brings that chemical excitement back to her husband, and her primary relationship.

hotwifeblog: Do you think exposure to the lifestyle at an early age has made cuckoldry stronger for men than if they found it say recently?
David: I saw more men who had these desires from an early age, and who experienced them quite strongly, and relatively fewer men who had the desires emerge suddenly. The common fantasy is that the husband finds the wife being unfaithful, and finds himself surprisingly aroused by it. But the great majority of the couples I saw intentionally began their sexual explorations at the initiation of the husband, based upon long-standing desires he had to see his women, and especially his wife, enjoy sex with another man.

hotwifeblog: We get a lot of regular guys out there, even regular guys that swing, that can’t seem to understand that we enjoy our wives/girlfriends behaving like sluts. Are we that different to conventionally minded men?
David: I think this is a fascinating question, and one that isn’t really answered. I argue in my book that the things that underlie these desires are basic, natural parts of human sexuality that are just taken to an extreme by men who pursue hotwifing or cuckoldry. But why and how these men end up going to these extremes is still something of a mystery. Hopefully, my book will start some questions and research into this area.

hotwifeblog: How would you say guys into this lifestyle are able to control the jealousy emotion in their minds that so many men would never be able to do?
David: First, I think that the jealousy is often still there, but comes out in their sexual excitement, rather than through fear or anger. But more so, I see that these men and couples have developed high levels of communication, and learned to talk about situations that would trigger jealousy, then either avoid them or manage them. And some people seem to just be immune to jealousy, either by virtue of their own personality, or by their confidence in the security of their relationship and the love they share with their wives.

hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
David: I think another form of biology is involved here, that of sperm competition. Sperm competition is a theory of evolutionary sexuality based on the theory that male sexual biology responds to the risk of cuckoldry with increased sexual energy and by ejaculating more sperm behave more aggressively, in order to combat the sperm of another man. A case in point - the overwhelming male fantasy is for a threesome with two females, but surprisingly, research shows that the overwhelming image present in pornography is a single woman with multiple males. Why? Because when a man watches pornography with multiple men and a single woman, his ejaculate contains more sperm, he ejaculates harder and longer and, is more disposed to become erect again and ejaculate again. Hotwife and cuckold couples have unconsciously found ways to use that biological mechanism in order to trigger enormous sexual excitement in their primary relationship, as the husband’s sexual chemistry is kicked into overdrive by his wife’s sexual explorations with another man. At the same time, the wife is often more orgasmic with a man other than her husband, as her body reacts with physiological excitement to the possibility of becoming pregnant by another man.

hotwifeblog: Do you think women have this lifestyle within them or are they driven to it and adapt to it by the freedom their partners give them?
David: Female sexual capacity is infinitely greater than male sexuality. A woman can have as many as fifty orgasms in an hour; a man is limited to at most three or four. But society has condemned and constrained female sexuality for millennia, and it is only in cultures where women had economic power that women could resist those constraints upon their sexuality. In our society, it has been the rare woman who innately embraces the full capacity of her sexuality, and explores it outside social dictates regarding monogamy, and being “proper.” Most, but not all, of these couples start on the path of hotwifing at the husband’s initiation. But, as the wives explore the sexual and personal freedoms in it, many of them enjoy the ability to reject the social pressures upon their sexuality that they have experienced throughout their lives, and embrace the opportunity to pursue unrestrained sexual explorations with other men.

hotwifeblog: Do you think all or most women have potential to live life as a hotwife?
David: I saw a lot of men who desired to find ways to turn their wives into hotwives. But women are under intense social pressures from an early age, telling them to be “nice,” to suppress their sexuality, and to avoid ever being a “slut.” This history of pressure is difficult for most women or couples to overcome. Also, while many women enjoy casual sex, few women truly embrace the exploration of casual sex, even with the support and encouragement of their husband – the social conditioning is just too strong. And, for some women, even sexually liberated women, this lifestyle just doesn’t fit their desires for intimacy.

hotwifeblog: How did you yourself find an interest in the lifestyle?
David: I have worked with sexuality and counseling throughout much of my career, but most of it focused upon unhealthy aspects of sexuality. Gradually, I found that there were lots of people quietly exploring aspects of sexuality that people judged as unhealthy, just because they were rare or uncommon, not because anyone was getting hurt or because there were issues of nonconsent. When I first met some people living the hotwife lifestyle, I confess that I initially thought that their lifestyle must be unhealthy, or damaging to their relationship. When I found that my initial assumptions were ungrounded, I became fascinated that people were healthily living a lifestyle that rejected so many strong social taboos. The more I learned, the more fascinated I became, as I found how much the lifestyle had to say about human sexuality and marriage in general.

hotwifeblog: Do you have any personal cuck feelings lurking within?
David: Everybody asks whether I wrote this book about my own sexuality. What I found is that cuckoldry has been involved in human sexuality throughout our evolution. Sure, I found some of the stories these couples told me to be quite arousing. As a man, I have always found female sexuality very alluring, and sexually confident women to be extremely attractive. Having learned more about female sexuality in the course of this book, my admiration for female eroticism has grown.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever been in a relationship that was this way inclined?
David: My wife and I have been married for ten years. She has always joked about her one day having a harem of husbands. At least, before I wrote this book, I always thought she was joking. Now I’m not so sure. Having written this book, I find that I’m no longer so threatened by that idea. If these other husbands came with some useful skills, like being a gourmet chef who loves to do yard work for instance, I might even be willing to consider the possibility.

hotwifeblog: Do you really think people can live this lifestyle and still have a healthy marriage?
David: Ultimately, I think that the core components of a healthy relationship, such as good communication, trust, mutual respect, and mutual support, can be implemented in a monogamous or nonmonogamous marriage. I saw several couples who had been happily married for over thirty years, who were pursuing hotwife encounters. I also saw some who got into hotwifing, and got in over their heads pretty quickly, and watched their marriages fall apart. The differences, I think, go back to the health and strength of the relationship’s foundation. With a healthy foundation, couples can explore beyond a lot of boundaries.

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out this lifestyle?
David: To be successful, I think couples have to communicate very carefully and clearly about their desires and needs. They shouldn’t try to sneak into this, or “set up” situations where the wife has sex with another man, without consent being established beforehand. Those are traps that will devastate trust in a marriage. I saw many women who simply couldn’t believe that their husbands really loved them, when they told their wives to be a slut with other men. Couples who explore this lifestyle have to work really hard to establish love, open communication and trust.

hotwifeblog: What is your next project?
David: Right now, I’m recruiting couples to appear in a documentary about hotwifing. It will be based on my book, and will explore the lives and sexual adventures of these couples. Like my book, the goal is to present these couples in an honest, respectful fashion, showing them as normal people exploring an extraordinary and exciting sexual lifestyle. If any of your readers are interested in being in the film, and I hope some of them are, they can contact me through my blog, at insatiablewives.wordpress.com

Insatiable Wives
You can order this book at Amazon here

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Side note: Regarding the book cover, here’s an interesting tale of what David told me about it’s background:
“It is a painting of a great story, the tale of the Greek king Candaules. Candaules had a beautiful wife of whom he was very proud. So, he got his friend Gyges to hide in the bedroom while she undressed, so that he could see her beauty. Unfortunately, the wife saw Gyges, and went to him the next day. She told Gyges that due to this shameful act, Gyges either had to kill himself, or conspire with her to kill Candaules. Gyges pragmatically decided it was better to be king than be dead, and so he killed Candaules, took the beautiful Queen as his own, and took over the throne. The story is told by Greek historians as a cautionary tale of the dangers of sharing your wife with other men-you will lose her, lose all that you have, and maybe even lose your life.”

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Interview by: Trash


December 4, 2009

My contractor and my wife

Hotwife Jackie’s husband writes in to us.

My contractor and I played a round of eighteen holes of golf this morning. We hung out at the clubhouse for a beer then I invited him home to meet the wife since she would be the one home while he was supervising our remodel. My wife brought us another round of beers and some sandwiches and we all sat around and chatted. I could tell John, my contractor, really liked my wife. He told her how beautiful she was. It was then I told him that I took pictures and video of her and put them up on the web for other men to enjoy. After a few beers he was very bold and asked if he could have my wife’s panties. I told my wife to stand up and walk over to him. She did and we both reached up under her skirt and pulled her panties down together. I told my wife to her to lay back on the couch with her head on the arm rest. I told my contractor to go over to my wife and unzip his pants and hang his cock in her face. “Open your mouth baby!” I then told my contractor “Go ahead John, put your cock in her mouth.” I told my wife to suck it good. She began sucking John’s dick. Before long we were both taking turns stuffing our dicks in my wifes mouth and fucking her face. I told my wife to spread her legs and the contractor fuck her if he wanted. He wasted no time shoving his cock into my wife’s cunt and started banging her as she sucked my dick. We traded off between her cunt and her mouth a few times before John shot a huge load of cum into my wifes hot hole! When we were finished I had my wife spread her legs one more time for a shot of his cum dripping out of her cunt.


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December 2, 2009

Intimate with old flame

I’m not sure I really qualify as a cuckold. I’m not into the humiliation aspect that so many who characterize themselves as cuckolds are. Perhaps I’m more of a Candaulist: one who enjoys exposing their mate to others in various settings and, carrying that idea to its logical conclusion, derives pleasure in watching their wife or partner have sex with other men. Fortunately I live with a woman who has an exhibitionistic streak and a healthy sex drive and is willing to indulge me in this area. We always play together although she will often wear revealing clothes to work and then tell me about the men who flirt with her and catch glimpses of her breasts and pussy which she subtly displays. I love to hear her stories when she gets home.

We reserve our more extreme behavior for when we are out in bars and restaurants or out of town when we are less likely to run into people that we know. There was an evening recently, however, that broke this pattern as she had an old high school friend come into town from back east. She had actually had a threesome with him and his wife after their high school reunion about eight years ago before I met her. He had recently called my girlfriend to say he would be in town for the weekend and his wife had given him the go ahead to look her up and see what she was up to. We later learned that his wife had also said he was free to engage in any activity if the situation presented itself. They are mild swingers back where they live and each of them had things going on the side.

We hadn’t been out playing in a while and since we planned on getting together with him anyway while he was visiting so we discussed the possibility of having him fuck her should circumstances present themselves. We agreed that it could be fun and the fact that he lived out of town mitigated the fact that she knew him. I was excited at the possibilities even more than usual especially since she could feel very safe with him, something that we do have to consider with the men we don’t know. She remembered the time she hooked up with him and his wife at their reunion and started to get excited for the opportunity to have sex with him again.

I asked her to pick out one of her most revealing outfits to wear with the hope of setting the tone for the evening so after work she went home to prepare herself. We arranged to meet him at a nice upscale bar in a hotel downtown convenient to his hotel and as I had some work to finish up I decided it would be better to go join them straight from work. We had decided to meet at 6:00pm but I thought I’d give them a little time together to catch up and didn’t get there until about 6:30.

By the time I arrived they were both on their second drink and I could tell that things looked promising. She had worn a draped-neck top that hung almost to her navel so that when she leaned forward her breasts were very visible. Together with a short skirt she looked very hot and he appeared to be enjoying himself. After some small talk the conversation drifted to the topic of the last reunion and I asked them to give me all the juicy details from when they had fucked before. He didn’t need much encouragement when we told him what we had in mind for the rest of the evening. We headed over to his hotel and he fingered her pussy in the elevator on the way to his room.

Once inside I took a chair in the corner and watched as he proceeded to fuck her in every conceivable position. Since she felt comfortable with him she was relaxed in a way that was different from that of the strangers I had seen her fuck; she even felt safe enough to let him screw her without a condom which she never does with someone we have just met. I was going crazy watching his cock slide in and out of her and when he finally exploded he left her cunt dripping with his cum. This was something new for both of us-she asked if I would come eat her out and even though she was oozing his cum out of her pussy I felt like I needed to oblige. Maybe I’m more of a cuckold than I thought.

I think we are close to entering a new stage of this relationship as the idea of having her fuck people she is somewhat familiar with may open up some pleasurable doors for us. I’m not sure I could ever get to the point where I would be comfortable having her go fuck someone by herself and then come home and tell me about it. I think I like watching too much for that and it really makes fucking her myself all that much better.

Submitted by: Jon - USA


November 30, 2009

Mandy gets 10 inches

It’s been a long time since we’ve heard from gorgeous hotwife Mandy so I was delighted to receive an update from her this week on one of her extra-marital encounters.


We’ve been swingers for about 15 years and it never ceases to amaze me how much my husband gets off by watching me devour a dick, doesn’t matter the color, although for him, the size does matter - the bigger the better. For me, I get to experience new man-meat; play with, suck & fuck to my hearts content. And, of course, the ultimate finish, getting to play with another fresh batch of spooge.

Most husbands wouldn’t be able to watch their wives enjoy a large dick, but mine encourages me to do so. It does take a very special man to stand by and ask his wife how that big cock feels while she straddles it or tells her latest boytoy to “fuck my wife harder”. My husband Keith loves to find new cock for me and this time he found a guy with lots to “give”, lol. You gotta love a husband who hooks up his wife with an extra-long schlong for her pleasure.

My latest boytoy had 10-inches of hard rod and he was anxious to start working it in me. From the moment I had his pants down to the air-straddling, we had a blast exploring each other in different positions. All the while, my husband Keith stood by snapping photo after photo and videotaping the entire escapade. During this particular episode he didn’t join in; his pleasure comes from watching me. It is rare for him to participate during my sex romps with other men. Not that he wouldn’t want to, but he’d rather take a backseat (or is more of the front row *smirk*) while I use up another boytoy.

For Keith, the ride home has got to be the ultimate turn-on. He knows that I’m freshly fucked, with another man’s cum either still inside me or dried somewhere on my body. He just witnessed me have my way with someone new. And he knows it will be his turn when we get home. The anticipation :-)






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November 28, 2009

Camp site fuck

A few years ago, my wife and I had had a few sexual experiences outside of our marriage, and they were all fun. I always encouraged her to flirt with other men, hoping one day she would have sex with one.

One weekend we went camping, and after we got set up and were sitting outside our motorhome by the campfire, we noticed a Camper of a friend of ours was parked a little way away. Eventually he saw us and he came over and joined us by the campfire. We had had a few beers and spent a pleasant evening with him. I got tired fairly early that night and decided to hed for bed, but told my wife and my friend to stay and have fun. I was very excited about the possibility of something happening between them both. I looked out the window after I had been in bed for about an hour, and saw that they were not by the fire. I was so tired from the days travelling I eventually fell asleep.

About three hours later, I heard my wife coming into our camper, and I woke up. I asked her if she had had fun, and all she said was “Feel my pussy!” It was wet and dripping with cum. She then laid on her back and told me to lick it out, and I did, licking her to orgasm. I then climbed up over her and slid my cock into the wettest, warmest, most incredible feeling pussy I had ever experienced. I came almost immediately, and so did she. We carried on fucking like we have never fucked before and I came about nine times in the next couple of hours. I had never come so many times in such a short time, and I have never experienced anything like that since.

My wife kept on seeing him for a few more years, but then he started getting possessive and wanted more, so my wife broke it off. It was sill, one of the hottest experiences of our married life.

Submitted by: John - Minnesota


November 26, 2009

My perfect cuckold

Here’s some great pics and a story that have been sent in from one of the wives featured on a great new site - Black Cock Heaven - check it out.

Jayden writes…
“Nobody thought we would make it past 6 months, but it has been a long three years and I really didn’t think my husband would be able to take a step in the cuckold direction! I mean we have played around with other couples before, but nothing even close to this! A Black and a Latin guy fucking me while he watches? One cock in my ass the other in my pussy. He has taken to it all so naturally, I love him for it. I will never forget this anniversary for the rest of my life. My mother told me when I was a young girl, that older men are the key to happiness and she was right. People may question our love for one another because of the age difference and what we do but the reality is, I love my husband, he lets me be a woman and he is the perfect cuckold for me”!









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November 24, 2009

My incredible slut wife

Cuckold Place Update

This is my beautiful sexy hot slut wife Jane

We’ve been married for a little over a year but I have been overseas for almost of it.

We really enjoy this lifestyle and she plays while I’m gone by posting videos, pics, and audio of her fun. She needs cock and pussy 24/7. I cannot keep up with her at all. She loves to spread those legs and loves riding BBC and young ripped studs!

She is currently also overseas for the last week and for the next two weeks and during that time she has been fucking her co-workers leaving me nasty emails! Mmmm, can’t wait to see the pics when she’s back! We enjoy the comments so keep posting please!

Here is the email I received today from my wife…

I went to the spa today….. I took off my clothes and was completely naked on the massage table. My masseuse is a 28 year old hard body. As he was massaging my back and legs he kept rubbing lightly on my pussy. I didn’t think it was on purpose so I tried to just sleep. He asked me to turn over. I did and he slid me to the end of the table and put my leg on his shoulder and was massaging it. He slid his hand along my leg then pressed his palm onto my pussy and rubbed it in a circular motion. I moaned. He smiled and said I have the most beautiful body he has ever witnessed. He rubbed my body with oils sugar and creams for an hour then put me into a shower. I showered as he watched.

He took my hand when I stepped out and got on his knees in front of me with a towel to dry me off, as he did this he began to lick and kiss my pussy. I grabbed his head and pushed it into me. He laid me onto the massage table and ate my pussy then he fingered my ass! He took off his clothes and shoved his cock in my mouth while he ate my pussy. Then he deeply kissed me…..he called me ma ‘dam over and over as he fucked my pussy…… then he pulled out and jerked off on my belly. It was so fucking hot! Omg! I am going back tomorrow!
I love you !

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November 22, 2009

Cuckold Rick Interviewed

Over the next week or so we have a couple of posts that look into the male mind with regards to their side of a cukold relationship. I always find it fascinating how different we all are with our niche tastes within this lifestyle - the key core being the same, loving the fact our wives and girlfriends are getting fucked by other men.

So the first of those posts is today. Rick is a cuckold, he is also husband of the delectable Katie Kox. I have had the pleasure of meeting up with Rick a few times both in the UK, in LA and in Vegas where he lives with his wife. The thing I love about Vegas is the underbelly of sleaze that seems to shine through those bright City lights, also it seems to be a place where deviants gather to go, have fun and sin. So there’s no coincidence Rick has ended up living there, he is living the dream cuckold lifestyle, with a beautiful wife.

Thanks for the interview Rick and answering so frankly and honestly about your private life. It really is great to have your perspective on this crazy lifestyle we love so much.

Katie Kox

hotwifeblog: Hey Rick, Thanks for agreeing to be interviewed on hotwifeblog.com, it’s always very interesting to get the male perspective on living the hotwife and cuckold lifestyle.
Rick: Thanks for having me :)

hotwifeblog: So you now live in Vegas with hotwife Katie Kox but you’re actually a fellow British chap like myself (guess we’re a nation of perverts lol). How are you finding life over in the States?
Rick: I love it here. I moved to America 10 years ago and have never looked back. I especially love living in Las Vegas, it’s a trip for sure.

hotwifeblog: Do you miss anything about British culture?
Rick: Not really… Marmite maybe LOL. I do think that more women in the UK wear stockings for everyday wear than in America and being huge fan of stockings I guess I miss that. Like when you’re on a train and there’s a women sitting there with hot legs and you’re trying to catch a glimpse to see if she’s wearing stockings or not… Like you said ‘A Nation Of Perverts”

hotwifeblog: Yep had that on Friday on a train on the way to London.. and she was :) … How old are you Rick?
Rick: 37

hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Rick: I’m obsessive compulsive, geeky, sexually cuckold, and a bit of a space cadet. I can get my head around technology with ease but have a hard time finding my way home.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been married to Katie?
Rick: Just over a year :)

hotwifeblog: How would you describe your marriage and lifestyle?
Rick: Our marriage is tight. We are best friends, business partners and still can’t keep our hands off of each other. Our life style is a little crazy. Katie is a full blown Hotwife with the sexual freedom to fuck whomever she wants whenever she wants, regardless off how I feel. I on the other hand am completely cuckold. I remain 100% faithful to her and am totally turned on by her being a slut.

We started our site as a hobby to document our crazy sex life and now one year later we have quit our day jobs and are both full time pornographers. I am now a porn director for KatieKox.com and our new site DirtyHardDrive.com and while Katie obviously stars in those sites she is also signed to LA Direct and performs for companies like Brazzers, Porn Pros, Evil Angel and Hustler. So basically our lifestyle revolves around her fucking a lot.

hotwifeblog: When Katie has a date do you like to stay at home and think about it, watch her, or do you like to participate? or a mix of them all?
Rick: I like a little bit of everything. Sometimes I participate, sometimes I just watch and sometimes I just wait at home. It’s all hot. Her getting turned on is what turns me on. These days I seem to get off the most when Katie goes off on a date on her own and I wait at home for her to return after a night of adultery. My mind goes crazy thinking about what she’s up to. As soon as she walks through the door we fuck like crazy.

hotwifeblog: How did you become a cuckold and develop feelings for this kink?
Rick: I’ve always believed that there are certain ‘triggers’ early on in your life that develop your sexual tastes. Mine kinda got hard wired early on by a bunch of things but I think the final nail in the coffin of my development happened when I was about 16. My girlfriend at the time went on vacation to Greece with some friends and I missed her like crazy. When she returned she broke up with me and I was pretty devastated. I later found out from her friend who went to Greece with her that she fucked two brothers at the same time while she was out there. It totally tripped me out and I was so hurt by it. I found myself thinking about it more and more. More and more and more and more. Until the point where I was thinking about it while I was masturbating. I knew at that point that I could only ever be with a slut.

hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that were cuckold based?
Rick: All of my relationships since my teens have been cuckold based. I knew nothing else would ever satisfy me and always gravitated to slutty women, strippers, hookers etc..

hotwifeblog: So you think your exposure to the lifestyle at an early age has made this certain kink stronger in your mind than if you found it say 10 years later?
Rick: For sure. I came to understand the following through therapy: If you have a fantasy that you think about every time you ejaculate when masturbating you become really good at connecting that mental picture with the physical act. You essentially hardwire your kink. So as time goes on it becomes who you are as opposed to something you just think about.

hotwifeblog: In what way would you say you’re able to control the jealousy emotion in your mind that so many men would never be able to do?
Rick: Jealousy is what turns me on. Its a basic human emotion that most people just don’t understand. When primal beings are confronted with something they don’t understand they often lash out with anger. It’s caveman 101.

I’ve heard this explanation for a emotional response of a cuckold… The natural law of survival provides us with jealousy. This means that if another man fucks your girl you will get jealous. This natural response is reminding you how bad you want your girl so that you fuck her and insure your sperm is dominant and not another mans.

I don’t think I explained that very well but you get the idea… Basically instead of letting my jealousy twist me up I embrace it and it heightens my desire for my girl to a fever pitch.

hotwifeblog: What do like most about your lifestyle?
Rick: My wife being a black cock whore.

hotwifeblog: What do you find most sexy about your wife?
Rick: Wow… the list goes on and on, her eyes, her legs, her tits, her lips, her pussy. But I have to admit her craving BBC drives me insane with lust.

hotwifeblog: Does Katie ever compare your performance to any of the other men she ’s slept with?
Rick: She tells me that I am an amazing fuck and that she loves sex with me. I know it’s different when you love someone but I can’t help but feel that when she is with one of her favorite studs the sex is mind blowing for her. A part of that may be the fact that she knows how much she is turning me on watching which in turn turns her on.

hotwifeblog: What’s it like to see Katie with another man?
Rick: Depends on the man. If it’s with a guy that is giving her great sex then it is mind blowing. If its with a guy who just isn’t doing it for her then it’s kind of weird and a little icky.

hotwifeblog: What’s the most exciting thing your wife has done sexually?
Rick: Wow that’s tough.. have you seen her site? lol

hotwifeblog: What type of women are you attracted to?
Rick: Sluts, BBC whores, prostitutes, confident women, women who ooze feminine sexuality and chicks with big tits. Am I shallow? lol

hotwifeblog: lol… What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Rick: lol… um… I’ll throw a couple out there and you can decide.. I had sex with my ex on a rotating bed on stage in front of about 400 people in Rotterdam. I was once chained to the bed and gagged with a cell phone next to me while an ex got ready for her date, went on it, had the phone on the whole time then came home to me and told me every last detail before untying me and I was once arrested wearing a CB3000
- that sucked.

hotwifeblog: omg I can imagine lol… Any fetishes you’re into?
Rick: I love being made jealous, I love women in stockings and I love love love white women with black men. To me it just seems right.

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Rick: Submissive to white sluts and their black masters.

hotwifeblog: Does Katie take a Femdom role over you at all?
Rick: Yes. She lets me know my place when she’s with a guy she likes.

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you like to see Katie wear when she goes out to pull?
Rick: STOCKINGS!! There’s something so feminine about them. No knickers, low cut tops, high heels, anything slutty that says fuck me :)

hotwifeblog: Do you help find Katie’s sexual partners?
Rick: For sure. I feel like its part of my duty as a loving cuckold husband.

hotwifeblog: There’s a lot of interest in creampies in the hotwife lifestyle. Do they turn you on?
Rick: Yes. it’s weird but I could never lick a white mans cum out of my wife’s pussy, only black mens. There’s something so dominant about black men that turns me and Katie on so much that I completely buckle and become 100% submissive to Katie and her guys.

hotwifeblog: So you have ‘cleaned up’ Katie after she’s had someone cum inside her?
Rick: Yes sir.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever fucked Katie after she’s had someone cum inside her?
Rick: Many times.. it’s one of our favorite things. It makes me cum so hard and she loves the feeling of having two loads in her :)

hotwifeblog: Tell us about a recent experience of Katie’s you particularly enjoyed?
Rick: We were recently at a gig at a strip club in Vegas. Katie got paid to hang out, meet fans and sign autographs. A couple of times she was asked by the organizers to go back into the really quiet VIP area for some pics. Things got crazier and crazier back there every time she went. I went back to investigate and found Katie on all fours blowing this black guy she had just met while a photographer was snapping away. I sat down in the corner and watched for about half an hour while my wife drained his balls. She then came over and gave me a big kiss and then went back to the front of the club where she sat for the rest of the gig next to the guy she just blew with his arm around her like she was his girlfriend while I just sat on the couch a couple of spots down from them. It turned me on so fucking much, I loved it. The next day the organizers of the event blew up our phone demanding we don’t use the pics or the club will be closed down. We haven’t used them….. yet.

hotwifeblog: What input do you have on Katie’s website?
Rick: I designed the layout, do all the directing, all the graphics, all the pics and handle all the tech aspects of it. So basically everything behind the camera. As for the scenarios, Katie and I usually come up with those based on our fantasies together.

hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding the website?
Rick: Well since starting it just over a year ago as a hobby we have quit our day jobs and become full time on it. The website is constantly growing based on fan feedback. We recently added a forum and we are going to start doing live cam shows pretty soon for our members. But I guess the big news is that we are about to launch a whole new website called DirtyHardDrive.com that will be a little less niche and allow us to go into all of our hardcore fantasies. Dirty Hard Drive will also be an all access pass network that once you join you will get access to all Katies site too, all of Dirty Hard Drive and some other sites coming soon. We are really excited about our network and cant wait to see where the next year takes us.

hotwifeblog: And lastly Rick, so many male readers here would love to be in your place. What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out this lifestyle?
Rick: Honesty is key. Not only with each other but with yourself too. HONESTY AND COMMUNICATION.

hotwifeblog: Thank you Rick, give our love to the gorgeous Katie and make sure she keeps posting here!

Katie Kox

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Interview by: Trash


November 20, 2009

Why are we attracted to..

Why are we attracted to slutwives (hotwives).

My wife is a sexy 44 year old, 36c-28-36ish figure, 5ft6 tall and has shapely legs, real MILF material. We have been together for around 16 years, and she has been fucking other men since we first met. We don’t know how many exactly but well over 300 guys since we got together. Guys at clubs, parties, holidays, while working away, you name it, she’s done it. I knew she was a slut when we met but had no idea she would continue in the way she has.

At first, I kind of just put up with it as something I had to live with if I wanted her, and to be fair, for the first 3 years or so, it wasn’t too apparent to me as she was doing it mostly behind my back. I knew she was flirting a lot but didn’t realise just how many of these guys she flirted with ended up between her legs.

Clubs and parties were her thing then, we sometimes would go together but sometimes she would go with friends or on her own. I noticed how sexy she would dress, especially when she went out on her own, short skirts and dresses, nylons, heels and often no panties, she said they ruined the line of her tight dresses. I started to help her choose the outfits to go out in, and found myself choosing more and more revealing outfits for her.

One night I remember, her dress was so short that when ever she sat down, there was no way you could avoid seeing her slit. I saw her get into the cab, so did the cab driver, as she opened her legs to get in, I am sure that he never watched where he was going when he was driving. I sat at home wondering how many guys got to see my wife’s freshly shaven pussy that night, not to mention the guys that got to feel her up.

I began to enjoy the fact my wife was a slut more and more, knowing what she was doing, with or without me present. Sometimes she would stay out at parties all night, sometimes come in around 5am drunk and used, she would flop on the bed half passed out, I would see that her pussy was swollen and creamy, obvious that she had been fucked at least once. I would get on top of her and slide in her, the feeling of her vagina was so different after she had been with someone.

I would like to know if anyone else is in this situation, and why you think we love such sluts that we married, in my case I knew she was before we married, I am sure that in some cases, some guys find out well into their relationships. I look forward to your comments.

Submitted by: Jim - UK


November 18, 2009

Motel fuck for Ruthie

Email sent in from Hotwife slut Ruthie.

Hey Trash.. It’s me Ruthie again. I just wanted to give you an update on my life and how much fun Hubby and I have been having over here in Iowa. Of course you know that I like to meet strangers… well, my favorite is Black Cock! I was hungry for some black cock, and one of my website members contacted me. He was a black guy that was shipping out for the military, so I had to be a slut and get me some black cock! I met him at the Hampton INN and he fucked me really good. Matter of fact we did it a few times in the motel room, and he had plenty of hot cum to fill my pussy and in my mouth.

I’m attaching photos for you to put on your blog. Until next time…

Love ya,

Baby Ruthie

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