November 30, 2012
Here’s an interview with a very interesting Hotwife who I’ve been chatting to lately. She’s been busy having lots of fun with guys and writing her exploits on a blog ‘The Trials and Tribulations of Life with a Nymphomaniac’ Sounds like an amazing life… It’s great to know you Lola.
Lola’s also on hotwife hub - profile here - make sure you log in and say hi!
hotwifeblog: Hiya Lola, thanks for doing the Hotwife Blog interview. Tell us where you’re from?
Lola: East US
hotwifeblog: What is your age?
Lola: Timeless! – Forever 25.
hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Lola: Ears, nose and none
hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Lola: Always ready, always eager, never satisfied.
hotwifeblog: What’s your occupation?
Lola: Sexuality counselor, muse.
hotwifeblog: How did you meet your boyfriend?
Lola: Teacher’s pet.
hotwifeblog: How long have you been together?
Lola: Feels like three days. . . under water. No, seriously.
hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies – the need to be with more than one man – or have you adapted your thinking of a relationship from a traditional monogamous one?
Lola: The latter. Despite what HH says, being with him has vastly expanded my horizons - among other things
hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Lola: Thinking, watching, trying, repeat.
hotwifeblog: Was this lifestyle choice first suggested by your boyfriend? How did it make you feel – the thought of embarking of a life having sex with men outside of your relationship?
Lola: It was a mutual fantasy that surfaced between us in bed. And it’s exciting!
hotwifeblog: Why do you think some men get so excited about seeing their wife or girlfriend with another guy?
Lola: Because actually wanting women to experience pleasure for themselves is taboo, unfortunately, and therefore appealing. [Note from HH – I find other guys finding my gf incredibly attractive makes her even more attractive. And seeing her seduce them seduces me all the more.]
hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Lola: 2 years.
hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that allowed you the sexual freedom you have now or were they all monogamous?
Lola: Monogamous. Shmonogamous.
hotwifeblog: And during those previous monogamous relationships were you tempted to stray or did you cheat at all on your partner?
Lola: Yes and yes.
hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for? What are attracted to?
Lola: Strong, older, young looking, Dads, multitalented in bed and elsewhere. The roar of a four-stroke is always a turn-on.
hotwifeblog: Tell us about your first hotwife experience?
Lola: In a car, two men and me, cops show up. No biggie lol
hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Lola: Not enough
hotwifeblog: Do you prefer to see a guy once for sex or have someone regular to build a sexual relationship with?
Lola: Guy? I want to see his cock – frequently!
hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Lola: Honey, I’ll try anything thrice.
hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Lola: Where’s the shout out for the ladies?
hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Lola: Meters or feet, it better be fucking BIG!
hotwifeblog: There is a huge interracial fetish within this lifestyle, do you prefer to date black guys or have no preference on who you play with?
Lola: No preference. Every single one must simply respect women at heart, understand “no” and be game to please!
hotwifeblog: Do you like to flirt with men you come across during your everyday life, catch their eye in the street, chat up the guy in the supermarket etc?
Lola: What fun would everyday life be otherwise?
hotwifeblog: What clothes do you generally like to wear when you’re on the pull for guys?
Lola: Must I wear clothes?
hotwifeblog: Do you find most of your lovers and sexual partners through the Internet, being out on the pull or through friends?
Lola: All of the above.
hotwifeblog: How do you find other females treat you when they know about your lifestyle? Is there any envy, jealousy, wishing they could have your lifestyle? any negative feelings towards you?
Lola: Nah. I’m usually fucking them too.
hotwifeblog: When you have a date, does your boyfriend participate sexually with you, watch you play or leave you alone with your lover?
Lola: All of the above.
hotwifeblog: Which of the above do you prefer when you’re with your lover, your boyfriend participating? have him watch you? or be alone with your date for some privacy?
Lola: I like it when he’s taking pics of me to put on the blog.
hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your boyfriend?
Lola: As much as he can handle *not enough*.
hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your boyfriend’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Lola: Frequently, but the list is far too long to go through each time.
hotwifeblog: Do you think you’d ever be able to go back to a normal monogamous relationship if your boyfriend ever suggested it?
Lola: This was, in part, his fucking idea.
hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Lola: Submissive when he is feeding me his cock. Dom, when I’m wearing mine.
hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Lola: Too difficult a question to answer.
hotwifeblog: Do you spit or swallow?
Lola: I prefer it all over my face.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Lola: Just one?
hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Lola: I’m hoping it will come true in the next two weeks, so I don’t wanna jinx it by telling! Stay tuned on the blog and see if you can guess what it is.
hotwifeblog: Tell us about one of your recent hotwife experiences?
Lola: Martini, mustang, minidress. Enough said.
hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Lola: Communicate openly and seriously ask yourselves what your level of trust is. Respect one another’s autonomy and emphasize equality, even if it looks like something superfreaky. Be safe, and have fun.
Interview by: Trash
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