Cuckold Place Update
Wife Exclusive to Boyfriend
Hi Folks,
I have been a lurker here for awhile, and finally getting around to introduce myself. My name is Rick, age 37, and my wife, Brenda, is 35. We have been married for 16 years. Brenda is a very attractive redhead, with maybe a tiny bit of “baby fat” around the middle (which I personally prefer). Our “style” of a cuckold relationship has evolved over the past 9 years, beginning with Brenda’s affair with her coworker while I was traveling on business.
I discovered Brenda’s affair by accident when I came home from my trip a day early, and saw a strange car in our driveway at around 10:30 p.m. At first, I figured it was just a female friend of Brenda’s, but when I opened the front door, I heard the sounds of my wife and some man talking and laughing coming from our bedroom. No, I didn’t peep through the window or otherwise see them “in action,” but I knew what was going on. To avoid a scene, I left the house before being discovered and went to a hotel for the night.
When I came home the next day, Brenda welcomed me with a big kiss as usual, and I said nothing about my discovery for about 2 weeks, mostly because I was trying to sort out my feelings. During this time, I was torn emotionally because I knew that, as a man, I should have been furious and ready to kick Brenda out of the house, but instead I was feeling even more attracted to her, and continued to have regular sex with my wife almost every night. Each time, while making love, I had thoughts about that man’s cock inside my wife, which excited me more than I was willing to admit. Afterwards, I felt ashamed of myself for being turned on by something so terrible as my wife’s affair.
Finally, one evening Brenda and I were arguing about something, and I “spilled the beans” about my discovering her affair. At first, Brenda apologized profusely, and proclaimed her absolute love for me and our marriage. Then, Brenda looked puzzled and asked me why I hadn’t said anything to her for over 2 weeks. She was confused because I was even more affectionate than usual towards her during this time. Well we talked about this situation at length and learned a lot more about each other.
Brenda told me that she had grown close to her coworker, primarily because of my being out of town for such long periods of time. At first, they just had a platonic friendship, which developed into a full-blown affair as time went on. After some prodding from Brenda, I confessed that I was sexually aroused at the thought of her in another man’s arms. Nevertheless, I decided to switch to another job to avoid traveling so much, and Brenda ended the affair.
As months went on, I would ask Brenda about some of the details of her affair. She was reluctant initially, but when she saw that I was really turned on about the details, she started revealing more and more while she was kissing me and rubbing my hard-on. She told me that her lover, Steve, was not really bigger than me, but he was built like a football player, and made love to her with a lot of passion and power, not to mention stamina. Well, eventually, I confided in Brenda that, if she wanted, I would permit her to have another affair, as long as she never lied to me, always told me every detail, and never let the affair threaten our marriage. Brenda was skeptical because she thought that this was my way of justifying my own affair with another woman, but finally agreed that she would love that opportunity as long as I promised always to remain faithful to her.
In the beginning of our new-found one-sided “open” lifestyle, Brenda had a couple of non-emotional sexual flings with other men, and would come home and make love to me right afterwards. Over time, however, Brenda confided that she found such empty sexual rendezvous unfulfilling, and felt “cheap” having sex with more than one man over a 24- or 48-hour period. So we stopped our little adventures, until she met Duane. Brenda met Duane when she was taking a course to qualify for a concealed handgun permit. After the course, they had a few drinks, and started talking on the phone a lot. At first, they were “just friends,” but Brenda told me that she was really falling for him, and asked me in advance if she could have an “affair,” assuming that Duane was interested. Because of the way Brenda’s eye’s lit up when talking on the phone to Duane, I was nervous about letting things go further, but decided that I should trust Brenda’s commitment to our marriage.
Well, as you can guess, Duane really hit it off. Brenda started spending the night with Duane at least once a week, often as much as 2-3 times a week. This was not just a “sex-romp,” Brenda was in love with Duane. I decided that it was critical to never appear even a little jealous, but to always be the “rock” that Brenda could always depend on, and never be afraid to confide in. Then, a strange thing started happening….
As Brenda and Duane’s intimate relationship became more frequent and intense, Brenda and I became emotionally closer and more intimate. We would sleep at night in a tight embrace, and rarely have any arguments. BUT, at the same time, the frequency of sex between us dropped off dramatically. I mean, it wasn’t exactly “denial,” but when I saw that Brenda seemed a bit distant in my sexual overtures, I would tell her, “It’s okay, we can wait”…and she would hold and kiss me as I masturbated.
Eventually, I asked Brenda why she never was “in the mood” with me, and she hesitantly admitted that, even though she was 100 percent committed to our marriage and to me as her husband, she was more and more feeling “sexually committed” to Duane. In other words, she explained, she was “wired” as a “one man woman,” and for the time being, Duane was her sexual “mate,” while I was her “soulmate.” Thus, she said that when she had sex with me, she felt in her gut like she was “cheating” on Duane, even though intellectually she couldn’t understand those feelings. Brenda said that she just felt really uncomfortable maintaining a sexual relationship with more than one man at the same time. She described this feeling as being a sort of “primal” need to be sexually possessed by only one “mate.”
Well, after our talk, we decided that we would take an indefinite “break” from our own sexual relationship, and allow Brenda to be sexually exclusive to Duane. After I agreed to this, Brenda gave me a big hug and kiss, saying, “Thank you, Rick…Oh, thank you for loving me enough to give me this gift!”
I’m not going to say that it was not painful to know that my wife’s sexuality “belonged” exclusively to another man, but somehow it made Brenda and I become even closer emotionally. She still shared intimate details with me about Duane’s and her love affair. She still held me close and kissed me as I masturbated. Also, we still slept and cuddled together most of the time. But, we both understood that there were “boundaries.” For example, if my hand strayed down to Brenda’s ass at night, she would gently move it up to her waist, and kiss me lovingly. Also, Brenda avoided being naked around me, since she felt that her naked body should be visible only to her boyfriend. Although this arrangement was considered indefinite, Brenda always felt that her and I would eventually resume our full sexual relationship because her affair with Duane was so intense, it could not last forever.
As predicted, Duane and Brenda parted ways after about 5 months. Brenda and I didn’t resume our sexual relationship immediately, but waited about a month to allow Brenda time to mourn her loss of Duane. However, when we finally made love again, it was like we were newlyweds! Our sex life was ignited with fire and passion that we both hadn’t felt in years, and I then realized that all the pain and angst from having Brenda being temporarily “off limits” was worth it!
After Duane was gone, Brenda and I remained exclusive to each other for about nine months until she met Michael. Well, Brenda started falling “head over heals” in love with Michael, and the entire cycle started over again. Brenda became sexually exclusive to Michael, and I reassumed my role as Brenda’s faithful husband and soulmate. The major difference this time was that, while Duane had been unaware that I knew of his and Brenda’s affair, Michael was totally “in the loop” with the whole thing. In fact, the three of us often had dinner and went to sporting events together. We even went to the beach once, with Brenda staying in a separate hotel room with Michael. Since Michael was in the military, Brenda’s love affair with him ended when he was deployed overseas, and again our sexual relationship resumed with a new level of energy.
This cycle has repeated itself many times over, with each of Brenda’s affairs lasting 3-6 months on the average. Each time, she becomes sexually exclusive and faithful to her boyfriend, and each time our sexual relationship is re-ignited with a new passion after the affair ends. Brenda’s current boyfriend (David) is her sixth since we started what we now know is called a “cuckold lifestyle,” and she’s been with him for just over a month. My wife knows how much it excites me when she cuddles with me at night and tells me, “Sorry, but I belong to David now, and I cannot be unfaithful.” However, we both know that David will eventually be out of the picture, and our marriage will again be re-energised and strengthened. Thus, our sex life is sort of a rollercoaster ride, but we are both committed to each other for life.
Well, I hope you enjoyed my rather longwinded post. I know it lacks the XXX-rated details of other posts, but I guess my writing talents are not as developed as others. Take care.
Rick
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