September 11, 2010
Sex At Dawn
For centuries, theorists have claimed that married, monogamous couples are the natural unit of human society, a claim that doesn’t explain why everyone — from politicians to preachers — has so much trouble staying faithful. The following excerpt, from the book Dan Savage called “the single most important book about human sexuality since Alfred Kinsey,” makes a different argument, against monogamy.
“We’re being misled and misinformed by an unfounded yet constantly repeated mantra about the naturalness of wedded bliss, female sexual reticence, and happily-ever-after sexual monogamy — a narrative pitting man against woman in a tragic tango of unrealistic expectations…, snowballing frustration, and crushing disappointment.”
It seems the majority have their sexuality formed by the society and culture they live in but for the few of us who have found this lifestyle it seems we have found a much deeper sexual instinct in our human gene that goes back to our early ancestors and the relationships they developed.
If you are tired of having to explain to others monogamous living lifestylers why you like seeing your loved one with other men or want to know more about where this incredible sexual fetish developed from within you, you should check out this book. I found it so enlightening and it made me feel so much better, less like a freak lol and much more confident about my own kinks and desires.
