April 30, 2010
Conversation with wife
I’ve been lurking here for a time, while I tried to convince my wife to enjoy fucking whoever she wanted, whenever she wanted. It took a long time, but I’ll save that story for later. About 6 months ago she found a guy and ended up keeping him as her regular boyfriend, and it’s gotten progressively more intense. I just wanted to post a short summary of a really hot conversation we had last night.
The background is that they’ve been seeing each other for a few months now, and are seeing each other gradually more and more often. It started with a date a week or so, now it’s up to two or three. And they’ve seen each other four times in the last four days. She told me at the beginning of their relationship that he was bigger, which was nice, but that my skills in bed were a bit better, so she liked having sex with us both.
Last night she asked if I could stay late at work so he could come over; she said she’d text me when they were done. I was at work (not getting much done, lol), and she texted me around 10 pm. I came home and she was just sitting on the couch, smiling and looking completely satisfied. She told me that lately he’d been getting much better and that sex with him was now “unbelievable.” She said that he fucked her for 45 minutes, that she came 3 times, and the last one was a triple orgasm. She led me back to the bedroom and showed me that the bed was moved away from the wall about 5 feet, and was completely messed up from the sex. She laid down on the bed (”because I’m not sure I can stand straight right now”) while I moved it back, all the while talking about how she’s never felt this good in her whole life. And then she said “I know it’s been a while for you”…(in fact, it’s been three weeks since she fucked me, whereas she fucks him at least twice a week)…”and i know we were going to have sex tomorrow, but can i see him again? he gets off work early again and now that i know how amazing sex can be i feel like if i don’t have it all the time i’ll die.” i told her that of course she could see him again, i wanted her to be satisfied, and that by the way if she ever can’t see him, she can always have me. she looked over at me with a mixture of amusement and pity in her eyes and said “honey. i love you. i’m even in love with you. and i used to enjoy sex with you. if he dumps me i’ll probably enjoy sex with you again, at least a bit. but fucking you when i had him the day before and will have him again the day after is so…uninspiring.”
I said I knew and understood, and she leaned back and her eyes got all unfocused again. “Good. It’s not that you’re bad or that I don’t love you. It’s just that he’s…(she whispered this) soooo magnificent…in bed.” We went to bed, and all I could think about all night was my wife with her “magnificent” boyfriend…being fucked after just a few months like I’ve never been able to fuck her in our years together.
Right now, my plan for the future is mostly just to support and encourage her, and make sure she always knows that her pleasure comes first, no matter what. My wife and I are always talking about what we both want from our relationship.
My desires are, I suppose, pretty moderate. I definitely want to remain in her life, and to be her romantic priority. I don’t think that’s a problem, as we’re both very open with each other, and are much closer emotionally and romantically than we were even before this ‘experimentation’ started. Ideally, I like a little moderate denial and moderate humiliation. I love it that her boyfriend gets to sleep with her far more frequently than I do (and I’ve calculated that she’s sucked his cock more in the few months they’ve been together than she has mine in the years we’ve been married). I love how intense our relationship gets, and how much I pamper her, when I’m horny and frustrated and denied for a while. I love it when we go most of the week without sex, as she tells me “I don’t feel like it right now, maybe tomorrow” and then when her date night comes she spends hours getting ready, totally excited to see him. And I like a little penis humiliation, so any time she casually mentions his larger size, or just how much she likes his cock (recently she told me that “it’s not just that it’s big, it’s also just shaped perfectly, like it was made just for my pussy… it hits every sensitive spot like I’ve never felt before”) it drives me wild. I don’t know if I’d want to be cut off completely or not, but I definitely want him to be her first sexual priority. And I think I would like for her to be more active and systematic about it… for her not just to neglect sex with me, but to actually deny it to me for a while, and to let him know that at least for the most part he is her man in bed.
She was initially reluctant to humiliate me like that, to the point of not telling me how big he was for a while for fear of hurting my feelings. However, when she does bring it up I make sure to not act hurt, but rather to act happy for her that she has this great pleasure, and also to compare myself to him as much as possible, in the areas where he’s got the advantage over me. I think this is working; the last time we fucked a few weeks ago, it actually began with her making a crack about my cock size, and with me joking about how she doesn’t need to worry about it anymore, with her boyfriend taking care of her. This led to her getting curious about the actual difference (he had measured his, but I never had). So she went down on me to get me hard (something she hadn’t done in quite a while) and then measured my cock. She could tell I was horny, so she rode me until I came, and then pecked me on the cheek and rolled off. While I caught my breath and threw out the condom, she called her boyfriend and gave him the official measurement, b/c I guess she thought he’d like to know. It was a bit humiliating, but completely hot. I hope this sort of thing continues. As for the other stuff, I actually am not really into creampie/cleaning, or anything like that. I’m not sure how I feel about watching, and definitely don’t want to participate. Some of these things can evolve with time, but right now I just want her totally fulfilled by him in a way that I cannot give her.
Submitted by: Tjm65