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Alexis Golden diary update.

Just saw the post on the subject of anal, which is such a coincidence. Last weekend I had a Bull round to service me, he was young and very fit, half my age too. I wanted him so bad. I decided to give him a lesson on how to properly fuck a hotwife, so after some oral play and my pussy had taken a good pounding, I encouraged him to fuck my ass like it was my pussy. It was fantastic, I was sooo turned on I told him to dump his load right up inside my ass. It was his first ever anal creampie. He’s coming back to give me some more next week. I can’t wait.

Kisses, Alexis

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A true story submitted to hotwifeblog by Jay about his experience as a Bull with a hotwife very new to the lifestyle.

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This experience is so fresh on me, that although I just drove 15 minutes home, the sweat is still fresh on my brow and the scent of sex and fresh condom is still lingering on me.

I just came back from a very sexy experience with a hotwife couple. My guess is that they’re so new to this that they’re probably not even familiar with the term Hotwife. Regardless, she now is a hotwife twice over as I understand it.

Anyway, the back ground, I am by my past a “sharer”. My motto is “The only thing i like better than enjoying the charms of another man’s woman is… watching another man enjoy the charms of mine.” I, on more than a few occasions shared my ex-girlfriend with other men. It was the most outrageously exciting sex I ever had. However, the young lady with whom currently holds my interest, is not of this persuasion. Hot as she is, her pendulum does not swing that far out. My sex drive and esoteric tastes however refuse to be denied. I posted myself on Craigslist as a single male in search of couples. I only got a few bites. Of those most fizzled out and others were bullshit to begin with. One however, did come to fruition. For the purposes of this narrative and in order to protect the innocent, this fine couple will be know here throughout as “Jack & Diane”.

Jack and I traded a few e-mails and we hatched a plan. It seemed that they were to be staying at a hotel a mere 10 minutes from my home. After trading pics and some pleasantries we planned to meet at the bar in the lobby the next day at five.

Despite the anxiousness that makes time seem to stretch on endlessly, the day and time arrived. I walked into the hotel which opens right into the small bar. There I met Jack, a handsome gentleman in his mid to late forties my guess. He offered a drink but I was too nervous and worried that between the nerves and the booze, my partner in my pants might fail me. So I declined and settled for water. He explained that Diane was getting ready up stairs and so we made small talk. He confided in me that she was well beyond nervous and I assured him that she could not be more nervous than me, He liked this quality about me and said that this was a big part of why they chose me. Because I was not a seasoned “pro” like some of the folks on CL. He told me that it might be easier for her to get started without his eyes upon her, so he planned to get us in the room and then leave for a bit to get acquainted.

After a bit of chit chat he decided to go check on her and left me in the company of the bar maid and she was a cutie. However as much as I would love to have some day share a story about her, this story is about Diane. We continued the small talk until Jack returned, this time with Diane in tow. He joined my conversation with the bar maid and we killed a little time. I took notice of Diane and as cute as she seemed in the pictures that Jack had sent, she was even prettier in person. This and her nervousness exemplified by her absolutely refusal to say a word or make eye contact with me made her down right adorable. After some talk, Jack suggested we go and “take a look at those plans” we excused ourselves from the barmaid and made our way to the elevator. On the way, Jack asked Diane how her drink was. She replied “Not strong enough.” I then assured her that she could not be any more nervous than I was. She seemed slightly comforted by this but she was still a ball of pure tension from head to foot.

We arrived at the room and she sat on the bed and I on a seat that came out of the wall across from her. As promised. Jack excused himself and left us alone. The door did little more than close when she turned to me and asked “Ok? What did he tell you? I told her that I knew they weren’t pros and that she had only done this once before. I told her about my experiences with my ex-girlfriend and tried to make her understand Jack’s appreciation of this kind of kink. I think I she started to get it when i said “Men & women are wired differently. Sex and love are not mutually exclusive with men. Us guys can fuck any woman but we only fall in love with the right one.” After a bit of this I thought, it’s always more difficult to inch your way into a cold pool. It’s better to just jump right in. One second of shock and then you start to get used to it. Right???

Wrong!

I kneeled down in front of her and leaned in to kiss her and she tightened up. I thought she might pop. I mean actually physically burst, so I immediately backed off, sat back and returned to the chit chat and small talk. I think my lack of pressure and my the fact that I had the intuition to recognize her apprehension warmed her to me. She started to seem more calm and began to smile a little as we talked. She told me about their one previous experience how the guy had her doggy while Jack came at her from the front. I suggested that if he liked this we could let him walk in on us and find us in this position. She very apologetically informed me that she only likes to give Jack head and she hoped it wouldn’t be a problem. I informed her that I generally need oral stimulation to get “up to speed” but that we’ll see how it goes. She smiled and offered “I have two hands.”

She was finally loosening up when…. in walked Jack. She tensed up again. He approached her and tried to get things going by touching and kissing her but he was loosing us ground. I guess she found it hard to get into it in front of a total stranger. Jack picked up on it and backed off. He went to the bathroom to freshen up his drink and dim the lights. After some experimentation with the light switches, we finally had the lights completely off. Being that it was just past 5 pm however, there was plenty of light leaking through the curtains. With Jack in the bathroom, working on his drink. She gave me a very subtle look. It’s hard to recall, maybe a nod of her head or something but she basically gave me the go ahead.

She stood up and I approached her and began kissing her. She responded with her mouth but her boy remained rigid and her hands were little knotted fists held tightly at her side. It was again I say absolutely adorable, her nervousness was beautiful. Exciting even, I found that without oral or manual stimulation just the act of kissing her was making me very excited and my partner in my pants had decided to join me. As we kissed, I moved her hands down to my crotch to let her feel how she was exciting me and also to break the ice and let her know that it was ok to touch. She responded by stroking me over my jeans and I got only harder and harder. This was surprising even to me because when I was a younger man, the crack of dawn would excite me and I’m not referring to a young lady name Dawn. But now in my mid thirties, I’ve always needed just a little more stimulation. However, I don’t known if it was her cuteness or her childlike nervousness, or that fact that her man was offering her to me, perhaps it was a combination of factors but I was “up at bat” like I hadn’t been in years.

We began to undress and then returned to kissing now in only our undergarments. I don’t know if Jack was still working on his drink or peeking from somewhere and working on his erection but he was giving us plenty of time. She undid her bra and revealed a very nice set of endowments of which in turn I took each in my mouth. Finally realizing that we had reached the point of no return, I asked her “How do you want to be?” she responded “On all fours”. Just as we began to make a move for the bed, Jack returned from the bathroom in his birthday suit and he was sporting an erection of his own. He sat on the bed behind her and began to fondle her. Again she tensed up. It seemed that she was fine with me or with him but both was just a little too much for her. We had come too far to turn back so while Jack fondled and kissed her from behind, I kissed her mouth and guided her hands to my hard cock. I wanted her to know she was exciting me.

Shortly there after, I don’t quite recall who initiated, I think it may have been Jack, we all moved towards the bed. Jack laid back while Diane got on all four over him. I put on a condom and moved in behind her as they kissed. With her on top of him on all four they continued kissing while i pushed into her from behind. I gave her a gentle yet steady rhythm not so much for her sake as for mine. The scene was so exciting that i knew i would have to be careful not to pop too soon. She began to go down on him as she moaned beautifully in time with the rhythm that I was setting behind her. This went on for a while and Jack eventually slid out form under her and sat himself on a seat across from us. He watched me take her in doggy position for a while, then he came over and asked “Do you want her on her back? ” I said “Yes please” . He began to guide her over as I pulled out. She was considerably more relaxed now as she joked with him “Say please.” He did and she turned over onto her back for me and I went into her with her legs pressed up against my shoulders. At this point, Jack put his cock into her mouth and I watched her suck him while I fucked her and again I had to slow down the visual was just to overwhelming and I was going to lose it. I managed to hold out just a little longer and Jack stepped away to go to the bathroom and left me in her in missionary. I plowed deeply into her feeling the waves of pleasure coming dangerously intense and close. I slowed and continued, slowed and continued and then suddenly I felt that familiar sensation. That feeling of crossing the point. The one, from which you can’t come back. I said something vaguely religious like “Oh Jesus!” and then knowing I was no longer in control, I went for broke and pushed myself into her faster and deeper until I felt myself release at which point I forced myself inside as far as the limits of our bodies would allow. If not for the condom I would spilled myself deep deep inside her.

After a moment Jack came back as I was pulling out. He asked if I got off and I assured him that I did and then some. As I pulled out and got up, Jack tossed me a towel. I disposed of the condom and dried myself off and then I told them that based on my past experiences with my ex, I knew that as the second guy, this was the time where I should make my exit and leave them to have the wildest and most excited sex of their lives. She seemed to love the fact that I understood and smiled brightly and said “Yes!” Jack I think may have wanted to see more. But I thought she had already put in enough effort just to muster the courage to go this far, so I began to put on my clothes. I thanked them for a great time and told them to please keep my information and to feel free to drop a line anytime. They agreed and as I made my way out I noticed her expression and she looked relieved, excited and beautiful at the same time. If their experience is anything like it was for me and my ex, they are probably having some really amazing hot and wild sex right now. And they will be for a couple of weeks to come.

Thanks Jack & Diane it was a wonderful and hot experience for me and I was honored to have been brought into your bed and to have shared your lovely woman with you.

God bless and good luck.

Submitted by: Jay - West Coast

My name is Vivian and this is my Interracial Confession:

My husband is not into anal fucking at all but I would love for him to say “I want to fuck you in the ass.. flip over honey!” Those words alone would make me cream my panties! He really doesn’t know how I would willingly obey his command. It would be a turn on to see him plunge his hot hard cock in a jar of vaseline and have him spread my legs wide apart with his knees. The anticipation of the thought of him in my tight butt makes my pussy wet. But like all things in life you cant have what you always want, so that is why I got his black friend to fuck me in my ass! It wasn’t planned or anything like that, it just happened! (grin)! Well sort of, his friend Brenden, is a very savy computer guy, he was over one afternoon helping me reload windows on my system. I’m not a computer person at all, it took me weeks to learn how to use email! Brenden is a very cute black guy, with a nice body, I kept noticing him looking down my shirt as he stood over me, instructing me on what software to install. I was feeling so horny and became very interested in Brenden when I saw his dick print in his jogging pants!

My pussy is always wet, so after a few smiles and giggles we were kissing on the bed while my husband was out walking both of our dogs! I knew it was wrong, but it felt so good, having a fit black guy all over me. Plus he loved kissing my inner thighs before he licked my pussy, that made the encounter even more kinky! I told him I wanted his cock in my ass. So then came the moment of truth came, Brenden rolls me over and spreads my ass cheeks and STOPS and just looks at it!!!! WTF! I’m thinking, come on big guy, you are a real man right? Say it! Fucking say it! He says nothing, he then sticks his finger in his mouth, and gently opens my asshole! Ahhhhh, that’s a relief, I moan like I’m a innocent choir girl like I don’t know what’s about to happen! Then he strokes his long, thick cock and inserts it in my ass!!!

Goodness it felt so good, I didn’t care if my husband walked in on us I was just enjoying the moment of having a nice, warm cock in my asshole! It must have been Brenden’s first time also, because he blew his load after five minutes. His cum was very hot and thick, It could feel it running inside my butthole for hours! I never said anything to hubby about it, he never asked. But I did hook up with Brenden on two other occasions, all of which was very fucking hot! The pictures below are some screen grabs of a movie Brenden sent me. I had only just arrived and needed the bathroom and he burst in with the camera and got me to play with myself, he then came over and fucked my ass there and then on the bathroom floor.

I know people may not agree with what I have done, but I really do still love my husband but this encounter just happened and I couldn’t pass up the chance to have a big black cock in my asshole.

My name is Vivian and this is my interracial confession.

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Just a brief post today touching on yesterday’s post about hotwifedating.com

Wanted to give a big call out to all single women out there that might be reading this.

We need to redress the balance here. We seem to have an abundance of hotwives using hotwifedating.com. Which is great but what we are lacking is single women who would like to find a cuckold partner to live this type of lifestyle with. So single girls if you’re reading this and your past relationships have broken down due to sexual fustration, your infidelities or you know that you need to be with a man who will let you be free to do what you want and when then maybe this lifestyle is for you. The sexual freedom you’re looking for and a man that will love you for it. It’s all waiting for you at hotwifedating.com.

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Thanks for all those that have signed up.

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Peaches and Steam - True Story submitted by a new hotwifedating.com member

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Hi Trash, My name is Peaches, my partner is Steam. I put this true story on my new profile on hotwifedating.com as an example of a previous experience I had. Steam thought maybe if you put it on the front page of the blog I might get more hits on my profile ;-D

Xoxo Peaches

A few months ago I went for the first time to Venus, a swinger club here in downtown Atlanta. I went without my husband, Steam, who was out of town on business. Afterwards he asked me not only to tell him all the dirty details on the phone of my multiple encounters that night but he also wanted me to write them down for him on email, which I did. This is a copy of one of the emails I sent him:

“He was a fairly young black guy, black as ebony and his skin was soooo shiny black and smooth with youth. He had an innocent look to him and a nice smile and very soft lips, as I was to find out. He said he liked my smile and I really turned him on. He was taller than me, maybe your height. He had a barrel chest and a big round ass, so big and round and perfectly curved, thick arms and legs and a smooth hairless chest, and his groin area had a thick curly thatch of pubic hair, very thick. His hands were big and gentle, and he said he wanted to fuck me. I asked him if he would be gentle, because he wanted to do it in a private room and I was a bit afraid he would rough me up. He said he would be rough only if I asked – and I did ask him to be rough eventually. Then he kissed me and slipped his fingers along my pussy lips. It felt erotic and good! He led me to a room with a mattress and closed the door behind him. He locked it. The door did have an open slat in it, where onlookers could watch.

He said I had soft lips and he knew how to kiss me perfectly, slow, soft, gentle nibbles on my lips. We sat on the bed and he continued to touch my pussy and said I was very wet. He put a long finger inside of me and I spread my legs all the way for him and laid back and enjoyed it. His cock was long and hard and on the thin side. I knew my pussy wanted to feel it. He lay on top of me and sucked my nipples which were erect and big, he loved playing with my nipples and breasts. And I told him to bite my nipples and he did. I noticed a couple of men were watching from the slat in the door.

Then I sucked my own nipples for him and he put one of my hands on his cock and I rubbed it and he kept saying “Oh my God!” He took my dildo, the black one I had with me, and opened me up and put it inside of me… I squirmed with pleasure and he liked it. I raised my legs up a bit and he slapped his hard cock against my ass. He asked me if I liked that and I said oh yes! I rubbed my own clit as the dildo was inside of me and he kept slapping his cock against my butt. Then I came for the first time, long and hard and moaned so much.

He put a condom on his cock and I told him I wanted him to fuck me from behind. I rolled over, head on the mattress and ass up in the air, wriggling my cunt, ready and willing for his pounding. He entered me and wow, it filled me up. I think he got even bigger as he was inside of me. He spanked me, without me even asking and I moved my ass in reply. I told him to pound me really hard, to pound my wet, horny pussy and he did, so hard, and the sensations were soooo fucking amazing. I told him to open my ass cheeks and put his finger in it… He did, as he kept pounding his cock deep in my cunt. He lasted forever and I had thought he would come quickly, but he didn’t.

My pussy was getting sore from his big cock but I loved it and while he pounded me, and with his finger in my ass, I told him I was a dirty, filthy cunt and needed a good pussy pounding. This drove him crazy and then he shoved another finger in my ass and pounded my pussy until I was laying flat on the mattress, being driven down by his pounding. He then did something unexpected, he took his fingers out of my ass and grabbed the back of my head and yanked my hair and called me a dirty bitch. I could hear people whispering from outside the door slat and the thought of them watching me made me feel like I was just a huge, wet, horny stretched out pussy… And I came then… Fuck, I was moaning and groaning with pleasure while he rammed his black cock into me the whole time.

And he still hadn’t cum yet. He rolled me over and sat me up. He sat up too and slid my legs on either side of him and sitting up I fucked his cock. He held my back and we fucked with both of us sitting up. He bit my nipples sooo hard and grabbed my ass and pulled me so hard into him. He was sitting on the edge of the bed and I was sitting across his lap. I came again, grinding my cunt and clit against his hard pelvis and cock. I was so fucking turned on. He still hadn’t cum. I couldn’t believe it!

He then laid me on my back and put my legs up on either side of his shoulders… He said my pussy was so wet and I started to move my hips and buck my pussy up toward him. He said oh yeah, that’s it, girl. I said give it to me harder and he did, with my legs over his shoulders, my breasts swinging side to side, he was fucking me so hard that I then came again and he waited until I was done before he finally came inside me.

He said I was fucking amazing and he wanted to do it again right away. I couldn’t believe it and didn’t think he could, and we lay there for 10 minutes and he put another condom on his cock as it grew hard. There was no oral sex, but it was erotic nonetheless. He was a strong motherfucker. He sat on the edge of the bed again and had me sit on him and he stood up, lifting me up with him, my legs straddling him. He pushed me up against the wall and fucked me in this position for a while. Fuck, it felt good! He said I was even wetter and my pussy felt so amazing and he was gonna cum faster this time, because he knew I came so fast and he wouldn’t wait.

He then lay me back on the bed, asked me to lie on my side and got behind me and laid on his side too, and fucked me from behind that way, and rubbed my clit with his one hand. I pulled at my nipples the whole time and I opened up my legs, one high in the air so he could rub my hard little clit even more. I reached down and touched his balls, which were slapping against me, and he came and so did I.

I was sore, exhausted and felt thoroughly fucked when we were done. He said he wanted to fuck me all night but I said no… He wanted me to bring him home, but I didn’t. I wanted to have my sexual escapades there and be anonymous. Hope you liked my night out honey.”

Submitted by: Peaches - Atlanta - Hotwife dating profile here

Just wondered if you could all do me a quick favour. My slut girlie Daisy has been nominated for this years TV X Awards for the Most Outrageous Sex Scene (quite fitting I do think hehe).

If you could vote for her, that would be fantastic. The voting is here

VOTING PERIOD ENDED. thanks for all those that voted.

You need to click on the Most Outrageous Sex Scene category and click on the movie Calling The Shots and hit “Vote Now”.

There’s also a video clip of the nominated scene so you can see what she’s doing to this poor boy for them to give this a worthy nomination lol

Vote For Daisy

Thanks Guys,
Trash

A new wife to introduce you to today, Molly Mormon (as she likes to call herself from her religious Mormon past) is from from Utah and is very good friends with fellow Utah slut and regular poster on here Baby Ruthie. As you can imagine being a friend of such a infamous hotwife has led this own married woman down the path of wrong (or of right in our world lol)

Molly is a gusher, very vocal and very multiorgasmic. She also loves taking creampies from her bulls. She says she’s very new to this, but very excited about the possibilities. So lets give her all the support we can in her new world of hotwifery.

And yes we have an exclusive interview coming soon.

Check out Molly’s website here

The Spanish DJ - True story submitted by Dan from the UK.

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During a visit to Spain I was able to get my wife to become the slut I was always wanting. We went to a night club, I was looking for a partner for her but the good looking guy’s were with all women of their own. The DJ announced a wet tee shirt competition, I persuaded Geena to enter because she has the biggest nipples I have ever seen and I knew they would impress anyone when cold and hard. Not many entered and sure enough her pert tits and rock hard nipples won the day. She was invited to the rostrum to collect her prize, the DJ kissed her and then whispered something in her ear. When she returned I asked her what he had said. “He wants to fuck me” she said. My cock instantly firmed up as I asked her if she was interested, “He is so gorgeous looking I won’t be able to turn him down” she replied as her eyes met his across the room.

At the end of the night he put on a long slow record and came down to ask G for a dance, she moulded herself to him and they moved around the dancefloor oblivious to anyone else. I didn’t care that people noticed their fondling as I knew her pussy was going to be used a little later on.

We hung around and I was introduced to the DJ Fernando, I asked him if he minded that I was her husband and would want to go back to our room with them, I told him that I had to guarantee her safety. He answered that he wanted nothing more than to make love to Geena in front of me.

It was getting on for early morning and getting light when we arrived back at the room, Fernando immediately took control, he was obviously going to humiliate me as much as he could. Geena was told to strip down to her panties and kneel on the floor He moved towards her and unzipped his pants and pulled out his rock hard cock, he grabbed her by the hair and shoved her mouth onto it. She fucking LOVED it, and tried to swallow every inch, he told me to get my camera so we could have a souvenir of the visit to take home, You’ll see the one I took below. He bent her head back so his whole cock could go down her throat, she knows how to take deep throat and willingly obliged. Pulling at her hair he mouth fucked her as if she was a cheap street prostitute. When he was ready he pulled out and wanked his orgasm into her mouth and all over her face. She looked FANTASTIC. She has had huge cocks, long cocks you name it but even though his was quite small it was the way he treated her that gave her the best night she ever had.

What happened next completely shocked me, he told her “Now get up and go kiss your husband!”. She obeyed and came towards me with his cum all over her face. We french kissed, my tongue probing her spunk filled mouth as my face slid against hers. Then Fernando joined us, his face pressed against ours as he too lapped at her spunk splattered cheeks.

We both begged him to stay longer and he agreed, he told Geena to lie on the bed and masturbate in front of us, again she obeyed and was soon squirming around from the action of her own fingers. He then told me to get out, I was to go down into the street and wait across the street, which I did. I was down there for a good 20 minutes stood around smoking and then I heard the balcony door open.

Geena came out, she had dressed again and was wearing the tee shirt she won and it was soaking wet, just as in the club, she had a micro mini on and had put make up on, not just ordinary but excessive lipstick and mascara, she looked like a hooker. He said something to her and she leant forward onto the balcony railing, he came behind her pushed up her skirt and shoved his cock up into her. Her face contorted as he pulled her hair back and began fucking her with a superb rhythm, I could tell by her face that Fernando was in her ass. A lorry turned into the street, it was the early morning bin collectors, they moved up through the street until they were outside our window. They saw me and looked up to where I was focusing, they saw the same as me, a blonde haired hooker being fucked in the ass just above them. They laughed and the four of them stood around cajoling Fernando and obviously urging him to give the ‘Puta’ a rough fucking for their entertainment.

I thought they may have been invited up but that would not have been possible, the slut on the balcony was now being slammed from behind her body shaking as Fernando worked up to his orgasm, Geena’s face was in bliss as the hammering continued, eventually the final thrust came as Fernando grunted into his orgasm. He pulled back and the slut sank to her knees to suck the half hard cock that had just pounded her ass. We all cheered on the street and then the guys went on about their business. I went for a short walk and when I got back Fernando had slipped out and was gone, I found my slut wife exhausted and asleep on the bed.

Later we both agreed it was the best sex session we had ever had and she told me that having that cock deep in her ass had given her so many orgasms she wanted more.

Submitted by: Dan - UK

Well here’s something I wasn’t expecting. To see my own girlie Daisy sat next to the incredibly Slutty hotwife Barbi Sinclair both wearing my t-shirts and hotpants and looking like heaven on earth. Barbie had emailed me that day with some new pictures and mentioned she had just moved to Las Vegas, I could not believe it as we happened to be visiting there for a few days. We quickly arranged to meet up and plan some naughtiness.

This was taken a few hours before Daisy and Barbi had an intimate shower together and then a night out on the town together. Yes, together! Lock up your husbands and sons lol..

That reminds me, will post the shower pics soon!!

It was a wild night in the bars and clubs, the girls getting so much attention dancing away and flaunting their bodies to a sea of hot blooded males. Daisy had a few kisses in some dark corners of the clubs and even managed to blow a guy in a toilet cubicle. Barbi had a few hot grinding dances with some guys on the dancefloor and snatched a guy and took him home from outside the club while we were waiting for our car to be brought round. Nothing beats a night out on the town and the mystery of cuckold fun it can bring.

Read Barbi’s Exclusive Interview With HotWifeBlog Here

Check out Barbi’s Slutty Adventures Here

Check out Daisy’s exploits here

There are some real gems of some blogs out there. I love coming across new and interesting writers covering the niche we all love. Recently I’ve become really interested in hearing stories from women that cuckold their husbands without their knowledge. Lots of people within the hotwife lifestyle do not like it, obviously because of the huge betrayal of trust involved in playing like this. I myself find this an incredible turn-on and know I’m not alone in loving these women that take the risks of satisfying their sexual appetite outside of their marriage and the lengths they go to to keep it hidden from their husbands. I’ve always loved the thought of being in a relationship and my woman cheating on me and then me somehow finding out later, maybe even without her knowing I found out. Then playing the game of ‘has she?’ ‘hasn’t she?’ each night she comes home… Why is it so appealing? Maybe because it’s so morally wrong it becomes a turn-on to some… The sexual mind mystifys me sometimes.

Anyway on to the post of the day and one such women Amelia writes a blog on her infidelities, thoughts, observations and her life as a cheating wife.

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MY MARRIED LIFE
I love my hubby dearly… but I still see other men… this NOT a place for evangelists against cheating… this is for others, women and men like myself who are sometimes a little perplexed that society says you can have either one or the other.

Sometimes
A few years back I went through a periods of dating a lot more indiscriminately than I do now. I felt pretty invulnerable and my job at the time ensured that I was away on business fairly often. Hotels are interesting places, something like a place between the real worlds people come from. You know you will leave this place and everything that was done will be recycled like the bed linen. Men are much more confident and a woman traveling alone is, well, not short for attention. You still can’t forget there’s a world out there though, so there is some degree of skill required in pulling of a one night stand. I might not have followed all the tips I give but this is what I learned:
a) Single men are generally a NO. They are not taking the same risks as you, period.

b) Joining a group of men at a hotel for drinks. Generally its not a good idea. If they are friends they will talk about it. Even if they are not the chances are it will be pretty obvious to the group. The more people involved the greater the risk and the chances are you will forget their faces but imagine how dangerous it could be if they saw you again in public. It is possible to mingle with a group but you have to keep things discreet. The right type of man is essential.
c) The right type of man. There are two safe types in my opinion. Firstly the serial cheater, he is older and not as blatant as amateur potential suitors. He’s usually a senior person in a company. He’s done this a lot and he knows the rules. Second is the man who is the exact opposite. He is not going to tell anyone and is as fearful that he might be caught. The men between these extremes are dangerous, they don’t hold enough value in their marriages to be careful enough and they are not experienced enough to play in the same league as the serial cheater.
d) Don’t be silly and carry identifying stuff around. You’d be surprised how easy it is to forget a conference badge. My advice is to make a clear separation between work and play. Go back to your room, freshen up and leave work behind.
e) Foreigners can be the ideal. On the positive side, if they are regular travelers, they are even more experienced. They will be leaving your country! And often they don’t have a group of friends tagging along. On the downside be careful for abusive men. I’ll expand on this further. The reason I stopped, and very quickly, having one night stands was because of one bad incident. Remember I said I felt invulnerable, well that’s a lie and you need to be aware of it. You are not invulnerable, in fact you are a lot more vulnerable than a single woman. My escapades ended when a man got abusive with me. I met him the first night I was away on business and went to his hotel. He was great, the experienced serial cheater. Night two was wonderful as well. On the third and last night he became rougher. His real self came out and he told me he knew I couldn’t tell anyone. He was right! Please be careful of this.
f) His room or yours? I’m still of the belief that going to his room is better.
g) Stay the night? It’s totally dependent on if you can and it feels right. It can mean that you have to get up extra early, but you know what, good morning sex can get rid of morning grumpies.

That’s my contribution, nothing based on research, just my opinions. I’d love to get your ideas.

Now the point of this blog was to complete Sometimes …

Sometimes its never as good as it was and then it wasn’t that great to start with. Last year I went on a business trip which meant a night away. Sometime during the day I had too much time on my hands and not willing or up to flirting with someone new, I decided to call a man I’d met a few times about 4 years ago. I’d met him at a conference initially. He’s the second type, very devoted husband and super careful about everything and one of the few men I took to my hotel room. I tracked down his number and still acting out of idleness called him at his work.

He was shocked that I’d called and despite the years that had gone by and that we’d been together a few times, he was still cutely nervous but obviously excited to meet. Obviously.

He wasn’t able to come to me late so I had to skip dinner at my normal time (yes its an issue) and he came to me at about 7pm.

I’d love to say it was an epic fuck but sadly there isn’t much to write about. I guess in my mind I thought it would be better and I probably made the past seem better than it was. Or maybe I’ve changed and even though I understood and even enjoyed the nervousness and clumsiness when we first met, he is simply not the kind of man I could date any more.

Sometimes … we can’t go back

Submitted by: Amelia - My Married Life