December 30, 2009
Wifes New Job
I’ll try to keep this short… I’ve been married 7 years. We are high school sweethearts. Happy and in love. The wife has worked from home for a great company for the past 2 years or so. The economic downturn led to her layoff and the tough job market resulted in her working as a bartender/waitress at a local spot. No problem, she loves the work and the people, just leads to conflicting schedules for “us” time.
So, it’s only a matter of time before an attractive women bartender gets hit on… Eventually, I get curious and go through her phone one night (I know that I should not have). She has text messages from two guys that are obviously trying to seduce her and she is sending suggestive messages back!
So eventually I confront her about the issue, and give her my permission and even encourage her to go out and play. She adamantly refuses and tells me that she is disturbed that I would “allow” her to do that.
I think it is incredibly sexy. She thinks that I must not love her if I would let her do that. I really want her to go explore her sexuality. I don’t know what to do.
Submitted by: Tom - Houston, TX
December 31st, 2009 at 1:47 pm
My wife expressed a similar feeling. I’ve tried to assure her of my love and that I want her to have the opportunity to have new experiences. So far she is has moved slowly towards some activities. Vacations have led to best times. Topless and nude beaches have made her more comfotable being seen and even meeting the guys we have talked with on the beach. So far only dancing and kissing but expect more on next trip.
December 31st, 2009 at 5:42 pm
The first step is to get her to to show some more..
December 31st, 2009 at 5:55 pm
Hi Texas first of all congrats, she is nice. At first some women fell this don’t talk about cuckold lifestyle that u desire. Let her know the rush you fell seeing her enjoying her self whit another man tel her you whant to please her fantasy , they r already texting. It’s a matter of time that this bull guys will need to have they’re way whit ur wify, she will come back all filled up, she will try to avoid you and run to the bathroom, don’t let her. U need to taste her ones she’s in give her oral plasure when in extasy ask her when will she be the bulls girl. The god news 4u cuky is that on of those days she will grab you by the back of your head, open her legs really wide wile u see she foes not resist anymore you will taste him inside your wife woom. If she does this u r in 4it. Becarfull for what you which for she just migth star bagin lots of guys that she meets at the bar. Dayli!
January 4th, 2010 at 3:50 pm
Ok, so she’s fine with the text flirting behind your back, but given permission she questions YOUR motives?Sound like you need to plant a friend at the bar and tell him just what turns her on the most. Then when he scores that pussy you can “confront” her and show her how turned on it made YOU!
January 11th, 2010 at 9:48 pm
I had the same problem with my wife who worked out of the home and admitted that she had been hit on several times, then she asked me what I thought. My answer was ‘ It is up to you to say yes or no” She admitted that one black man really made her think. My answer was again “It is up to you” then I added “you have my OK if you decide to hit the hay with him” I added to that “But let me know when and where so I won’t worry about you not getting home at your usual time.
She did it and enjoyed it more than she thought she would. She called me and told me she would be late, that she had a hot date. She came home with a smile and told me all about it. Now she does it often.