“I am kind of a movie buff, but actually it is just that I am putting in a huge effort to find them. I have to review a lot of duds in order to get to the gold. I have always believed that this theme is out there mainstream but kind of hidden away in a corner. It is just a case of reaping what you sow, believing and making the effort. I have a few others to watch ( in my ‘to view’ section of personal DVD collection) that i think will bear serious fruit on the positive hotwife front, so keep posted. I think i will have about 10 seriously good hotwife/girlfriend themed or partly themed movies by the end. I would like to name this list The Positive Pulsemann Top Ten Hot Wife / Girlfriend Movie Experience. What do you think ?, not an ego thing, but i just want to separate it from the existing lists and set a new standard.

I am finding them mostly on Amazon or other sites and spending a lot of time reading reviews (detailed ones before deciding to invest my time and money on buying them. I have most bought now, and I should have the final list by Christmas.

Still need help though”

Ps, it does not end well for husband as she leaves him ( but he is not important to the movie anyway, in fact we never see him) but there is a a great scene in once upon a time in america where robert de niro and the rest of his mob crew learn that one of the women in the high class bordello they visit is brought there every weekend to bang about 10 strangers while her husband watches. She then goes on to perform a penis inspection line up with all the mob boys. very titillating.

There is a funny hotwife scene at the start of old school ( will Ferill comedy) were he walks in on girlfriend about to get it on with a man and woman wearing blindfolds. Also at the end of the movie she asks another man to SWING by her house some time, I should add that it is not really true hotwife as he leaves her straight afterwards, but all very light hearted, and a good scene to use and mention that you would not be too annoyed if it happened to you.

Ok, I have found or more correctly remembered a great hotwife movie while shopping in my local DVD store today. It is an oldie but an absolute classic. Shirley valentine. It is a warm funny story about a middle aged woman finding herself. It is as much about falling in love with one’s own life as somebody else. Bored with life in suburban uk and with her distant husband Shirley suddenly runs off to Greece and among many other funny moments has sex with a Greek waiter. At the end husband comes to get her back and all ends romantically with both happy. a word of warning on the DVD produced by paramount, it has many Americanisms dubbed over the very strong regional uk accent and this loses some of the humour and jokes. it is a great movie in its own right besides hotwifing about seizing the day and not accepting the ordinary life many blindly follow. . Very real story too, quite believable

Ok I have found another excellent movie. It is spike lees, She’s gotta have it. basically one woman sleeping with 3 men that are all perusing her. Not exactly pure hot wife material but close enough. lots of insatiable woman material. it is a comedy with spike lee acting in it himself as a bicycle loving freak.

I have just hot pay dirt and cannot believe this gem has lain dormant all these years. Just received my copy of Almost pregnant and reviewed it tonight. Enjoy

It is a perfect movie, hotwifing, breeding, wife writing, and actually very funny as a movie. Not oscar winning but very mainstream and enjoyable. Soft core sex scenes but very well done and quite titillating.
When Linda and Charlie discover that his sperm just ain’t up to getting Linda pregnant, they decide Linda should take a lover. But Linda falls in love with a lover who’s had a vasectomy, so much for plan A. She finds out but attempts plan B and takes another lover on the sly while still seeing lover number one ( because she loves the sex with him) all in the hopes to get her all-too-elusive baby. Delightful sex scences, including one dream sequence when hubby has to imagine it all happening before taking the plunge ( he is given a bed side view and a bottle of oil to hold) . Yes the husband eventually starts an affair with the wife of lover A but even this is done in a hot wife fashion as this second wife instigates it without even knowing her husband it sleeping wth the first wife tring to get pregnant.
This movie has two beautiful women (Tanya Roberts and Joan Severance) both of whom display their bodies plentifully. The movie has a lot of laughs. The ladies are delightful and funny. The guys (Jeff Conaway and John Calvin) are very good too. This is a funny positive movie with happy ending. Enjoy.
it seems I am well on my way to creating the perfect happy hot wife movie list

Here is the review of Le secret and why it makes the grade.

In simple terms it makes the grade because it is about a hotwife coming to terms with her desire and also about her husband coming to terms with her desire too. It is interesting because it is the wife that starts the process and she is certainly trying to hide it from the husband ( who she loves) initially but then is so blatant that it is obvious that she wants him to see her for who she is and finally understand. It is not a light movie with real world issues such as her mother turning slowly blind, but the sex scenes are great. I have included it here because at the end of the movie after his turmoil the husband accepts this. He clearly still loves her and will put up with it and they all live ambivalently ever after. I include it because if you remember i was looking for positive or at least neutral examples of the hotwife phenomenon in mainstream movies and this is at least neutral and I am sure many women will find it an uplifting story in many ways because this film is about real life issues. It is about love and changes; being afraid of time passing and not being able to find fulfillment, losing passion and struggling against your own guilty pleasures. It is about what happens frequently with many couples but anybody is willing to face. It is hotwife material because she is not in love with her lover and she knows there will be others, as she says herself ” IT IS IN ME”

It is one of the films with the best ( multiple) erotic hotwife scenes , she is a very attractive but real looking woman and great use is made of the interracial skin on skin camera shots with plenty of wedding ring close ups and other little hotwife bits and pieces such as her changing quickly out of sexy knickers for boring housewife ones hubby gets to see and a great scene where she does not try and hide the love bites and other marks her lover left on her from her husband so that he can begin to understand. For lovers of interracial hotwife material i doubt there is better on offer.

Ok guys, I have another one, again it is a rather complex mainstream movie so as it is rather late, I will hopefully get around to full review tomorrow. It is an really good Irish period piece set around 1900 called The December Bride

End of list

That is it so far folks. I would like to include a recommendation made by somebody else, as it looks very good, he wrote

I found the Torremolinos 73 scene where the husband had to give tacit approval for his wife to do a live sex scene in front of the entire crew to complete his film, which of course was what she wanted, along with his boss,… titillating.

I have it but have not had a chance to watch it yet. I have a few more to get through so keep posted and please keep posting 

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My last post referred to Pablos recomendation of Kinsey by the way