Comments on: Who’s in control? http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/ Welcome to hotwifeblog.com a blog community about hot wives, swingers, affairs and cuckold husbands. THIS WEBLOG IS FOR ADULT 18+ DISCUSSION ONLY. Tue, 22 May 2012 05:29:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5 by: cucky4me http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-323025 Mon, 09 Nov 2009 15:58:05 -0500 http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-323025 my wife has been in love with an other man my best friend. she was most intimate in every way a husband and wife could be even having 3 kids together and still being married to me living in same house. we did stop having sex for most part occaisonally when love was not home. she had him move into our bed room for 3 years and me to spare bedroom , I did not feel intimidated as she would not and I did not ask for divorce or seperation just open marriage which wasa great for all 3 of us. my wife has been in love with an other man my best friend. she was most intimate in every way a husband and wife could be even having 3 kids together and still being married to me living in same house. we did stop having sex for most part occaisonally when love was not home. she had him move into our bed room for 3 years and me to spare bedroom , I did not feel intimidated as she would not and I did not ask for divorce or seperation just open marriage which wasa great for all 3 of us.

]]> by: Fata Carletta http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-323051 Mon, 09 Nov 2009 21:32:46 -0500 http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-323051 I feel good tarara rara...:-) I love her, he fucks her, we like this... Life is now. Enjoy. I feel good

tarara rara…:-)

I love her, he fucks her, we like this…
Life is now. Enjoy.

]]> by: mark http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-323062 Mon, 09 Nov 2009 23:07:47 -0500 http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-323062 There is obviously a balance point that needs to be maintained. We never stopped having sex. To the contrary, we had more and better sex. She was allowed and encouraged to have separate sex time with each of her lovers. Some were just a 2 or 3 time fuck and some lasted longer. One lasted for over 2 years and every fuck session was between them and did not involve me. At least not until she came home after fucking him. I thought is was pretty erotic for them to spend a weekend together. After he was done fucking her, that was when I fucked her hard. Of course, she never found a guy that had a bigger or nicer cock than me. Not bragging, but every woman I have been with has always been wowed by it. Thicker than her wrist. On one occasion, she had been getting fucked pretty much weekly by her boss for about a year. Then one night she told me that he loved her and wanted her to leave me. I asked her if she loved him and she said yes. Now I did not want to lose her. I asked her one question that brought her back to thinking straight. I asked her if she was going to give up the hotwife life she was leading. I told her that he would never allow her to fuck any other guys. She realized then that she did not want that life style and how good of a husband I was. That was the only time it ever came up. There is certainly risk involved and I think more so if the husband completly stops haveing sex with the wife. Both partners have to remember that it is a sex game, erotic lifestyle that is ment to live life to the fullest. If you stop having sex with her and make her have sex with only other men, you you become the meek and he the stud. Nature (it's in the genes) makes them desire a man that is macho, strong and masculin. In our case she was fucking guys anyways. She just could not keep her panties on for any lenght of time. I prefered her to be open and found I loved having her after her pussy was filled to the brink with a guys cum. Yes, I am a creampie eater. Enjoy it but always pay attention or you could lose out and end up having to jerk yourself off for ever after. There is obviously a balance point that needs to be maintained. We never stopped having sex. To the contrary, we had more and better sex. She was allowed and encouraged to have separate sex time with each of her lovers. Some were just a 2 or 3 time fuck and some lasted longer. One lasted for over 2 years and every fuck session was between them and did not involve me. At least not until she came home after fucking him. I thought is was pretty erotic for them to spend a weekend together.
After he was done fucking her, that was when I fucked her hard. Of course, she never found a guy that had a bigger or nicer cock than me. Not bragging, but every woman I have been with has always been wowed by it. Thicker than her wrist. On one occasion, she had been getting fucked pretty much weekly by her boss for about a year. Then one night she told me that he loved her and wanted her to leave me. I asked her if she loved him and she said yes. Now I did not want to lose her. I asked her one question that brought her back to thinking straight. I asked her if she was going to give up the hotwife life she was leading. I told her that he would never allow her to fuck any other guys. She realized then that she did not want that life style and how good of a husband I was. That was the only time it ever came up.
There is certainly risk involved and I think more so if the husband completly stops haveing sex with the wife. Both partners have to remember that it is a sex game, erotic lifestyle that is ment to live life to the fullest.
If you stop having sex with her and make her have sex with only other men, you you become the meek and he the stud. Nature (it’s in the genes) makes them desire a man that is macho, strong and masculin.

In our case she was fucking guys anyways. She just could not keep her panties on for any lenght of time. I prefered her to be open and found I loved having her after her pussy was filled to the brink with a guys cum. Yes, I am a creampie eater.
Enjoy it but always pay attention or you could lose out and end up having to jerk yourself off for ever after.

]]> by: JohnnyAngPlay http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-323111 Tue, 10 Nov 2009 15:21:15 -0500 http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-323111 Hey! Thanks so much for posting this, I'm glad that you found it interesting. I used to follow this blog all the time, and I'll definitely have to again now! Just a response to Mark, While it is true that nature makes women desire men that are masculine, culture also plays a huge part of who they spend their lives with. In our situation, she gets to have that masculine influence from her boyfriend. From me she gets to have the love, devotion, kindness, and even financial benefits that she also desires. It's really the best of both worlds. -John Hey! Thanks so much for posting this, I’m glad that you found it interesting. I used to follow this blog all the time, and I’ll definitely have to again now!

Just a response to Mark,

While it is true that nature makes women desire men that are masculine, culture also plays a huge part of who they spend their lives with. In our situation, she gets to have that masculine influence from her boyfriend. From me she gets to have the love, devotion, kindness, and even financial benefits that she also desires. It’s really the best of both worlds.

-John

]]> by: michael http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-323236 Wed, 11 Nov 2009 20:05:13 -0500 http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-323236 I feel good, I find the thought of my wife getting fucked when she visits her lover more enjoyable than fucking her myself, i like watching her get ready, love shopping for clothes with her, doing things for her, trivial tasks etc - if she did not regularly get fucked senseless by her real man i dont think id be interested at all. took a while to get used to things yet wouldnt now change anything in my life our relationship. id dont fuck other women and rarely fuck my wife, yet when ever i want she kisses me in a way that makes me cum very quickly....ive given up trying to please her a few years ago,,it was too much darn effort, i know concentrate on making money so she gets everything shes desires. I feel good, I find the thought of my wife getting fucked when she visits her lover more enjoyable than fucking her myself, i like watching her get ready, love shopping for clothes with her, doing things for her, trivial tasks etc - if she did not regularly get fucked senseless by her real man i dont think id be interested at all. took a while to get used to things yet wouldnt now change anything in my life our relationship. id dont fuck other women and rarely fuck my wife, yet when ever i want she kisses me in a way that makes me cum very quickly….ive given up trying to please her a few years ago,,it was too much darn effort, i know concentrate on making money so she gets everything shes desires.

]]> by: Robert http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-353337 Tue, 24 Aug 2010 15:49:16 -0400 http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2009/11/08/whos-in-control/#comment-353337 1. I would not like her to fall in love with another man but realize there is a chance intense, passionate feelings can occur with her lover. 2. I got very use to her not having sex with me while she strictly had sex with her lover. Once he found out and knew that I didn't want a confrontation with him over the matter, he wanted, and got, exclusive access with her. She cut me off as not to lose her boyfriend and the fact he was more of the man in her eyes. Her pussy became strictly off limits with me to the point I didn't even get to see it. I didn't want to have an issue with her lover so I didn't push the matter. I got very comfortable with the idea that she loved me, we did married things etc but her pussy strictly belonged to him. 3. Alone time will most likely occur at some point between a wife and a lover. I knew not to call or bother her during the day when they would be together as not to disturb them. A wife and a lover needs this type of private time to enjoy to themselved esp if a wife has a lot of pressure and stress at home with family activties. 1. I would not like her to fall in love with another man but realize there is a chance intense, passionate feelings can occur with her lover.

2. I got very use to her not having sex with me while she strictly had sex with her lover. Once he found out and knew that I didn’t want a confrontation with him over the matter, he wanted, and got, exclusive access with her. She cut me off as not to lose her boyfriend and the fact he was more of the man in her eyes.

Her pussy became strictly off limits with me to the point I didn’t even get to see it. I didn’t want to have an issue with her lover so I didn’t push the matter. I got very comfortable with the idea that she loved me, we did married things etc but her pussy strictly belonged to him.

3. Alone time will most likely occur at some point between a wife and a lover. I knew not to call or bother her during the day when they would be together as not to disturb them. A wife and a lover needs this type of private time to enjoy to themselved esp if a wife has a lot of pressure and stress at home with family activties.

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