Over the next week or so we have a couple of posts that look into the male mind with regards to their side of a cukold relationship. I always find it fascinating how different we all are with our niche tastes within this lifestyle - the key core being the same, loving the fact our wives and girlfriends are getting fucked by other men.
So the first of those posts is today. Rick is a cuckold, he is also husband of the delectable Katie Kox. I have had the pleasure of meeting up with Rick a few times both in the UK, in LA and in Vegas where he lives with his wife. The thing I love about Vegas is the underbelly of sleaze that seems to shine through those bright City lights, also it seems to be a place where deviants gather to go, have fun and sin. So there’s no coincidence Rick has ended up living there, he is living the dream cuckold lifestyle, with a beautiful wife.
Thanks for the interview Rick and answering so frankly and honestly about your private life. It really is great to have your perspective on this crazy lifestyle we love so much.
hotwifeblog: Hey Rick, Thanks for agreeing to be interviewed on hotwifeblog.com, it’s always very interesting to get the male perspective on living the hotwife and cuckold lifestyle.
Rick: Thanks for having me 
hotwifeblog: So you now live in Vegas with hotwife Katie Kox but you’re actually a fellow British chap like myself (guess we’re a nation of perverts lol). How are you finding life over in the States?
Rick: I love it here. I moved to America 10 years ago and have never looked back. I especially love living in Las Vegas, it’s a trip for sure.
hotwifeblog: Do you miss anything about British culture?
Rick: Not really… Marmite maybe LOL. I do think that more women in the UK wear stockings for everyday wear than in America and being huge fan of stockings I guess I miss that. Like when you’re on a train and there’s a women sitting there with hot legs and you’re trying to catch a glimpse to see if she’s wearing stockings or not… Like you said ‘A Nation Of Perverts”
hotwifeblog: Yep had that on Friday on a train on the way to London.. and she was … How old are you Rick?
Rick: 37
hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Rick: I’m obsessive compulsive, geeky, sexually cuckold, and a bit of a space cadet. I can get my head around technology with ease but have a hard time finding my way home.
hotwifeblog: How long have you been married to Katie?
Rick: Just over a year
hotwifeblog: How would you describe your marriage and lifestyle?
Rick: Our marriage is tight. We are best friends, business partners and still can’t keep our hands off of each other. Our life style is a little crazy. Katie is a full blown Hotwife with the sexual freedom to fuck whomever she wants whenever she wants, regardless off how I feel. I on the other hand am completely cuckold. I remain 100% faithful to her and am totally turned on by her being a slut.
We started our site as a hobby to document our crazy sex life and now one year later we have quit our day jobs and are both full time pornographers. I am now a porn director for KatieKox.com and our new site DirtyHardDrive.com and while Katie obviously stars in those sites she is also signed to LA Direct and performs for companies like Brazzers, Porn Pros, Evil Angel and Hustler. So basically our lifestyle revolves around her fucking a lot.
hotwifeblog: When Katie has a date do you like to stay at home and think about it, watch her, or do you like to participate? or a mix of them all?
Rick: I like a little bit of everything. Sometimes I participate, sometimes I just watch and sometimes I just wait at home. It’s all hot. Her getting turned on is what turns me on. These days I seem to get off the most when Katie goes off on a date on her own and I wait at home for her to return after a night of adultery. My mind goes crazy thinking about what she’s up to. As soon as she walks through the door we fuck like crazy.
hotwifeblog: How did you become a cuckold and develop feelings for this kink?
Rick: I’ve always believed that there are certain ‘triggers’ early on in your life that develop your sexual tastes. Mine kinda got hard wired early on by a bunch of things but I think the final nail in the coffin of my development happened when I was about 16. My girlfriend at the time went on vacation to Greece with some friends and I missed her like crazy. When she returned she broke up with me and I was pretty devastated. I later found out from her friend who went to Greece with her that she fucked two brothers at the same time while she was out there. It totally tripped me out and I was so hurt by it. I found myself thinking about it more and more. More and more and more and more. Until the point where I was thinking about it while I was masturbating. I knew at that point that I could only ever be with a slut.
hotwifeblog: Have you had any previous relationships that were cuckold based?
Rick: All of my relationships since my teens have been cuckold based. I knew nothing else would ever satisfy me and always gravitated to slutty women, strippers, hookers etc..
hotwifeblog: So you think your exposure to the lifestyle at an early age has made this certain kink stronger in your mind than if you found it say 10 years later?
Rick: For sure. I came to understand the following through therapy: If you have a fantasy that you think about every time you ejaculate when masturbating you become really good at connecting that mental picture with the physical act. You essentially hardwire your kink. So as time goes on it becomes who you are as opposed to something you just think about.
hotwifeblog: In what way would you say you’re able to control the jealousy emotion in your mind that so many men would never be able to do?
Rick: Jealousy is what turns me on. Its a basic human emotion that most people just don’t understand. When primal beings are confronted with something they don’t understand they often lash out with anger. It’s caveman 101.
I’ve heard this explanation for a emotional response of a cuckold… The natural law of survival provides us with jealousy. This means that if another man fucks your girl you will get jealous. This natural response is reminding you how bad you want your girl so that you fuck her and insure your sperm is dominant and not another mans.
I don’t think I explained that very well but you get the idea… Basically instead of letting my jealousy twist me up I embrace it and it heightens my desire for my girl to a fever pitch.
hotwifeblog: What do like most about your lifestyle?
Rick: My wife being a black cock whore.
hotwifeblog: What do you find most sexy about your wife?
Rick: Wow… the list goes on and on, her eyes, her legs, her tits, her lips, her pussy. But I have to admit her craving BBC drives me insane with lust.
hotwifeblog: Does Katie ever compare your performance to any of the other men she ’s slept with?
Rick: She tells me that I am an amazing fuck and that she loves sex with me. I know it’s different when you love someone but I can’t help but feel that when she is with one of her favorite studs the sex is mind blowing for her. A part of that may be the fact that she knows how much she is turning me on watching which in turn turns her on.
hotwifeblog: What’s it like to see Katie with another man?
Rick: Depends on the man. If it’s with a guy that is giving her great sex then it is mind blowing. If its with a guy who just isn’t doing it for her then it’s kind of weird and a little icky.
hotwifeblog: What’s the most exciting thing your wife has done sexually?
Rick: Wow that’s tough.. have you seen her site? lol
hotwifeblog: What type of women are you attracted to?
Rick: Sluts, BBC whores, prostitutes, confident women, women who ooze feminine sexuality and chicks with big tits. Am I shallow? lol
hotwifeblog: lol… What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Rick: lol… um… I’ll throw a couple out there and you can decide.. I had sex with my ex on a rotating bed on stage in front of about 400 people in Rotterdam. I was once chained to the bed and gagged with a cell phone next to me while an ex got ready for her date, went on it, had the phone on the whole time then came home to me and told me every last detail before untying me and I was once arrested wearing a CB3000
- that sucked.
hotwifeblog: omg I can imagine lol… Any fetishes you’re into?
Rick: I love being made jealous, I love women in stockings and I love love love white women with black men. To me it just seems right.
hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Rick: Submissive to white sluts and their black masters.
hotwifeblog: Does Katie take a Femdom role over you at all?
Rick: Yes. She lets me know my place when she’s with a guy she likes.
hotwifeblog: What clothes do you like to see Katie wear when she goes out to pull?
Rick: STOCKINGS!! There’s something so feminine about them. No knickers, low cut tops, high heels, anything slutty that says fuck me
hotwifeblog: Do you help find Katie’s sexual partners?
Rick: For sure. I feel like its part of my duty as a loving cuckold husband.
hotwifeblog: There’s a lot of interest in creampies in the hotwife lifestyle. Do they turn you on?
Rick: Yes. it’s weird but I could never lick a white mans cum out of my wife’s pussy, only black mens. There’s something so dominant about black men that turns me and Katie on so much that I completely buckle and become 100% submissive to Katie and her guys.
hotwifeblog: So you have ‘cleaned up’ Katie after she’s had someone cum inside her?
Rick: Yes sir.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever fucked Katie after she’s had someone cum inside her?
Rick: Many times.. it’s one of our favorite things. It makes me cum so hard and she loves the feeling of having two loads in her
hotwifeblog: Tell us about a recent experience of Katie’s you particularly enjoyed?
Rick: We were recently at a gig at a strip club in Vegas. Katie got paid to hang out, meet fans and sign autographs. A couple of times she was asked by the organizers to go back into the really quiet VIP area for some pics. Things got crazier and crazier back there every time she went. I went back to investigate and found Katie on all fours blowing this black guy she had just met while a photographer was snapping away. I sat down in the corner and watched for about half an hour while my wife drained his balls. She then came over and gave me a big kiss and then went back to the front of the club where she sat for the rest of the gig next to the guy she just blew with his arm around her like she was his girlfriend while I just sat on the couch a couple of spots down from them. It turned me on so fucking much, I loved it. The next day the organizers of the event blew up our phone demanding we don’t use the pics or the club will be closed down. We haven’t used them….. yet.
hotwifeblog: What input do you have on Katie’s website?
Rick: I designed the layout, do all the directing, all the graphics, all the pics and handle all the tech aspects of it. So basically everything behind the camera. As for the scenarios, Katie and I usually come up with those based on our fantasies together.
hotwifeblog: What are your plans for the future regarding the website?
Rick: Well since starting it just over a year ago as a hobby we have quit our day jobs and become full time on it. The website is constantly growing based on fan feedback. We recently added a forum and we are going to start doing live cam shows pretty soon for our members. But I guess the big news is that we are about to launch a whole new website called DirtyHardDrive.com that will be a little less niche and allow us to go into all of our hardcore fantasies. Dirty Hard Drive will also be an all access pass network that once you join you will get access to all Katies site too, all of Dirty Hard Drive and some other sites coming soon. We are really excited about our network and cant wait to see where the next year takes us.
hotwifeblog: And lastly Rick, so many male readers here would love to be in your place. What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out this lifestyle?
Rick: Honesty is key. Not only with each other but with yourself too. HONESTY AND COMMUNICATION.
hotwifeblog: Thank you Rick, give our love to the gorgeous Katie and make sure she keeps posting here!
Read Rick’s Wife’s Katie’s Interview with hotwifeblog here
Visit the one and only Katie Kox right here
Interview by: Trash
