August 16, 2009
I have had sex many times with my fiance after she has been out with other guys. She made it clear in the beginning of our relationship that she wasn’t about to stop seeing other guys anytime soon. That also meant that she was still going to have sex with them as well - whenever, and with whoever, she wants to have sex with. And she is still screwing others to this very day. I guess I’ve just had to get used to the fact that if I wanted her, I would basically have no other choice but to share her with others, and she won’t budge even a little bit on the issue. She doesn’t want to be ‘tied down’ to just one guy, ever. So I just deal with it. Sometimes it can be a bit of a turn on I guess just knowing that she is getting it from others on a regular basis. By how many? I do not know for sure. She doesn’t really discuss it, except maybe to say something like, “Oh, BTW, I’m going out with so and so tonight and I doubt that I will be home early” type of thing. But sometimes I do wait up for her, and then sometimes we have sex, even though she already had it at least once already that night. I am quite used to having ’sloppy seconds” (or, thirds) with her. And I really don;t mind all that much. She is very good looking, and lots of guys want her, especially for sex. And I don’t blame her for wanting to make the most of it while she is still young and sexy, and can totally enjoy all the attention and pleasure that she gets from all the guys she goes out with. She has quite a few male ‘friends’. Her phone is constantly ringing day and night (she has her own private line). Overall, it may not be for everyone, but I’m fine with it. I mean like if I was super attractive, like her, and I had all sorts of girls wanting to have sex with me all the time, I would want to be out there doing them. Like I said, I really can’t blame her for being like she is.
Submitted by: Anonymous