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April 12, 2009

En Medias Ras

En medias ras. That’s latin for “I’m starting in the middle,” and would be happy to back fill you on all the previous and more recent stuff, but since the whole subject of “who do I find a hotgirl and/or hotwife” seems to be a hot/current topic.

My 2-cents are:
a) if you are single, find a girl that ALREADY is slutty, or that fucks around, etc. Don’t try to find “Miss Perfect” and think that you’re going to change her with your patience, carefully timed comments and carefully placed porn/movies. Now, that doesn’t mean you bring it all up, out of the box, on your first date. In fact, don’t ask about her sex life either, right away, that’s a flag that you’re borderline wacko, lol. But you have eyes and you have ears, isn’t that right? So, take her to a place for dinner that also crosses over as a bit swanky, come when the families and kiddies go home, and see if she enjoys the attention. Anyway, just as a starting point, if you’ve no other ideas. And perhaps you point out that some other men have taken note of her, and tell her you think it’s wonderful, she’s attractive and should enjoy being so. If she clams up and heads for home, you’ve saved yourself further dates.

b) If you’re married, well, depends on how long you’ve been married, right? If you’ve been married for several years and suddenly want (or expect, or demand) that your girl become “hot,” then you might well take a step back from that and put yourself on the LONG TERM plan (of which I’ve no experience). If you’ve only been married a short time, then you still want to be sensitive and aware, but NOTHING wrong with asking your better-half to meet you somewhere, after-hours, for a drink whilst you pretend it’s your first date again. Never seen a single girl or a newlywed shrink from the idea of dressing up pretty and being appreciated by her man again.

Now, you can adjust any of the above to fit your/her fancy, of course, but if you are hoping for her to suddenly approach you with any sort of “hot” ideas if it hasn’t already been a part of your lives, then you might well put your and her toe in the water with something romantic as the above. And don’t forget to let her know, with a wonderful smile, that you want her to feel sexy and that you love her getting some attention from the blokes that might be watching.

If you’ve a jealous bone in your body, then off with you. Too many, I’ve discovered, fantasize about the hotwife/hotgirlfriend, but then hit the roof if a man looks at her. That will kill ANY freedom she might wish to share with you someday, my friends. Just a thought.

Pics included are recent girl I’ve taken black, and I can’t wait to detail that in my next submission!

Train Her

Submitted by: Train - Florida - trainher@live.com

3 Responses to “En Medias Ras”

  1. Bobby said:

    Train glad to see you back!!! What happend to the group?? Was just starting to learn a thing or two.

    Bobby

  2. train said:

    Hey Bobby — had some family issues, had to re-locate, so am now doing my thing near the Gulf of Mexico ! Drop me a note and I’ll keep you posted !

  3. joey said:

    Houston and Galveston Area 56 year old single white male looking for a nice off the wall place where I can go and watch white women[younger preferrably] and black men[older preferrably] mingle and mess around and sip cocktails while building up the courage to go somewhere alone get naked and crawl up in to a ball of worship and get in the new era love of interracial deep sex love[[ Kim Kardashin and Paris Hilton]]style. I long to find a place where I can go and just watch behind a two way mirror.I love that so much.

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