September 20, 2008
Ready To Embark
It is very hard for me to believe most of what is written on this site or other sites dealing with this idea of a wife having her husbands permission to have another man as a lover. However, I must admit that my own husband introduced it into the fantasies we share during lovemaking a long time ago. I have enjoyed it as a fantasy but never considered actually engaging in such a thing, and always assumed it was just fantasy talk for him as well. He is a strong man, very manly, a good provider and a good father.
Recently we were looking at a public posting site in connection with a rental for the holiday, and in the process saw that the site had personal ads as well. For fun we clicked on that tab which provided many categories, including couples looking for men. I was shocked at all the activity that seems to go on, although I am sceptical that all of them are for real. Of course there were hundreds of ads for men looking to join couples. This experience has fueled our fantasy talk, and I am beginning to think of yielding to my husbands suggestions. I am amazed at his open mindedness about it and the strength of his ego to consider another man having me for pleasure. I remain fearful that if I consent, his attitude will reverse. At the same time, the range of my fantasies has grown and he has not seemed put off by any of them. Some of them are quite extreme, including seeing him giving oral sex to my fantasy lover while my lover is in me or even just as I watch.
He has been very patient, but persistent lately and has also said that he would never ask to have another woman join us, that he really does want to share me and wants me to experience other men. He has said that he will find someone or I can, but that in either case it must be someone I feel attracted to. He has also said he prefers that there be two to four different men so that there is less chance of me falling in love with one. And he wants the man to be clean and trustworthy enough that we are comfortable not using condoms or even birth control. I can hardly believe my good fortune, and am ready to say yes. I’ve only had two other men, before marriage, and the thought of being such a naughty woman in front of my husband has become very compelling.
Submitted by: Caroline - Reno, USA
September 22nd, 2008 at 3:48 pm
I askek my wife to go out with other men and enjoy her self, it took 4 years, when she finally took the step she was almost sure it would be fine as she also had doubts…As it turned out it wsa the best thing for both of us, she never had many men but she did have a few a lot. Do it ….
September 22nd, 2008 at 8:45 pm
Hi Caroline,
If your marriage is on a firm foundation, and it sounds like it is, then I say go for it.
Em and I have really enjoyed her adventures and it has increased the intimacy between us.
Best,
scott
Mrs. Kelly’s Playhouse
September 23rd, 2008 at 3:13 pm
we’ve lived the life for over 40 yrs. it has been nothing but great
September 23rd, 2008 at 4:53 pm
Caroline, just tell him “YES” and let him set it up, then have him agree at every step, then if he don’t back out, you shouldn’t either!
September 24th, 2008 at 1:25 am
Caroline,
I was some what worried as well as to whether or not my husbands attitude would change after I pleased another man. But since we started, I can honestly say that it has made OUR sex life even better between the two of us.