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I believe the hotwife-cuckold lifestyle could be more than a handbook or a way for selling sex toys. I think it is a great opportunity to complete spiritual advance through love and pleasure.

For the woman it is finally a way to achieve sexual empowerment which is related to access to power. It is something necessary for our society since men have oppressed women sexually and politically. For the man it is an opportunity to achieve humbleness and a spiritual progress; letting go of what we love the most and have been taught to keep as a possession. It is an opportunity to let fear behind. It is a mayor spiritual progress. We have been educated to be lenient with the promiscuity of men but a woman who expresses and takes action to fulfill her desire of more than one man was a slut to be executed. The woman, even in Christianity, has been seen as a possession, just like a real estate property or as a horse.

When a couple decides to embark in the journey of swinging they will face their own fears and insecurities. But I think it could be easier for the woman to accept that the person she loves could have sex with somebody else since it has been something very common in many marriages of our ancestors, considering man’s promiscuity. On the contrary, the man who acknowledges his wife’s freedom to have intercourse with whoever she wants, experiments a major turn in history. Furthermore, the fact that many men embrace this desire is a remarkable social episode. As example of this, it is great to have a space for expression of such ideas like hotwifeblog.com

It is hard to say but to see the person you love as a free human being and not as a possession you get for your own pleasure, benefit and convenience is something we are not trained to be. To let freedom, friendship and true and unconditional love be only things that stand between man and woman is quiet a struggle. Once you let fear and selfishness behind both of you will fill this space in your soul with friendship, confidence, security and true love, which bind you together with a stronger and more advanced relationship. A little bit of pain and pleasure could be the stones which this path is made of but enlightenment is at the end of it.

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Submitted by: Gabriel - Puerto Rico