July 27, 2007
Dangerous Waters
Turning a Wife Into A Hotwife
Part V - “Navigating Some Dangerous Waters”
Clearly, these represent dangerous waters, and the wife in particular will have to be extremely careful how she handles things. She should be motivated to protect her sexual freedom by at no time letting another relationship take precedence over things in her marriage. Although she may enjoy sex with other men, this should in no way diminish her love for her husband.
In granting her sexual freedom, the husband is giving her a gift which is based on trust. Her sexual experiences should supplement the marriage, never supplant it. She needs to always ask permission from her husband before setting up sexual meetings with men, making sure he is okay with it. The husband will probably not want her to go to bed with specific men. Ideally, she should make him feel that he is always in control of things. If a husband feels that his wife and a partner are “going off on their own” (literally or figuratively) major problems will result.
When she goes out with a man for sex, he should insist on knowing who she’s with and where they are at all times. She should call him on her cell phone about any any change of plans. Rather than keep the nature of the meetings secret and spawn suspicions, she needs to be willing to openly discuss her sexual liaisons with her husband. She should understand that one of the motivations of some cuckold husbands have in granting their wives sexual freedom is in vicariously experiencing some of the excitement that she and her sexual partners experience with each other. Turning to our third example, we know of a case where a husband arranged with some men for his wife to go with them on an out of town convention. He knew that after hours they would probably go to popular night spots that included drinks and dancing. Before she left, he mentioned that one of the men would probably want to spend the night with her, and maybe she should see what it would be like. After a lot of close dancing with one of the men (mixed with alcohol), he invited her to his room for the night and she accepted. And, finally, there is the case of one husband who enlisted the help of a “stud date” to meet and seduce his wife at a party he was especially invited to. After he was successful and she met him several times for sex, the man then introduced her to another desirable man, made sure they hit it off, and then bowed out of the picture; the idea being that once she has sexual experience with two or more good lovers outside of marriage, her resistance to further liaisons would be greatly diminished.
By: Dr. Cherry Lee
Read Part I - How can I turn my wife into a hotwife?
Read Part II - Getting Things Started
Read Part III - Other Approaches
Read Part IV - First Time With Another Man
