June 5, 2007
Getting Things Started
Turning a Wife Into A Hotwife
Part II - “Getting Things Started”
In the beginning, the exploratory hotwife discussions may take a general, impersonal form. Many of the advantages for women are outlined in the previous chapter, and these can be subtly brought out. It’s essential to approach all this from her viewpoint. Most wives know of women - both married and unmarried - who enjoy sexual variety, and it will help to find out her attitude about this. Let her talk about it in detail, and remember the things she brings out. Eventually, a wife will realize that her husband is really in favor of giving her sexual freedom. At this point she will typically have suspicions about why he wants to move in this direction. Immediately coming to mind will be the possibility that he wants to have an affair, or even that he is trying to get her interested in other men so he can get out of the marriage. These things should not be the case, and they should be addressed openly and honestly, and total assurances given. This may be the biggest obstacle and it may take much in the way of persistent, loving assurance. He should clearly communicate the attitude of, “I love you,” but our marriage doesn’t mean that you must be denied sexual experiences with other men, the kind that many other women are enjoying.
Most women have had men flirt with them or “hit” on them. He should let her know that this does not threaten him. The husband may know of a particular man that “interests” her. He might tease her about it and make it clear that it’s okay. At the same time, the dangers of going in the hotwife direction should be openly addressed, and there are many: She could fall in love with someone else. What will be the effect be of people finding out? And then there is the risk of STD (sexually-transmitted disease).
Even if she initially has no intention of moving in the hotwife direction, by discussing each of these things in a general way, it will clear the way for the possibility - a possibility that will stick with her and that she will probably think about. (Remember, according to statistics, the majority of urban working women have had or are having an affair, so she’s probably very familiar with the issue.) Once she is convinced that she has this freedom, she will feel less sexually confined and will start thinking about things differently. This difference may become evident to other men who will see her as being more relaxed and less inhibited around them. The husband might also suggest that she get used to wearing more revealing clothes, the kind that sends a message to men.
She may want to wear - or the husband may want her to wear - an ankle bracelet on her right leg, which some claim signals those “in the know” that she’s a hotwife. Although ankle bracelets are worn by many women who don’t know their association with “hotwives,” men sometimes buy their wives ankle bracelets to signal that (1) with his permission she has had sex or is having sex outside of marriage, (2) he is okay with men approaching her to see if she’s interested, and (3) she’s open to sexual affairs.
Needless to say, she needs to be on some type of full-time birth control, such as the pill (assuming she isn’t already), and she needs to always have condoms in her purse. Among other things, they serve as a reminder that if an opportunity arises, she can take advantage of it. Even more important, condoms help insure that she won’t contract a STD.
The husband may help things along by dropping hints to men about how she loves sex, and that she’s more open-minded about it than she seems. He might even let it be known that he wouldn’t mind if she had an affair. All of these things may feed upon themselves until men attempt to meet her privately to establish the beginning of a sexual relationship.
Because of the possibility of becoming emotionally involved with one sexual partner, once she gets started, she should regularly have sex with more than one man. Thus, the emphasis should shift from emotional involvement before sex to sexual enjoyment and experience. Many women simply look for men who can regularly get them to climax.
By: Dr. Cherry Lee
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August 16th, 2007 at 12:28 am
We were at old friends Sue and Robs house a while ago and after a little too much to drink we turned the lights down and started dancing very closely with each other’s partners. Well as the evening went on and the drink flowed the kissing got quite steamy, but apart from that it was quite restrained and it took nearly an hour before I found myself undoing Sue’s bra and working my way down to tongue her nipples, at which point she was quietly moaning, however she was adamant things should not progress further, as she thought that Rob would not be able to handle it and it would be a shame to spoil our long term friendship. So I simply continued to enjoy what was on offer as we slowly swayed together. Although I had been enjoying myself and had been preoccupied, every now and again I had been glancing across at my wife Carol and Rob to make sure they were ok with what was going on. Every time I glanced they had been dancing as if glued together and kissing very deeply, but as far as I could tell nothing more was going on.
So I continued to french kiss Sue and fondle her large tits as discretely as I could. Shortly after Carol and Rob asked if we would like another drink, we said yes and they went off to the kitchen to open another bottle of wine. Well as Sue and I were now alone I took the opportunity to once again tongue her nipples whilst she slowly moaned and I kept hoping soon we might go a little further, but every time I tried she resisted but still I kept on trying. It was not long before Carol and Rob returned and with that any hopes I had with Sue seemed to disappear.
From this point on things then seemed to cool down very quickly as it seemed the alcohol had now started to have a bad effect on Rob and he headed off to bed. Sue followed and Carol and I retired to their guest room. Well I was pretty worked up from my activity with Sue and was hoping for some sex with my gorgeous wife. Was I in luck, she jumped on me and gave me an enormously passionate kiss, almost as soon as the door closed and in language that she rarely used said ‘I think I need you to fuck me’. As we started to make love I found my hand on her soaking wet pussy and remarked that Rob had certainly got her going. She said I should think so after what he had been doing. She then told me whilst dancing he had undone her bra and had been fondling her breasts superbly well, he had also been gently playing with her pussy and working his fingers in out and that had really turned her on, so much so that she had found it hard to keep her moans of pleasure quiet. He then suggested they fixed drinks and that was when they left the room. At this point she had made straight to the bathroom after all that wine. As she came out he was waiting and grabbed her hand and pulled into the bedroom. He then pushed her onto the edge of the bed so that her legs hung over the edge and her feet were on the floor, he then knelt down and pull her knickers to one side and started to tongue her in a really expert manner. She was now really hot and when he stopped with this tongue she thought that he was coming up the bed to start kissing her but then before she knew what was happening he had this dick in her and she felt floods of pleasure as he started to move in and out and she thought about how he was the only man who had ever done this to her apart from her husband of 25 years. Then after just a few seconds it stopped, he had come and shot his load into her and she felt really deflated. He then pulled out and without saying anything they came back down stairs, the whole thing over after only lasting a few minutes.
Wow did her story turn me on, I was down on her before I knew it, my tongue deep inside her tasting their combined juices, never before had I been this turned on. For several minutes I savoured with my tongue as Carol writhed in pleasure and before long she was crying out for me to fuck her. I plunged my dick deep inside her and was enjoying a wet and easy ride whilst she made the most profound moans she had ever made. We both came simultaneously in the the very best climax either of us had ever experienced, then we collapsed and cuddled each other and almost immediately fell asleep, exhausted.
When we woke up next morning, we were both hot for each other and again made love, both again coming to an enormous orgasm. When we eventually went down stairs, Sue and Rob were already up and although we talked for about 45 minutes before we left, nothing was ever discussed about the night before, it was as if it had never happened.
Both carol and myself must have remained excited about the previous nights events all the way home, as when we got back we were in bed together within minutes for yet another explosive orgasm.
Up until that night I had never realised I could get more pleasure from making love to my wife after she had be aroused by another man than I could from making love to another woman. Well you live and learn and I really want to have a similar experience but Carol is a little less sure, but I’m working on it.
September 23rd, 2007 at 1:39 am
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