Comments on: Performance Anxiety http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2005/10/19/performance-anxiety/ Welcome to hotwifeblog.com a blog community about hot wives, swingers, affairs and cuckold husbands. THIS WEBLOG IS FOR ADULT 18+ DISCUSSION ONLY. Thu, 17 May 2012 07:12:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5 by: Crimpo http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2005/10/19/performance-anxiety/#comment-2468 Wed, 19 Oct 2005 20:29:34 -0400 http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2005/10/19/performance-anxiety/#comment-2468 Hey it happens - the most important thing is that if you worry about it then its more likely to happen again. So if you've found a natural remedy that will help - and most important give you rock-hard confidence (so to speak) then its a good idea to let it take the strain and leave you to just enjoy yourself. Otherwise the danger is that you spend all your time worrying about your erection - why won't it get up, or, its up but will it stay up - and the worrying itself causes you to lose it. I honestly believe the vast majority of men have had this happen at least once to them. Usually its a one-off unless your mind allows it to become a recurring problem. In your case it seems probable that it was you thinking about the group scenario - which proves you're not a natural exhibitionist. So you need to blockout everyone else there out and just concentrate on the person you are with. In any case, as you experience the group theme more you'll worry about anyone watching less and less. All the best and well done for having the balls to raise the issue! Hey it happens - the most important thing is that if you worry about it then its more likely to happen again. So if you’ve found a natural remedy that will help - and most important give you rock-hard confidence (so to speak) then its a good idea to let it take the strain and leave you to just enjoy yourself. Otherwise the danger is that you spend all your time worrying about your erection - why won’t it get up, or, its up but will it stay up - and the worrying itself causes you to lose it. I honestly believe the vast majority of men have had this happen at least once to them. Usually its a one-off unless your mind allows it to become a recurring problem. In your case it seems probable that it was you thinking about the group scenario - which proves you’re not a natural exhibitionist. So you need to blockout everyone else there out and just concentrate on the person you are with. In any case, as you experience the group theme more you’ll worry about anyone watching less and less. All the best and well done for having the balls to raise the issue!

]]> by: Trash http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2005/10/19/performance-anxiety/#comment-2472 Wed, 19 Oct 2005 21:13:12 -0400 http://www.hotwifeblog.com/2005/10/19/performance-anxiety/#comment-2472 Thanks for your words of support Crimpo. I think you're right, I'm definitely more of a voyeur than an exhibitionist. But it will be interesting to see how the next party goes. I'm sure it all takes adjustment and I will get used to it but a little pill might help break me in a little bit ;) "well done for having the balls to raise the issue" Classic line Crimpo LOL Thanks for your words of support Crimpo. I think you’re right, I’m definitely more of a voyeur than an exhibitionist. But it will be interesting to see how the next party goes. I’m sure it all takes adjustment and I will get used to it but a little pill might help break me in a little bit ;)

“well done for having the balls to raise the issue”
Classic line Crimpo LOL

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