October 12, 2005
Very excited today (for a change LOL) Do you get the impression I enjoy running this blog?
As promised last week I have another fantastic interview for you today with none other than the simply delicious Brandi Love. This hard-bodied hottie just oozes and drips with sex appeal. She’s also very kind, warm thoughtful, intelligent and a fine business woman too.
I’m very proud to have you part of hotwife blog Brandi. Thanks for making it such a interesting interview. Hope you keep in touch and let us know about you upcoming sexual adventures xox
hotwifeblog: Welcome to the blog Brandi. Lovely to have your here, some easy questions first, where are you from?
Brandi: Originally Detroit but I reside in NC now.
hotwifeblog: What is your age?
hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Brandi: 34/ 26/ 34
hotwifeblog: What is your height?
hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Brandi: Brownish/ green
hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Brandi: Usually blond
hotwifeblog: Any piercings or tattoos?
Brandi: I have my nose pierced and 3 tattoos.
hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Brandi: Complex…energetic, witty and silly.
hotwifeblog: Is running your site a full time project for you or do you have another job as well?
Brandi: I work on my site full time.
hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Brandi: It sounds cliché but we met in college. He was a bouncer and I was a bartender. If there ever was love at first site it was us.
hotwifeblog: How long have you been married?
Brandi: 12 blissful years.
hotwifeblog: How would you describe your marriage and lifestyle?
Brandi: Amazing! Our life and marriage is full of adventure and spirit. We both have a zest for life and enjoying it to the fullest. We managed to marry not only our lover but our best friend so we really have it made.
hotwifeblog: Do you think you’ve always had natural hotwife tendencies, the need to be with more than one man?
Brandi: Honestly no. I would not say I have the NEED to be with other men, I simply enjoy it, and Michael loves that I enjoy it!
hotwifeblog: You describe yourself as a ‘Corporate MILF’. How is that title best summed up?
Brandi: I may be in the “adult” industry but I really am a corporate business woman as well. I am the CFO and office manager of our company and I have a baby so I guess that is how I came up with the “Corporate MILF” title.
hotwifeblog: How did you get into the swinging lifestyle?
Brandi: Long story short Michael and I went to Cancun about a year after our daughter was born. This was a much needed couples retreat. We had been told by another couple that we just had to get the sensual massages that the hotel offered. Sounded good to us so we called them up and the masseuses came to our room. When they say “sensual” in Mexico they mean it! A man and a woman came in and set up their tables. I was so naïve I was clothed! They told us to undress and get on the tables. Michael and I were about 5 feet apart so we could see each other. Antonio, my masseuse, started to get a bit personal 15 or so minutes into the massage. His hands were disappearing between my thighs. I would wiggle away just to have him do it again! I looked over at Michael to see if he was freaking out. He had a hard on and was just smiling away! I thought he was going to kill the guy and instead he was turned on. After they left we talked about what had just happened and we decided to explore this adventure a bit more and slowly but surely we began to play in the swinging community. Boy did we get more than we had bargained for that trip! We have been back every year!
hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a swinger?
Brandi: The adrenaline rush we experience when we meet a new couple.
hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active swinger?
Brandi: 4 years, almost 5
hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for?
Brandi: Tough question. I never really know, LOL! One characteristic I know I am attracted to is confidence. Not arrogance but a man who knows who he is and is not afraid to be that man….hmmm did that makes sense?
hotwifeblog: What was your first swinging experience like?
Brandi: WILD! I was sooooooooo scared I can not even tell you. We met a couple from the coast for dinner and it went great. We invited them back to the house and chatted a bit more. Finally I took her into the bedroom and got things started. I had never been with a woman so I had no idea what to do but no one else was getting things started! We made out like high schoolers until I finally shouted at the men to please join us. The four of us had passionate uninhibited sex for about 2 hours until we were all exhausted and smiling. I felt like the Queen Bee I tell you. I had the pleasure of making all 3 of them cum! Not bad for a first timer. That experience certainly gave me some confidence, LOL!
hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a swinger?
Brandi: Male and female? Combined maybe a dozen to 15. Some were not memorable but most were.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Brandi: Not yet!
hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Brandi: I have not done a DP. So if you mean in one night………..4 men and 3 women.
hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Brandi: I have to say it really does not making the assumption that it is at least 4 inches. The smallest cock I have ever had was 5.5 and we had a ball. There are so many ways to pleasure one another that cock size to me is not everything.
hotwifeblog: Do you have a preference of black or white lovers?
Brandi: I can’t say that I have a preference but I have only had one black partner.
hotwifeblog: What clothes do you like to wear in general and in the bedroom?
Brandi: I like to wear sexy business clothes. I own several business suits and love to wear my 4 inch stilettos. I like to dress feminine but I must admit I do love my t-shit, jeans and cowboy boots as well.
hotwifeblog: Do you wear an ankle bracelet?
Brandi: Yes I do. Michael bought me a beautiful anklet I wear when we go out looking for some action
hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Brandi: I am very oral so I would have to say giving a blow job.
hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you are into?
Brandi: Hmmmmm, I like pretty much everything I have tried but I can not say that any are a real fetish.
hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Brandi: Vegetables….enough said!
hotwifeblog: So you like girls as well as guys?
Brandi: As long as a man is involved as well, YES!
hotwifeblog: How do you find your lovers and partners?
Brandi: Usually by chance but we have had some luck on swingers sites.
hotwifeblog: What role does your husband play in your lifestyle?
Brandi: Equal partner. Everything we do is at the full knowledge if not the planning of the other. I have set up rendezvous for him as well as brought women home for us
hotwifeblog: Does your husband swing or remain faithful to you?
Brandi: We are faithful to each other *wink*. Michael does swing with me and with out me as well, but always with my knowledge.
hotwifeblog: Does your husband enjoy watching you with other men?
Brandi: Very much so.
hotwifeblog: Do you enjoy watching him?
Brandi: Yes, it is absolutely awesome.
hotwifeblog: How often are you sexually active with your husband?
Brandi: 2-3 times a week.
hotwifeblog: Do you ever compare your husband’s performance to any of the other men you’ve slept with?
Brandi: No, I can not say that I have.
hotwifeblog: Do you have a hotwife/cuckold relationship with your husband?
Brandi: I don’t know if you can really label what Michael and I have. What we do is explore and live out our fantasies together. From what I have seen both terms “hotwife” and “cuckold” have pretty strict definitions….we refuse to be defined….lets just say we’re “wild” LOL!
hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Brandi: Of the two I am more dominant but have on one or two occasions been submissive.
hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Brandi: I am an equal opportunity giver/ receiver
hotwifeblog: Do you swallow?
hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
hotwifeblog: Have you ever received multiple creampie from different guys?
hotwifeblog: Have you ever had anyone clean you up orally after receiving a creampie?
Brandi: Yes and I found it to be incredibly sexy.
hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to have sex with you just after you’ve been with someone else?
Brandi: It’s one of our favorite fantasies fulfilled! Whether you call it swinging or hotwifing we believe that the pinnacle of pleasure is found in the shared experience. We love the lifestyle because it allows us to share our fantasies with each other.
hotwifeblog: Does your husband like to eat creampie?
Brandi: If having sex with me just after being with someone else is “one” of our favorite fantasies fulfilled….a creampie is “the” fantasy fulfilled! Michael is not the type of guy you see portrayed in the typical cuckold story. He is well endowed and a mans man…or better yet…he’s the epitome of a metrosexual which according to the definition I prefer is ” a driven man of financial means, living in or within easy reach of a metropolis because that’s where all the best shops, clubs, gyms and hairdressers are. … he has clearly taken himself and seeks pleasure as his sexual preference.” Michael loves going against the stereotype of men as boorish slobs with questionable grooming habits and jealous, controlling personalities.
hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Brandi: I am living it! Always being able to enjoy and explore our sexuality together is the fantasy.
hotwifeblog: Tell us about one of your recent swinging experiences?
Brandi: Michael and I had invited a new friend over to do a cam show with us and we had a ball. He was really nervous (can’t blame him, over 1200 people were watching) but boy did it break him in. Let’s just say it ended with an explosive and perfectly timed festival of cum! I got splatter from both sides I practically looked like a snowman! Better yet…snowgirl!
hotwifeblog: Have you ever been recognized when you’ve been out?
Brandi: Surprising to me yes I have. A few times at airports and locally at the strip club I work at from time to time.
hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Brandi: I love weight lifting and pretty much all outdoor sports; hiking, camping, tennis, skiing, biking, jogging, boating, fishing, golfing.
hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the hotwife and swinging lifestyle?
Brandi: Communicate. One powerful word.
hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Brandi: I am constantly adding new features and improving the ones I have. I have over 15,000 pictures and hours an hours of video. I have 3 updates a week and 2 live cam shows. I also have a weekly chat. All of my cam shows are archived and I am building my audio section now.
hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Brandi: To make it the biggest and best amateur site out there offering more features and material than one could possibly view in a year!
hotwifeblog: What are you and your plans for the future regarding your lifestyle?
Brandi: Keep on keepin’. Things are awesome so I would not want to change anything.
That was great Brandi. Phew! I’m quite warm after that hehe.
Interview by Trash