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Well what a great end to last week.

Getting used to life as a single guy is a strange and daunting prospect and still feels very weird but as I stated in my article Action not Dreams I intend to grasp the opportunity, try out new experiences and not look back.

As you know from reading this blog I am very passionate about the hotwife, cuckold and swinging lifestyle, I have many friends throughout the world that live the lifestyle to the full and I’ve even experienced small elements of being cuckolded myself in the past.

But my blog role here has been more of a ‘voyeur’ or ‘author’ to bring you readers the best stories and give a strong voice to those who practice an alternative lifestyle. My own involvement with my lifestyle friends has been just that, ‘friends’.

Though there is now the new element of being a ’single guy’ in the lifestyle and all the difficulties that go along with that. In the few months I’ve been single I’ve not realized how many single guys there are about and how hard it is to get yourself noticed in this vast sea of lonely males looking for intimacy and erotic fun.

So finding adult clubs with a single guy policy was a task in itself. But luckily I managed to find a couple locally. So on Thursday afternoon I went to a lovely adult Spa set in the beautiful countryside. Very nervously parking the car and going in I was very pleased to get a warm welcome and tour from the staff and suddenly felt less nervous and self-conscious than I thought I would be. I stripped off and got a towel and headed to the massive 30 person Jacuzzi which as you may of guessed was full of single guys. LOL

But to my relief is wasn’t long before some couples started arriving.

I chatted to some great people including lovely couple ‘D’ and ‘H’ who made me feel very welcome and relaxed. Thanks guys!!!

As the afternoon wore on D offered to show me the ‘play rooms’ and we wandered down to where they were. A moaning sound got louder as we approached the rooms. In the gloom we peered in and I saw one woman with no less than 6 guys. She was screaming with desire. It was a mass of bodies and it was a first for me to see something like that so close and so real. It was an amazing sight. She was fucked by most of the guys and gave out blowjobs to the waiting cocks. I was prompted to go in by one of the women watching at the door but I felt it was a little to intense for my first experience of this nature.

After several of the guys had come. One man proceeded to give the woman a g-spot massage. After a noisy and squelchy 5 minutes the woman squirted everywhere.

I little later back in the main building I spoke to the woman from the play room and she was telling about her squirting talents and how all women can do it, they just have to have the right spot massaged in the right way. So for those of you who thought female ejaculate is just pee, think again! She did go on to chat about some other stuff but naked in front on me all of a sudden I was focused on something I’d just noticed… her wedding ring… hehe

I went back to the pool and spa areas and did chat to some other couples but I didn’t really feel like playing as no-one really took my fancy. But on reflection a good experience for a Thursday afternoon!!!

On Friday night I got an invitation to a local adult club night. It was a single guys and couples ‘Munch’ party. Again as the evening approached the nerves kicked in and I couldn’t eat much. I set off at 9pm and got a taxi to the venue. It was a beautiful place in a picturesque location. I was met by 3 beautiful ladies at the door and was given a extremely warm welcome by the hosts and all the crew. I was then given a tour of the venue which was fabulous, comfy furnishings, great decor and a a dance floor. I was then shown the indoor swimming pool which was very impressive, a hot tropical humid room with bath temperature water… lovely. Upstairs the playrooms were themed and one included a movie room with proper cinema seats showing adult films. Great for some back seat fun.

I was still feeling nervous, there just seemed to be single guys everywhere standing around looking awkward.

I headed to the bar… As more couples and single girls arrived and I had more to drink I started to relax a lot more and a particular cool guy ‘M’ from a married couple chatted to me a lot and made me feel very at home, so thanks man! I hope to hear from you soon btw and your wife ‘A’ was lovely as were her stockings

As the evening progressed some of the married women took some of the single guys upstairs for some fun. I was invited to join in but decided to watch for the time being. It was a great viewing experience. There was mmf and then mfmf and then mff. I must say it’s very different watching it happen in front of you than watching it on a screen.

A little later into the evening I got chatting to a lovely blonde MILF called ‘J’. (I hope you don’t mind being labelled a MILF J) She asked me if I’d like to go swimming. I didn’t need asking twice. We got naked in the pool, she had an incredible body and I ended up having an amazing sexual experience with her in the water (it is quite hard to fuck in a pool btw) and then again later upstairs.

After some more viewing and chatting I eventually ‘crashed’ at 5am.

Anyway ‘J’ certainly made my night worthwhile, she was very sweet to me, gave me a lift home and I hope to get together with her again soon.

On reflection I did feel very strange being one of the ’single guy’s’ at a party and felt very much in the ‘Bull’ role of the lifestyle which I’m not sure I’m entirely comfortable being in as a rule. Also I feel a lot of the other single guys were just desperate for sex, any sex, and that desperation was not very pleasant to witness when the girls were not interested in them. I did not feel like I had much in common with these guys and I can see why single guys tend to not be accepted in the swinging world. Another strange experience was being watched, and if you thought about it too much it could definitely affect your performance. But I’m sure I’ll get used to this aspect.

I would certainly like to go with a partner next time where the balance of women and men is more evenly balanced. So ‘J’ if you’re reading get in touch!!!

But it was a hugely erotic and enjoyable experience and I definitely did enjoy watching as much as the participation side.

Next month I’ll hopefully have another Trash Playtime Review to report on.

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