September 29, 2005
Hotwife Adventure
My wife and I have a really good sex life, especially when compared to my first two wives (a whole other story there!). We’re John and Jocelyn. I’m a 44 year old male, and she’s a 33 year old female.
When I first met Jocelyn (through match.com), we dated without having sex for a while, but she was very direct and to the point - either this was going to be a fully committed relationship, or it wasn’t. I was ready to commit, so we progressed on, and the first time we made love, she was too shy to take off her panties when she got undressed and got in bed with me.
At the time, I was 41 and she was 30. She was very hot looking, and had great legs and a very supple back, largely due to the fact that she had been an athlete when in high school (gymnastics and softball).
It took 30 minutes to get her out of those panties.
It didn’t take long to discover, to my surprise as well as hers, that she was multi-orgasmic - she can cum quite easily with me, and they vary in intensity as well as rapidity. Occasionally, we now get what we call, “rolling thunder” - where she is going from one hard orgasm to another with little or no delay between each one.
She also found it quite erotic for me to talk to her while we made love. Not outright “dirty” talk, but indirectly suggestive comments - including my appraisal of how close she was to the next orgasm.
And later, we progressed to watching porn together. She likes the films where women are actually having orgasms, and where men are cumming directly in the women. While we watch, we play with each other, and I talk to her.
An hour of this, and we progress to more realistic things.
It was after watching one film this summer, and after a few hours of incredible sex, that we discussed the idea that we could make such an event really happen. After all, we shared the same fantasy of multiple men (including me) on one woman, and the fantasy of a cum-filled woman.
So we got a membership on Adult Friend Finder, and started looking for men….
Yes, we got our start on Adult Friend Finder (actually, SwapFinder, but it’s the same company and database of people).
When we first conceived of the idea of having men fuck my wife, we had no idea that the community of swingers was so large. At first, we thought that we might try to find a swinger’s club, but my wife found that too intimidating. We even thought we might go to the local Border’s bookstore and try to approach a suitable man - but we thought that people might think we were weird. So we were about to give up on the idea, when I did some google searches.
We ended up putting an ad up on AFF, and within a few hours(!!!) we had MANY men sending us email. We hadn’t even gone to a chat room, or set up the IMC chat that comes with your AFF membership. Many were rude, and many seemed to have the idea that women exist just to be fucked, and that they should think of the men as God’s gift to sex.
So we stopped for just a minute, and gathering our responses, went through and came up with the Rules - a list of non-negotiable responses from my wife and I. These answer the most common questions a man may have, and they also explicitly delineate our expectations.
Then we started using the Rules as a filter. It worked like a charm, and one day after posting our initial ad, we hooked up with a young man in Springfield, Virginia who had moved to the area but didn’t have many female opportunities. We went to his apartment, and he was polite, clean, and he had what my wife wanted - a cock ready to burst.
Yes, it was a nervous “first time” for us, and we knew in advance that he had little experience - that’s not what my wife is looking for. Her goal is for the man to have fun without having to worry about holding back, delaying his cum, or trying to prove something by performing. She just wants him to cum in her.
He ended up filling her pussy with a lot of cum - and although he tried to get it up again, he was just too nervous - it’s not an everyday event for most men to get their cock sucked by a woman while her husband is there. At that point, rather than join in, I decided that perhaps we should give him a little breathing room - after all, he might want to do this again.
So we drove home - flushed with excitement. We discussed the events of the night, and when we got home, I couldn’t wait to fuck her cum-filled pussy. When we got home, I slid right into her, and I was surprised about how hot she was inside - the cum seemed to be ragingly hot.
This experience prompted more changes to the Rules and the Process - most noticeably, it prompted a change to look for slightly older men with a bit more experience. She wanted them to last a bit longer than a minute - unless, as we discussed, there were far more men.
After the first time my wife was fucked by another man while I also participated, we made a few changes. First, we went for men who were slightly older. There were two reasons for this: one, the cock in question might last a bit longer, and two, the number of men who wanted to negotiate the Rules decreased with age. We also decided to do this at home - in our bed when possible.
So we began a series of 11 MFM sessions in three weeks. Very tiring, I can assure you! But also very hot, and at the same time, very friendly. We met a few very nice guys (Paul, I’m sure you know who you are!). During the breaks in sex, and in the immediate aftermath of everyone getting off, we talked about the usual suburban things - and my wife and I learned that people who are “in the lifestyle” appear to be everyday, ordinary people. Computer programmers. Wine distributors. Department managers at Target. Government bureaucrats (no one high level yet…).
An example of how relaxed we are with MFM was last night, when we had one of our regulars over. He was a bit harried and anxious from his workday, and we all immediately stripped and jumped into bed - but he needed some way to unwind before he could really fuck. My wife said, “I’m sure you’ll relax as soon as you get off once.” She then proceeded to give him an incredible blowjob, licking and sucking his cock and balls. Now, she’s tried to get him to cum by blowjob before, but he had unfulfilling experiences with blowjobs before, so he never let her finish before. This time, he couldn’t control himself, and in a few minutes, he was erupting into her mouth. She swallowed everything, and then spent a few minutes teasing his now sensitive cock, and licking him clean.
He told us as he rested that he had never experienced a cum like that - his head was spinning and he said that it was far beyond what he had imagined he could experience from a blowjob.
She was right. After about 15 minutes, he was ready again. And this time, he and I took turns fucking her to many hard orgasms.
Afterwards, we returned to our “normal” lives. And I know that he’ll be asking for the occasional blowjob now that he enjoys them.
Submitted by: John and Jocelyn
