September 13, 2005
I’m soooooo excited about today’s post. When I first ventured out on this blog adventure, there were a few inspirational figures on the net who I noted as being an integral part of what the hotwife lifestyle is all about. Today I am very lucky to be able to bring you my interview with one of those figures today, none other than the fabulous figure of hotwife queen herself Janet Mason.
Janet is a true life ’soccer mom’ MILF, juggling family life (her husband Steve and their three children) and running two “real world” businesses. In addition to her two adult web sites, which she and Steve do mostly for fun in their spare time.
What makes today’s post so special is it will be followed up tomorrow with an exclusive interview with Janet’s husband Steve. It’s a first for hotwifeblog - a hotwife and hubby interview. Enjoy!!!
Janet, it’s an honor to have a wife such as yourself part of hotwifeblog. Thanks so much for your time and answering all the questions so honestly and comprehensively xox
hotwifeblog: Hi there Janet, thanks for agreeing to be interviewed. I’ll start with the basics - what is your age?
Janet: 38 at the time of this interview - my birthday is April 8, 1967.
hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Janet: 5 feet, 3 inches
hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
hotwifeblog: Describe your personality?
Janet: Very adventurous and fun-loving but not frivolous. Nurturing and loving. Extremely loyal to those I love.
hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband Steve?
Janet: In college - he was in grad school and I was an undergrad.
hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Janet: Long story. Steve got into it first, well before we met, when he was just 19. He was approached by an older couple in their late 30’s that he was friends with to be the “extra man” for threesomes for the wife, whom Steve found to be extremely attractive - but mostly the husband just liked to watch her fucking young guys and really hung black guys rather than joining in. Over time they introduced him to other, usually much older, couples in the lifestyle - and soon he was introducing his own girlfriends to it. He soon found that he enjoyed “watching” as much as he did participating - especially the interracial stuff, as it was even more taboo. Steve was very open about his experiences with me and the whole idea of it turned me on right away. It was just so taboo to be married and dedicated to your husband and yet be “shared” by him with other men - especially well-hung black men. We talked about trying it ourselves but decided to wait until we had started a family first, as we both wanted kids. Once our firstborn started kindergarten, we put an ad in a local swingers magazine (this was before the internet was popular) and bang! Right away we had great first contact with a well-endowed black stud about our age. Fortunately that first time went well, because if it hadn’t we might not have continued trying. Needless to say, we were both “hooked” and got into it so deeply that we eventually started making videos for sale, which in turn led to my web site.
hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Janet: I like all the huge cocks Steve finds for me (we get contacted mostly by fakes and liars, so there’s a lot of weeding out to do) and the thought of all that cum from so many willing donors. As a size queen and a cum queen, that alone would be great. But I also really like feeling so spoiled and pampered by Steve - it makes me feel very feminine and adored. I get the best of both worlds - the stability of a loving traditional relationship with a husband and kids, plus the uninhibited sexual freedom and exploration that is always available whenever we want it.
hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Janet: For about 10 years now.
hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Janet: Yes, but not a stupid or tactless one. You wouldn’t catch me acting inappropriately in front of kids or elderly people or any other easily offended group of people. There’s a time and a place for everything. I like being a lady in public and around my home area, and then let my wild side out when the time and place are right, like in nightclubs or in the bedroom. “Discretion” is the key word for Steve and I.
hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for?
Janet: For relationships? Guys like Steve - but now that I’ve got him (and have for about 16 years so far). I’m not looking for “relationships” anymore because I’ve got a great one with a husband who loves me. I’m only looking for no-strings-attached sexual partners. That being said, for purely physical sex I prefer muscular or slim black men with huge cocks, dark skin and very lean bodies who are also very verbal and aggressive bedside manner, have lots of imagination in the sack and the stamina to fuck me very, very hard for a long time. My other kink is for younger men - and by “younger men” I mean guys who are at least 10-12 or years younger than I am, and usually more than that. My favorite is the 18-25 age range….I like “teaching” and that age range is good for that. Plus, in general, guys that age can always, without fail or need of “assistance” get hard as stone, recuperate in no time, fuck for hours and shoot cum like firehoses. What more could a devoted “teacher”
hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Janet: I never kept a tab on it, exactly, but I’d say well over 40 at least.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Janet: Yes, but only 3 guys showed up.
hotwifeblog: So size does matter to you?
Janet: Yes, it matters a lot. I do NOT pretend to speak for other women here, but to me it absolutely does - some women don’t care. I like them both extra long and extra thick - not just one or the other. The feeling of being so filled up and nearly being split in two drives me over the edge again and again. Many guys who are insecure about their cock size tend to say “It’s better to have a lover with skills and consideration in bed rather than a guy with a big dick!”, but the whole “Would you prefer a man with a big cock or a man who is good in bed?” thing is a ludicrously false model of thought, as it assumes that men with large penises cannot possibly have any skill and consideration in bed and that men with smaller penises automatically do have it. It just gets funnier the more one thinks about it. Skill and consideration are learned behaviors ergo, anyone can obtain them. But penis size is obviously not learned or otherwise obtainable it’s an accident of birth. For some women, myself included, a man who is skilled and considerate in bed AND packs a huge cock is far preferable to a man who is skilled and considerate in bed but has a smaller cock (all other things being equal). And here’s another thing I’ve found - many of my female friends say the same thing in private to other women, even if they wouldn’t dare admit it to their husbands or boyfriends. Fortunately, Steve and I have the kind of relationship wherein we can both be totally honest about our turn-ons and fantasies, so I don’t have to lie about it. Besides, he’s got a bigger-than-average one himself, so he’s not insecure about his size, and that helps.
hotwifeblog: Do you have a preference of black or white lovers?
Janet: Other than my husband Steve, who is white, I prefer black men as sexual partners.
hotwifeblog: What clothes do you like to wear?
Janet: All kinds. I don’t have “one” style. But getting dolled up in dresses and skirts is always nice. For work I always wear business suits.
hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Janet: Hard to say. From the “giving” perspective, I’d have to say jacking guys off and sucking cock. From a “receiving” perspective, it’s definitely a face full of cum, a big load in my pussy, having my asshole licked and sucked until I orgasm, having my toes sucked and being fucked REALLY hard for a long time by a big cock.
hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you’re into?
Janet: I have a personal fetish for giving handjobs and watching the cum squirt out - especially onto my face. I’m also like having my feet worshipped by men with foot fetishes and giving them foot-jobs.
hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Janet: It’s between two things - fucking three well-hung black studs right in my marriage bed while Steve jacked off and encouraged me, and jacking/sucking 10 guys off to 15 loads all over my face.
hotwifeblog: Do you have any bisexual tendencies?
Janet: Yes, but I’m very picky about women. I like hard-bodied and physically fit yet still feminine types mostly, and I also like older, elegant women in their late 40’s to late 50’s or so. Finally I like gorgeous black women like Angela Bassett and Janet Jackson.
hotwifeblog: How do you find your lovers and partners?
Janet: Back in the days before we had a web site, we used ads in printed, local swingers magazines. Ever since we went online, though, most of them contact us after visiting the sites. The only guys we ever pursue locally are super-young guys (18-22 or so) from the local university. We meet them at their places of work (such as waiters, pool guys, etc.) and, if I’m attracted to them, we hire them to do odd jobs around the house and then I seduce them while Steve pretends not to know. I’ve always had great luck with that approach.
hotwifeblog: That is so hot…. What role does your Steve play in your lifestyle?
Janet: Are you kidding? Steve is my soul mate, so he plays a role in every single aspect of it. There’s nothing he’s not involved in.
hotwifeblog: Does your husband swing or remain faithful to you?
Janet: Steve and I do swing with other couples but only on very rare occasions.He’s very picky about women and also many guys “force” their wives into this lifestyle. If he ever senses a woman is faking her enthusiasm for her husband, he never takes advantage of it. More often we have threesomes with other women, although these are with friends and they are not featured on my sites or in videos.
hotwifeblog: Do you have a hotwife/cuckold relationship with Steve?
Janet: No, not at all. We’re just not into that. We know that many others are, and that’s fine - more power to them. But we’re not and that’s that.
hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Janet: Both, depending on my mood and the situation. In general I tend to be totally submissive with black men, dominant with really young guys, and both ways with Steve, depending on our mutual mood at the time.
hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Janet: Both - there is no “either/or” about it for me.
hotwifeblog: In your hotwifeblog profile back in April you spoke of your love of cum. What is it about cum that you love so much?
Janet: Everything about it - the way it looks, the smell of it, the way it tastes, the texture, the sight of it spurting out of a hard cock, the feeling of it inside me or smeared all over my face and body or inside my pussy or ass, and the “pure virile masculinity” it symbolizes.
hotwifeblog: You like to swallow then?
Janet: Oh God yes!
hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Janet: Have I ever? More like have I ever NOT! I always take a load inside me as I do NOT use condoms. Ever. If there’s any question as to STDs then I’d rather do without the sex than use a condom instead - I’m that serious about my cum fetish.
hotwifeblog: If so have you ever had anyone clean you up orally after receiving a creampie?
Janet: Not by a man and I never will - the thought grosses me out, and any guy who would do that is just not my kind of man. It might be kinky to have a woman do that, though, but so far I haven’t had that experience.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a multiple creampie from different guys?
hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Janet: To do more bukkake/group facials with groups of 10 or more men at once, and to have sex with an Angela Basset type of black woman.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever been recognized when you’ve been out?
Janet: No, never. I get e-mail all the time from guys asking if it was me they saw in this place or that, but so far it’s never been me that they saw no matter where it is.
hotwifeblog: Do you find it easier to meet new men because of your website popularity?
Janet: Yes, to the extreme. But with that comes even more fakes and losers who enjoy wasting their time and try (unsuccessfully) to waste mine.
hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the swinging lifestyle?
Janet: Be patient - VERY patient - but don’t ever lower your standards. If you think so guy or couple is fake, chances are great that they are. Don’t take games from others and don’t play them in return. Don’t lie about or otherwise exaggerate your age, height, weight, cock size or anything else.
hotwifeblog: Tell us about the treats we can find by joining your website?
Janet: I think the sites will speak for themselves, really, when people visit them - it’s all right there in the open and there’s nothing I can add to it here.
hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your website for the future?
Janet: Since I don’t make my living with it, it’s still fun and we plan to keep it running as long as it remains fun. We see ourselves in the lifestyle until we’re too old to enjoy it anymore so there’s a good chance it will be around for many years.
Thanks again Janet, that was fantastic, hope to see you on these pages again soon.
Interview by Trash