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I’d like to introduce a mind-blowing post. Today I have the enormous privilege to bring you my interview with a wife of the sluttiest order, none other than Raven.

Some of you may have already heard of this incredible female from her
Yahoo Group. For those who haven’t be prepared to fall into her heavenly web of desire. She is intelligent, beautiful and very knowledgeable about the lifestyle and human sexuality in general.

There is something about Raven that is completely addictive and hypnotic. She oozes not only sex appeal but sexual power. If you’ve been privileged enough to taste this woman then I know you’ll find it hard to reach the same levels with anyone else. She reserves the right to be worshipped.

Raven has just recently took the step to show her face in her images and she’s hoping to have her own web site by the end of the year. She says it was a decision a long time in the making.

I’m so glad you made that decision Raven. Thanks for your time for hotwifeblog, I’m truly honored to have you part of my pages.

hotwifeblog: Hi gorgeous!! What is your name then? Is it just Raven?
Raven: Slut Extreme Raven (First impressions are important)

hotwifeblog: Where are you from?
Raven: Originally upstate NY, then the Midwest and now San Francisco.

hotwifeblog: Where is your age?
Raven: 36

hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Raven: 34C-26-35

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Raven: 5’6”

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Raven: Brown

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Raven: Currently Jet Black

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Raven: Online. It was a fast and furious romance. He wanted someone extreme, I wanted someone extreme. I flew out to San Francisco in a matter of days to meet and we had our first sex in the airport.

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Raven: I think I was always meant to be a hotwife and didn’t realize it could work. I cheated on every boyfriend I ever had – I was just not meant to be sexually faithful and it ruined every relationship. When I got together with hubby, it took a bit of encouragement on his part to begin to convince me that I could have anybody I wanted and it actually made HIM happy!

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Raven: Gang Bangs. I didn’t know how much I would LOVE gang bangs until my hubby took me to my first swinger party. The first night I had 10 guys while hubby watched and I was in heaven. Now I’m disappointed if I go to a party and can’t have at LEAST 10. Twenty is a good number and record for one night is 25. I really want 30 or more, but it’s hard to get that many guys at one party ready to go at the same time. I love having lots of guys who fuck hard and cum quick. A guy who wants to fuck me for 20 minutes is boring. I want more, more, more.

hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Raven: If you count that I always cheated anyway, then maybe 15 years. If you mean the current relationship, then 2 years.

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Raven: Sometimes, definitely. Hubby loves buying things that show off my figure, my cleavage, my ass. I never wear panties (unless that is all I’m wearing at a party) and love knowing people sometimes catch a glimpse. I also like wearing fetish clothing, corsets and latex. So I guess my passion for dress-up makes me an exhibitionist.

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for?
Raven: That varies too much. I do have a strong attraction to British men. Young, rugged, weathered look. I like long hair and beards, but then I also like bald and older like Ben Kingsley. For sex, I prefer black men – nice thick cocks and I love the color contrast of my pale flesh and theirs. It’s gotten to the point that when I look at two white people having sex together it feels boring. I like the contrast of interracial.

hotwifeblog: British men eh? cool!! How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Raven: I don’t have lovers anymore. They take too much time, effort and involvement. I did that when I used to be in relationships, but all I really wanted was the thrill of forbidden and some good sex from another guy. But if you mean how many guys have fucked me since I met hubby – maybe 200 or 300. I don’t really keep track.

hotwifeblog: How many men have you had sex with at one time?
Raven: 25.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried dogging (anonymous car park meets)?
Raven: I used to hang out in bars when I was younger and drinking more and did some pretty wild things. I almost always ended the night giving some guy a blow job or getting a quick fuck in a booth or back hallway of the bar. Or in the parking lot. Is that the same thing?

hotwifeblog: Yeah sure about covers it!! Does size matter to you?
Raven: Yes! Not length. I can’t fit more than 6 or 7 inches. But definitely girth. THICK is fantastic! I love the feeling of being stretched. I’ve written essays on the subject. I use oversized dildos daily to stay stretched and open enough to be able to take the really thick cocks all night at a party without burning out my cunt. A good thick cock still gives me that stretched feeling and looks and feels so beautiful in my cunt. As part of the process, though, my hubby’s average cock just flops around inside my stretched cunt and doesn’t do anything for me, so I don’t bother using his cock in my cunt anymore.

hotwifeblog: Do you have a preference of black or white lovers?
Raven: Black. Not that I’m exclusive, but preference??? YES, definitely black – and did I mention thick?

hotwifeblog: What clothes do you like to wear?
Raven: In the ideal world or the practical world? I have a fetish for very high platform and stiletto heels and I wear them whenever I’m at a party or want to really show off, or sometimes just shopping, but I can never wear them as much as I want – they hurt! You didn’t know that? And very tight laced corsets that make my waist really tiny and my breasts stand out even more… there you go again – it hurts, but I even sleep in the corset to try and permanently get more of a wasp waist. I want to try for 20” someday. Latex is so damn nice the way it shows every curve and my nipples – but when it’s 100 degrees outside, it’s instant heatstroke. There is a German fetish model named O-Pearl (link on my site links section) who I fantasize looking like – latex, corseted, pierced and exotic as hell! I always wear push up bras for extra cleavage to show off and look more slutty. Low cut dresses and tops are essential for all occasions except when the top is completely transparent lace. Short skirts, preferably something very tight and just below the crease of my ass, or longer with a long slit up the sides that make everyone look. Ok – enough about clothes. I’m a clothes whore and have a wardrobe of clothes just for wearing to gang-bangs. A slut has to specialize.

hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Raven: That moment when I am laying on my back getting fucked by a really thick cock attached to a tall muscular guy and he starts to cum. Right at that moment is my favorite. I love to feel him tensing, those muscles tightening, his breathing changing and I can tell he is starting to lose control and cross over the edge. I love grabbing on hard and pulling him in tighter and telling him to cum for me. And then that incredible release and I get my reward. Oh yeah – that’s my favorite. Second favorite is that same moment when I’m giving head.

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you and your husband are into?
Raven: He’s into just about everything I want to try. I keep finding new things, like teasing him and not letting him cum for weeks and weeks. I’ve been learning how to milk his prostate while giving him an excruciatingly slow handjob and it drives him crazy. Since I get all the cock I want elsewhere, I don’t really have a need for his and I can play all I want like this for as long as I want. Yum!

hotwifeblog: What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve tried?
Raven: There’s been a bunch. One of my newer fetishes I discovered is my love for eating cum out of other women’s cunts and also cum-swapping with women after a blow-job. I think the first time I saw this in a photo I thought YECHHH! No way would I ever do that! Then something changed and I found it happening at a party, and light bulbs went off over my head and suddenly I was all over that wanting more and looking for women I could drag along to gang-bangs so I could do it all the time!

hotwifeblog: So you’re bisexual then?
Raven: You might have figured that out by this point – maybe the last response gave you a hint? I don’t have “tendencies” – I’m DEFINITELY bi all the way. I have equal desire for men and women. I have lived romantically with both. I will always continue to have both. Why miss out on half the fun?

hotwifeblog: How do you find your lovers and partners?
Raven: Funny you should ask. I was just going to mention how damn hard it is to find girls I can take to gang-bangs. Guys – that’s pretty easy… I show up and there’s a room full of them ready to fuck. Aside from that, I work from my home so I don’t get out and around enough to meet people as I would wish. So the internet and gang-bang party groups are the two main sources.

hotwifeblog: What role does your husband play in your lifestyle?
Raven: Party nights, he drives, holds the lube, brings me water, gets the condoms for the next guy, licks my cunt after and provides a safe haven when I need to take a break. Other nights, he makes me cum with his tongue. Like I said, I currently am not allowing him to fuck me, we’ll see how long that is still fun for me. If it gets boring I try something different – there’s always new ways to play.

hotwifeblog: Your husband is a cuckold then?
Raven: Definitely. I get all the guys I want and he loves me and supports me doing it. He is also very much aware of my history and knows that if he didn’t support my desire to have other men, I would do it anyway behind his back. He, on the other hand, has not had another woman since we met – and I think I will be keeping it that way. I don’t want to share my man.

hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Raven: Both – at different times, different ways. It turns me on tremendously and I’ve tried a lot of different things both physically and mentally, but I don’t have enough experience to be called an expert yet.

hotwifeblog: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral sex?
Raven: Damn – that’s a hard one. I guess it depends on who the guy/girl is. In general, I think I prefer giving head and licking women. But when it comes to hubby, he knows exactly where to lick and can make me cum in 5 seconds. In his case, I have to say I prefer to receive.

hotwifeblog: Do you like to swallow?
Raven: Good lord, you mean there are people who don’t? What a waste that would be. All that work and then throw away the prize? Only one exception to the rule… when I am at gang-bangs, I like to kiss my hubby when I have a fresh mouth of cum and watch him swallow it. Last weekend he swallowed 10 loads in three hours. (Of course I swallowed part of those also and kept several more for myself).

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Raven: If you mean has anyone other than hubby ever cum in me? Well, before I met hubby, I was a little more wild and almost never used condoms – about 300 maybe? OK – I know that was crazy and luckily I am tested and no diseases and I think I’ll work a little harder at being conscientious about staying that way now that I live in California – home to all diseases. So right now, I’m actually looking for the right guy I want to have on a more regular basis and have him tested so I can have his cum in me.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever had anyone clean you up orally after receiving a creampie?
Raven: Not yet – but you can bet hubby will be doing the honors as soon as I find the right guy. Also – as I mentioned – I love eating creampies from other women. The trick to that is to find couples so he can cum in her sans condom and I can eat.

hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a multiple creampie from different guys?
Raven: A few years ago, yes.

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Raven: That changes all the time. Right now it’s to fuck over 100 guys in one night and have at least one orgasm from each. Oh – and then I want to have “SLUT” tattooed just above my cunt. I’m also thinking about doing an all-bareback gang-bang if everyone gets their AIM tests first. I love the real thing in me too much.

hotwifeblog: Tell us about one of your recent hotwife experiences?
Raven: Going to play a form of lawn bowling with hubby wearing a skirt so short that every time I had to bend over to play, everything was showing. There was a lot of wine flowing. One of the guys playing followed me into the bathroom and just pushed me against a wall and started fingering my cunt. It was delicious – short, sweet and nasty.

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Raven: Reading, movies, music, computers, games, playing with my cat and dog, trips to exotic tropical places, hopefully sailing in the Caribbean this coming winter.

hotwifeblog: What advice would you give to couples thinking of trying out the Hotwife lifestyle?
Raven: Be careful what you ask for. If you open that door for your wife, it’s very unlikely you can ever get her to stop willingly.

hotwifeblog: What plans do you have for your online presence for the future?
Raven: Right now, I have a Yahoo group.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SlutExtremeRaven2/ I am hoping to have an amateur website later this year. We are starting to film and take photos of my gang-bangs so I will have evidence when I get that 100 in one night moment.

hotwifeblog: What are you and your husband’s plans for the future regarding your hotwifing?
Raven: It’s an addictive behavior pattern. You start wanting more and more and want to push back all the boundaries and try new things. Knowing how far I’ve come and what I like to do now that I thought I would never do, I can’t even begin to imagine how far I might go in the future.

Thanks again Raven, that was amazing. I’ll end the interview with one of your quotes that will always stay in my mind. Pure poetry.
“For me, it is very important that I am a slut to my core and without conflict. It is the fire that defines me from the inside and so what shows naturally on the outside.”

Visit Raven At Her Yahoo Group Slut Extreme Raven Here

Interview by Trash

EDIT: update Aug 12th - Raven wanted me to mention that she has created a new Yahoo Group stemming from her frustration in finding Gang Bang’s scheduled in any organized manner. This group exists solely as a place to announce gangbang parties anywhere in the world.
Visit The GB Party Calendar Here