August 5, 2005
Wife On The Turn?
Love the BLOG, just wanted to submit for discussion my situation.
My wife is HOT!. After our second child she has lost a lot of weight and looks as hot, or hotter, than the day I married her 15 years ago. I know she is really enjoying her new looks, and has bought a completely new, sexy wardrobe. However, in spite of always being a very strong, controlling woman in our relationship, she has always been fairly vanilla in the bedroom. However, I have noticed that although she used to want it ALL THE TIME when we were young she seems to not want it at ALL anymore. Frustrating, as I know she still gets turned on from movie hunks, and hot male models, etc…
So I am guessing that she has tired with my rather limited endowment. 
However, I play the cuckold a LOT online and love the idea of her taking her dominant tendencies into the bedroom.) I have tried to encourage this is the following ways:
I constantly tell her how hot she is. I give her foot massages every night, and rub her back and at the end of the backrub each night I kiss the small of her back (her ass) goodnight. (She seems to have come to “expect” this…– good sign)
I point out how other men are chekcingher out all the time, and tell her how it makes ME hot and “Proud”.
She complained about a woman in our neighbor hood walking all the way through the neighborhood to the pool in her bikini without a cover up on, and said the “You (I ) would never let her do that”, I protested telling her, I was proud of her and had no problem with other men looking at her. (She did not seem to believe this)
Not sure how else to gently prod her I this direction before actually BRINGING it up. I would want some more indications of her acceptance before I ACTUALLY begin to discuss this!
Anyway, that is where I am, and I am hopeful that it will progress , even as I have seen small successes. Wish me luck, some day I may be joining you all as a TRUE cuckold
BTW anyone notice the overtly cuckold theme to the hit song by The Killers “Mr. Brightsides”.
Submitted by: Servemywifehappily email servemywifehappily@yahoo.com
(Love to chat or e-mail with anyone on this if they wish.)
August 6th, 2005 at 11:13 am
Be patient. But I think you must bring up the lifestyle in a conversation to get her reaction. Tell her you saw a woman in town wearing a hotwife anklet and coincidently you’d read about the significance in a magazine article recently. Then maybe bring it up again jokingly while you’re making out, something like “Shall I get you one of those ankle bracelets so you can have some fun?” Does she have any girlfriends (single ones) to go out partying with? Encourage this!! Ask her about the type of guys she fancies. While watching TV or something say “He’s goodlooking don’t you think?”
Watch Indecent Proposal, always a good movie for breeding hotwife conversations. She needs some clear messages that’s she’s free to have some fun. Good luck!!
August 11th, 2005 at 7:17 am
Any progress yet?
August 11th, 2005 at 3:38 pm
No progress yet, actually I have not had much opp to work on it. In fact I have been traveling for biz, and have been dissappointed in my sensativity to her while I was gone (never sent flowers, etc.) I hope to make this up to her, and going to get a movie for this weekend, I am looking at the following possibilities:
Bitter Moon
Depraved
We dont live here anymore
Internal Affairs
Marias lovers
Jade
The Dreamers
Hoping that one of these will give me the opportunity to broach (casually) the topic, and continue to point out to her how hot she is, and how she is “snapping necks” on all the men we pass on the street and how that makes me “proud”.
October 30th, 2005 at 1:14 pm
would not risk linking your (our) goal with inconsiderate behavior - I doubt anyone is going to be able to tell you when you have softened her up enough, you are going to have to directly confront the topic at some point
Would love to hear the progress and Love email and chat (yahoo and hello jhb1012jhb) on this are similar topics, hell just about anything raunchy and kinky really
January 5th, 2006 at 12:57 am
Try this. While you’re making it with her, tell her how much you like to do her after she’s came. I’ve found that this is a real turn on to mine. I won’t go into to detail too much, but YOU can tell what it does to her.
After you get to where you feel comfortable she likes this, try this while she’s really into it. Tell her yes baby, make that pussy cum for me. i love doing you after you’ve came.
work on that for a while, then catch her one night when she’s about to climax and say yeah baby, feel that cock in you, come all over it and let me do you after wards. you’ll love this! and if you can hold back long enough tell her, now baby let me do that wet pussy.
gradually build her up to this, telling her to feel that cock in her and to cum all over it. then gradually slip in (you like to feel a big cock in your pussy don’t you baby), but make sure it’s when she’s about to climax.
Based on your responses from her after a few months of this, then would be the time to lay it on her. i beleive any way.
i would love to tell you i’ve succeeded already, but unfortuantely i’m at the last step i’ve mentioned above.
Any how, best of luck to you and let me know if this works for you. I’m going to continue to do this so i’ll let you know how it turns out.