May 26, 2005
Pick Up Spots
Wanted to go through today a list of examples of the kind of places a hotwife can go to find single guys.
It is not so hard generally to meet men to have fun with but the difficulty comes from having to get across your situation without them running off scared stiff and doing cross signs at you with their fingers. You have to get across a lot of information, to tell them you’re married, and things like I’ll have sex with you but my husband has to be there, watch, join in, eat your cum from my pussy. You can see why this might be uncomfortable for the stereotypical heterosexual guy. Some hotwives prefer to hunt for men alone, have sex as if they were single. This eliminates the need to explain awkward lifestyle situations.
Some hotwives will wear an ankle bracelet on their right ankle to let people ‘in the know’ know that they’re a hotwife. But obviously there are a lot of women who wear ankle bracelets for fashionable purposes. Sometimes when I’m out and it’s a hot summer’s day and legs are on show, I find I’m looking down at womans’ feet to see if I can see a bracelet. When I spot one (a quick calculation to find out if it’s the right leg) my imagination is running wild, Could she be?, I try to imagine her taking a lover. If she’s with a guy, I’m thinking is this the husband who thinks like me? It’s a fun game but in no means any sort of proof that you’ve ran a across a real hotwife. So on to pick-up spots…
The Internet - Good for the novice and the world at your fingertips. The easiest way to make a contact is online. You’ve got dating websites, swinger personals and so many groups and forums that you’ll not know what to do first. Too many guys, too little time. A good thing about the web is you can build a relationship slowly online before you decide to meet.
Swinger Clubs - Some swinger clubs recognise the need for the single guy. Though not enough in my opinion. They are an essential part of the lifestyle and a hotwife must have plenty of suitors to choose from. Also when you do meet someone there is no need for long explanations about what your motives are.
Dating Agency - Again some are niche/bdsm/swinger specific for ease of introduction but you can find many dating agencies are filled to the rafters with single guys, a lot that join with a hope of getting their leg over. Contact or email before-hand is advised to avoid a lot of wasted time getting ready and trying to look good for someone who’s really looking for more traditional type of ‘wife’. 
Single Club Nights As with the swinger clubs, being in a club environment is a relaxed one, people are there to have a good time, most are fuelled with drink too. A lot of the guys that go to single nights are on the lookout for a bit of no-strings fun. Approach with caution.
Large Conference Hotels A breeding ground for guys away on business. How many remove their wedding ring for the duration is another matter. Many men see a week away in a strange town on company expenses perfect for pursuing anonymous sexual encounters. Approach with severe caution.
Dogging Areas Beauty spots, car parks, woodland clearings - if you know where they are and where to meet up, they’re great. Everyone is there to have a bit of no-strings fun. A lot of voyeurism is involved and often more watch that get actively involved. Be careful you don’t mistakenly approach the innocent man walking his Bull Terrier.
Truck Stops Similar to conference hotels above, but if you prefer an alternative less glamorous location, prefer a truck cab to a hotel room and generally like it down and dirty, these places might be for you. Jenny Seemore interviewed recently here told me last week that she’d just got back from some truck stop fun and managed to ‘bag’ a couple of guys ‘on the job’.
Bars and Clubs Near Army Bases Smaller towns with a nearby army or naval base usually have a man to woman ratio of something ridiculous like 20:1 That’s a lot of saved-up cum that isn’t finding a suitable target. When they’re on leave they like to party, it’s an easy pick-up situation for a woman.
Nudist Areas Similar to Dogging areas above except you’re mixing with non-lifestyle naturists too that might not want to be offered your wife for the night. Again approach with caution.
