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April 28, 2005

A Husband to a Hotwife

Today we present our first ever interview with a husband to a hotwife. ‘J’ as he would like to be known, would regard himself in the cuckold arena, but not fully immersed in the humiliation side of it. His wife has been active on and off for over 10 years. Hope you enjoy the interview and a big thanks to ‘J’ for the insight into his life.

hotwifeblog: What is your name?
Husband J: I’ll have to just say J

hotwifeblog: What is your wife’s name?
Husband J: I’ll have to call her TL

hotwifeblog: Where are you from?
Husband J: We live in Arkansas

hotwifeblog: How did you meet your wife?
Husband J: I had spotted her in a bar several weeks before mutual friends set us up on a blind date.

hotwifeblog: How did you and your wife get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Husband J: We thought we invented it back in 1994. It started when a newish friend of mine offered to help us buy a modem and get our computer online. Little did I know he got us online so he could email my wife. She had been stuck at home with a baby and was very very needy. I worked nights and so we didn’t get to see each other but about 2 hours a day. She was lonely and getting the first rush of horniness back after having a baby.

hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a husband to a hotwife?
Husband J: I had to think about this for a couple of years. Now I can say what I like the most about it is it proves my wife is a very sexual creature. Her horniness is pure heaven.

hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself a cuckold, a wife-watcher or a participating wife swapper/swinger?
Husband J: Her relationship with this man lasted from 1994 to 1997. And during that time it was more of a cuckold thing minus the humiliation. If that was truly what I was, a cuck, then I have to say I really enjoyed it.

hotwifeblog: Does your wife take a Femdom role over you?
Husband J: Not really, but from what I can tell all women are only happy if they feel they are in the drivers seat when it comes to controlling their own sexuality.

hotwifeblog: What clothes does your wife like to wear?
Husband J: She dresses like a normal businesswoman. He liked to buy her long gloves and scarves to wear during sex.

hotwifeblog: What type of men does your wife go for?
Husband J: With her it’s all about the brain. None of her men have been particularly good looking or hung. Except me of course!

hotwifeblog: How many lovers has your wife had since becoming a hotwife?
Husband J: One for 3 years, 2 minor trysts since then.

hotwifeblog: Has your wife ever participated in a gangbang?
Husband J: No……too bad…she’d be great at it.

hotwifeblog: What’s the most exciting thing your wife has done sexually?
Husband J: For her probably giving a blowjob in a convertible with the top down in a busy park at noon and having sex on the roof of a law office several times. She likes lawyers, her only sin.

hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you and your wife are into?
Husband J: My wife is pretty secretive and embarrasses easily if forced to talk about things like this. But I do know she likes the idea of being tied up and she likes the idea of being raped by an escaped convict. But these are more fantasies than fetishes. She likes to be forced by others, but not me.

hotwifeblog: How does your wife find her lovers and partners?
Husband J: The long term one found her. The others were actually old boyfriend’s from college who reappeared later in life.

hotwifeblog: Do you eat creampie? if so, when and how often?
Husband J: During the 3 years I would go down on her and clean her up about half the time after she had been with him. I found if I made a big deal of it she would get embarrased and didn’t like it. I loved it!

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Husband J: To eat her while she’s being fucked by another guy, licking his dick now and then as it slides in and out and then cleaning them both after he fills her with cum.

hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Husband J: With kids still at home, not much time for hobbies..but antiques, history, old cars, old houses…lots of reading.

hotwifeblog: What are you and your wife’s plans for the future regarding hotwifing?
Husband J: That is 100% up to her and right now it is impossible for me to even make a guess what will happen. Since 1997, she has run hot and cold. Just about the time I give up and think it’s all over, she will surprise me by suddenly turning up with a man. Being a workaholic leaves her a whole lot less time to even think about sex. But there is always hope! Thanks, J

Thank you J for your answers. Hope you contine to enjoy this blog.

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