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How does one go about finding a partner who will live the hotwife lifestyle?

Finding a wife or girlfriend that is willing to become a hotwife isn’t an easy thing to achieve. Basically, you need to find a woman with a view to a long term relationship who will cheat on you and many women just won’t get it. Women may cheat, they may have an affair but they won’t stay with you. Why should they? If you’re already in a relationship or married then it’s even harder because your partner might not feel the same way as you and have no desire to start taking lovers. If you’re in the dark with regards to how they feel it’ll take a long process of introduction, suggestion and persuasion. Imagine just telling your wife that you want them to be unfaithful. It could be the end of your relationship there and then, especially as it may seem the reason you’re suggesting it is so you can fuck other women. Cuckold Husband wrote a great article for us - Prospecting for a Hotwife - it has some good ideas for fine-tuning your wife into hotwifery. If you’re steering towards your wife dating, beware. It can be a daunting task for women dating strange men and your wife needs to be able to feel comfortable adopting to this lifestyle. You will need to help every stage of the way, maybe even escort her on her first few dates. Although beware if you’re not married, a simple girlfriend might embrace the idea wholeheartedly only to start another relationship with the new man she sleeps with and leave you in the lurch.

The easiest way to find a relationship based around hotwives seems to be through doing searches on sex personal sites like Adult Friend Finder or Sex On The Side Club, you need to search for a lady that really understands what you’re looking for and wants to have the security of a partner but the sexual drive to steer them to multiple lovers. Using the term ‘open relationship’ can help spread the net wider as this is a far more familiar phrase and used term. Self confessed exhibitionists and older experienced divorcee’s are a good breeding ground for potential hotwives. Someone whose marriage has broken up over the wife’s adultery. This sometimes indicates a woman with strong sexual needs and is used to extramarital sex. You might try the Yahoo and MSN groups or get on ICQ. There are many good groups that have personal listings. Some women even advertise to find a partner to attend a swing club or party as a ‘couple’. These women might be willing to start a relationship where they can pretty much carry on the way they have been and will understand the whole lifestyle so much more.

Having a bit of cash can help, you’ll find many women are looking for a man that can offer them financial security but without the restraints of a monogamous relationship. Lots of women do marry for money, but often regret it, being trapped with a man they don’t love or quite often, don’t find sexually attractive. Being in a hotwife relationship they are free to explore their sexuality whilst be supported financially and emotionally when required. Many of these type of relationships can sometimes lead to husbands becoming true cuckolds. The wife will sleep with the husband less and less as it was the money she was really interested in the first place. She may have just a single extramarital lover who she finds much more attractive and prefers to spend her time with. You’ll be paying for her adultery too. Money for clothes, lingerie and perfume so she looks/smells good for him. Money for days/nights out, dinner, hotels, holidays, gifts for him etc. She stays with you for the money. So watch out for the woman who is in it just for the cash and that has no sense of loyalty or you’ll be a real life traditonal cuckold without any involvement sexually (watching/cleaning) at all.

Ideally you need to find the perfect balance so that when even your new hotwife regularly has sex with other men it should in no way mean she loves you any less. The wife should be searching for sex in an adulterous partner and not true love.