Today I have another interview for you and I’m sure you’ll agree it’s one hell of a hot read. The wife in question here is hotwifeblog member Cindy from Chicago - she really gave such great answers to my questions. It’s a real insight into modern hotwifing in society today.
Thank you Cindy for agreeing to be interviewed and for giving such frank, graphic and honest answers. I think you’re going to have a few fans after today…
hotwifeblog: Hi there Cindy, Where are you from?
Cindy: Chicago suburbs.
hotwifeblog: Where is your age?
Cindy: 43
hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Cindy: 36B-28-36
hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Cindy: 5′4″
hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Cindy: Green
hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Cindy: Blond
hotwifeblog: How did you meet your husband?
Cindy: We met through a mutual friend at a bar. A friend of his was dating my sister. I bought him a beer and asked him to dance. I was 31, he was 26. We dated for a year before we got married.
hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Cindy: After we were married a few years, hubby starting asking about my sexual past. He knew I had been pretty active in the bar and party scene, but he had no idea how extremely active I was in the bar and party sex scene. I was very hesitant to reveal the extent of my past; out of fear of losing him. I was single through my 20’s and out playing in bars and at parties nearly every night (and rarely leaving alone). I was the very attractive girl you would see in the bar every night that always seemed to go home with a different guy (or two). To my surprise, the more I told hubby, the more turned on he got. One night, he asked if I missed the variety of different men. I admitted I honestly did miss it sometimes, and he encouraged me to start playing again. I guess Hotwives tend to come from one polar opposite background or the other (virgin or slut). I was definitely the latter of the two when we got married. I just got lucky to fall in love with a man that loves me enough to understand my sexual needs and enjoy them with me.
hotwifeblog: What do you like most about being a hotwife?
Cindy: I truly love the variety of different men. I enjoy the naughtiness and taboo nature of playing with other men. I thrive on the ‘escape’ from reality and daily stresses the Hotwife experience gives me. I can be fucked by other men, be a wild, horny, sexually-driven woman with these men away from my real life; yet still be a very happy, loving, devoted wife and mother at home. I love the thrill of the chase and the excitement of being with a new lover. I also love the look of happiness on my husband’s face as he watches another man ravage my body and use me for his pleasure. When I go out alone to play, I love to come home to my anxious, and very horny, husband to share the details of my fun and show him the “evidence” (hickeys, creampie, etc) of my fun.
hotwifeblog: How long have you been an active hotwife?
Cindy: I first became active in the lifestyle 7 yrs ago. I played very infrequently at first, maybe 2-3 times per year. For the past couple of years, I have been playing much more frequently (3-4 times per month).
hotwifeblog: Would you call yourself an exhibitionist?
Cindy: Not really. Although we have played a couple of times in the car driving down the highway (flashing), I’m not really into exhibitionism. Just a little too self-conscious about my body I guess.
hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for?
Cindy: I look for guys who appear confident, yet not cocky. I dont go for the guy in the buy who is bragging to his friends, showing off, and trying to look like the “king stud”. I always look for the strong, confident, quiet type. I like a guy to look a bit tough and rough. Physically, I like taller, dark-haired guys with facial hair.
hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had since becoming a hotwife?
Cindy: I’ve played with 11 different men since I became a hotwife. A couple of those were only blowjobs though (my very first hotwife experience with a guy from the bar, and then a co-worker of mine).
hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had sex with at one time?
Cindy: The most I’ve been with at once was 3 (technically 2). I picked up a couple of guys at a bar one night with hubby. They followed us home and hubby watched while the two strangers took turns with me and then fucked me together at the same time. After they left, hubby joined in to finish the evening’s fun.
hotwifeblog: Does size matter to you?
Cindy: I have to admit that, yes, size does matter to me. I’ve had small, medium, large, and even extra-large guys. Too small really does nothing for me, and too large can be, well, just too much. I really, really prefer a guy who is thick, with more than average length (about 7-8 inches). I definitely don’t like long and thin guys. I prefer thickness over length, as I love the feeling of being filled and stretched. The smallest guy I’ve had was about 4 inches (hard). That did nothing for me. The largest was 10+ inches and really, really thick (yes, he was black). I was a struggle to give him oral and I could barely take him in my pussy. Although it felt awesome doing him a few times, I was really sore for days after. He was also the only ever guy I couldn’t take anally (an activity I love). My hubby is 6 1/2 inches and average thickness. My current, regular lover is about 8 inches and really thick. Both hubby and my boyfriend fit me perfectly. I can easily give them oral, and can take them both anally. My boyfriend fills and stretches me more, but hubby more than makes up for that in technique.
hotwifeblog: What clothes do you like to wear?
Cindy: I prefer just jeans and a sweatshirt or top. I don’t dress up or dress slutty to go out.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever tried a gangbang?
Cindy: No, but I would like to try it someday.
hotwifeblog: What is your favorite sexual act?
Cindy: I love doggy style. I love the raw, sexual, animalistic nature of the act. I love to be taken and ridden hard that way until I can barely hold myself up from exhaustion and from repeated orgasms (I am very multi-orgasmic). I really enjoy anal in this position and always cum quickly this way.
hotwifeblog: Any fetishes you and your husband are into?
Cindy: No. We are pretty straight forward in bed. We aren’t into extreme pain, water sports, feet, latex, or anything like that.
hotwifeblog: Do you have any bisexual tendencies?
Cindy: I have played with women a few times before I was married, but not since. The right opportunity just hasn’t presented itself. I don’t seek out women; as I much prefer men.
hotwifeblog: How do you find your lovers and partners?
Cindy: I have met guys in bars mostly for one-night stands. I’ve also played with co-workers and bosses of mine. My boyfriend of the past year (first regular lover) is a former co-worker of mine.
hotwifeblog: What role does your husband play in your lifestyle?
Cindy: My hubby prefers to just support me and encourage me. He isnt really involved in the selection of guys. We do discuss potential playmates for me and he can veto anyone if he wishes. But, I usually select the guys to play with.
hotwifeblog: Do you have a hotwife/cuckold relationship with your husband?
Cindy: We aren’t into cuckold humiliation and name-calling. I would never deprive my hubby of pleasure with me. We both share in the Hotwife experience and enjoy the lifestyle in our own individual ways, but with mutual respect and love for each other. In our Hotwife relationship, I am free to find other men to use me, ride me hard, and just “fuck my brains out” in a purely physical, sexual way. I have my husband to be tender and soft, and share the intimacy and emotional bond of being the only man that can “make love” with me.
hotwifeblog: Are you dominant or submissive at all?
Cindy: I am definitely submissive in bed. In my everyday life, I am always in charge; as a manager, wife, and mother. When I get naked, I want a man to take control, be aggressive and dominant, and just use me for what sexual desires he has. I don’t want to be in charge or have to teach a man in bed. I want to be able to let go, let loose, and give in to the moment. The more a guy can be controlling of the situation, the hotter I get.
hotwifeblog: Do you swallow?
Cindy: Absolutely! I’ll never understand women who won’t. I honestly love the taste and texture of cum. Since the very first blowjob I ever gave, I knew I was hooked on cum and swallowing. I get off on the look of excitement and surprise on a guy’s face when I happily swallow their cum. It seems alot of guys are so used to girls who wont suck them or swallow, they are genuinely shocked to get a blowjob from a woman who loves to give blowjobs and swallow cum. I really love the submissiveness nature of performing oral sex on a guy and the feeling I get inside when I know I can make a guy cum that way.
hotwifeblog: Have you ever received a creampie from a lover?
Cindy: Yes. always have. I absolutely hate condoms. A condom is an instant turn-off for me. I know it’s not politically-correct these days, but I absolutely love the feeling of a guy cumming in me. I’ve never been one to jump out of bed and run to the bathroom to clean up. I love the feeling of cum in me and leaking out afterwards (sometimes much later when I least expect it). Besides, my hubby also loves me getting creampies from other men. He enjoys licking me clean after the other guy is done, or as soon as I get home from a date.
hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Cindy: My fantasies tend to be very submissive in nature. My favorite fantasy is to be the center of attention for 6-8 very hung, horny guys who all use me however they want for the entire night. I want them to take turns and all take me at once. I want to be filled and stretched in every way and combination possible (and maybe some new ones). I want to be left exhausted, sore, filled and showered with their cum. When they’re all done with me, I envision hubby holding me, telling me how much he loves me, and making love to me.
hotwifeblog: What hobbies do you have outside of the lifestyle?
Cindy: We don’t have too many of our own hobbies. We are very involved in our kids’ lives and the community. We are active in the kids’ sports programs (coaching, organizing, fund-raising, etc).
hotwifeblog: What are you and your husband’s plans for the future regarding hotwifing?
Cindy: Our plans are to simply enjoy the moment and whatever adventures come our way.
Thanks again Cindy, just want to add a parting statement from this fine lady.
“I just want other couples to know that everyone is different. Every couple came into the lifestyle with different backgrounds and experiences. Once in the lifestyle, no two couples are the same in their desires, interests, or boundaries. We are all different, yet all share in the sexual fulfilment this activity offers so many wives and husbands.”