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Today we have the privilege to publish an interview with a real hotwife from the UK. Julie is 37 and has been part of the hotwife lifestyle for 4 years. I’d really like to thank her for answering my questions so honestly. In fact many of the questions were dropped as she answered the other one’s so comprehensively. I hope we can have more input from Julie and other hotwives in the near future. If any of you are reading this, please register and start blogging with us. We want to hear your stories.

hotwifeblog: Where are you from?
Julie: England

hotwifeblog: What are your measurements?
Julie: 34B-22-30

hotwifeblog: What is your height?
Julie: 5′ 8″

hotwifeblog: What colour are your eyes?
Julie: brown

hotwifeblog: Hair colour?
Julie: brown with blonde highlights.

hotwifeblog: How did you get into the hotwife lifestyle?
Julie: I got married to my first husband at an early age and it didn’t really work out. He was very much on a different path to me in the end. We stuck with it as long as possible but it was hard, so in the end we decided to separate and divorce. There was no cheating involved we just grew into mature adults very different people, became distant and decided it just didn’t work. We were lucky there were no children involved. After being on my own again I really re-found my youth. I started going out again, got a good job at an Insurance firm, made new friends and started dating men. It awoke a passion in me, sex had been off the agenda for the last part of my marriage and I realised how much I missed it. I met my husband in 1999 and we married the year after. From the very start it was obvious this was no ordinary relationship. From early on before we were married my husband Jonathan encouraged me to dress sexily and to ‘go out with the girls’ if I liked. He was interested in what I had to say, a good listener, kind and generous and great in bed. He had mentioned he had tried a bit of swinging before with a previous girlfriend and asked what I thought. I was dismissive at first but the conversation kept returning to the subject and I must admit I was intrigued. We checked out some websites and forums on swinging and answered some personals. Things came to a head after about 10 months of marriage when we went to our first swingers party. We spent almost the whole night just chatting and just when we thought nothing would happen we started talking to a nice married couple from Kent and then things really went quickly. Before I knew it I was passionately kissing the husband (the drink helped) and then he was leading me upstairs to a bedroom. There was already a couple having sex on the bed when we got there so we just carried on kissing on the upstairs landing, it seemed like an eternity until there was a free bedroom as I felt like I wanted to be on my own for the first time. Soon enough there was a room free and we went in, closed the door and collapsed on the bed. We hardly even removed our clothes we were so horny. He undid his trousers, slipped on a condom and I pulled up my skirt and dragged my knickers down and then he slowly entered me. We fucked like crazy and he came pretty quickly. He then went down on me until I came too. After that I was hooked and we made swingers parties a regular part of our social calendar. I’d never really heard of the term ‘hotwife’ until recently, but I guess that’s what I am and have become.

hotwifeblog: How many lovers have you had?
Julie: In all about 30 different men from mostly going to parties but I have slept with the same partner many times. I have a boyfriend at the moment, I’ve been seeing him for about 9 months, he is not a swinger but accepts my lifestyle and knows I’m married and it isn’t a problem for him. My husband is really happy for me to have a long standing boyfriend. He has his own place and I sometimes stay over at his place usually on a Friday night when I don’t have work the next day.

hotwifeblog: Have you slept with more than one man at a time?
Julie: No, not yet. I have been groped by another man while having sex with someone. I have also been with another man with Jonathan in the same room but he just watches and doesn’t join in. I know my boyfriend wouldn’t be into the idea at all.

hotwifeblog: What type of men do you go for?
Julie: I’m attracted to the strong silent, well-groomed type, they’ve got to be good looking of course.

hotwifeblog: What role does your husband play in your lifestyle?
Julie: My husband is a real rock in my life. He is happy when I am happy. He is not submissive and we do not have a hotwife/cuckold relationship based on humiliation. It just wouldn’t feel right. I could never order him around as he is so good to me, it’s great he let’s me lead this lifestyle without any guilt or fear involved on my part. We are swingers but I am much more active than he is. When we go to parties or clubs he is happy just to talk and socialise, sometimes he’ll get a blowjob or handjob but rarely has sex with another woman. I have asked him many times if his reluctance to fully swing is a message for me to be more restrained but he is always telling me that it is my enjoyment that he’s interested in. Also he loves to make love to me when we get back from a party or if I’ve just come home from my boyfriend. When I see my boyfriend he often prefers for me to go out with him alone because he doesn’t have a partner himself to bring along and I think Jonathan feels a bit awkward with us together as a threesome when we’re out.

hotwifeblog: What’s your biggest fantasy?
Julie: To be flown to New York, spend the whole day shopping and being pampered then check in to a five star hotel and pick up a George Clooney lookalike in the bar to spend the night with.

hotwifeblog: Any hobbies?
Julie: Shopping.

Thanks again Julie.

For all of you reading this, I came up with the following questions off the top of my head. If anyone can think of further questions I can ask for future interviews please let me know by posting your comments.

Bye for now, Trash